The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Sean Jameson

  • 46 minutes 59 seconds
    #59 Ex-Porn Star Teaches How to Get & Stay Rock Hard PLUS The 10 Clit Commandments for Men with Erik Everhard

    Performance anxiety and the inability to make a woman reach orgasm are just some of the many issues so many men struggle with in the bedroom. Today on The Bad Girls Bible, seasoned porn star and sex coach, Erik Everhard joins us to share his 10 Clit Commandments and his tips for keeping an erection. Tuning in, you’ll hear all about how Erik got into porn, how to manage performance anxiety, some strategies to get erect and stay erect (including Erik’s CRUSH Protocol), how sex affects masculinity, and so much more! Erik even breaks down the 10 Clit Commandments as he shares how to perform mind-blowing oral sex and get a woman over the edge to achieve orgasm. Finally, he tells us all about his Everhard Academy and where we can learn more from him. Thanks for listening in!

     

    Key Points From This Episode:

     

    • Introducing today’s esteemed guest, Erik Everhard. 
    • Erik shares his journey and what led him to become a porn star. 
    • How to manage performance anxiety as a porn star. 
    • Erectile strategies someone with a penis can use to stay hard. 
    • The biggest mistakes guys make when trying to last longer. 
    • Erik shares his CRUSH Protocol for helping men stay erect. 
    • Why sexual prowess is ingrained in a male’s identity and masculinity. 
    • Erik breaks down his 10 Clit Commandments. 
    • How vibrators can be a man’s biggest teacher when it comes to oral sex.
    • What the tongue compass is and how to listen to it. 
    • Primary cues to pay attention to when performing oral sex. 
    • Being effective not fancy, the danger of novelty, and why consistency is key. 
    • Common oral sex issues Erik sees with his clients. 

     

    Quotes:

     

    “Confidence is going to be a byproduct of competence.” [0:19:19]

     

    There’s no way that you can decouple your sense of masculinity from your performance in the bedroom.” [0:20:35]

     

    “Vibrators are the greatest teaching tool known to men and as men if we can look at what that vibrator is doing, we can extrapolate a lot of things from it that work on women.” [0:26:17]

     

    “Give the pussy what it needs!”  [0:35:26]

     

    “It might be tough for you to get honest feedback from a woman that has an emotional connection with you.”  [0:43:05]

     

    Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

     

    Erik Everhard — https://www.erikeverhard.com/

    Erik Everhard on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/erikeverhard/ 

    Erik Everhard on Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/groups/erikeverhard 

    Erik Everhard on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/erikeverhardofficial/ 

    Erik Everhard on X — https://x.com/ERIK_EVERHARD 

    The Everhard Academy — https://learn.erikeverhard.com/users/sign_in 

    Unleash Your Sexual Superpowers: A Porn Star’s Guide to Sexual Mastery https://www.amazon.com/Unleash-Your-Sexual-Superpowers-Mastery/dp/1950367320 

    Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

    6 November 2024, 6:00 am
  • 1 hour 6 minutes
    #58 31 Powerful Blow Job Tips & How To Ride Your Man Confidently With Tyomi Morgan

    We are joined by Tyomi Morgan for a Masterclass on how to give a great blow job. Tyomi has been teaching her techniques for years and today she reveals more than 30 different methods you can use on your man tonight. We start the podcast talking about Tyomi’s background and talk a lot about how to ride your man with confidence. You’ll learn how to get into the right mindset so that you can enjoy giving oral sex and your partner can feel that enthusiasm. You’re also going to learn things you can do leading up to the blow job so that you’re teasing your man throughout the day, building tension, and having him crave you. Most importantly, Tyomi teaches her step-by-step techniques to use with your mouth, lips, and tongue, as well as your hands to give your partner the greatest blow job of his life. Join us today to hear all this and more! 

     

    Key Points From This Episode:

     

    • Introducing Tyomi Morgan, her background, and how she became a sex educator and coach.
    • Some reasons women typically don’t feel comfortable riding their man.
    • Overcoming these reservations by connecting the body and the mind.
    • A five-minute tutorial to find confidence and pleasure riding your man tonight.
    • Determining whether or not oral sex is for you.
    • Why you should never give a blow job out of obligation.
    • Whether or not to engage your hands in the process.
    • Having an ‘interview’ process to determine what your partner likes best.
    • The role of teasing and how it can be a kink.
    • Cleaning the penis and genital area.
    • Massaging the penis and balls before giving a blow job.
    • Making sure you have the right size of condom. 
    • Underrated erogenous zones: nipples and hands. 
    • Areas to consider when you start the blow job.
    • Options for lubrication.
    • Advice for anal and prostate play.
    • How to approach edging your partner and how to take it a step further.
    • Exercising the mouth and tongue for strength and stamina. 
    • Making the process more pleasurable for the giver.
    • Approaching the end of the blow job. 

