Get ready to dive into the cheeky side of health with Dr. Evan Goldstein, the leading anal health expert in the U.S. In this episode, we’re exploring all things butt-related in a fun and relatable way, thanks to Dr. Goldstein’s brilliant book, *Butt Seriously: The Definitive Guide to Anal Health, Pleasure, and Everything In Between.”

What to Expect

• Humor Meets Health: Why did Dr. Goldstein sprinkle his book with puns? Was it all part of the plan, or just a cheeky bonus?
• Expert Insights: What does it truly mean to be the top anal health guru in America?
• Burning Questions: What are the most common questions about anal play and what should everyone know about the backdoor?  
• Myth-Busting: We’ll tackle the biggest misconceptions surrounding anal health and pleasure (even Amy got new backdoor knowledge!).
• Tips for Bliss: Want to enhance your intimate experiences? Dr. Goldstein shares his top strategies for achieving ultimate sexual bliss through anal play.
• Health Essentials: Discover the key pieces of knowledge everyone should have about maintaining anal health.

Plus, we’ll have a rapid-fire round where Dr. Goldstein rates some popular practices—are they hot or not? Healthy or problematic? Get ready to laugh your ass off–figuratively speaking of course.

With a background as the founder of Future Method and a surgeon dedicated to restoring the human butt, Dr. Goldstein has been featured in major publications like GQ, Men’s Health, and Cosmopolitan. He is also one of the few surgeons in the world whose practice, Bespoke Surgical, is dedicated to treating and restoring the human butt. You don’t want to miss this enlightening and entertaining conversation that blends expert advice with a dash of humor. 

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Curious about how to keep your butt happy and healthy? Tune in and we’ll get to the bottom of it!

To learn more go to bespokesurgical.com and click HERE to get your copy of Dr. Goldstein’s amazing book. 

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Welcome to a playful dive into the world of nonmonogamy with sexologist and content creator, Alexa Andre! Whether you’re curious about exploring new relationship dynamics or just want to understand what nonmonogamy is all about, this episode is your go-to guide for all things love and connection.

What to Expect:

• Alexa’s Journey: Discover how Alexa became a trusted voice in sexuality and relationships.
• Defining Nonmonogamy: What does it really mean, and who is it for?
• Benefits & Challenges: Uncover the perks of nonmonogamous living and the hurdles to watch out for.
• Top Tips for Newbies: Alexa shares her must-do's and don'ts for those just starting out.
• Managing Jealousy: Can it be learned? Tune in to find out!
• Rapid Fire Fun: Get ready for some cheeky questions that spark laughter and insight!

Why Tune In?

This episode is perfect for anyone looking to broaden their understanding of relationships beyond traditional boundaries. With Alexa’s warm and inclusive approach, you’ll feel empowered to ask questions and explore your desires—all in a judgment-free zone!

Teaser: Curious about the nitty-gritty of morning sex before brushing your teeth?  Join us for a hilarious yet enlightening conversation that’ll leave you both informed and entertained!

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Join us for an eye-opening and entertaining episode featuring the fabulous Dr. Fenwa Milhouse, a board-certified urologist and co-founder of Down There Urology! Specializing in Female Pelvic Medicine and Reconstructive Surgery, Dr. Milhouse is here to break down the walls of taboo surrounding genital health and sexuality.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• How Dr. Milhouse's journey led her to become a top urologist in Chicago
• The nitty-gritty of what urology really involves (hint: it's more fascinating than you think!)
• Eye-popping stories from her practice that will leave you both amused and informed
• When it's time to seek help from a urology specialist (don't wait until it's too late!)
• The truth about orgasms and aging—what's happening and what can you do?
• Insight into whether vibrators and sex toys play a role in her practice (and which ones she recommends!)
• A simple breakdown of hormone replacement therapy: who it’s for and when to consider it
• Options for those on a budget—because everyone deserves support, regardless of finances
• Dr. Milhouse’s top tips for maintaining your sexual health—because prevention is key!

