Stories of Entrepreneurs that Inspire Change
In today’s episode, I’m joined by the remarkable Ryan George. Ryan is the author of the book, Hurt and Healed by the Church: Redemption and Reconstruction After Spiritual Abuse.
He spent the first 20 years of his life in a cult, attending a series of independent fundamental Baptist (IFB) churches, including one where his dad was a pastor with ultimate authority. Later in life, Ryan was confronted with the devastating truth of his father's serial sexual abuse.
Despite the trauma he experienced, Ryan didn't abandon his faith. After leaving the spiritually abusive IFB movement, he embarked on a 25-year journey of reevaluation and reconstruction. Today, through his blog, books, interviews, and spiritual adventure company, Dude Group, Ryan offers hope for those navigating their own paths of healing.
I do want to warn our listeners that this episode focuses on sensitive subjects like church hurt and sexual abuse. However, Ryan’s story is so powerful, and filled with hope, compassion, and healing.
2:48 – Ryan 101
Oldest of six homeschooled children + a pastor’s son Husband and adoptive father Adventurer and blogger Author of 3 books
6:51 – The Path To Healing
Discovering his father’s abuse Navigating the aftermath Sharing his story to help others
18:16 – Jesus’ Model Of Justice
Jesus as a model for handling anger and betrayal Pursuing justice with compassion Seeking Heaven on Earth
33:31 – Finding The Real Jesus
What identifies a cult from a healthy church environment Ryan’s experience with IFB churches Seeking out the authentic Jesus Recognizing that churches have both moments of beauty and moments of failure
54:54 – Takeaways
Being the person that confesses first Podcast recording stories Connecting with Ryan
FEATURED QUOTES
"Wounds from relationships are only healed in relationships... And I think that wounds from the church can only be healed not necessarily in a church building, but by people who also love Jesus." “Give people the gift of going second... You have to start with yourself, or it can spin in some very horrible places. You become a bomb thrower…. I want to be the person that confesses first, so that people go, ‘Oh, that’s the real thing.’”
Learn more about Ryan:
Instagram:
https://www.booksbyryan.com/
Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/ryan.george
Ryan’s Website
https://www.booksbyryan.com/
Check out Ryan’s books:
https://www.booksbyryan.com/books/
Explorience:
https://explorience.org/about/
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About Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder?
Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Podcast is a weekly podcast where we have honest conversations about faith, business, life, and everything in between. Hosted by speaker and author, Molly Stillman, her mission is to make you laugh, cry, and laugh till you cry. She wants to create a community of people who are unafraid to be themselves and have honest conversations about the things that matter most. Her vision is to create a safe space for people to explore their faith and share their stories and gifts with the world.
Melissa Kruger serves as the Vice President of Discipleship Programming at The Gospel Coalition. As an author and Bible teacher, she regularly teaches women in her community and speaks at conferences around the country.
I’m so excited to have her on the show today to talk about her latest book, Parenting with Hope: Raising Teens For Christ in a Secular Age, and dive into the ins and outs of raising teenagers. We talk about transitioning with your children as they grow, modeling a life of faith, creating a prayerful home, and so much more.
In a culture that often implies that the teenage years are miserable and difficult, Melissa encourages parents to not overlook the beauty and joy in this chapter. Whether you're a parent, teacher, or simply someone who influences young lives, this conversation is SO important, and I can’t wait for you to hear it!
2:00 – Melissa 101
6:42 – Changing The Parenting Narrative
14:21 – The Gracious Home Vs. The Permissive Home
21:25 – Parenting Through Different Stages
33:03 – Modeling Faith
FEATURED QUOTES
“I think growing up with our teen in some ways, is remaining curious about who they are and not making assumptions about why they're pushing back on something.”
“I think it's really tempting as a parent sometimes to place a lot of our identity and in our teen…we start trying to control who they become, rather than walk alongside them as they're becoming who God made them to be.”
“Learning how to make a mistake is actually a life lesson.”
“I always say aim for patterns, not perfection.”