     

    Quotes:

     

     

    “The first thing is getting out of your head; there’s literally no one right way to do anything. It’s either pleasurable, or it’s not.” [0:10:13]

     

    “The only way we are going to bridge the orgasm gap is for women to take control of their own pleasure.” [0:12:55]

     

    “If it’s not a glide, it is not a ride.” [0:14:35]

     

    “If it feels obligatory, trust me when I tell you, the man can feel it.” [0:18:21]

     

    “Edging is definitely the ultimate tease.” [0:42:32]

     

    “What [edging] does is help a man relax into pleasure.”  [0:48:20]

     

    Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

    Tyomi Morgan on Twitter — https://x.com/glamazontyomi/ 

    Tyomi Morgan on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/realglamazontyomi/

    Tyomi Morgan on YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwQWS0xeETkjmSmbIZJO-TA

    Tyomi Morgan Email — [email protected]

    Tyomi Morgan Calendly — calendly.com/tyomi

    Blow Course — https://www.thepleasureacademy.com/courses/Blow

    Blow Him Away — https://www.amazon.com/Blow-Him-Away-Give-Mind-Blowing-ebook/dp/B000FC2O7U

    Bad Girls Bible Sex Positions Guide — https://badgirlsbible.com/best-sex-positions

    10 Incredible Oral Sex Positions for Wild Orgasms — https://badgirlsbible.com/blowjob-positions/

    Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

    9 October 2024, 6:00 am
  • 42 minutes 58 seconds
    #57 How To Start Swinging, How It Improves Your Relationship & Red Flags You Must Know With Dan & Lacy From The Swing Nation

    Have you ever been curious about what the swinger lifestyle might be like? Today we sit down with Dan and Lacy from The Swing Nation Podcast to answer all your swinger-related questions. Tune in as we discuss everything, from figuring out whether the swinger lifestyle is right for you to the impact it could have on your relationship.

    Discover what drew Dan and Lacy to the lifestyle, their prior experiences with monogamy, and what they have learned from navigating this new world together. We discuss some of the best tips for exploring the swinger lifestyle, especially if you’re a beginner, before examining how to deal with jealousy, and why honest communication is essential! You’ll also learn how to recognize signs that swinging might be right for you, along with red flags you need to know about. Tune in for a deep dive into the swinging community from experts Dan and Lacy!

     

    Key Points From This Episode:

     

    • Introducing Dan and Lacy from the Swing Nation Podcast.
    • How Dan and Lacy found themselves involved in the swinger lifestyle together.
    • Their experience with monogamous relationships and why they prefer the swinger lifestyle.
    • Issues they encountered when they first started dating as swingers.
    • Tips and advice on embarking on a journey of non-monogamy together.
    • The benefits of taking it slow when you first start exploring the swinger lifestyle.
    • How to recognize green flags that swinging might be right for you.
    • Why insecurity and jealousy are normal and why good communication is essential.
    • How swinging has benefited their relationship and communication.
    • A breakdown of Dan and Lacy’s boundaries and how they set them.
    • The value of having a list of rules when you’re starting out.
    • Important red flags you should be aware of.
    • Understanding compersion; the happiness you feel when your partner is intimate with others.
    • How non-monogamy could change throughout your life and relationship.
    • What led to them becoming prominent swinger influencers and educators.
    • The type of events that Dan and Lacy host and how to join their Discord community.

     

    Quotes:

     

    “I knew that I can be monogamous if I really wanted to. It's not natural for me. I enjoy the non-monogamous aspect much more. It was nice to find a community that we could do it safely and together in.” — Lacy  [0:06:33]

    “If you want to take this journey into non-monogamy, it should be something that you're doing together to explore each other's fantasies, to improve your relationship, to improve your sex life.” — Dan [0:10:07]

     

    “The more you engulf yourself and experience things, I think the more you open up to new experiences.” — Dan [0:22:26]

     

    “The average person on OnlyFans makes $150 a month. It takes a lot of work. We have a team of people now that run mine. We have four OnlyFan pages. It's a labor of love. It's taken a lot of work. You have to be comfortable with your body and you have to set clear boundaries.” — Lacy  [0:36:36]

