HOW MY PARENTS RAISED ME

Dawn Chitty

Heal Grow Thrive

  • 10 minutes 39 seconds
    324. HERE’S PROOF - Love Truly Heals

    For 19 years Jewels was trapped in a cycle of drinking. Desperately trying to break free—nothing worked, until she found a group of women that would not let her fail. Discover how Jewels broke free from addiction with the help of people who truly loved her.


    You can purchase Jewels book The Making Of A Woman: From The Inside Out here https://www.amazon.com.au/Making-Woman-Inside-Out/dp/1737268507


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    Tags and Categories: addiction, childhood trauma, alcoholism


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    13 November 2024, 3:00 pm
  • 46 minutes 32 seconds
    323. WHY YOU FEEL LIKE YOU'RE NEVER ENOUGH (and How to Break Free)

    Do you feel like you are never enough? Are you trapped in a cycle of trying to please everyone? Do you believe that if you can just achieve the next big thing, you will finally feel good about yourself? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you need to connect with Christina L Woods. Christina has all the answers you are looking for. On the outside, Christina appeared to have it all: a corporate VP role, a multi-six-figure salary, constant travel, a beautiful home, and two amazing children. But behind the scenes, her body was breaking down, plagued by autoimmune disorders, panic attacks, and the heartbreak of a marriage falling apart. Discover how Christina turned her life around and is now helping other women break free from the patterns that hold them back. Learn her powerful techniques to hold boundaries, trust yourself deeply, and become truly unstoppable.


    You can find Christina via her website https://christinalwoods.com/ and on instagram https://www.instagram.com/christina.lwoods Please reach out and connect.


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    or send an email to [email protected]. I would LOVE! to connect with you.


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    11 November 2024, 3:00 pm
  • 49 minutes 53 seconds
    321. HOW ONE DANCE CLASS SAVED MY LIFE: No Rules, Just Healing

    By the time Toni Bergins reached grad school, her life felt like chaos. Beneath the surface, she was grappling with the lingering effects of childhood trauma, which manifested in body image struggles, disordered eating, and self-destructive behaviors. She became consumed by exercise and dieting, using alcohol as a coping mechanism. Then, one day, Toni took a dance class—unlike any other. There was no choreography, no rules. As she ran freely around the room, Toni felt like a child again. She broke down, crying, unraveling—but she had loved every moment of it. This was Toni’s introduction to embodied movement—a form of raw, primal dance that encourages women to fully inhabit their bodies and embrace every emotion. Today, embodied movement is helping countless women heal from their trauma.


    Toni Bergins is the creator of JourneyDance, a form of embodied movement which is helping women transform their lives. Buy her book Embody: Feel, Heal, and Transform Your Life Through Movement here https://shorturl.at/LCZJr You can find Toni via her website https://journeydance.com/ or look her up on instagram www.instagram.com/journeydanceofficial


    Key Takeaways:


    1. Embodied Movement Is Transformative and Healing: This free-form, primal style of movement enables women to fully feel and process their emotions and work through trauma in a physical, embodied way.
    2. How Is Trauma Showing Up For You?: Toni Bergins struggled with body image issues, disordered eating, and self-abuse, all of which were rooted in unresolved childhood trauma.
    3. What Are You Doing To Cope With Underlying Trauma : Exercise obsession, dieting, and alcohol are coping mechanisms, masking the deeper emotional pain.
    4. Movement Can Be a Powerful Tool for Healing: A dance class with no choreography or structure allows us to reconnect with our body and emotions.


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    If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to [email protected] I would LOVE! to connect with you.


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    Tags and Categories:


    Trauma, Healing Childhood Trauma, Embodied Movement, Disordered Eating, embodied movement


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    4 November 2024, 3:00 pm
  • 18 minutes 28 seconds
    320. I Fight Every Day To Be NOTHING LIKE MY MOTHER

    Abuse, abandonment, and a cult—my escape from a nightmare. They even tried to take my kids, but I fought back. Now, I’m breaking the cycle and fighting every day to be nothing like my mother.