Learn more about Melissa:
Get your copy of Parenting with Hope
https://www.amazon.com/Parenting-Hope-Raising-Christ-Secular-ebook/dp/B0CFTGDKJ1
The Gospel Coalition
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/
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Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Podcast is a weekly podcast where we have honest conversations about faith, business, life, and everything in between. Hosted by speaker and author, Molly Stillman, her mission is to make you laugh, cry, and laugh till you cry. She wants to create a community of people who are unafraid to be themselves and have honest conversations about the things that matter most. Her vision is to create a safe space for people to explore their faith and share their stories and gifts with the world.
My guest this week is the lovely Myquillyn Smith, also known as The Nester. She is a New York Times and Wall Street Journal best-selling author of Welcome Home and Cozy Minimalist Home. For over a decade, she has been encouraging women to embrace imperfections and live boldly in their spaces through her blog.
Myquillyn’s home in North Carolina has been featured in publications such as Better Homes and Gardens, Ladies Home Journal, Cottages and Bungalows, and more. As a practicing imperfectionist, she believes in the power of small changes, putting nail holes in the wall, and taking the time to make a place feel like home – even if you’re renting.
I thoroughly enjoyed getting to know her, hearing her perspective on creating a space you’ll love, and learning more about her latest book, House Rules, which is set to release on April 23rd. I just know you’re going to love her too!
3:07 – Myquillyn 101
9:55 – Making a Home
17:45 – Establishing Roots Where You Are
29:06 – Design Insights
38:39 – Embracing Imperfection
FEATURED QUOTES
“I’ve never met a home I haven’t loved. I believe every home has a silver lining.”
“I 100% believe it doesn’t have to be perfect to be beautiful.”
“Where else can we take a risk if not at home?”
Learn more about Myquillyn:
Pre-order House Rules:
https://www.amazon.com/House-Rules-Decorate-Every-Budget/dp/0800744748
The Nester
The Nester podcast
https://thenester.com/podcast/
Myquillyn on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/thenester/?hl=en
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Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Podcast is a weekly podcast where we have honest conversations about faith, business, life, and everything in between. Hosted by speaker and author, Molly Stillman, her mission is to make you laugh, cry, and laugh till you cry. She wants to create a community of people who are unafraid to be themselves and have honest conversations about the things that matter most. Her vision is to create a safe space for people to explore their faith and share their stories and gifts with the world.
My guest this week is the incredible Mattie Jackson Smith. Mattie is an author, podcaster, and speaker whose life took an unexpected turn when she tragically lost her 28-year-old husband to a traumatic brain injury just weeks before their first anniversary.
Her first book, Lemons on Friday, offers a raw and honest account of her journey through grief, providing solace and guidance to others navigating the lonely and difficult path of widowhood. Outside of her writing career, Mattie is the host of the podcast In Joy Life, where she encourages her listeners to choose joy in any season or circumstance.
We dive deep into Mattie’s story today as she transparently shares what it looked like to wrestle with God in life’s darkest moments, ask hard questions, and bring her hurt and doubts to Jesus. She has so many powerful things to say about finding God in the questions and navigating life after loss. I absolutely loved getting to spend time with her in this episode and know you will too!
2:21 – Mattie 101
14:04 – Honesty in Grief
24:45 – Finding God in the Questions
36:09 – Navigating New Beginnings
FEATURED QUOTES
“I lived my life and the worst thing I could have imagined happened. And through that God not only has worked miracles in me through the grief and healing process, but he fulfilled this desire that he planted in my heart at 19.”
“God not only can handle it but invites me to bring it to Him.”
“What I hope people see from my life is you do have agency to choose joy, even in the worst of the worst of it.”
Learn more about Mattie:
Get your copy of Lemons on Friday
https://www.amazon.com/Lemons-Friday-Trusting-Greatest-Heartbreak/dp/0785241272
In Joy Life podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/in-joy-life-with-mattie-jackson/id1667357187
Mattie on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/mattiejackson/?hl=en
Mattie on Facebook
Join me in this week's episode as I sit down with my dear friend and extraordinary human being, Kim Butler. Kim is the lead coach and founder of The Whiteboard Room, where she empowers creatives, leaders, and companies to unlock their true potential through one-on-one coaching, workshops, and speaking engagements.
With a heart fueled by faith, family, and a passion for adventure (and a Diet Dr. Pepper), Kim's coaching journey has touched countless lives, including my own. I’m thrilled to have her on the show to share more about her story, her mentoring process and what it looks like to set personal and professional goals and walk them out in faith.