With her playful approach and wealth of knowledge, Dr. Milhouse empowers us to take charge of our sexual health in a judgment-free zone. Tune in for a fun, informative, and inclusive conversation that’s perfect for anyone looking to learn more about their bodies and health.

Don’t miss out! What surprising insights will Dr. Milhouse share? What can you do today to prioritize your sexual wellness? Tune in to find out! 

For more about Dr. Milhouse and her work, check out Down There Urology

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Join us for an electrifying episode of Shameless Sex as we dive deep into the world of love, relationships, and all the juicy bits in between! In this lively chat, we sit down with Jamilah Mapp, a passionate author, sexologist, and tantric practitioner, alongside the charismatic Divine Masculine Orlando Roye, a sex-positive wellness advocate.

Wondering how they got to where they are today? We’ll share the story of when we first met them—sparks flew, and the attraction was undeniable!

Get ready for some real talk about blending families and the challenges of meeting new partners’ kids. What worked? What didn’t? And what would they do differently next time?

Together, we’ll tackle the tough questions:

• Why are so many modern relationships struggling?
• Can long-term monogamy and parenthood coexist with sizzling hot sex?
• What tools keep the fire alive in a relationship?
• How do you handle feeling sexually mismatched with your partner?
• What role does Tantra play in their love journey?

Plus, we’ll play a rapid-fire game of “Hot or Not” covering everything from post-argument intimacy to the quirks of couple life!

And stick around for a sneak peek into their upcoming couple’s retreat—an opportunity you won’t want to miss!

Why tune in? This episode is packed with relatable insights, practical advice, and a whole lot of fun. Whether you’re single, coupled, or somewhere in between, you’ll walk away feeling empowered to enhance your love life.

Teaser: Ready to transform your relationship? Tune in to discover how to keep the passion alive!

Check out the "Love Like This" podcast for more insights and conversations: Love Like This Podcast

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Get ready to celebrate a year of sexy, insightful chats with our Year-End Mashup episode! We’re diving back into the archives to bring you the most memorable moments from our top five episodes of 2024, and trust us—you won’t want to miss this juicy recap!

In this episode, we’re serving up highlights from:

• #363 - Fingering with Darshana Avila: Discover the art of fingering and why it’s not just about the destination.
• #367 - Sexual Confidence with Dr. Tara: Learn how to strut your stuff in and out of the bedroom—confidence is key!
• #386 - MUNCH: Everything You Need to Know About Eating Pussy with Tyomi: Get the lowdown on going down from sexpert  
• #361 - Domination with King Daddy Jeff: Explore the thrilling world of domination and why it’s all about trust and communication.
• #364 - Come Together with Emily Nagoski, PhD: Unpack the science behind connection and intimacy—because we all want that deep bond!

Join us as we reflect on a year full of pleasure, laughter, and growth. Whether you’re a longtime listener or just tuning in, come celebrate with us and experience Shameless Sex for yourself. 

Teaser: Curious about how fingering can elevate your pleasure game? Or what it takes to be confidently sexy? Tune in to find out what made these episodes unforgettable! 

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The Allure of the Bad Boy and Hot Mess

Ever found yourself inexplicably drawn to someone who seems like a total train wreck? 🤔Join us as we dive into the captivating world of “bad boys” and “bad girls/hot messes” with Dr. Ray Doktor, a best-selling author recognized by the team behind the Chicken Soup for the Soul series and a respected relationship expert with over 28 years of experience!

In this fun and insightful episode, we unpack the irresistible charm of these hot messes and explore why many of us can’t help but fall for them. Here’s what you can look forward to:

• Defining the Personas: What exactly makes someone a bad boy or girl? Let’s break it down!
• Attraction Uncovered: Why are we drawn to these wild personalities? Is it the thrill, the danger, or something deeper?
• The Friends Dilemma: Know someone who keeps picking the wrong partner? We’ll share relatable tips for those who feel stuck in a cycle of bad choices.
• Finding the Good Ones: Curious about how to shift your attraction to healthier partners? We’ve got you covered!
• Healing from Toxicity: If you’ve been in a painful relationship, learn practical steps to heal and thrive.
• Red Flags & Green Lights: Discover how to spot narcissistic or toxic partners before getting too involved.
• Dr. Ray’s Golden Advice: What’s the one piece of wisdom you need for dating success?

