- 19 minutes 58 secondsMenopause Inflammation Myths: Sugar, Seed Oils & Pain
This year's World Menopause Day theme is chronic pain in midlife, so I'm following up my conversation with Robyn Kievit NP RD (ep 209) on hormones and joint pain by walking you through the differences between pain and inflammation, and sharing five evidence-based tips for managing pain in midlife and menopause. I also share why I'm cautious about the collagen, turmeric and eggshell membrane supplements filling so many cupboards.
If you're living with chronic pain in perimenopause or menopause, I hope this helps you spend less time worrying about every bite and more time adding in the things that work.
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RELATED EPISODES
Episode 209 Menopause Joint Pain: Estrogen, Hormones & Food Myths
Episode 204 Day 4: Add, Don't Subtract - A Better Way to Think About Menopause Nutrition
Episode 200 Oatmeal, Overthinking, and Why Food Feels So Complicated in MenopauseWhat did you think of this episode? Click here and let me know!
📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now! Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.
19 October 2026, 3:00 pm - 36 minutes 53 secondsBody Image in Midlife and the GLP-1 Era with Dr. Charlotte Markey
For most of my life, I believed that changing my body was the answer to how I felt in it. As a teenager, after my pregnancies, and again in perimenopause, I was sure that losing weight would finally let me stop thinking about my body. It didn't, and the research tells us I'm far from alone.
Today I'm joined by Dr. Charlotte Markey, body image scientist and psychology professor at Rutgers University. We dig into what body image is, why weight loss so rarely delivers the comfort it promises, and how GLP-1 medications are changing the body image landscape.
We talk about:
• Charlotte's simple definition of body image: how comfortable you are in your own skin
• Why body dissatisfaction often moves to a new target after weight loss
• Her research showing that people with more body acceptance felt less pull toward GLP-1s
• Informed consent, body autonomy, and what to ask yourself before starting a medication to feel better in your body
• The freedom in remembering that we don't work in Hollywood
• Why acceptance needs a rebrand
If you've ever believed a smaller body would finally bring you peace, this conversation is for you.
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Website: https://www.thebodyimagebook.com
Instagram: @char_markey
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Un-Diet Your Mindset Guide: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/undietyourmindset
RELATED EPISODES
Episode 197: Menopause and Body Image: How to Accept Your Changing Body with Alli Spotts-De-Lazzer, LMFT, CEDS-C()
Episode 186: GLP-1s, Intuitive Eating & Finding Food Freedom: A Conversation with Sam Previte RDEpisode 109: The Body Acceptance Mistake That’s Keeping You Stuck in the Suck
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📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now! Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.
12 October 2026, 9:00 am - 45 minutes 54 secondsMenopause Joint Pain: Estrogen, Hormones & Food Myths
Joint pain, stiffness and those tin man mornings are some of the most common symptoms of menopause, yet they don't get the same air time as hot flashes and mood swings. With World Menopause Day on October 18 focusing on chronic pain this year, I invited Robyn Kievit, NP, RD, CEDS, MSCP, the first dietitian to become a nurse practitioner, to help me unpack what is going on in our joints and muscles.
We talk about why estrogen matters for muscles, joints and connective tissue, why the ups and downs of perimenopause can feel harder than life after menopause, and what the research says about hormone therapy and pain. We also dig into the testosterone hype versus the evidence, what to consider if you are thinking about starting hormones later, and why it is okay if hormones don't work for you.
We also put on our dietitian hats, and you'll hear why no single food is inflammatory or anti-inflammatory, why your overall pattern of eating matters more than any one meal, and how to think about the supplements piling up in your cupboard.
If your joints and muscles are aching, I hope this conversation helps you feel less alone and more prepared for your next appointment.
