What’s a bigger turn off than feeling like sex might shred your vagina? Deb Porteus found new love right along the same time she started perimenopause, and the kicker is that "new relationship energy" sex combined with vaginal dryness for folks who are going through “the change”, it fucking hurts. They tried the standards and explored at length, but firecracker Deb and her lover Brian were determined to make something better than what they could find, and The Pleasure Pods were born. Longtime friends from teaching yoga together, Deb, Bryde and Jeremie chat about what The Pleasure Pods are made of, what they look, feel, smell, and taste like, and the many ways they can be used to enhance your pleasure. No, this is not an ad! Deb has a spirit that will light you up and inspire you, and you will enjoy her story of how she went about getting into lube development and becoming a “friggin’ awesome squirter”.

Pleasure Pods Links:

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www.thepleasurepods.com

Takeaways

• Pleasure Pods are small, solid lubricant pods made of natural ingredients like mango butter, cocoa butter, and coconut butter.
• The pods melt upon contact with the skin, providing a smooth and long-lasting lubrication.
• Pleasure Pods can be used for sexual activities, massages, and as a skincare product for soothing irritated skin.
• Deborah's personal experience with perimenopause and vaginal dryness inspired her to create Pleasure Pods to address the lack of effective and safe lubricants on the market.

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Setting Up

08:01

Using Coconut Oil and the Birth of Pleasure Pods

16:27

Ingredients and Skincare Benefits of Pleasure Pods

29:31

Expanding into the United States

36:12

Understanding the Longevity of Pleasure Pods

43:16

Connecting with Pleasure Pods on Social Media

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What is the most common question an online sex educator finds in her DMs? Danielle Bezalel, aka DB, is an executive producer and creator of Sex Ed with DB. She has a Master of Public Health with a focus on sexuality and reproductive health. In this conversation, she talks to Bryde and Jeremie about public health and its role with sex education, highlighting the need for age-appropriate and medically accurate sex education that covers topics such as boundaries, consent, puberty, menstruation, STIs, and contraception, and statistics relating to abstinence only sex ed.

DB breaks down the benefits of masturbation, including effects on stress levels, mood, and confidence, and details on her own masturbation science project and the findings. Jeremie offers a brief history lesson on the Magic Wand. Other topics of conversation include the challenges of being a sexual health influencer on social media plus a workshop to help folks who are establishing their sex health brands online. DB also addresses questions about talking to children about masturbation and the most common questions she receives as a sexual health educator.

Keywords: sex education, public health, abstinence-only, comprehensive, age-appropriate, medically accurate, boundaries, consent, puberty, menstruation, STIs, contraception, pleasure, orgasm gap, sex education, masturbation, sexual health, Magic Wand, confidence, parenting, sex toys, social media

Takeaways

• Comprehensive and age-appropriate sex education is crucial for promoting sexual health and well-being.
• The United States has a lack of comprehensive sex education, with only 17 states requiring medically accurate program content.
• Abstinence-only programs perpetuate myths and misinformation about sex and sexual health.
• Sex education should start at a young age, with age-appropriate discussions about boundaries, consent, and body parts.
• Public health plays a vital role in addressing sexual health issues and promoting overall well-being.
• Masturbation can have numerous benefits, including stress reduction, improved mood, and increased confidence.

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Workshop

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Other episode mentions:

Guttmacher Institute

Chapters

00:00

Introduction to Danielle Bezalel (DB)

05:54

The Lack of Comprehensive Sex Education in the United States

12:06

Age-Appropriate Topics in Sex Education

28:21

Comprehensive Sex Education

41:19

Talking to Children About Masturbation

48:09

The Challenges of Being a Sexual Health Educator

54:33

Navigating Social Media as a Sexual Health Influencer

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What's it like to make a decision in favour of your sexual and mental well-being that costs you everything you know and sometimes everyone you love? Julia and Jeremiah Postema are certified sex therapists who grew up in different religious communities, and from their experiences they speak to singles and couples who are on their own healing path from shame, disillusionment, and allegiance to the church. Jeremie and Bryde chat with today's guests about the restrictive gendered messages around relationships and sexuality that exist within evangelical, Mormon, and Pentecostal communities. They also talk about the challenges of existing in both religious and philosophical spaces and the grief that can come with leaving a religious community. They highlight the importance of expanding options for healthy relationships and sexuality, at a pace that is appropriate for those in treatment.

Takeaways

• Growing up in religious communities can impact our approaches to intimacy and sexuality.
• The concept of the 'trad wife' reinforces restrictive gender norms within evangelical, Mormon, and Pentecostal communities.
• Existing in both religious and philosophical spaces can be challenging, but it is possible to maintain a sense of spirituality outside of organized religion.
• Leaving a religious community can result in a sense of grief and loss, as it often means leaving behind a community and relationships.
• Religious communities often teach foundational values for healthy sexuality in early childhood, but as children become adolescents, the focus shifts to allegiance and identification with the church.
• Men who grow up in purity culture may struggle with the double bind of being taught that they are sexually dominant and aggressive, but also that they must fight sinful urges.
• Couples with differing religious beliefs or levels of commitment may face challenges in their sexual and intimate relationships.

