Mind Love • Modern Mindfulness to Think, Feel and Live Well

Melissa Monte | Mindset Mentor

Mindfulness, Mindset, Mind Science and Mind Body Soul Connection

  • 1 hour 6 minutes
    The Alcohol Myth That Kept Me 'Fun' But Small with Dustin Dunbar • 375

    We will learn:

    • The surprising science behind how alcohol affects your social confidence – even after just a couple drinks
    • A fresh approach to navigating social situations that doesn't require liquid courage
    • The unexpected link between everyday stress and drinking habits – and how to break free from this cycle once and for all


    Have you ever had that moment when you're a few drinks in, feeling like the conversation is flowing perfectly... but the next morning you find yourself overthinking every single thing you said? You weren't even drunk – just "socially lubricated" enough to wonder if maybe you talked a little too much, laughed a little too loud, or shared a little too freely.

    Here's what's fascinating – recent studies show that millennials and Gen Z are leading a quiet revolution in drinking culture. Alcohol consumption among young adults has dropped by 20% in the last decade. They're asking the questions many of us have been afraid to ask: Why is having a drink in hand the default setting for every social gathering?

    But here's where it gets really interesting – 70% of people who rely heavily on alcohol have underlying stuff they haven't dealt with. Not necessarily major trauma – sometimes it's just the accumulated stress of life, social anxiety, or patterns we picked up growing up. When you really think about it, alcohol isn't solving these challenges; it's just putting them on pause.

    Today our guest is Dustin Dunbar, founder of the Alcohol-Free Revolution and author of a groundbreaking new book that's challenging everything we think we know about drinking culture. After watching alcohol's subtle but persistent influence through three generations of his family, Dustin didn't just break free from these patterns – he's starting a movement that's helping thousands rediscover what genuine connection feels like without the buzz.


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    19 November 2024, 9:00 am
  • 1 hour 16 minutes
    How to Build Relationships That Actually Fill You Up with Sah D’Simone • 374

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • How to build authentic relationships that fit your current life stage (no time machine required)
    • The difference between being connected and feeling connected (they're not the same thing)
    • Practical ways to deepen relationships and create new ones, no matter how busy or complicated your life is


    Have you ever noticed how loneliness shows up differently as we move through life? Maybe in your twenties it hit you at 4 AM when you realized your party crew wasn't really there for you. Or maybe it's hitting you now, in your thirties or forties, when you're staring at your phone wondering when making friends got so damn complicated.


    Here's what nobody tells you about growing up: connection gets trickier. Maybe you're married with kids, and your idea of social life is trading war stories with other parents at pickup. Or you're single, watching your friends disappear into their domestic lives while you're still trying to figure out where to meet people who aren't swiping right. Or you've got that high-powered career you worked so hard for, but somewhere between the promotion and the corner office, your friendships started feeling like another item on your to-do list.

    The science behind this is fascinating. Research shows that our social connections peak in our mid-twenties, then start declining steadily. By our mid-thirties, many of us have less than half the social connections we had a decade earlier. But here's the thing – our need for genuine connection doesn't decrease. If anything, it gets stronger.


    Today our guest is Sah D'Simone, a spiritual teacher who understands this evolution of connection. After his own journey from surface-level relationships to creating deep, meaningful bonds at every stage of life, he now guides others through the complex landscape of modern connection.


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    12 November 2024, 9:00 am
  • 1 hour 3 minutes
    Shattering the Illusion of Control: A Masterclass in Conscious Creation with TJ Woodward • 373

    We will learn:

    • How to spot and break out of subconscious loops that keep you stuck
    • Practical ways to start consciously creating a life that’s actually yours
    • Tools for creating real, lasting change in every part of your life


    One day, you’re wild, free, spontaneous—living each moment like anything could happen next. And then, before you know it, you wake up and realize… you’re living the same day for the 5,000th time.

    It doesn’t happen all at once. At first, that routine feels comfortable, like you’ve finally got things under control. But soon enough, it’s like you’re stuck on a loop. The same habits, the same thoughts, the same patterns keep showing up. And every time you try to break free or make a change, it’s like you’re right back where you started.

