A Productive Conversation

Mike Vardy

A Time Management and Personal Productivity Talk Show

  • 43 minutes 33 seconds
    Mat Ellis Talks About Balancing Productivity and Personal Connection with AI

    In this engaging episode of the podcast, I sit down with Mat Ellis, a pioneer in the productivity software arena, to explore how modern tools like AI can enhance both our work efficiency and our personal lives. We delve into the evolution of productivity platforms, particularly Mat's work with Sixty, and discuss the significant impact of these tools on our daily routines.

    As we navigate through the conversation, Mat provides profound insights into the delicate balance between leveraging technology and maintaining genuine human interactions. This discussion is crucial for anyone looking to optimize their time management without sacrificing personal connections.

    Key Discussion Points

    • The Evolution of Productivity Software: We discuss the origins and growth of the productivity platform Sixty, tracing its development from the early productivity revolution.
    • Technology as a Burden: Reflections on how the role of computers has shifted from being supportive tools to potential burdens, impacting both productivity and work-life balance.
    • Managing Communication Overload: Strategies on using software to manage email and communication overload, including AI's role in prioritizing important messages.
    • Automating with AI: Benefits of AI in automating routine tasks and implementing systems like the daily out-of-office, which helps manage email flow outside work hours.
    • AI and Human Interaction: The potential and limitations of AI in productivity and time management, emphasizing the importance of human creativity and interaction.
    • Personalized Communication: The value of personalized communication in relationship and time management, with examples of AI's role in enhancing these interactions.
    • Productivity vs. Relationship Nourishment: Discussing the balance between achieving productivity goals and nurturing personal relationships, emphasizing the importance of focusing on what truly matters.


    My conversation with Mat Ellis was enlightening, showing us the potential of AI to transform our work habits and personal interactions. As we continue to integrate these technologies into our lives, it's vital to remain aware of the human element that fosters genuine connections and creativity. Remember, it's not just about being productive—it's about being meaningfully engaged with our tasks and the people around us.

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    1 May 2024, 7:30 am
  • 1 hour 1 minute
    FROM THE VAULT: Thomas Frank Talks About Elevating Creativity in Productivity

    In this episode, originally broadcast in April 2020, I'm joined by Thomas Frank, a prominent content creator who has significantly influenced the YouTube and productivity community. Thomas opens up about his journey into video creation, sharing the nuances of his creative process and how he has successfully integrated his personal interests with productivity content. From the initial inspiration to the complexities of content creation and management, Thomas provides a comprehensive look into the life of a content creator striving to deliver valuable, engaging content.

    As someone eager to dive into video content creation myself, Thomas's experiences and insights come at a perfect time. His journey from starting on YouTube in 2006 to becoming a serious content creator, inspired by folks like Pat Flynn and driven by a desire to infuse creativity into productivity, is nothing short of inspiring. We delve into the challenges of balancing creative energy with time management, and how personal interests can significantly enhance the content creation process.

    Key Discussion Points

    • Thomas's transition into serious video content creation, inspired by Pat Flynn and the desire to deliver a powerful message through video.
    • The integration of personal interests with productivity content, creating unique and engaging videos.
    • The detailed research and personal testing that go into creating each video, emphasizing quality over quantity.
    • Challenges in managing creative energy and time, especially when balancing long-form projects with the demands of short-form content.
    • The importance of authenticity in content creation, drawing from a broad range of influences beyond the productivity genre.
    • Struggles with deciding on video topics, last-minute content compromises, and the balance between creative work and business responsibilities.
    • Leveraging existing audiences for new ventures, such as transitioning into music and exploring platforms like Nebula for content monetization.


    My conversation with Thomas Frank sheds light on the multifaceted world of content creation, from the inception of an idea to the execution and beyond. His approach to blending productivity with creativity, while facing the challenges of time management and audience expectations, offers invaluable lessons for aspiring creators. Thomas's journey is a testament to the power of authenticity and the importance of integrating personal passions with professional endeavors. As we wrap up, it's clear that the key to successful content creation lies in finding a balance that resonates both with the creator and their audience.

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    24 April 2024, 7:30 am
  • 35 minutes 59 seconds
    Dr. Dale Whelehan Talks About Revolutionizing Work with a Four-Day Week

    In an enlightening conversation with Dr. Dale Whelehan, CEO of Four Day Week Global, we dive into the evolving landscape of work and the compelling argument for a four-day workweek. This discussion unfolds organically, touching on the profound benefits that a shortened workweek can offer not just to individual productivity and well-being but also to the broader societal and business landscapes. Dr. Whelehan, with his extensive research and leadership in advocating for this shift, sheds light on why the century-old five-day workweek is ripe for change, especially in today's context of cognitive and emotional labor.