3:53 – Kim 101
8:25 – Following God’s Call
16:32 – In The Waiting
23:27 – The Creation of The Whiteboard Method
32:04 – A Work in Progress
FEATURED QUOTES
“Goal setting became this like linchpin that I started to see, wow, there's so much power in this very simple thing. And nobody does it.”
“Your platform is not your purpose. It is just the place that you get to live out your purpose.”
“To know where you’re going and who you want to be, you have to know where you’ve been and who you are.”
Learn more about Kim and The Whiteboard Room:
https://www.thewhiteboardroom.com/
https://www.instagram.com/thewhiteboardroom/
https://www.facebook.com/THEWBROOM/
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About Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder?
Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Podcast is a weekly podcast where we have honest conversations about faith, business, life, and everything in between. Hosted by speaker and author, Molly Stillman, her mission is to make you laugh, cry, and laugh till you cry. She wants to create a community of people who are unafraid to be themselves and have honest conversations about the things that matter most. Her vision is to create a safe space for people to explore their faith and share their stories and gifts with the world.
The day is FINALLY here! Yesterday marked the official launch of my book, which means you can now purchase If I Don’t Laugh I’ll Cry everywhere books are sold!
To make this moment even more special, I'm joined by the one and only John Stillman in today’s episode. Although he didn’t prepare his interview questions (but don’t you worry- he never fails to prepare a joke or two) we had a blast reminiscing about the journey of bringing this book to life.
From the initial days of the writing process to receiving my first-ever feedback from early readers, every step of this adventure has been nothing short of incredible.
I want to extend a heartfelt thank you to each and every one of you who has supported me on this journey. Whether you've preordered the book, left a review, or simply shared in the excitement, your support means the world to me.
If you’re planning to get your hands on a copy soon, I can’t wait for you to read it!
Until next time, happy listening + happy reading!
0:11 – Presidents, Past Boyfriends & The Making of a Memoir
8:09 – … Now What?
14:32 – Chapter By Chapter
21:07 – Completing the Book
29:16 – Final Thoughts
FEATURED QUOTES
“The initial idea was really just to tell a debt story... I think as I began to work on the outline I realized that more of that backstory needed to be included than I think I originally thought.”
“I think the thing I'm most looking forward to is hearing the stories of people who are reading it.”
“I can say, I'm not I'm not sick of myself. That sounds really weird to say, but I mean… I'm not sick of this book. Like, I'm not over it. I am more excited about it than ever. And I'm just genuinely excited for people to read it.”
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About Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder?
Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Podcast is a weekly podcast where we have honest conversations about faith, business, life, and everything in between. Hosted by speaker and author, Molly Stillman, her mission is to make you laugh, cry, and laugh till you cry. She wants to create a community of people who are unafraid to be themselves and have honest conversations about the things that matter most. Her vision is to create a safe space for people to explore their faith and share their stories and gifts with the world.
This week, I'm thrilled to welcome the most special guest ever on my show- my dad. With the release of my book just around the corner (coming out next week- can you believe it?!) I couldn’t think of a better time to have him on the podcast. Together, we dig into some of the stories that are (and aren’t) talked about in my book.
Join us as we laugh, reminisce, and share stories of the joys, the challenges, and everything in between. My dad has such powerful things to say about gratitude, slowing down, choosing love, and finding joy in the darkest of moments. This conversation is so special to me, and I am so excited to share it with you today.
Without further ado, let’s jump into this conversation with Tom Buckley.
3:34 – Tom 101
26:49 – Parenting Perspectives
36:28 – Choosing Love
48:28 – Rule 62
48:28 – Life lessons at 80
FEATURED QUOTES
“That's what life is about. It isn't about failure, it's about getting back up.”
“If you take yourself too seriously, you just lose sight of all the things that really are important.”
“In the ‘getting through it’ stage, you gain experience and knowledge that you can use to get out of it. You can find places for help and guidance that will work.”
“You want to see who the winners are? Follow the laughter.”
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My guest this week is the hilarious Dustin Nickerson, a comedian from Seattle now suffering in Southern California. In 2020 he released his debut comedy special Overwhelmed, which is currently one of the highest-rated specials on Amazon Prime.
