It's the season 5 finale and we are closing it out with a bang-- and Ben! He and Remy are doing something she is calling "The BFF Test"-- (Boyfriend Forever Test) which she created and is basically The Newlywed Game for unmarried people* --  with way more sex questions. They see how their answers match up as they talk about recent rendezvous, adventures in butt-plugging, and how each of them could stand to be more romantic. It is an extremely fun and giggly episode, but if you're related to Remy or Ben, close to both of them, or just don't want to picture them bumping uglies it's maybe not the ep for you! You've been warned. 

*Married people can still play, duh

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Aerospace defense engineer-turned-rising adult film icon John Legendary is here to talk EVERYTHING regarding the long-misunderstood ‘hotwife’ lifestyle-- you may have heard about "cuckolding" in porn but he gives us the inside scoop and tells us about his freewheeling adventures as an in-demand ‘bull’ in other people’s bedrooms. He goes into us how he got into the hotwifing lifestyle, how he got into porn, how hotwifing in porn differs from how it actually is in real life and SO much more.

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Actor and Comedian Jade Catta-Preta is back after many seasons and this time she has several life changes to share; she is "so much gayer now" and is also going through pre-menopause or "perimenopause." We talk about everything from getting good at gay sex, to learning to love yourself, to how she felt getting diagnosed with perimenopause. She tells us about how she has been treating it and we run through all the symptoms that come with it in case anyone is going through something similar. It is all parts educational, hilarious, and horny!

CW: SA 

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A very special episode with one woman who has NEVER masturbated, and another who has given up having sex with other people! Remy sits down with Lauren Hope Krass- stand up comedian and Betches content manager, podcast host, video star and humor writer, and Rachel B - comedy club veteran and host of the Dating App Disasters Podcast. They answer all questions related to why they do not/ are not partaking in their respective sexual activities and dive into body image, dating culture, after-care and so much more. It is a relatable, heart warming, hilarious and important conversation. Enjoy!

CW: Disordered eating and sexual assault 

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Remy had the extreme pleasure talking to the hilarious and wonderful Salma Hindy -- a first-generation Egyptian-Canadian comedian, writer, actor and performer who has opened for Ken Jeong, Ramy Youssef, Beth Stelling, and Chelsea Handler. Salma tells us all about growing up in a very strict religious household and the ways in which it effected her sexuality and self-view. She tells us all about ending her relationship with people pleasing and how she pivoted to self-pleasing, with the help of therapy, comedy, and a few sex toys. She regales us with many stories of her first time experiencing all things sexual in her late 20s-early 30s and this episode is all of the things Salma is: funny, interesting, endearing, and just gets better and better as time goes on. 

TW: Eating disorders, body image issues, religious trauma, sexual assault/ sexual violence, blood

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Today's guest is the very funny, very handsome, and extremely anti-camping licensed professional counselor, Jeff Guenther. You may now him best from his insanely popular advise account, TherapyJeff on TikTok and Instagram -- and we're so lucky to have him here today! We're talking relationship do’s and don’ts, for people currently in relationships, people who are trying to get into relationships, and people who have no interest in relationships at all! From love bombing; how to recognize it, and how to stop yourself from doing it, to farting in front of a partner, to learning healthy relationships when they weren't modeled for you, to supporting partners with mental health issues/ body issues, to being monogamish, and several compatibility tests that we have learned from the New York Times and Married At First Sight: Australia -- this episode has it all. 

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Remy is in beautiful Australia chatting with stunning entrepreneur, media personality, television host, podcast legend and sex goddess Abbie Chatfield! They discuss love on reality shows, dating in the public eye, sex in the public eye, whether Abbie thinks she is bisexual or a lesbian, open relationships, sex parties, everything she has learned about her "down under" from pelvic floor therapy, and SO much more. 

Like this episode? There's more! Listen to Remy on Abbie's podcast here

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Today's guest is Dr. Tara, a Los Angeles-based sex and relationship coach, tenured professor of sexual communication, award-winning sex researcher, TEDx speaker, TV Host of Celebs Go Dating, and the #1 sex educator on TikTok

Dr. Tara talks us through her many different first time c*mming stories-- because she can and has c*m in SO many different ways-- internal o's, external o's and CERVICAL o's as well (which we have never heard of until now)! She also teaches us how to achieve sexual confidence, how to love your body, affirmations you can say to yourself, and how to practice sexual meditation. We also chat about the different types of sex therapy, and how you know when it's time to do it. 

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Iconic actress, writer, and comedian Rachel Bloom stops by the podcast for a TRULY c*mazing episode and we cannot wait for you to hear it! Rachel is best known for co-creating and starring as Rebecca Bunch in musical comedy-drama series Crazy Ex-Girlfriend which won her numerous accolades, including a Golden Globe Award, a TCA Award, a Critics' Choice Television Award, and a Primetime Emmy Award. 

We talk about how her character Rebecca (and Rachel and Remy) have all experienced limerence -- an all-consuming and unreciprocated crush -- and break down where limerence comes from, how to become less limerent, and the differences between limerence and love. 

Rachel also opens up about her sexual health, from educating  herself as a child, to current changes in her vulva post-pregnancy, attending pelvic floor therapy, a new diagnosis about her cl*t, and what she's planning to do about it!

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Goddess/ sex educator Lola Jean and comedian/ Remy's bestie Betsy Carroll are BACK (both returning guests from earlier seasons, but together for the first time) and they are talking about Cirque Du Squirt-- a "sex freak show/ carnival" that Lola curates and stars in to celebrate her title of the 'World Record Holder of Volume Squirting.' Remy and Betsy attended the sex show and talk about their hesitations about going (spoiler: Betsy had none, Remy had a lot), the various games they played and acts they witnessed, how Lola got her title as top squirter in the world, and how everyone feels about Remy's O drought. Maybe drought is the wrong word at this point because the orgasms HAVE occurred-- it's just not as easy anymore. So Betsy and Lola both give Remy assignments! We also talk about new classes that Lola is offering as well as sober and fun sex parties she hosts.

 TW: Blood, needles, food and sex

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This episode is all about IVF! Remy welcomes back Season 1 Episode 2 guest and host of the popular dating + relationships podcast We Met at Acme- Lindsey Metselaar! Lindsey tells us all about trying to concieve, getting diagnosed with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, and her and her husband's journey with IVF (In Vitro Fertilization). We hear about the different types of IVF, what types of people might require IVF, the differences between IVF, IUI, and ICI, and a range for what the procedure can cost. Lindsey also lets us in on her experiences with pregnancy sex, sex and sobriety, masturbation after getting married, orgasm droughts and so more. Finally, she gives Remy an assignment that reminds us of her first appearance on How C*m 6 years ago!

CW: Remy discusses the current state of affairs in the Middle East from :30-6:30 

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