CONNECT WITH ROBYN
Website: https://robynkievit.com
Beyond Nutrition course for dietitians and clinicians: https://robynkievit.com/course (use code JENN10)
JOIN ME
Join Robyn and me live in the Midlife Feast Community for a hormone therapy Q&A on October 14. The recording will be avaialble to watch anytime in The Feaster Library.Start your 7-day trial: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/7daytrial
Book a connection call with me: https://p.bttr.to/3DQX9SF
FREE SUPPORT
Grab my Free Menopause Nutrition Guide + 10 Recipes: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/MenopauseNutritionGuide
RELATED EPISODES
Episode 164 Autoimmune Disease in Midlife: Beyond Diet Culture Myths with Dr. Alison Danby ND:
Episode 67 Hot Flashes 101: Can you eat to beat the heat?Episode 142 Non-Hormonal Alternatives to HRT with Dr. Suzanne Gilberg-Lenz:
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📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now! Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.
5 October 2026, 10:00 am - 30 minutes 12 secondsMenopause and Disordered Eating: A Midlife Reality Check
If you've ever wondered whether your "healthy eating" has started to feel more like anxiety, this episode is for you.
This week I'm joined by Jessica Thiefels, host of Nope, That's Not Normal, to talk about disordered eating. That's the wide, often invisible space between a relaxed relationship with food and eating disorders. Jess shares how a restrictive healing protocol in her twenties slowly turned into a decade of rigid eating, and the moment she said out loud, "I think I'm straddling the line."
I open up about my own story too, including the food lists I once handed out to my patients. Together we talk about some of the signs to watch for like rigidity, anxiety, and a "cleaner" standard you can never reach. We also get into why midlife is such a vulnerable time: a lifetime of body dissatisfaction meets intense menopause nutrition messaging, and women are praised for the very behaviours that are wearing them down.
Jess is hosting the first Disordered Eating Awareness Week, October 19 to 23. I'm on the midlife panel on October 20, and it's free to join.
If this conversation stirs something up, please be gentle with yourself. You don't have to figure it out alone.
Join Disordered Eating Awareness Week (free): https://disorderedeatingawarenessweek.com
Want support?
- Book a no-strings connection call (virtual coffee with me): https://f.mtr.cool/HNVSNHTOCU
- Try the Midlife Feast Community free for 7 days: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/7daytrial
Free support to get you started:
- Un-Diet Your Mindset: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/undietyourmindset
- Food Guilt Decoder: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/FoodGuiltDecoder
Related episodes:
- #113 Clean Eating Pitfalls in Midlife & Menopause with Dr. Morgan Francis: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/15069896
- #55 Raising the Red Flag About Eating Disorders in Midlife with Val Schonberg, RD: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/12276579
- #94 How to Trade Wellness Culture for Well-being in Midlife with Christy Harrison, RD: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/14177909
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📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now! Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.
24 September 2026, 8:00 am - 42 minutes 50 secondsMidlife, Body Image, and the Ads that Influenced GenX with Lu Chekowsky.
Most of us can still remember the diet ads from our youth. We can't remember why we walked into the kitchen, but we can remember the jingle.
My guest this week is Lu Chekowsky, an Emmy Award winning creative director who spent her career inside the industry, spending time at MTV and Facebook, all while quietly struggling with her own body. Her memoir, Don't Buy What I'm Selling, traces the origin of how those messages shaped her, and how she found her way back out.
We talk about the ads that shaped Gen X, what really happens in the room when a campaign gets built, and why Lu says we are outnumbered. She means that as a kindness.
If you have ever wondered why the food noise is so loud, and why diet culture is everwhere, this one will explain a lot.
Learn more about Lu and where to buy her book at https://www.lchekowsky.com/
Related episodes:
- Menopause and Body Image: How to Accept Your Changing Body with Alli Spotts-De-Lazzer
- Why You Don't Trust Yourself Around Food (and How to Rebuild It) with Fiona Sutherland
- Day 1: How to Un-Diet in Midlife and Menopause
Need help un-dieting your way out from diet culture?
- Book a 20-minute Midlife & Strategy Session Call: https://p.bttr.to/3DQX9SF
- Exlore the Feaster community and find food freedom and body confidence: https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/themidlifefeastcommunity
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📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now! Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.