    If you’ve ever felt trapped in a loop like that, you know how it feels. Maybe for you, it’s not something visible, like an addiction or habit. Maybe it’s quieter—a fear that keeps you from making bold choices, a doubt that stops you from trying new things, or just the weight of knowing that you’re not living life on your terms.

    So how do we break the cycle? How do we step out of these old loops and start creating something real, something that feels like ours?

    Today our guest is TJ Woodward, a transformational coach and author who dives into the power of conscious creation. TJ’s work is all about unraveling the patterns that keep us in autopilot mode so we can take back control, break free from our loops, and start living fully. TJ is a featured thought-leader on WholeHearted.org along with Brené Brown, Marianne Williamson, Dr. Gabor Maté, and Mark Lundholm.

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    5 November 2024, 9:00 am
  • 1 hour 10 minutes
    Rising Above Darkness: Suicide Prevention and Building Resilient Minds with Niyc Pidgeon • 372

    We will learn:

    • How positive psychology techniques can be applied to prevent suicide and improve overall mental health.
    • Practical strategies, including Niyc's "333 system," that you can start using today to build resilience and cope with life's challenges.
    • The importance of creating meaningful connections and how small daily actions can make a significant difference in mental well-being.


    Have you ever noticed how we tend to avoid talking about suicide until it's too late? It's a topic that many of us shy away from, perhaps because it's uncomfortable, or maybe because we think it won't touch our lives. But the truth is, it affects more of us than we realize.

    The thing is, when it comes to suicide, we often tell ourselves that hindsight is 20/20. We say, "If only we had known, we could have done something." But is that really true? Or is it just a comforting lie we tell ourselves to ease the pain of loss and helplessness?

    The reality is, we don't have to wait for hindsight. We can take action now. We can learn to recognize the signs, to have those difficult conversations, to create environments where people feel safe opening up about their struggles.

    But it's not just about recognizing when someone is in crisis. It's about building a society where mental health is prioritized, where seeking help is normalized, and where we all have the tools to support ourselves and each other through life's challenges.

    Our guest today is Niyc Pidgeon, an award-winning Positive Psychologist, Keynote Speaker, Business Mentor, and author of the book, "One More Day." She is the Founder of The Positive Psychology Coach Academy CertificationⓇ Program and is on a mission to help a billion people become more mentally healthy.


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    29 October 2024, 8:00 am
  • 1 hour 4 minutes
    The Heart-Uterus Connection: The Emotional and Physical Links in Fertility with Michelle Oravitz • 371

    We will learn:


    • How the ancient wisdom of Traditional Chinese Medicine views the connection between the heart and uterus, and why this matters for your fertility journey.
    • The power of conscious creation and how your thoughts and visualizations can influence your reproductive health.
    • Practical techniques to reduce stress and promote the free flow of energy in your body, potentially enhancing your fertility.


    Have you ever felt like your body has a mind of its own, especially when it comes to fertility? Like no matter how much you plan or hope, your reproductive journey seems to have its own mysterious timeline?

    Studies have shown that chronic stress can affect everything from our immune system to our hormonal balance. In fact, research published in the journal Human Reproduction found that women with high levels of stress enzymes in their saliva were 29% less likely to get pregnant compared to those with lower levels.

    What if the key to unlocking our fertility potential lies not just in medical interventions, but in understanding the intricate dance between our mind, body, and spirit?

    In this episode we’re exploring different perspectives, gaining new insights, and discovering tools you can use on your own unique journey.

    Our guest is Michelle Oravitz. She is an acupuncturist specializing in fertility health. She hosts "The Wholesome Fertility Podcast," a top-rated podcast where she interviews leading experts and best-selling authors and provides her own fertility wellness tips. During her free time, Michelle enjoys spending time with her family, reading, doing yoga, meditating, and painting.