     

    Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

     

    The Swing Nation — https://theswingnation.info/

    Join the Swinger Society Discord Server! — https://discord.com/invite/swingersociety

    The Swing Nation Podcast on Swinger Red Flags — https://podcasts.apple.com/de/podcast/lifestyle-education-swinger-red-flags/id1582945782?i=1000547768021&l=en-GB

    The Swing Nation Podcast on Should I start a content subscription  — https://podcasts.apple.com/de/podcast/from-swinging-to-subscriptions-should-you-start-an/id1582945782?i=1000645432035&l=en-GB Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

    11 September 2024, 6:00 am
  • 24 minutes 53 seconds
    #56 Understanding & Healing Anxious Attachment with Jessica Baum, LMHC, Psychotherapist

    Our early experiences with primary caregivers can profoundly affect our relationships later in life — often in ways that are deeply unconscious — and it takes conscious work to change our patterns and facilitate healing. Psychotherapist, Jessica Baum, joins us today to guide us through the different attachment styles and unpack how our early experiences shape adult connections. Tuning in, you’ll learn about the differences between anxious and avoidant attachment styles, why these types tend to be drawn to one another, and how you can support your partner if they are either of these types. We discuss what secure attachment looks like, the benefits of it, and why it’s essential to have a sense of safety in your relationships. Our conversation also unpacks the importance of setting boundaries, the healing practices in Jessica’s book Anxiously Attached, and how parents can support secure attachment in their children. Tune in to learn all about relational patterns and how to embark on a journey toward healthier, more fulfilling relationships!

    Key Points From This Episode:

    • What led Jessica to the field of psychotherapy.
    • How she came to specialize in co-dependency.
    • Imago therapy: how it helps us heal original wounds through our relationships.
    • What secure attachment looks like.
    • Anxious attachment and the signs that you might have this attachment style.
    • Steps you can take to start healing from anxious attachment.
    • Healing practices in Jessica’s book, Anxiously Attached.
    • Understanding how memories and original wounds are stored in the body.
    • The importance of setting boundaries for healing to take place.
    • Why setting boundaries requires support.
    • Parenting styles that prevent anxious attachment in children.
    • How parents can support a secure attachment in their child.
    • Assessing what level of anxiety is normal (especially in our current society).
    • The definition of avoidant attachment.
    • Why anxious and avoidant individuals tend to be drawn to one another.
    • How social media and dating apps could be contributing to anxious attachment.
    • What you can do to support an anxious or avoidant partner.

    Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

    Jessica Baum — https://jessicabaumlmhc.com/

    Jessica Baum on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-baum-lmhc-cap-038a1538/

    Jessica Baum on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/jessicabaumlmhc/

    Be Self-Full — https://www.beselffull.com/

    Relationship Institute of Palm Beach — https://www.relationshipspb.com/ Anxiously Attached https://www.amazon.com/Anxiously-Attached-Becoming-More-Secure/dp/0593331060

    Imago Relationship Therapy — https://harvilleandhelen.com/initiatives/what-is-imago/

    Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

    14 August 2024, 6:00 am
  • 47 minutes 15 seconds
    #55 How To Build A Rock Solid Marriage - Nate & Kaley Klemp

    If you’ve been struggling to achieve a perfectly equitable marriage, you’re not alone. Research shows that even couples who prioritize equality often find themselves fighting about fairness in their relationship.

    That was the experience of today’s guests, Nate and Kaley Klemp, two high-achieving individuals, who started their marriage believing in a model of fairness, only to discover that, in reality, that balance was virtually impossible to achieve. It was out of this frustration that they developed what they call The 80/80 Marriage, a model rooted in radical generosity and shared success, which led to them co-authoring the New York Times bestselling book The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Relationship.

    I talk with Nate and Kaley about the concept of the 80/80 marriage, why fixating on fairness doesn’t work, and how adopting a mindset of radical generosity can transform your relationship. Our conversation also gets into key aspects of their book, like being intentional about each person’s role, creating explicit values, and setting priorities and boundaries together. Join us for a fascinating conversation on equality, radical generosity, and how to strive for an 80/80 relationship!

     

    Key Points From This Episode:

     

    •    Introducing today’s guests, Nate and Kaley Klemp.

    •    The story of how they met and got married.

    •    Why the first two years of their marriage were so challenging.

    •    The many ways couples fight about fairness and why it causes resentment.

    •    How they wrote the 80/80 Marriage together.