21 September 2026, 6:00 am - 21 minutes 18 secondsFrom Project Manager to Body Partner in Midlife and Menopause
Welcome to a new season of The Midlife Feast! I'm kicking off this season by naming the mindset that might be making things harder: treating your body, midlife, and menopause like an ongoing project to manage.
I walk through what that costs, how it shows up in real life, and how we can shift from obsessive optimization to a steadier partnership with our bodies, including:
• the core question that changes everything: what if your body wasn’t a project to solve?
• the moving finish line and why “enough” never arrives
• the audit mode where meals and movement become performance metrics
• how tracking, wearables, and nonstop data can disrupt body attunement
• the betrayal narrative and my own reminder that these thoughts can show up even after years of intuitive eating
• shifting from project manager to partner and the questions that create ease
Related Episodes- The One Thing Menopause Dietitians Want You to Know About Nutrition with Laura Clark, RD
- Why You Don't Trust Yourself Around Food (and How to Rebuild It) with Fiona Sutherland
- How to Appreciate Your Changing Menopause Body with Dr. Charlotte Ord
Want more support?
- Free Un-Diet Your Mindset Guide→ https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/undietyourmindset
- Join my Group Coaching Community free for 7 days → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/7daytrial
- Book a no-strings connection call (virtual coffee with me) → https://p.bttr.to/3DQX9SF
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📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now! Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.
14 September 2026, 1:00 pm - 18 minutes 28 secondsDay 5: The Middle Ground Between Dieting and Giving Up
Welcome to Day 5, the final episode of the Midlife & Menopause Un-Dieting Mini-Series!
Over the last four days, we've explored four pillars that can help you build a more trusting, flexible relationship with food: understanding, self-compassion, attunement, and gentle nutrition.
But what happens when you put them all together?
In this episode, we're looking at the fear that stops many people from letting go of food rules: If I stop dieting, does that mean I stop caring about my health?
The answer is no!
You'll learn how to use nutrition knowledge without turning it into another set of rules, and how to care for your health without making food a full-time job.
Because the alternative to dieting isn't giving up. It's finding a way of eating that actually works for real life.
Free support to get you started:
- Un-Diet Your Mindset → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/undietyourmindset
- Food Guilt Decoder → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/FoodGuiltDecoder
Want more support?
- Try the Midlife Feast Community free for 7 days → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/7daytrial
- Book a no-strings connection call (virtual coffee with me) → https://p.bttr.to/3DQX9SF
Related episodes:
- Day 1 → https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/19715276
- Day 2 → https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/19720938
- Day 3 →https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/19721372
- Day 4 →https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/19728345
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📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now! Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.
1 September 2026, 12:00 pm - 10 minutesDay 4: Add, Don't Subtract - A Better Way to Think About Menopause Nutrition
Welcome back to Day 4 of my Midlife and Menopause Un-Dieting series. Yesterday I asked you to sit with one question: what do I want? It's sometimes easier to outsource "what should I eat?" than to honestly ask what you want. Today we add the other half: what do I need? And that's where gentle nutrition comes in.
Un-dieting doesn't mean throwing nutrition out the window. It means bringing it in as information, not another set of rules. The trap is that diet culture has made weight loss a proxy for everything, and I firmly believe that your health should not become a full-time job!
So we come back to the question of this series: what would taking care of myself look like if I didn't require my body to get smaller in return? That widens the lens. That's what I love about gentle nutrition: instead of asking what to cut out, you get to ask what you can add.
Your practice for today: ask what do I want, then add what do I need, and see what happens when you let both into the conversation.
Tomorrow is Day 5, where we bring all four pillars together so food and eating feel easier. Because menopause is hard enough. Food shouldn't be!
Free support to get you started:
- Un-Diet Your Mindset → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/undietyourmindset
- Food Guilt Decoder → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/FoodGuiltDecoder
Want more support?
- Try the Midlife Feast Community free for 7 days → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/7daytrial
- Book a no-strings connection call (virtual coffee with me) → https://p.bttr.to/3DQX9SF
Related episodes:
- Day 1 → https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/19715276
- Day 2 → https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/19720938
- Day 3 →https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/19721372
What did you think of this episode? Click here and let me know!
📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now! Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.
31 August 2026, 7:00 am - 10 minutes 53 secondsDay 3: What Do You Actually Want? How to Stop Overthinking What to Eat
Welcome to day 3 of the Midlife & Menopause Un-Dieting Series. If you’ve spent years following food rules, tracking what you eat, or being told you can’t trust yourself around food, “just listen to your body” can feel like a foreign language.
In today’s episode, we’re talking about attunement - what it actually means, why your hunger and satisfaction cues may feel hard to hear, and how to start reconnecting with them.
I also share a very real-life reminder that capability and capacity are not the same thing, plus a simple 10-second practice to try before your next meal.
Free support to get you started:
- Un-Diet Your Mindset → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/undietyourmindset
- Food Guilt Decoder → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/FoodGuiltDecoder
Want more support?
- Try the Midlife Feast Community free for 7 days → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/7daytrial
- Book a no-strings connection call (virtual coffee with me) → https://p.bttr.to/3DQX9SF
Related episodes:
- Day 1 — How to Un-Diet in Midlife and Menopause → https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/19715276
- Day 2 → https://www.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/19720938
What did you think of this episode? Click here and let me know!
📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now! Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.
30 August 2026, 9:00 am - 8 minutes 45 secondsDay 2: "I Know What to Do, I Just Don't Do It" - Why Diets Fail in Midlife
Welcome back to Day 2 of my Midlife and Menopause Un-Dieting series. Yesterday we talked about the diet cycle - the plan, the tracking, the promise that this time you'll have more discipline… until life gets lifey and it all falls apart. Today I want to gently blow up the story we tell ourselves next: that we failed because we don't have enough willpower.
Here's what I hear all the time: "I know what to do, I just don't do it." And I get it! You do know that protein matters and that eating nothing all day leaves you eating crackers out of the box at 9pm. The problem was never that you don't care enough. The real question is: what are you actually asking yourself to do?
In this episode I redefine self-compassion (hint: it's not about being nice to yourself), unpack why all-or-nothing thinking keeps the cycle spinning, and remind you that health does not require perfect eating.
Tomorrow: attunement, and how to listen to your body without turning intuitive eating into another set of rules.
Free support to get you started:
- Un-Diet Your Mindset → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/undietyourmindset
- Food Guilt Decoder → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/FoodGuiltDecoder
Want more support?
- Try the Midlife Feast Community free for 7 days → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/7daytrial
- Book a no-strings connection call (virtual coffee with me) → https://p.bttr.to/3DQX9SF
Related episodes:
- Day 1 — How to Un-Diet in Midlife and Menopause → https://themidlifefeast.buzzsprout.com/1851576/episodes/19715276-day-1-how-to-un-diet-in-midlife-and-menopause
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📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now! Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.
29 August 2026, 8:00 am - 9 minutes 20 secondsDay 1 - How to Un-Diet in Midlife and Menopause
Half a million downloads. I'm still a little speechless! To celebrate, I'm doing a five-day un-dieting mini-series, and Day 1 starts with the one question I want you to carry into every episode: What would taking care of myself look like if I didn't require my body to get smaller in return?
In this short episode I explain why un-dieting isn't the same as "not dieting." Un-dieting is unlearning, letting go of the default programming that says your body has to shrink in exchange for eating a vegetable, moving your body, or adding more protein to your plate. I walk you through the diet cycle I see so many of us stuck in, why it stops working, and how even "weight-neutral" goals can quietly pull you right back in.
No download or signup required, just a few minutes a day for the next 5 days.
Free support to get you started:- Un-Diet Your Mindset → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/undietyourmindset
- Food Guilt Decoder → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/FoodGuiltDecoder
If you need some support:
- Try the Midlife Feast Community free for 7 days → https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/7daytrial
- Book a no-strings connection call (virtual coffee with me) → https://p.bttr.to/3DQX9SF
What did you think of this episode? Click here and let me know!
📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause is out now! Order your copy today and start thriving in midlife.
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