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    Tags and Categories: trauma, childhood trauma, cult, toxic parent, abuse




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    30 October 2024, 3:00 pm
  • 1 hour 22 seconds
    319. CONFRONTING MY ABUSER: The Fight To Hold A Perpetrator Accountable

    Very few of us ever get the chance to read a Victim Impact Statement for the trauma we endured in childhood. But Diane did. Frustrated by the lack of understanding and terrifying statistics surrounding childhood sexual abuse, Diane made the courageous decision to go to the police and hold her abuser accountable. It’s a choice that comes with immense difficulty, as the path to justice is long and, as Diane shares with us, often skewed against the victim. Diane first shared her story on this podcast in 2022. Now, she returns to update us on her two-year fight for justice. To hear Diane’s original story go to episode 86. Shame and Child Sexual Abuse https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/86-shame-and-child-sexual-abuse-part-one/id1533741808?i=1000577694507 


    Key Takeaways:


    1. Why it was important for Diane to hold her abuser accountable.
    2. Should you confront your abuser? Diane shares her perspective.
    3. The challenges of holding an abuser accountable.
    4. Freedom, courage, perseverance, and the journey to move forward.
    5. The importance of having a strong support system.


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    If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to [email protected] I would LOVE! to connect with you.


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    Tags and Categories:

    Trauma, Healing Childhood Trauma, CSA, Survivor stories.




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    28 October 2024, 3:00 pm
  • 42 minutes 35 seconds
    317. I WON'T QUIT! Battling PTSD in the Wake of Domestic Violence (Part 2)

    Part Two - Healing my trauma. In this important episode, I sit down with Kelly, an extraordinary woman who bravely shares her story of survival and healing. From enduring a childhood filled with domestic violence at the hands of her father to entering a relationship with a man who subjected her to ten years of verbal and emotional abuse, Kelly’s story is both heart-wrenching and inspiring. Hear what Kelly endured for decades of her life, how it finally broke her and how she is now healing and creating a new and intentional life, on her own terms.


    Key Takeaways:


    1. Identify the Signs: Be aware of the signs and patterns of domestic violence and abuse.
    2. Break the Cycle: While the cycle of domestic violence may repeat, it is possible to break free and find healing and freedom.
    3. Understand the Impact: Domestic violence can result in PTSD, nervous system disorders, and feelings of burnout and fatigue.
    4. Choose Your Path: Trauma can transform your life, but you have the power to choose to be a fighter rather than a victim.
    5. Embrace Healing: No matter what you’ve experienced, healing is achievable, and you can create a fulfilling life on your own terms.


    Join Our Subscriber Community for just $5 per month. Support our mission to share these important stories with the world and GET THIS PODCAST AD-FREE, SPONSOR-FREE plus you will have ACCESS TO OUR SUBSCRIBER-ONLY EPISODES. Join via the Apple Podcasts App or go to Supercast to join if you listen via Spotify or any other platform https://dearlittleme.supercast.com/


    If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to [email protected] I would LOVE! to connect with you.


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    Tags and Categories:


    Trauma, Healing Childhood Trauma, Domestic Violence, PTSD, CPTSD, Complex Trauma


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    21 October 2024, 3:00 pm
  • 16 minutes 42 seconds
    316. EATING DISORDERS: It’s Not About Body Image

    If you believe that eating disorders are a desperate attempt to achieve the perfect body, that’s not the full story. Anorexia and bulimia often stem from something far deeper—unresolved trauma and a desperate need for love. Discover the real reason behind the struggle and what most people are missing!


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    If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to [email protected] I would LOVE! to connect with you.


    Tags and Categories: trauma, childhood trauma, anorexia, bulimia, eating disorders



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    16 October 2024, 3:00 pm
  • 48 minutes 30 seconds
    315. I WON'T QUIT! Battling PTSD in the Wake of Domestic Violence (Part 1)

    In this important episode, I sit down with Kelly, an extraordinary woman who bravely shares her story of survival and healing. From enduring a childhood filled with domestic violence at the hands of her father to entering a relationship with a man who subjected her to ten years of verbal and emotional abuse, Kelly’s story is both heart-wrenching and inspiring. Hear what Kelly endured for decades of her life, how it finally broke her and how she is now healing and creating a new and intentional life, on her own terms.


    *Trigger Warning: This episode contains descriptions of domestic violence that may be triggering to some listeners.


    Key Takeaways:


    1. Identify the Signs: Be aware of the signs and patterns of domestic violence and abuse.
    2. Break the Cycle: While the cycle of domestic violence may repeat, it is possible to break free and find healing and freedom.
    3. Understand the Impact: Domestic violence can result in PTSD, nervous system disorders, and feelings of burnout and fatigue.
    4. Choose Your Path: Trauma can transform your life, but you have the power to choose to be a fighter rather than a victim.
    5. Embrace Healing: No matter what you’ve experienced, healing is achievable, and you can create a fulfilling life on your own terms.