His humor has graced the screens of Comedy Central, Netflix with Kevin Hart, The Late Late Show with James Corden, Fox, and Hulu, and his stand-up clips have garnered tens of millions of views. Dustin is also the author of How To Be Married To Melissa and co-host of the podcast Don’t Make Me Come Back There.
If you want to laugh today, this is the episode for you! I have been a long-time fan of Dustin’s work and I’m so excited to have him on the show today to share his perspective on life, marriage, comedy, and more. You’re going to love this one!
12:07 – Dustin 101, Toby Keith, and Bojangles
Dustin’s Twitter bio Molly’s first date at a Toby Keith concert Bojangles Biscuits Dustin’s fan base
21:46 – Set Bedtimes and Mouthguards
Adult parties need bedtimes Middle-aged friendships The beauty of marriage
27:40 – If I Don’t Laugh, I’ll Cry
Dustin and Melissa’s viral video Dustin’s relatable humor Evolving as a comedian
33:44 – Finding Your Funny
Authenticity in creativity Bombing in stand-up Understanding your audience
41:41 – The Solider Dog, The Late Late Show and Dustin’s Book
Dustin’s memorable career moments The dedication behind success Connecting with Dustin
FEATURED QUOTES
"The only way to get good at stand-up comedy is to do stand-up comedy."
“No comedian is beloved by everybody. You're not trying to get everyone to love you. You're trying to get the people that do love you, or will love your stuff, to find you.”
Learn more about Dustin:
Dustin on Tour:
https://www.dustinnickerson.com/
Dustin’s Comedy Specials:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCs2QQYow6VX9nDpDwCspiqQ
Dustin on social media:
https://www.facebook.com/dustinnickersoncomedy
https://www.instagram.com/dustinnickerson/?hl=en
https://twitter.com/DustinNickerson
How To Be Married To Melissa:
https://www.thomasnelson.com/p/how-to-be-married-to-melissa/
Don’t Make Me Come Back There Podcast:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-make-me-come-back-there-with-dustin-melissa-nickerson/id1434215707?mt=2
Melissa’s Target Outfit Video:
https://www.tiktok.com/@dustinnickersoncomedy/video/7327676165953457451
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About Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder?
Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Podcast is a weekly podcast where we have honest conversations about faith, business, life, and everything in between. Hosted by speaker and author, Molly Stillman, her mission is to make you laugh, cry, and laugh till you cry. She wants to create a community of people who are unafraid to be themselves and have honest conversations about the things that matter most. Her vision is to create a safe space for people to explore their faith and share their stories and gifts with the world.
We have such an incredible guest joining us for today’s show! Bola Sokunbi is a certified financial instructor (CFEI), money expert, speaker, and founder of Clever Girl Finance, one of the largest personal finance media platforms for women in the U.S.
Bola received the 2021 Financial Education Instructor of the Year Award from the National Council of Financial Educators and is a 4x best-selling author of the Clever Finance Series and her book, Choosing To Prosper. She is passionate about helping women take control of their money stories and live life on their terms.
Bola has such amazing things to say about breaking free from a limiting money mindset, being intentional, and giving yourself grace along your financial journey. I could not be more excited to have her back on the show with us today to share her story and wisdom with all of you!
4:49 – Bola 201
22:35 – Embracing Imperfections in Money Management
40:57 – The Wealth Paradox
51:24 – Final Takeaways
FEATURED QUOTES
“I had an idea that I wanted to build a business that would help women- that would empower women to not feel any shame or any judgment about their finances.”
“Automation is a tool that can help you save and help you get out of debt faster, that can help you invest more. Leverage the tools and resources that can help you help yourself.”
“Give yourself that grace. We’re all making money mistakes.”
“Money is not anything. It's a tool. It doesn't make you good, it doesn't make you evil, it doesn't make you kind, it doesn't make you hideous… it… amplifies who you are. If you're a good person, you're a great person with money. If you're an evil person, you're a worse person with money. It’s a tool.”