Tune in for a playful yet empowering conversation that’s all about understanding love, attraction, and making better choices in relationships. Whether you’re single, dating, or just curious, this episode is packed with insights that can help you navigate your romantic journey.

🌟 Teaser: Stick around until the end for Dr. Ray’s pivotal advice that could change your dating game forever!

For more from Dr. Ray, visit www.raydoktor.com or check out his free life hacks at this link. Don't miss out—this is one episode that promises to be both enlightening and entertaining! 🎧✨

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In this episode of Shameless Sex, we’re joined by the fabulous Dr. Kanwal Bawa, also known as the Dr. Sex Fairy! A pioneer in skin rejuvenation, hair restoration, and sexual wellness, Dr. Bawa has been featured in top media outlets like Insider, Glamour, CBS, and ABC. As the host of the Dr. Sex Fairy podcast and a trusted expert, she’s here to help you unlock the secrets to Big Dick Energy—and no, you don’t need a big D to possess it!

Join us as we dive deep into:

• What is Big Dick Energy? Discover its true meaning and whether size really matters.
• Can anyone (even women) have Big Dick Energy? Explore how it manifests and why it’s not just a dude trait.
• The misconceptions: What is NOT Big Dick Energy, even if it looks like confidence?
• Erectile and ejaculatory control: Do these factors play a role in exuding Big Dick Energy?
• Boosting your energy: Practical tips on how to cultivate more Big Dick Energy if you’re feeling low.
• The Bawa Big penis enlargement procedure: Does enhancing size automatically bring confidence?
• Post-hysterectomy advice: Quick tips for navigating intimacy when libido changes dramatically.
• And a fun myth-buster: What’s the deal with guys who drive big lifted trucks? Are they compensating for something?

Whether you’re seeking to enhance your confidence, understand the dynamics of sexual energy, or simply enjoy a light-hearted conversation filled with expert advice, this episode is for you!

Tune in to gain insights from Dr. Bawa and learn how to embrace your inner power and charisma. Don’t forget to visit bawamedical.com for more about Dr. Bawa’s incredible work in sexual wellness!

Listen now and unlock the secrets to your own Big Dick Energy!

About our guest: Dr. Kanwal Bawa is a Cleveland Clinic trained doctor, and a pioneer in the fields of skin rejuvenation, hair restoration and sexual wellness. She has a state-of-the-art practice in Boca Raton, Florida called Bawa Medical. She earned the moniker Dr. Sex Fairy due to her incredible advances in the field of intimate and sexual wellness.

Her patients fly to her from all over the world for vaginal rejuvenation, penis enlargement, Erectile Dysfunction treatments, better performance, increased libido and more. She also provides virtual consultations for those who are unable to travel to her for in-office treatments. To learn more go to http://drsexfairy.com

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Ready to turn your wildest dreams into reality? Buckle up, Shameless listeners, because we're diving deep into the world of manifestation with our guest Nikole Mitchell – a former pastor turned stripper who's now a multi-7 figure business owner! Nikole went viral when she left her religious community for the adult industry. She went from food stamps to 7 figures as a result of being the truest version of herself and being willing to be misunderstood for the sake of following her pleasure. She’s never been happier, healthier, or wealthier. 

In this mind-blowing episode, Nikole shares her jaw-dropping journey from the pulpit to the pole, and how she manifested her way to success and the best sex of her life. You'll learn how to break free from societal norms, embrace your true desires, and manifest both wealth and mind-blowing orgasms (yes, you read that right!).

Nikole drops some serious knowledge bombs on:

• Why good people should become wealthy (and how to do it)
• The surprising connection between sexual pleasure and manifestation
• How to overcome the shame around debt and use it as a tool for growth and good sex 
• Why dating wealthy partners can be a turn-on and a smart move

Plus, get ready for some juicy tidbits on private jet travel (everyone deserves the mile high club!), the power of self-belief, and why having more money can actually make you a better hippie! 

