#181. As a retiring mass-consumer, I’ve been transforming how I practice the art of shopping, collecting, gifting, etc. As “just a girl,” I’m not likely to partake in the no-buy trend I’ve seen around socials, albeit a healthy trend to partake in. That being said, I would like to be more intentional in my consumption, especially when it comes to the things I wear, interact with and see in my space every day. Enter: Caroline Stern’s concept of the “Niche Luxury Hot Girl.” Inspired by her TikTok series of the same name, we’re talking all things NLHG in today’s episode of Note to Self.

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#180. Joe and I are getting married! Today’s episode is about my engagement story and the importance of connecting with yourself during these memorable life moments. I’m dishing some details about the ring, and Joe joins us at the end to answer a few questions. 

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#179. From newsletters that will make you smarter to apps that will make you healthier, I’m sharing my top hot-girl tools & resources for 2025. This list will be ever-growing, so make sure to follow NTS on social media (@ntsbyps) for direct links and more tools/resources to improve yourself & your life throughout the year. 

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#178. Improving your every day starts with acknowledging where you are right now. I like to start each year with a deep look in the metaphorical mirror, so I know exactly where I am and where I’m wanting to go. I’m walking through my very transparent life audit, and sharing the mindset, habits, & tools I’m planning on implementing in my life to make 2025 the best year yet. 

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#177.  I’m sitting down with the founder & CEO of Allara Health, a women’s virtual care platform that provides personalized treatment for chronic hormonal, metabolic, and gynecological conditions, Rachel Blank. Rachel created Allara Health out of necessity, as dealing with her own health struggles revealed the obvious gaps in traditional healthcare’s ability to treat these conditions. This episode is for anyone looking to take control of their hormone health in 2025 and beyond. 

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#176. Welcome to the last ASK P of 2024! This month, one of my most trusted advisors, Emon, is on NTS to give us her 2 cents. 

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#175. Ella Halikas returns to NTS to teach us all a thing or two about taking control of your life, finding your passion, and confidently pushing in the direction of your dreams. 

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#174. Emphasis on the “& yap.” In today’s episode, we’re talking about what’s IN for the Winter season, from beauty, to style, to wellness & beyond. This one is really for the girls. 

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#173. We are doing a pod swap with Sunday Sports Club this week! SSC host (& social media personality) Allison Kuch is on NTS to talk about WAG life, navigating change, her new mom era, & learning to do what’s right for her (no matter what the outside world has to say about it). Listen to part 2 of our swap on Sunday Sports Club this Sunday. 

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#172. In this month’s installment of ASK P, we are starting off with an absolute banger of a question, and a bullet I would consider SERIOUSLY dodged. We’re talking about asking the big “what are we?” question to your situationship, too. Then, moving on to a topic for the money minded: HOW do influencers make & keep their money? And, lastly, we’re discussing where I force my boyfriend to shop, and where you should force yours to shop, too (if you want them dressing NICE). 

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#171. Being single f*cking rocks. Your single era should be treated with the respect it deserves. We’re talking about single-life best practices, what my single era taught me, and how to take advantage of this beautiful chapter in the book of your life.

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