    Join Our Subscriber Community for just $5 per month. Support our mission to share these important stories with the world and GET THIS PODCAST AD-FREE, SPONSOR-FREE plus you will have ACCESS TO OUR SUBSCRIBER-ONLY EPISODES. Join via the Apple Podcasts App or go to Supercast to join if you listen via Spotify or any other platform https://dearlittleme.supercast.com/


    If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to [email protected] I would LOVE! to connect with you.


    Don't forget to subscribe to this podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject for updates and more content. Share this episode to spread awareness about child abuse and to support survivors.


    Tags and Categories:

    Trauma, Healing Childhood Trauma, Domestic Violence, PTSD, CPTSD, Complex Trauma


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    14 October 2024, 3:00 pm
  • 1 hour 46 seconds
    313. TOXIC LOVE: The Heartbreaking Reason We Choose Narcissistic Partners Again and Again

    Who do you choose to love and why?


    When Anastazja lost her father at two years old, her life took a dark turn. She didn’t speak for a year, spent hours crying as a child, and grieved the loss deeply. But what did that loss make Anastazja believe about herself? Discover the shocking family trauma Anastazja stored in her body—and why she kept choosing toxic, narcissistic partners again and again. Connect with Anastazja’s story and find out why you keep repeating toxic relationship patterns in this must-listen episode!


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    Key Takeaways:


    • Find out how family trauma influences who you choose to love and why.
    • The shocking negative belief patterns you form from childhood events—and how they secretly control your life.
    • How you become a magnet for narcissistic partners
    • The hidden trauma you store in your body, driving your choice in partners.
    • How childhood trauma sees you trapped in a cycle of emotionally abusive relationships


    You can find Anastazja Gajkowska via her YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/@ExposeNetwork22  

    Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100089474766773 Instagram instagram.com/thatgirl_whomadeit

    And website https://exposenetwork.weebly.com/


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    Tags and Categories:


    Narcissistic relationships, narcissistic partner, toxic relationships, trauma bonding, love bombing, trauma, healing


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    7 October 2024, 3:00 pm
  • 13 minutes 32 seconds
    312. WHY YOU’LL NEVER FIND PEACE Whilst You’re Still Seeking Validation from Others!

    Are you waiting for others to see your value? It's a deeply ingrained belief system that's difficult to break. But the truth is, your worth comes from simply being who you are. Tune into this conversation with actor and producer Megan Henry who shares how she stopped waiting for validation from others and started embracing her own value, on her own terms.


    Join Our Subscriber Community for just $5 per month. Support us and GET THIS PODCAST AD FREE, SPONSORSHIP FREE and RECEIVE ACCESS TO SUBSCRIBER ONLY EPISODES. Join via the Apple Podcasts App or go to Supercast to join if you listen via Spotify or any other platform https://dearlittleme.supercast.com/


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    Tags and Categories: trauma, self love, self worth, validation, childhood trauma, childhood programming



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    2 October 2024, 4:00 pm
  • 1 hour 1 minute
    311. SPLIT LIVES: THE SECRET WORLD of Dissociative Identity Disorder

    We all have parts of ourselves that make us human; sad parts, angry parts, combative parts. But what if your parts broke away and became individual identities? In this eye-opening episode, I had the privilege of sitting down with Maggie Walters, author of Split: A Life Shared: Living with Multiple Personality Disorder, to uncover the incredible story of how Maggie’s mind split into separate identities. Dissociative Identity Disorder (formerly known as Multiple Personality Disorder) is the result of extreme childhood trauma, causing the mind to split and split, again and again. Maggie reveals the chilling moments from her past that led to her dissociation and allowed her alter personalities to take over. If you’ve ever wondered what it’s truly like to live with multiple personality disorder, this episode will leave you speechless. TW Trigger warning, themes of sexual abuse are discussed in this episode.


    Key Takeaways:- 


    1. Understanding DID: Dissociative Identity Disorder (formerly Multiple Personality Disorder) causes the mind to split into multiple identities or "alters."
    2. Childhood Trauma Link: Severe early trauma can trigger the formation of DID and distinct personalities.
    3. Role of Alters: During trauma, alters take control, allowing dissociation from pain.
    4. Living with DID: A rare look into the experience of managing multiple identities.
    5. Healing & Triggers: The ongoing journey toward healing and managing triggers.
    6. Breaking Stigma: Emphasizing compassion and awareness for this often-misunderstood disorder.
    7. Courage & Resilience: How to live a fulfilling life despite the challenges of DID.


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    If you have a story to share for this podcast please connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/mybigloveproject or send an email to [email protected] I would LOVE! to connect with you.


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    Tags and Categories:


    MPD, DID, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Multiple Personality Disorder, Healing Childhood Trauma


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    30 September 2024, 4:00 pm
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