    The COVID-19 pandemic has undeniably accelerated the reevaluation of work culture, pushing us into a realm where the tension between traditional and emerging work paradigms is more palpable than ever. Using the metaphor of a frog slowly boiling in water, we discuss how employees and employers are navigating this shift, with many seeking a balance that seems increasingly elusive. Dr. Whelehan highlights the critical dissonance at play, pointing out the pressing need for workplaces to adapt to what truly works for their people, rather than adhering to outdated modes that breed burnout and inefficiency.

    Key Discussion Points

    • The relaxed and organic tone of productive conversations on significant shifts in work culture.
    • The mission of Four Day Week Global and the societal, business, and individual benefits of a four-day workweek.
    • Historical context and the evolution of work from physical to cognitive demands, highlighting the necessity for change.
    • The impact of the COVID-19 pandemic on work intensity and the shift in employee-employer dynamics.
    • The concept of a "productivity intervention" as a sustainable approach to improving workplace output and well-being.
    • The significance of motivation and the science behind it in enhancing productivity within a reduced working week.
    • Challenges and strategies in implementing flexible work schedules across different cultures and industries.


    My discussion with Dr. Whelehan offers a thought-provoking glimpse into the future of work, one that champions flexibility, well-being, and efficiency. The four-day workweek, as Dr. Whelehan articulates, is not just a fleeting trend but a pivotal movement towards redefining productivity and quality of life for employees around the globe. As we reflect on the cultural and logistical nuances of this transition, it becomes clear that the path to a more balanced, fulfilling work-life is paved with trust, collaboration, and a willingness to challenge the status quo. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone interested in the intersection of productivity, well-being, and the future of work.

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    17 April 2024, 7:30 am
  • 52 minutes 43 seconds
    PM Talks S1E4: Failure

    In this month's installment of our PM Talks series, Patrick Rhone and yours truly (Mike Vardy) dissect the multifaceted concepts of failure, choice, and the consequent growth that can emerge from these experiences. Through a series of engaging stories and personal reflections, we delve into how our perceptions of failure and the choices we make in response to it can profoundly shape our personal and professional lives. Patrick brings a depth of insight to the conversation, prompting us to consider the power of reframing our narratives around failure and the critical role of choice in steering the course of our growth.

    Our dialogue traverses various landscapes, from the humor and empathy found in college rejection letters to the daily choices that influence our habits and the monumental decisions that define our paths. We explore the importance of embracing failure as a crucial element of learning and growth, the impact of parenting on our perception of obstacles, and how personal experiences with technology and art can offer unexpected opportunities for expansion. The richness of our discussion highlights not only the inevitability of failure and choice in life but also the potential for meaningful growth that lies within these experiences.

    Key Discussion Points

    • The perception of failure in the entrepreneurial space and its potential for reframing as growth.
    • The significance of choice in shaping our actions and their outcomes, underscored by personal anecdotes.
    • The role of parenting in teaching resilience through teenage failures and the navigation of new challenges.
    • The process of college admissions as a microcosm for broader life decisions and the acceptance of various outcomes.
    • The exploration of failure and success within the context of art and society, using Henri Toulouse-Lautrec's work as an example.
    • The balance between seizing opportunities and stretching beyond comfort zones, illustrated through personal contemplations on travel and financial decisions.
    • The concept of tolerance in decision-making and how it evolves with age, impacting our approach to risks and opportunities.


    Wrapping up our conversation, Patrick and I touch on the underlying theme that binds these topics together: the intrinsic value of embracing life's uncertainties and the growth that emerges from this embrace. Whether discussing the finer points of art, the practicalities of technology and travel, or the philosophical depths of failure and success, our dialogue reaffirms the importance of stepping into the unknown with openness and curiosity.

    This episode not only challenges listeners to rethink their relationship with failure but also encourages a deeper appreciation for the choices we face daily and the potential they hold for personal and professional evolution.

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    10 April 2024, 7:30 am
  • 38 minutes 12 seconds
    Derin "DMac" McMains Talks About Talks About Transitioning from Sports to Mental Performance Coaching

    In this episode I sit down with Derin McMains, affectionately known as DMac, a former professional baseball player turned mental performance coach. DMac shares the journey behind his nickname and how it has followed him from high school baseball to the major leagues. Our conversation delves into the critical transition from sports to life after, highlighting the mental challenges and breakthroughs that come with changing career paths. As someone who has always been intrigued by the pivot points in athletes' careers, I found DMac's insights into mental performance and identity beyond sports truly enlightening.