Learn more about Bola:
https://www.clevergirlfinance.com/
Clever Girl Finance Book Series
https://www.amazon.com/stores/Bola-Sokunbi/author/B076GP7FS3
Bola’s book, Choosing To Prosper
https://www.amazon.com/Choosing-Prosper-Triumphing-Adversity-Achieving-ebook/dp/B0B4V644NT
The Clever Girls Know Podcast
https://www.clevergirlfinance.com/podcast/
Clever Girl Finance on social media
https://www.instagram.com/clevergirlfinance/
https://www.youtube.com/clevergirlfinance
https://www.facebook.com/clevergirlfinance/
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About Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder?
Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Podcast is a weekly podcast where we have honest conversations about faith, business, life, and everything in between. Hosted by speaker and author, Molly Stillman, her mission is to make you laugh, cry, and laugh till you cry. She wants to create a community of people who are unafraid to be themselves and have honest conversations about the things that matter most. Her vision is to create a safe space for people to explore their faith and share their stories and gifts with the world.
I am so incredibly excited to sit down with Joy Clarkson in this week’s episode. Joy wears many hats - from being a research associate in theology and literature at King’s College London to serving as the Books and Culture Editor for Plough Quarterly.
Completing her Ph.D. in theology at the University of Saint Andrews, she's also the face behind the popular podcast Speaking with Joy and the author of several books, including her latest release, You Are a Tree, which we chat about today.
This conversation was so rich, and it was such a delight to unpack some of the powerful metaphors found in scripture together. I hope you join us as we learn more about the inspiration behind Joy’s new book and talk about how God uses imagery and nature to help us better understand ourselves, our relationships, and the mysteries of life.
7:06 – Joy 101
13:03 – The Origin Story for Joy’s book
18:50 – Nature’s Lessons
26:44 – Metaphors of Mystery
40:59 – Final Takeaways
FEATURED QUOTES
“Scripture itself… it's not just a rulebook…doesn't give us a bunch of abstract, philosophical truths about God- it draws on our experiences of the natural world, and our experiences of light and height and depth, to help us understand ourselves and our relationship with God.”
“I think metaphors kind of keep us open to the many facets of things and the mystery of being alive.”
“We are created to belong in this world, and to have a relationship [with] it and to find meaning in it.”
“To be in the world and to flourish we do need to have roots, we do need to be like a tree and stay in one place. But even the best tree human life is still a temporary life and we still have this sense of belonging for a home that isn't here."
Learn more about Joy:
https://joyclarkson.substack.com/about
Check out You Are a Tree:
https://www.amazon.com/You-Are-Tree-Metaphors-Nourish/dp/0764238256
Check out Aggressively Happy:
Speaking with Joy podcast:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/speaking-with-joy/id1310614879
Joy on social media:
https://www.instagram.com/joynessthebrave/?hl=en
https://www.facebook.com/p/Joy-Clarkson-100063508753020/
https://twitter.com/joynessthebrave?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor
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About Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder?
Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Podcast is a weekly podcast where we have honest conversations about faith, business, life, and everything in between. Hosted by speaker and author, Molly Stillman, her mission is to make you laugh, cry, and laugh till you cry. She wants to create a community of people who are unafraid to be themselves and have honest conversations about the things that matter most. Her vision is to create a safe space for people to explore their faith and share their stories and gifts with the world.
My guest this week is the amazing Donna Jones. Donna is a national speaker, church planter, pastor’s wife, and self-described bible explainer with a remarkable speaking portfolio spanning 26 states and 4 continents.
Donna is also the host of the weekly That's Just What I Needed podcast and the talented author behind Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God, Taming Your Family Zoo, the Get Healthy Bible Study Series, and more.
In honor of her newest book, Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life, she joins us today to share powerful strategies for handling conflicts with grace and truth. We talk about everything from navigating disagreements to the biblical foundations of forgiveness. I know there is something valuable in this conversation for everyone- get ready for a good one!
2:29 – Donna 101
7:04 – Healthily Handling Conflict
18:31 – The Art of Listening & Disagreeing Gracefully
34:20 – Forgiveness
49:28 – Takeaways
FEATURED QUOTES
“I would like to hope that this book serves the purpose to help people avoid things that will make them regret how they handled some conflict in their life.”
“If you have conflict with someone, it does not mean you are a bad person, they are a bad person, or your relationship is somehow defective or bad.”
“When we invite Jesus into those spaces, He doesn't shame us. He sympathizes because He leans towards us and He whispers, ‘I know. I felt it too. I get it. I understand. And I can help.’”
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