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    22 October 2024, 8:00 am
  • 53 minutes 29 seconds
    The Hidden Power of Heart Coherence for Better Relationships, Mental Clarity, and Intuition with Kimberly Snyder • 370

    We will learn:

    • How to tap into the unparalleled intelligence of your heart to access higher intuition and make better daily decisions
    • How to align the brains in your heart, head and gut to create more health and success in your life
    • Proven practices to shift from overthinking and resistance into flow, clarity and harmony in your daily life


    They say the mind is a powerful thing—but what if we've been putting the wrong part of ourselves in charge all along?

    This is where heart intelligence comes in. It's not about abandoning logic—it's about finding a balance. It's about cultivating enough trust within ourselves that we can stop overthinking every decision and instead feel our way into a life that not only looks impressive on paper but feels deeply satisfying too.

    In this episode, we're diving deep into what it means to live from your heart, not just your head. We'll explore practical ways to quiet the mind's constant chatter and tune into your inner guidance system. Because here's the truth: your heart already knows what your mind can only dream of understanding.

    Our guest is Kimberly Snyder, a multiple-time New York Times bestselling author, spiritual and meditation teacher, and an expert in heart-centered living and intuitive decision-making. Her latest book "The Hidden Power Of The Five Hearts" is all about awakening the heart - energetically and through the science of heart coherence - and how the power of the heart has been proven to create greater physical health, energy, emotional intelligence, hormonal balance and better digestion and gut health, as well as more peace and intuition.

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    15 October 2024, 8:00 am
  • 57 minutes
    Miscarriage, Disaster, and Family Crisis: How 15 Years of Healing Helped Me Move the Hardest Month of My Life with Melissa Monte • 369

    How has everyone been doing? because I have been going through it. September was the most challenging month of my responsible-adult-chapter of my life. It tested every ounce of my resilience and every spiritual tool I've ever preached about. It was the kind of month that makes you question if the universe has a personal vendetta against you. Grief, fear, and raw survival instincts hit me all at once.


    Here's what I've discovered: in most cases, it's not about rising above or avoiding certain experiences, but instead, radically changing how you experience them. Instead of spiraling in the storm, you dance in the rain.


    So in this episode, I'm about to share the story of my month filled with loss, terrifying medical chaos, natural disasters, and the business decision that forced me to navigate it all while literally evacuating my family to safety.


    And I’m also going to share how I’m dealing with it all, because I am still currently in it… what I’m learning, how I’m processing, what I'm leaning into and out of, and my personal healing tools.

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    8 October 2024, 8:00 am
  • 1 hour 8 minutes
    Unlocking Higher States of Consciousness through Transcendental Meditation with Dr. Tony Nader • 368

    We will learn:

    • How consciousness, not your brain, is the primary creator of your reality.
    • The secret to meditation's deep rest and wakeful alertness.
    • How transcendental meditation can transform your brain functions, improve your physiological age, and even alter your DNA.


    Do you ever catch yourself thinking, "Damn, why does my brain keep screwing me over?" Maybe you're stuck in an anxiety spiral, or you can't kick that habit you've been trying to ditch for years. Trust me, I've been there, and it's a special kind of hell.

    Here's a wild thought: What if everything we think we know about our brains is completely backwards?

    Most people have the wrong expectations of meditation… and actually meditation is kind of the antithesis of meditation. And transcendental meditation helps you get to that state. Non judgment. Non attachment. No expectations. Letting go. And sometimes, even moments of bliss. 

    Our guest is Dr. Tony Nader, one of the godfathers of transcendental meditation and basically an expert in consciousness. And I know I know… consciousness doesn’t mean a whole lot unless you’re deep into spirituality. But what about tapping into infinite creativity, higher potential, more energy, and just carrying bliss throughout your day?

    This episode is going to make you rethink everything you thought you knew about your mind.

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    1 October 2024, 8:00 am
  • 1 hour 4 minutes
    Unplugging and Redefining Focus for a More Intentional Life with Hannah Brencher • 367

    We will learn:

    • The hidden impacts of constant online exposure.
    • Simple, yet powerful ways to reclaim your focus and purpose.
    • How to change how you connect to others.