    DMac's transition to a mental performance coach stemmed from a profound realization about the importance of mental health in sports. Over the last 12 years, he has dedicated himself to helping athletes navigate their own transitions, focusing on the power of mindset and the fundamental skills that underpin peak performance. Our dialogue uncovers the layers of athlete identity, the struggles with self-doubt, and the path to mastering fundamentals that define a successful transition from sports to any next chapter in life.

    Key Discussion Points

    • The origin of Darren's nickname, "DMac," and its significance throughout his career.
    • Transitioning from a professional athlete to a mental performance coach and the realization that led to this career shift.
    • The role of athlete identity in performance and retirement, including the challenge of seeing oneself beyond an athletic career.
    • The universal struggle with self-doubt among professional athletes and strategies to overcome it.
    • Emphasizing the mastery of fundamentals in sports and their importance for long-term success.
    • The concept of balance through presence in various aspects of life, rather than striving for a traditional work-life balance.
    • Practical advice on cultivating mindfulness and presence in daily activities, from enjoying a meal to setting intentional goals in both professional and personal spheres.


    My conversation with DMac sheds light on the intricate journey from the baseball diamond to the field of mental performance coaching. His personal anecdotes, coupled with his professional insights, offer a roadmap for anyone facing a significant career transition or identity shift. His emphasis on mastering the fundamentals, whether in sports or life, alongside the need for presence and mindfulness, resonates beyond the athletic world. This episode is a reminder that the skills we cultivate in one arena can powerfully impact every other aspect of our lives, offering a foundation for growth, resilience, and fulfillment.

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    3 April 2024, 7:30 am
  • 41 minutes 39 seconds
    FROM THE VAULT: Ian Morgan Cron Talks About Enneagram Self-Discovery

    In this episode of the podcast, we delve deep into the realms of self-discovery and personal growth with the insightful Ian Morgan Cron, a renowned author and Enneagram expert. Our conversation, originally released in March 2022, revolves around Ian's book, "The Story of You," which introduces a fresh perspective on understanding our personalities through the Enneagram. As someone constantly seeking ways to better understand myself and enhance my productivity, I found Ian's approach not just fascinating but deeply helpful.

    Ian Morgan Cron's expertise illuminates the intricate ways our self-narratives shape our identities and behaviors. We explore how the Enneagram can act as a powerful tool for unraveling these narratives, offering a path to more authentic living. The discussion spans from the technicalities of identifying our Enneagram types to practical advice on confronting and rewriting the self-limiting stories we've clung to.

    Key Discussion Points

    • My curiosity about the Enneagram and the journey to discover my number with Ian's guidance.
    • Insights from "The Story of You" on how our personal stories and Enneagram types intertwine.
    • The concept of negative passions and virtues in the Enneagram, and how understanding these can foster personal growth.
    • The importance of recognizing and moving beyond stereotypes to truly understand our core Enneagram number and subtypes.
    • Reflecting on the role of the Enneagram in identifying and altering self-sabotaging narratives.
    • Strategies for using the Enneagram to explore our shadow sides and the impact of our stories on our lives and relationships.
    • Personal anecdotes from both Ian and myself on how the Enneagram has facilitated our paths to self-awareness and transformation.


    Understanding the Enneagram and its application in dissecting and rewriting our personal narratives holds immense power for anyone on a path to self-improvement. Ian's insights not only shed light on the complexities of human personality but also offer tangible steps towards cultivating a life of greater authenticity and fulfillment. Whether you're new to the Enneagram or looking to deepen your understanding, "The Story of You" is a resource I cannot recommend highly enough.

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    27 March 2024, 7:30 am
  • 39 minutes 24 seconds
    Lindsey Roy Talks About Overcoming Adversity with Perspective

    In this inspiring episode, I sit down with Lindsey Roy, who shares her incredible journey of overcoming adversity through a profound change in perspective. Lindsey's story of losing a leg and both lungs is nothing short of remarkable, and her insights into harnessing personal tragedy to cultivate wisdom and a new outlook on life are both enlightening and uplifting. Together, we delve into the power of perspective, the importance of vulnerability, and how these tools can significantly impact our mental well-being and productivity.