    •    The concept of an 80/80 relationship, and how it differs from one that is 50/50.

    •    Why it’s about striving for balance and radical generosity.

    •    Steps to creating the right mindset for an 80/80 marriage.

    •    How to create the structure for an 80/80 relationship.

    •    Building a bridge between mindset and structure through values.

    •    How to take a more intentional approach to your roles as a couple.

    •    Setting priorities and boundaries as a couple (and why it can be so liberating).

    •    Insights on what to do when you have an unwilling or reluctant partner.

    •    How to approach your partner about entering an 80/80 relationship.

    •    Nate’s new book Open: Living with an Expansive Mind in a Distracted World.

     

    Quotes:

     

    “We're really the first generation in all of human history, striving toward equal marriage. [0:05:39]

     

    “There's no such thing as 160% of anything. The whole idea is [that] it doesn't make sense, [so] strive. And then, [with] both parties striving for 80%, you land somewhere in the space of balance.”  [0:11:18]

     

    “There are no good or bad, or right or wrong, values. There are known and implicit values. When you have known, or explicit, or agreed to, values, then you have a north star, where you can build the structure of your relationship. When you have implicit values, it's very challenging.”  [0:23:54]

     

    “Most couples have never taken that step back and [have] never thought from an intentional place: ‘How could we redesign our roles, such that [it] really works for both of us?’”  [0:28:05]

     

    “For many couples, when even just one person shifts to 80/80, it opens up a new space for the other person, who might be the undercontributor, to contribute more and to be generous in turn.”  [0:37:11]

     

    Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

     

    Nate Klemp

    Nate Klemp on LinkedIn

    Nate Klemp on X

    Kaley Klemp

    Kaley Klemp on LinkedIn

    Kaley Klemp on X

    The 80/80 Marriage

    The 80/80 Marriage on Instagram

    The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Relationship

    Open: Living with an Expansive Mind in a Distracted World

    Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

    17 July 2024, 5:00 am
  • 37 minutes 1 second
    #54 Building Sexual Confidence and Enhancing Intimacy With Dr. Alison Ash

    What does it really mean to be confident in the bedroom? On this episode, we are joined by Dr. Alison Ash, a trained, Trauma-Informed Intimacy Coach, Educator, and Founder of TurnON.love. Dr. Aly helped pioneer research into the orgasm gap and has written books and articles on topics ranging from pleasure in heterosexual dynamics to queer identities and experiences. Join us for an insightful conversation that touches on many different aspects of sexual relationships. From self-discovery and the co-creation process, to dealing with shame and distinguishing it from guilt, our conversation is a deep dive into the fundamental elements of healthy, fulfilling sexual experiences. Dr. Aly demystifies the complex world of intimacy and the factors that all too often stand in its way. Thanks for listening!

     

    Key Points From This Episode:

     

    •    Introducing Dr. Alison Ash, Intimacy Coach, Educator, and Founder of the website, TurnON.love.

    •    Her career journey which began in sociology before she found her true passion in education.

    •    The constant process of self-inquiry and self-discovery necessary for fulfilling sexual experiences.

    •    What it means to have the confidence to co-create your sexual experiences.

    •    How shame can damage our relationship to sex and our bodies.

    •    Empathy, reassurance, and normalization.

    •    Differentiating between guilt and shame.

    •    Three attributes of sex positivity.

    •    Components that make up sexual consent.

    •    Defining boundaries according to capacity.

    •    Tips for affirming a romantic partner.

    •    The role of self-deprecation in preventing intimacy.

    •    How communication can enhance emotional connection during sex.

    •    Tips for creating safety to share with your partner.

    •    What lies at the core of any sexual fantasy.

    •    Dr. Aly’s work and different options she offers for coaching and workshops.

    Quotes:

     

    “Society at large is pretty bad at templating healthy intimacy skills, but it is a skill, like any skill, something we can get better at with proper instruction and practice.” [0:02:47]

     

    “One of the first things I tell folks is that sexual empowerment comes from knowing yourself.” [0:04:26]

     

    “Some of the best sex comes from having a mutual shared orientation towards exploring and not having to have all the answers.” [0:05:39]

     

    “So much of feeling confident and sexually liberated, and having fulfilling sex and relationships is about uncovering the things that we feel ashamed about and moving through it.” [0:08:46]

     

    “A lot of institutions try to teach through shame. I think it's way less effective and problematic as supposed to holding somebody with love and compassion, but still accountability for mistakes.” [0:13:59]

     

    “An affirmation is a compliment on steroids.” [0:21:10]