    Do you feel in control of your phone use? Or does it sometimes feel like it’s in control of you? Have you ever wondered how much of your daily stress and anxiety is linked to your phone and constant connectivity? How different would your life be if you made intentional choices to unplug?

    The problem is, so many of these devices or apps to help you decrease screen time feel so all or nothing. Or they’re too easy to get around. And then ultimately, the change isn’t sustainable. 

    That’s why I’m excited about the approach I learned in this episode. Instead of just cutting off tech, or decreasing our Instagram usage to 30 minutes a day… Hannah Brencher suggests a challenge of 1000 hours completely tech free.

    What I love about this method is that it alone also gives you a hit of dopamine, but toward something more positive. Those of you who love to-do lists know that joy of checking off a task each day. 

    But there’s more to it than this. Which we’ll talk about today. Hannah Brencher is a writer and a mom with a continual quest to be more present in life. She’s also the author of The Unplugged Hours: Cultivating a Life of Presence in a Digitally Connected World.

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    24 September 2024, 8:00 am
  • 1 hour 13 minutes
    Beat Burnout Through Body Language and Sacred Exchanges With Neha Sangwan • 366

    We will learn:

    • The 3 sinister phases of burnout and learn how to recognize the alarm bells before it's too late.
    • How a simple object can tune you into the hidden messages your body is sending.
    • A powerful blueprint for reclaiming your energy and purpose.


    Do you ever feel like you're drowning in your own life? Like no matter how hard you try to keep your head above water, you just keep sinking deeper?

    Yeah, me too. And guess what? We're not alone. Over 80% of people have experienced burnout in the last four years. That's not just feeling tired – we're talking full-on, soul-crushing burnout.

    But, what if I told you there's another way? What if we could rewire our lives to work for us, not against us?

    In this episode, we're going to get real about burnout. We're going to talk about why it's not just you being "lazy" or "weak." We're going to call out the systems that are failing us, and most importantly, we're going to talk about how to dig ourselves out of this hole.

    Our guest is Neha Sangwan, MD, CEO and founder of Intuitive Intelligence, is a physician, engineer, author, speaker, and communication expert. She empowers individuals, leaders, and teams with effective communication tools that address stress, prevent burnout, inspire accountability and empower collaboration. Dr. Sangwan has authored two foundational books: TalkRx: Five Steps to Honest Conversations for Connection, Health, and Happiness; and Powered by Me: From Burned Out to Fully Charged at Work and in Life.

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    17 September 2024, 8:00 am
  • 1 hour 5 minutes
    How Childhood Wounds Create Today’s Triggers with Glenn Cohen • 365

    We will learn:

    • How early emotional experiences secretly shape your neurological coding and influence your life's core beliefs.
    • How your body stores untapped wisdom and intuition, and how to use them to break free from autopilot reactions.
    • A life-changing method to create a gap between stimulus and response.


    Do you ever catch yourself reacting to a situation and wonder, "Where the hell did that come from?" One minute you're fine, the next you're spiraling into anxiety or lashing out in anger. It's like your emotional thermostat is set to "overreact," and you can't figure out how to reset it.

    Here's the thing: we're all walking around with invisible wounds from our childhood. Some are gaping and obvious, others are subtle scratches we barely notice. But make no mistake, they're all shaping how we move through the world as adults.

    This is where understanding our "neurological wounding" comes in. It's not about blaming our parents or wallowing in past hurts. It's about recognizing how those early experiences literally wired our brains and nervous systems. Once we see the map, we can start redrawing it.

    But here's the million-dollar question: How do we actually do this rewiring? Is it even possible to change such deeply ingrained patterns?

    Our guest today is Glenn Cohen. He is a Master Neurological Life Coach and the founder of the Center for Neurological Intelligence. He has helped thousands of individuals and couples by guiding them to heal their unresolved neurological wounding and grow into the highest version of themselves. He's developed a method that goes beyond just talking about our issues – it actually helps us reprogram our neurological coding at its source.

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    10 September 2024, 8:00 am
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