    Our discussion spans a wide array of topics, each offering valuable lessons on how to navigate life's toughest moments with grace and resilience. From personal stories of transformation to practical tips on managing time and productivity, this episode is a treasure trove of wisdom for anyone looking to find purpose in pain and to leverage life's challenges for personal growth.

    Key Discussion Points

    • Lindsey's journey of losing a leg and both lungs, leading her to write a book on perspective and wisdom.
    • The concept of "mental silence" and achieving focus by drowning out distractions.
    • Leveraging personal control over perspective for better mental well-being.
    • The importance of reframing negative thoughts and embracing vulnerability for personal growth.
    • The role of vulnerability in creating supportive environments and living in the moment.
    • The significance of gratitude and cherishing simple joys in life.


    To wrap up, this episode serves as a powerful reminder of the strength we all possess to face adversity head-on and come out stronger on the other side. Lindsey's story is a testament to the human spirit's resilience and the transformative power of perspective. Whether you're going through a tough time or just looking for inspiration to tackle everyday challenges, there's something in this conversation for you.

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    20 March 2024, 7:30 am
  • 57 minutes 8 seconds
    PM Talks S1E3: Nuance

    Welcome to the latest episode of our monthly series, PM Talks, where we delve deep into the nuances of productivity, creativity, and the art of living a thoughtful life. In this episode, Patrick and I have taken an explorative dive into the realms of language evolution, the essence of creativity, and the significance of nuance in our fast-paced world. It's a conversation that spans the spectrum of art and commerce, the dynamics of personal connections, and the profound impact of creativity on society.

    Key Discussion Points

    • The origins and evolving meanings of terms like "simpleton" and "Inbox Zero," highlighting the fluid nature of language and its impact on our understanding and communication.
    • The dangers of absolutism in a world that thrives on brevity, and the critical need for nuance to avoid miscommunication and misunderstandings.
    • The interplay between art and commerce, as discussed through personal anecdotes and experiences, emphasizing the subjective nature of art and its capacity for disruption.
    • Rick Rubin's influence on creativity and self-expression, with insights from his book "The Creative Act," advocating for risk-taking and evolution in the creative process.
    • The importance of tapping into existing energy and flow for creativity, contrasting the approaches of Steven Pressfield's "The War of Art" and Rick Rubin's "The Creative Act."
    • The unique ability of art and creativity to evoke personal interpretations and meanings, underscoring the diminishing presence of nuance in today's society.
    • The role of nuance in decision-making and productivity, highlighting the limitations of black-and-white thinking and advocating for a more nuanced, optimistic outlook.


    To wrap up, this episode has been a profound exploration of how nuance plays an indispensable role in enriching our productivity, creativity, and the way we perceive the world around us. As we dissected topics from language evolution to the essence of creativity, it became clear that embracing the complexities and subtleties of life can lead to deeper understanding and fulfillment. Remember, it's in the shades of gray that the full spectrum of human experience comes to light.

    As always, thank you for joining me on this journey. Until next time, keep seeking the nuance in everything you do.

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    13 March 2024, 7:30 am
  • 46 minutes 7 seconds
    Chris Knudsen Talks About Unconventional Business Wisdom

    In this episode, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Chris Knudsen, author of the non-traditional business book, "Trust Me, I'm a Consultant." Chris shared insights into the unconventional approach to writing a business book, reflecting on his extensive experience in the corporate world and his successful transition to self-employment. We delved into the heart of entrepreneurial spirit, the importance of self-education, and the value of learning from failures.

    Chris's journey from the corporate ladder to authoring a book during the challenging times of the COVID-19 pandemic is an inspirational one. Our conversation covered a wide range of topics, including the limitations of the university system, career development, entrepreneurship, and the pivotal moments that redefine our paths. Chris's perspective on happiness, productivity, and personal growth offers valuable lessons for anyone looking to navigate the complexities of today’s business world.

    Key Discussion Points

    • The process and challenges of writing "Trust Me, I'm a Consultant" during the COVID-19 pandemic.
    • Reflections on the limitations of the university system and the advocacy for self-education.
    • Insights into career development and the transition to self-employment at 35.
    • The importance of learning from business failures and the ability to bounce back through consulting work.
    • The concept of choosing happiness, overcoming complacency, and finding balance in life.
    • Strategies for prioritizing time and productivity in a busy world, including the significance of perspective and incremental progress.
    • The role of personal growth in decision-making and the emphasis on empathy and problem-solving in business.