     

    Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

    TurnOn Love — https://www.turnon.love/

    Dr. Alison Ash on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/alisonashphd/

    Dr. Alison Ash on Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/dralisonash/

    Dr. Alison Ash on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/turnon.love/

    Dr. Alison Ash on X — https://twitter.com/turnon_love

    Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Mastercourse — https://www.turnon.love/sexual-and-emotional-intimacy-skills

    Sustainable Intimacy — https://www.turnon.love/sustainable-intimacyold

    Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

    19 June 2024, 5:00 am
  • 49 minutes 28 seconds
    #53 3 Orgasm Blockers & The Importance Of Sexual Chemistry With Dr. Tara

    So many people have trouble orgasming and aren’t experiencing true pleasure during sex. Today on The Bad Girls Bible, sexual and relational communication profession Dr. Tara joins us to discuss the three main blockers of orgasms and why sexual chemistry is so important! In this conversation, you’ll hear all about Tara’s conservative background, what led her to the USA, why she became a professor of relational and sexual communication, body neutrality, sexual empowerment, Tara’s podcast, textbook, and the TV show she is in, and so much more! We delve into the three main reasons women struggle to orgasm before Tara shares her thoughts on the success of relationships with no sex or chemistry and how she helps her clients solve these issues. From attraction, to boundaries, to saying no, to the best positions for clitoral stimulation, to the use of vibrators, this episode has it all! We even discuss how same-sex schools affect sexuality in adulthood. Finally, our guest tells us all about what praise kink is. Thanks for tuning in!

    Key Points From This Episode:

    •    An introduction to today’s guest, Dr. Tara.

    •    Tara’s background and how she became a professor of relational and sexual communication.

    •    Why Tara loves the concept of body neutrality instead of body positivity.

    •    How sexual empowerment can solve the issue of women faking orgasms and hiding it.

    •    Tara tells us about her textbook and podcast and how she ended up on Celebs Go Dating.

    •    The three main reasons women struggle to orgasm: physical, psychological, and relational.

    •    Why Tara believes you cannot have a successful, happy, long-term relationship without sex.

    •    How scent contributes to sexual chemistry and why it doesn’t ever lie to us.

    •    Tara’s advice for what to do when in a sexless relationship with no chemistry.

    •    The different categories of attraction and how it can be developed.

    •    Why breaching boundaries is so detrimental in a relationship.

    •    The importance of chemistry and why it cannot be built from nothing.

    •    Tara speaks about the differences between spontaneous and responsive desire.

    •    Why saying no is so liberating.

    •    The best, easiest positions for clitoral stimulation.

    •    Why men are generally so insecure about using vibrators and sex toys.

    •    What praise kink is and how a couple can explore it.

    Quotes:

    “The solution to the inability to orgasm or even to embrace pleasure overall is sexual empowerment.” [0:07:57]

    “So many different physical issues contribute to the inability to orgasm.” [0:14:43]

    “Every single person is entitled to what is right for them. If you're in a relationship that you don't have any sexual chemistry with your partner, it's your prerogative to decide if you want to do.” [0:23:25]

    “A breach of boundaries is a killer of trust.” [0:29:09]

    “For me, the most important thing that I learned in my previous relationship that you can never get unless it was there is chemistry.” [0:33:29]

    “There is no good sex life – without communicating, without feeling confident, without feeling comfortable in your skin.” [0:42:04]

    Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

    Luvbites by Dr. Tara — https://www.luvbites.co/

    Dr. Tara Email Address — [email protected]

    Dr. Tara on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/drtaraluvbites/

    Dr. Tara on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/luvbites.co/ Dr. Tara on TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@luvbites.co

    Dr. Tara on X — https://twitter.com/luvbitesco

    Sexual Communication: Research in Action https://books.google.co.za/books/about/Sexual_Communication.html?id=KRRVzwEACAAJ&redir_esc=y

    Celebs Go Dating — https://www.imdb.com/title/tt5993484/

    Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

    22 May 2024, 5:00 am
  • 43 minutes 46 seconds
    #52 Sexless Marriages, Solutions & Causes with Dr. Nazanin Moali

    So many relationships struggle with sexlessness and many couples aren’t aware of the fact that they can get help and save their relationships! Today on The Bad Girl’s Bible, sex therapist and podcast host, Dr. Nazanin Moali joins us to discuss causes and solutions for sexless relationships. In this episode, you’ll hear all about Dr. Moali’s fascinating background, what made her want to be a sex therapist, her podcast, Sexology, her Farsi podcast, and so much more! We discuss what a sexless marriage or relationship is and what may cause it before talking about infidelity, pornography, and trauma and their effects on sexual experiences in relationships. Sometimes, one partner initiates sex more than the other and may feel rejected often and today, Dr. Moali shares some tips to reconnect in this situation. We even talk about the differences between spontaneous and responsive desire, the main psychological causes of erectile dysfunction, and some cures for chronic erectile dysfunction. To hear all this and so much more, tune in now!

