We hear from spouses all the time that the bar is set too high and that their spouse requires too much from them before being willing to be intimate.

If you want to be happy in your marriage, you should naturally be doing things like providing emotional intimacy and connecting as a couple. There shouldn’t be certain achievements that must be met in order to experience the intimacy you should already be sharing. 

In healthy marriages, why do we often set prerequisites for sexual intimacy too high? In this episode, we talk about the things that shouldn’t have to always be done prior to connecting intimately.

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Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

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If you find yourself constantly unhappy in your marriage or dissatisfied with your sex life, it might be time to take a hard look at your attitude. While external factors like busy schedules, stress, and unmet expectations can contribute to intimacy issues, your mindset and approach toward your relationship play a far bigger role than most people realize.

Here’s the truth: Your attitude shapes your reality. If you’re harboring resentment, negativity, or unrealistic expectations, it’s likely that your sex life and marriage are suffering because of it. How could you enjoy being intimate if you keep telling yourself you dont like to be intimate?

In this episode, we share the signs that your attitude might be the issue as to why you are unhappy about your marriage and sex life. We also share our poll results and statistics that may surprise you. If you want to have a better relationship then this episode is for you.

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If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE

The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

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We did a podcast like this a few years ago, but we felt is was such an important topic that we needed to do it again.

In a video on social media for the men titled “the reasons your wife doesn’t want to make love to you” we heard from a lot of the women that it is because their emotional needs are not being met. In one of the comments from the video, a husband stated: 

“A man’s emotional needs are linked to his wife making love to him, which she won’t do unless her emotional needs are met first, Thus the man becomes responsible for his and his wife’s emotional needs.” This was a powerful statement which caused us to do this podcast, and reflect on this in our marriage as well.

Most women want an emotional connection before having a physical connection with their husband. And for most men, they need to have the physical connection before they will feel safe enough for the emotional vulnerability and connection with their wife.

So for MANY marriages it looks like this: 

The wife will withhold sexual intimacy (and sometimes use it as a weapon) as a punishment to try to get the emotional intimacy she wants from her husband. 

The husband is usually upset and doesn’t meet his wife’s emotional needs because his wife won’t meet the physical needs in the relationship (because a husband needs the physical connection first). 

Sound familiar? This toxic game (or standoff) is played in many relationships.. and in this game, no one ever wins and the marriage suffers from it, many times ending in divorce, especially if they are not willing to talk about it and resolve it.

In this episode, we discuss the things couples can do to get both of their needs met so they can have a fulfilling marriage.

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If you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE

The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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We often do things in our marriages that have profound impacts without even recognizing we are doing them. Sometimes we do them unintentionally, and other times intentionally. When it comes to our kids, it is not uncommon for spouses to prioritize their kids over their relationship with their spouse. This can, of course, have a big impact on the relationship.

Join us for this episode where we talk about the ways couples can put their marriage first to have a much better relationship!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE

The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

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As the 2024 year wraps up, we decided that we were going to set some new goals to help our marriage thrive in 2025 and we think these goals can really help your marriage as well. However, these goals don't have to just be new years goals, you could set them anytime of the year!

Some of these goals include:

Daily physical touch such as holding hands, hugging etc
Do an adventure together monthly
Try to laugh together daily
Surprise each other with something at least once a month

If you want to hear the rest you will have to listen to the episode :)

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE

The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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My parents got divorced when I was about 15 years old. As that happened over 30 years ago, I have been able to reflect and look back on the things I noticed that had caused the marriage to fail. I also learned valuable lessons of what "not" to do in my relationship.

In this episode Nick shares the things he learned from his parents divorce and the vital things couples should do to keep their marriage from ending up in divorce as well.

This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.com
If you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE

The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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If you want to have amazing sexual intimacy and connection in the bedroom, there are certain things you need to do not only in the bedroom, but outside of the bedroom. Good emotional intimacy typically equals good sexual intimacy.

In this podcast episode we dive into the 10 things you need to do as a couple to have amazing intimacy in the bedroom. So.. If you are couple that wants to have a better relationship in and out of the bedroom, then this podcast episode should be on your list!

This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.com
If you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE

The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

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Many of us get stressed out and busy with life, and our intimacy takes a back seat to everything else going on in our lives. Soon, we realize there is no romance or passion in the relationship and wonder, "How did we get here?"

For many of us, we become complacent. We stop going on date nights, sharing interests or hobbies, and doing things together. We start leading separate lives, and it feels like we become more like roommates. We put forth little to no effort because, after all, we’ve already won our spouse over. :) Life gets predictable as we fall into our daily routines.

We have totally been there too! And every day, we try to ensure it doesn’t slide back into that again! In this episode, we share the reasons why couples lose the romance in their relationships and what they can do to get it back!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE

The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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Ok, let's be honest, it really isn't that difficult to make your man feel like a stud :) But.. we still wanted to share our poll answers from the husbands and let you hear directly from them as to what they need from their wive's to feel loved and appreciated.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE

The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into what it truly means to make your wife feel beautiful—not just in how she looks, but in how she feels valued, cherished, and seen. The things you do and say play a huge role in helping her see the beauty you see in her every day.

We share the poll answers we received from wives about what they want from their husbands to feel more beautiful!

We also discuss why it’s important to celebrate her confidence, encourage her self-care, and show her how much she means to you through both small gestures and big actions.

Whether you’ve been married for years or are still newlyweds, this episode is packed with tips to strengthen your connection and make your wife feel more loved, appreciated, and beautiful every single day.

This episode sponsored by vitalhealthproductsusa.com
If you are feeling like something is off with your energy or health, check out all of the great vitamins and dietary supplements to help you improve your overall health and wellbeing.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE

The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

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Rebuilding your marriage... what does that mean? About half way through our marriage, our marriage was broken and at rock bottom. We decided that our marriage wasn't working and we weren't going to last that way as we weren't happy, nor was our marriage what we wanted it to be, and so we rebuilt our marriage to the marriage we wanted to have instead of staying with the current marriage we had.

In this episode, we share the things that we did in our relationship that helped us rebuild our marriage to something wonderful! It took a lot of work, time and effort, but it was absolutely worth it! If you are feeling like your marriage, or certain aspects of your marriage could be "rebuilt" to be better, then this episode is for you. We share the tools and things we did and hope they can help you as well.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE

The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

Here is the link to get the relationship recharge resource to strengthen your marriage! Free to podcast listeners this episode. We hope you love it and it helps strengthen all areas of intimacy in your marriage! 

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