    In wrapping up, Chris’s narrative is a powerful reminder that the path to success is not always linear. His story encourages us to embrace the unconventional, learn from our experiences, and always strive for personal and professional growth. Whether you’re contemplating a career shift, starting your own business, or seeking ways to enhance your productivity and happiness, Chris's insights offer valuable guidance.

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    6 March 2024, 8:30 am
  • 52 minutes 56 seconds
    FROM THE VAULT: Nir Eyal Talks About Mastering Focus By Being Indistractable

    In this episode, originally released in October 2019, I sit down with Nir Eyal. Nir is the author of "Indistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life". and is known for his groundbreaking work on habit formation and technology's impact on our lives, shares invaluable insights into the mechanisms of distraction and how we can harness them to live more fulfilling lives. As we navigate through the conversation, Nir's perspectives offer a fresh lens on productivity, self-control, and the pursuit of personal and professional growth.

    Our dialogue spans a wide array of topics, from the practical strategies outlined in "Indistractable" to the philosophical underpinnings of focus and distraction. We delve into Nir's distinction between traction and distraction, the importance of understanding internal triggers, and the practical steps we can take to become indistractable. With his unique blend of research-backed insights and personal anecdotes, Nir provides listeners with the tools to take control of their attention and, by extension, their lives.

    Key Discussion Points

    • The critical difference between traction and distraction and why mastering this distinction is key to productivity.
    • How to master internal triggers to enhance productivity and time management.
    • The role of willpower and self-control in managing both internal and external distractions.
    • The significance of identifying and reinforcing one's identity to combat distraction.
    • Strategies for effective communication, meal planning, and using productivity tools.
    • The concept of "effort packs" and "progressive extremism" for personal development.
    • The impact of technology on attention spans and the importance of digital minimalism.


    My conversation with Nir Eyal not only illuminates the hidden mechanisms of distraction but also equips us with the knowledge and tools to reclaim our focus. His book "Indistractable" is not just a manual for productivity; it's a blueprint for living a more intentional and fulfilling life. Whether you're struggling with distraction in your personal life, seeking to enhance your productivity at work, or simply interested in the intersection of technology and psychology, Nir's insights are sure to resonate and inspire.

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    28 February 2024, 8:30 am
  • 1 hour 2 minutes
    Haemin Sunim Talks About Zen Wisdom for Life's Challenges

    Welcome to this thought-provoking episode where I have the pleasure of speaking with Haemin Sunim, a Zen Buddhist teacher and celebrated author. Today, we delve into his latest book, When Things Don't Go Your Way: Zen Wisdom for Difficult Times, exploring the nuanced perspectives it offers on navigating the turbulent waters of life through the calming lens of Zen Buddhism. Haemin's unique writing style, which beautifully weaves together personal insights with quotes from various sources, makes the profound teachings of Zen accessible to all.

    Haemin is one of the most influential Zen Buddhist teachers and writers in South Korea, where his books have sold more than three million copies and are popular as guides not only to mediation but also to overcoming the challenges of everyday life. Born in South Korea, he came to the United States to study film, only to find himself pulled into the spiritual life. Educated at UC Berkeley, Harvard, and Princeton, he received formal monastic training in Korea and taught Buddhism at Hampshire College in Amherst, Massachusetts. He lives in Seoul when not traveling to share his teachings.

    Our conversation covers a wide range of topics, from the therapeutic power of journaling to the subtle differences between contentment and happiness. Haemin shares his personal journey of facing fears head-on and finding peace in the present moment. His insights are not just philosophical musings but practical advice that can be seamlessly integrated into daily life. Through our dialogue, we uncover the layers of wisdom hidden in everyday experiences and discuss how to embrace life's imperfections gracefully.

    Key Discussion Points

    • The importance of talking to one's fears to understand and overcome them.
    • Differentiating contentment from happiness: finding peace in acceptance.
    • The therapeutic benefits of journaling for uncovering and facing fears.
    • Embracing the present moment to find joy in everyday experiences.
    • The distinction between a "doing-centered" life and a "being-centered" life.
    • The significance of self-worth and appreciating the inherent value of life.
    • Facing and accepting uncomfortable emotions for personal growth and insight.


    My conversation with Haemin Sunim offers a refreshing perspective on life's challenges and the pursuit of happiness. His wisdom encourages us to slow down, appreciate the present, and find contentment in the simplicity of being. Whether you're facing difficult times or simply seeking a deeper understanding of yourself and the world around you, Haemin's insights provide a valuable guide for navigating life with grace and mindfulness.

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    21 February 2024, 8:30 am
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