    Key Points From This Episode:

    •    Welcoming today’s guest, Dr. Nazanin Moali to the show.

    •    Dr. Moali tells us about her background and why she became a sex therapist.

    •    Her Farsi show and the demand for it among the Iranian population.

    •    The definition of a sexless relationship and the main causes of it.

    •    Infidelity causing anger and sexlessness and how to validate your partner to heal from it.

    •    How pornography affects relationships and how to handle the effects of it.

    •    Unresolved trauma and its contribution to a sexless relationship.

    •    How to handle when one partner rejects the other for sex or initiation is one-sided.

    •    Dr. Moali explains what spontaneous and responsive desire is.

    •    The main psychological causes of erectile dysfunction in otherwise healthy men.

    •    Some cures for chronic erectile dysfunction.

    Quotes:

    “Many people don't know there are solutions out there. Sexual health challenges are something that you can cure, you can get treatment for it. It could be even as easy as a few sessions.”[0:07:31]

     “Trauma can be an incredibly painful experience for people to have. It can really impact how our body responds to sex and sexuality. It can impact our responsiveness or lack of responsiveness.” [0:17:31]

    “If you're not into foreplay, you're not doing it correctly.” — [0:29:24]

    Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: 

    Dr. Nazanin Moali on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/nazanin-moali-ph-d-9623482a/

    Dr. Nazanin Moali on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast/

    Dr. Nazanin Moali Linktree — https://linktr.ee/oasis2care

    Dr. Nazanin Moali on X — https://twitter.com/oasis2care

    Sexology Podcast — https://sexologypodcast.com/

    Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

    15 May 2024, 5:00 am
  • 37 minutes 16 seconds
    #51 Painful Sex Solutions With Nora Langknecht

    Research shows that the majority of women will experience pain during sex at some point in their lives. But just because painful sex is common, it doesn’t mean you have to accept it as normal! To talk about this, we’re joined by Nora Langknecht, a sexuality educator, reproductive health counselor, and Brand and Digital Marketing Manager for the sex toy brand FUN FACTORY.

    In this episode, Nora tells us about her career journey and role at FUN FACTORY, which she describes as the perfect mix of spreadsheets and dildos! Then, we delve into what could be causing pain during sex, the importance of arousal and lubrication, and tips to help you rethink sensuality, communicate better with your sexual partner, and much more. Whether you're flying solo or coupled up, this episode will help you to unlock pain-free pleasure in the bedroom. So, grab your headphones and get ready to revolutionize your sex life!

    Key Points From This Episode:

    • What led Nora to become a sex educator and counselor.
    • Common causes of pain during penetrative vaginal sex and their solutions.
    • Reasons that lube is for everyone!
    • When Nora recommends speaking to your doctor about painful sex.
    • Why anal sex can be painful and ways to make it more pleasurable.
    • How to prepare for anal sex; hygiene, communication tips, and more.
    • A warning against numbing cream and why orgasm isn’t always the “goal.”
    • Tips to help you rethink sensuality and experience pleasure without sex.
    • Advice for supporting your libido, whether you’re partnered or single.
    • The role of pornography in a partnership (and when it can be a problem).
    • Insight into how COVID-19 affected couples’ sex lives.
    • Suggestions for self-discovery using sex toys.
    • A comprehensive guide to consent and how to practice it intentionally.
    • Spontaneous versus responsive desire and why mindfulness is key.