Whether you're looking to scale your pleasure and your income, fame, or just want to live your most authentic (and pleasurable) life, this episode is a must-listen. Nikole's practical advice and controversial insights will challenge your beliefs and inspire you to dream bigger than ever before. Nikole’s been featured on Dr. Phil, Jimmy Kimmel, CBS, FOX, ABC, iHeart radio, and SiriusXM. Ready to manifest your wildest dreams? Don't miss this episode where pleasure meets profit, and anything is possible! You can learn more about Nikole and check out her offerings at NikoleMitchell.com.

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Unlock the Power of Your Emotional Brain with ​​Dr. Nan Wise – certified sex therapist, relationship specialist, neuroscience researcher, and author of Why Good Sex Matters: Understanding the Neuroscience of Pleasure for a Smarter, Happier, and More Purpose-Filled Life. Get ready for a mind-blowing journey into the depths of your psyche as you listen to April get a real-time therapy session with Dr. Nan.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• The fascinating role of brain systems in regulating your emotions and behaviors
• Eye-opening insights from April's affective neuroscience personality scale
• Find your results and take the test by clicking this link: https://affective-neuroscience-personality-scales.jimdosite.com/take-the-test
• April’s current real-life challenges and struggles that you will probably relate to
• A guided mindfulness session to help you stay present and focused
• The surprising link between pleasure and a well-functioning emotional brain

Dr. Nan, with her expertise in neuroscience and therapy, leads April (and you!) through an empowering exploration of self-discovery. You'll learn practical techniques to rewire your emotions and break free from feeling stuck. You’ll also hear a very candid and open conversation on the importance of curiosity and understanding in navigating differences in beliefs and opinions (in a world that feels more divisive than ever).

Whether you're a self-improvement enthusiast or someone grappling with life's challenges, this episode is your ticket to emotional freedom so you can have more connected sex and intimacy. Dr. Nan's fun and inspirational approach makes complex neuroscience accessible and actionable.

Ready to transform your emotional landscape so you can feel good now and enhance your pleasure? Listen now to embark on your journey to a more empowered, emotionally balanced, and sexually charged you!

And to learn more or to book a session with Dr. Nan go to http://askdoctornan.com

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Get ready for a raw and revealing episode of Shameless Sex recorded LIVE at our retreat amidst the lush beauty of Costa Rica. Join our brave retreat attendees as they strip away their inhibitions and dive deep into transformative conversations about relationships, sexual wellness, and personal growth. 

Our guests bare their souls through this powerful group discussion. You'll hear firsthand accounts of:

• Relationship breakthroughs and some yummy strategies to keep that fire burning 
• Stories with unique experiences and new ways to use sex toys (thank you Magic Wand!) 
• Personal revelations that inspire profound change
• Overcoming intimacy barriers
• Embracing authentic sexual expression
• Cultivating deeper self-love and acceptance

Whether you're single, coupled, or exploring alternative relationship styles, this episode offers valuable insights for your own journey of sexual wellness and personal development. Ready to transform your relationships and unleash your inner sexy beast? Listen now and discover how a Shameless Sex retreat could be your next step towards a more fulfilling, pleasure-filled life! Who knows…it could even save a marriage or two.

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What is ADHD, and how would someone know if they have it? How does ADHD show up in sex and relationships? What are the common struggles, challenges, and superpowers? What about kink and ADHD? Why is setting up an ideal environment so important for sexual and relational success? How can people with ADHD become more sexually empowered? And why is there very little research on ADHD and sex?

About our guest: Leann Borneman is a sexologist and certified sex therapist who specializes in the intersection of ADHD and sexuality. As an individual with ADHD, Leann brings a personal understanding to the challenges that can arise in intimate settings. Her approach emphasizes the importance of reshaping our environments rather than trying to change ourselves. Leann is dedicated to creating successful frameworks for our environments, relationships, and sexual experiences. To learn more go to http://bornemancoaching.com

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