    Quotes:

    “Slowing down, focusing on arousal, and including more lube are the main solutions for vaginal pain during sex.” — Nora Langknecht [0:04:15]

    “Thinking of sex as something more intricate, cyclical, and playful also helps if you're not moving unidirectionally – from [external play] to penetration to orgasm.” — Nora Langknecht [0:12:58]

    “There are all these different ways to be sensual together that can involve any of our five senses that aren't necessarily focused on what we would consider a sex act.” — Nora Langknecht [0:19:14]

    “Sometimes in partnerships, we focus on partnered pleasure more than solo play, but solo play is a fantastic way to support your own libido – It's an important part of your own sexual life, whether you're married, dating, or single.” — Nora Langknecht [0:23:37]

    “For some reason, we started telling this story that [asking for consent] was going to be scary or unsexy, but asking someone if you can kiss them is the sexiest, un-scariest thing you can do.” — Nora Langknecht [0:32:39]

    Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

    FUN FACTORY — funfactory.com

    FUN FACTORY on Instagram — @funfactoryusa

    Ohnut — thepelvicpeople.com/collections/all-products/products/ohnut-depth-limiting-rings

    Jade T. Perry — jadetperry.com

    The Pleasure Chest — thepleasurechest.com

    Lovers — loversstores.com

    Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

    More tips for overcoming painful sex.

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    #34 The Secret To Reaching Orgasm During Sex with Laurie Mintz, Ph.D. https://badgirlsbible.com/34-the-secret-to-reaching-orgasm-during-sex-with-laurie-mintz-ph-d

    #29 Experience Squirting Orgasms with Female Orgasm Expert, Jason Julius https://badgirlsbible.com/29-squirting-orgasms-real-foreplay-and-how-guys-can-last-longer-with-female-ejaculation-expert-jason-julius

    8 May 2024, 5:00 am
  • 32 minutes 26 seconds
    #50 Cuckolding 101: How To Explore It & Why It Can Be Good For Your Relationship With Venus Cuckoldress

    Cuckolding is a controversial sexual practice that is totally misunderstood but it can actually be a really great addition to the right kind of relationship! 

    Today on the podcast we are joined by cuckolding expert, Venus Cuckoldress to debunk cuckolding myths, hear about the realities of it, and get some tips for incorporating it into our own relationships. In this episode, you will hear all about how Venus was introduced to cuckolding, starting her cuckolding blog and podcast, the reality of cuckolding in a healthy relationship, how cucking can bring you closer to your partner, why it is a male-driven fantasy, and so much more!

    Venus then shares some advice and steps for anyone wanting to try cuckolding before explaining the challenges of finding a bull (third partner) and safety recommendations. We even discuss cuckqueaning, hotwifing, fantasies that don’t involve sexual intercourse, whether or not size matters, sexual denial, and the ‘vanilla’ sex life of a cuckolding couple. Finally, Venus tells us why cuckolding is a bad idea if you think it will "fix" your relationship. This episode is filled with some amazing insights into the wonders of cuckolding so be sure to tune in now!

     

    Key Points From This Episode:

     

    •    How Venus discovered cuckolding.

    •    Why she started a blog and podcast about cuckolding.

    •    What cuckolding is in reality for people in healthy relationships.

    •    Her first experience of ‘cucking’ her partner and how it deepened their connection.

    •    Why cuckolding is not cheating and why men may enjoy being cuckolded by their partner.

    •    What compersion is and how it ties into cuckolding.

    •    Venus shares advice for any couples wanting to try cuckolding and the steps to starting.

    •    The challenges of finding a third partner (a bull) for a cuckolding relationship.

    •    Venus gives us some safety recommendations when trying out cuckolding.

    •    Why creating too many rules that become hard to follow is problematic.

    •    Cuckolding versus cuckqueaning and what hotwifing is.

    •    How to fulfill your partner’s cuckolding fantasies without actually sleeping with another man.

    •    The impact of making a comment about size during a cuckolding experience.

    •    Venus tells us what her size preference is when it comes to sex.

    •    Sexual denial in cuckolding and how most cuckold couples have a robust sex life together.

    •    Why cuckolding is a recipe for disaster in a relationship already littered with problems.

     

    Quotes:

     

    “[Cuckolding] is not so much about just your partner watching you or listening [to] you sleeping with somebody else because that's what everybody thinks it is. It's actually really a kind of special loving relationship.” [0:05:20]

     

    “[Cuckolding] is like art, you can sculpt it exactly the way that you want, and it does not need to look like somebody else's piece of art.” [0:11:54]

     

    “The fun part about being the woman in a cuckolding situation is that you really do feel like you have the power and the ability to have this effect on someone that is profound.” [0:20:25]

     

    Longer Quotes:

     

    “If there are any new couples listening out there thinking of making this list of rules, it's okay to have them. But just keep in mind that it may not be realistic to have all of those rules. I think what's most important is that she's safe, and she's comfortable, and that she's enjoying herself. What that looks like should really be up to her.” [0:20:04]

     

    Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

     

    Venus — https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/

    Venus Linktree — https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldress

    The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast — https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/the-podcast

    Venus Connections — https://www.venusconnections.com/

    Venus on X — https://twitter.com/CuckoldressV

    Venus on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/venuscuckoldresspodcast

    Dr. Justin Lehmiller — https://www.sexandpsychology.com/about-dr/

    Tell Me What You Wanthttps://www.amazon.com/Tell-Me-What-You-Want/dp/0738234958/ref

    ‘Does Size Matter?’ Bad Girls Bible Survey — https://badgirlsbible.com/does-size-matter

    Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

     

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    #34 The Secret To Reaching Orgasm During Sex with Laurie Mintz, Ph.D. https://badgirlsbible.com/34-the-secret-to-reaching-orgasm-during-sex-with-laurie-mintz-ph-d

    #29 Experience Squirting Orgasms with Female Orgasm Expert, Jason Julius https://badgirlsbible.com/29-squirting-orgasms-real-foreplay-and-how-guys-can-last-longer-with-female-ejaculation-expert-jason-julius

    1 May 2024, 5:00 am
  • 1 hour 3 minutes
    #49 Deep Throating Tips, Becoming A Hotwife & Being Confident Riding Your Man With Casey Donatello

    Casey Donatello is a married, non-monogamous author and podcast host who embraces the Hotwife lifestyle. She is passionate about supporting others on their journey to becoming more confident and unapologetic in their lives and their sexual choices. In today’s episode, she shares her process of recognizing and pursuing a relationship dynamic and sexual lifestyle that she finds most fulfilling. We also discuss how she found a partner who aligned with her vision for life and sex and how they deal with jealousy, communication, and rule-setting as they cultivate partner-sharing experiences. Casey also offers practical wisdom on entering the Hotwife lifestyle, pleasing your partner orally, and embracing all aspects of yourself through nudism, content creation, and fulfilling sexual encounters. Tune in to hear all this and more from today’s candid and sexually empowered guest!

     

    Key Points From This Episode:

    •    An overview of Casey Donatello and her introduction to the Hotwife lifestyle.

    •    Her relationship journey leading up to her current marriage.

    •    Jealousy in the Hotwife lifestyle and how her dates are structured.

    •    Rule-setting and the feedback process.

    •    Tips for those looking to pursue a Hotwife lifestyle.

    •    Why it’s essential to share your sexual aspirations with a potential partner.

    •    Casey’s opinion on how to give your partner a good blow job!

    •    Advice for finding the confidence to talk dirty.

    •    Our guest weighs in on whether or not size matters.

    •    Advice for building confidence while riding your man.

    •    Why Casey doesn’t edit any of her content.

    •    How public nudism has supported Casey to find body confidence.

    •    Tips for women who are hoping to squirt.

    •    Casey’s complex journey into the lifestyle.

    •    The story behind Casey’s four books.

     

    Quotes:

    “[Hotwifing] is completely different than a regular threesome. Sometimes, it’s hard for people to understand how three people isn’t always the same equation. But it really isn’t.” [0:05:50]

     

    “It’s like putting your relationship in a pressure cooker when you invite other people into your bed.” [0:08:26]

     

    “There’s no right or wrong to what you are interested in. It’s just that you and your partner [have to] agree on it.” [0:19:06]

     

    “A lot of times, people don’t want to talk about sex when they’re having sex, but that’s the best time.” [0:30:53]

     

    “If you absolutely hate something or it hurts you, speak up! Don’t let somebody hurt your body because you don’t want to hurt their feelings.” [0:31:22]

     

    Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

    Casey Donatello — https://caseydonatello.com/

    Casey Donatello on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/caseydonatello.official/

    Casey Donatello on X — https://twitter.com/hotwifelife869/

    In Bed Podcast  https://caseydonatello.com/in-bed-podcast/

    In Bed with Strangers — https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07CQT1R15/

    Scarlet Surrenders — https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09PYX8DQB/

    Scarlet Swings Higher —  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07RZVKQ3M/

    Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

     

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    #34 The Secret To Reaching Orgasm During Sex with Laurie Mintz, Ph.D. https://badgirlsbible.com/34-the-secret-to-reaching-orgasm-during-sex-with-laurie-mintz-ph-d

    #29 Experience Squirting Orgasms with Female Orgasm Expert, Jason Julius https://badgirlsbible.com/29-squirting-orgasms-real-foreplay-and-how-guys-can-last-longer-with-female-ejaculation-expert-jason-julius

    24 April 2024, 3:59 pm
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