Keywords

sex, religion, sexuality, religious communities, sex therapy, gender norms, trad wife, evangelical, Mormon, Pentecostal, philosophy, spirituality, grief, leaving a religious community, healthy relationships, religion, sexuality, relationships, abstinence-only education, gender differences, shame, therapy, couples, communication

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Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Background of Julia and Jeremiah

03:08

The Intersection of Sex and Religion

06:10

The Trad Wife Phenomenon and Gender Norms in Religious Communities

10:57

Challenges of Existing in Religious and Philosophical Spaces

23:35

Expanding Options for Healthy Relationships and Sexuality

29:32

The Impact of Religion on Sexuality

31:06

Gender Differences in Religious Teachings

34:06

The Double Bind for Men in Purity Culture

38:46

Challenges in Relationships with Differing Religious Beliefs

46:16

The Importance of Finding a Therapist Who Understands Religious Backgrounds

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Have you ever wondered why your mother/daughter is such a bitch? Dr. Debra Mandel, nationally renowned psychologist and author of 4 books including the bestselling "Dump That Chump," joins Bryde and Jeremie for a conversation about Dr. Debra’s latest release, “Sassy & Rude, Her New Attitude: A Tough Love Guide for Moms on How to Bring Back The Sugar and Spice in Their Not-so-Nice Adult Daughters”. This conversation centers on the relationship between adult mothers and adult daughters, and this information is for you if you are either of those or anyone who knows and loves a mother daughter duo. The three talk through personal anecdotes and professional insights on themes of shame, power dynamics, shifts in relationship, independence, boundaries, expectations, body image, and more. Dr. Debra provides insights and advice on fostering healthy communication, addressing conflicts, and supporting each other's growth.

Dr. Debra brings over 30 years working clinically with individuals, couples, and families with a range of specialties from relationship and daily life issues to depression, anxiety, eating disorders and addiction, and she speaks on her subject with humour and compassion at the forefront.

Takeaways

• Parent-adult child relationships require open dialogue and understanding.
• Recognize and address shifts in the relationship to foster healing.
• Let go of the need to be the authority and embrace a reciprocal relationship.
• Power dynamics can impact communication and should be navigated with care.
• Transitioning from a parent-child relationship to an adult-adult relationship can be challenging for both mothers and adult daughters.
• Setting boundaries and managing expectations are crucial in maintaining a healthy mother-daughter relationship.
• Mothers should prioritize self-care and pursue their own interests and hobbies to avoid becoming overly dependent on their adult daughters.

Keywords

parent-adult child relationships, healing, communication, power dynamics, open dialogue, understanding, mothers, adult daughters, boundaries, expectations, roles, responsibilities, self-care, body image, communication, conflicts, growth, empathy, understanding

Links

Twitter: @DrDebraMandel

Instagram: @dr.debramandel

Facebook: Dr. Debra Mandel, The LOVE Warrior

Youtube: @debramandel7083

Website: DrDebraOnline.com

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Background of Dr. Deborah Mandel

03:05

Exploring Different Modalities in Psychology

07:51

The Effectiveness of Psychological Techniques

11:05

The Inspiration Behind 'Sassy and Rude'

13:53

Healing Unresolved Mother-Daughter Relationships

21:28

Power Dynamics in Parent-Adult Child Relationships

27:01

Transitioning to an Adult-Adult Relationship

33:29

Setting Boundaries and Overcoming the 'Too Nice Mom Syndrome'

38:55

The Empty Nest and Shifting Roles

45:17

Mother-Daughter Conversations about Sexuality and Empowerment

48:48

Addressing Dislike for a Daughter's Partner

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It’s time for a revolution in the sheets and the streets, as we sit down with Cindy Gallop, the genius at the forefront of the Social Sex Revolution. Cindy, the visionary behind MakeLoveNotPorn, shares the serendipitous inception of her platform and how it's challenging and reshaping societal norms around sex. But that's just the first layer. Delving deeper, Cindy unravels the complex web of gender bias in AI, advocating for a seismic shift towards inclusivity and safety in tech through the lens of female innovation. Imagine a world where AI not only serves us but enhances our creativity and nurtures ethical, consensual relationships in the digital age—Cindy believes it's not just possible; it's imperative. From the gritty challenges of entrepreneurship to the soaring potential of AI in the arts and sex tech, this conversation is a masterclass in disruption, diversity, and daring to dream.

Key Takeaways

• Make Love Not Porn has had a significant impact on changing the conversation around sex and challenging societal norms.
• The platform has played a role in shifting views on sex work and promoting healthy, consensual sexual relationships.
• Cindy Gallop emphasizes the importance of diversity and inclusion in the tech industry, particularly in AI development.
• The future of AI depends on funding female founders and incorporating the female lens to create safe and beneficial AI experiences. Gender bias in AI can lead to ineffective and biased outcomes. 
• Safety is a significant concern in AI development. Ensuring AI is designed and implemented safely is essential to prevent potential harm and create a positive impact.
• Ethical and consensual practices are essential in the world of sex and porn. AI can be used to create positive and empowering experiences, but it should be approached with caution and respect for consent.
• Investing in companies that align with one's values and beliefs can be a powerful way to support their growth and make a positive impact.

Relevant Links:

MakeLoveNotPorn

TheArts.AI

MakeLoveNotPorn WeFunder

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This week we’re passing the vibe check with VibeSlut, AKA Abby Jensen! Abby is the comedic force behind the Rat Girls podcast who joins us to blow the lid off women's health and sexuality. With a blend of humour and hard truths, she takes us on a wild ride through the often hushed world of orgasms, face-sitting tutorials, and the art of taking the perfect nude. It's a beginner's guide to the taboo. From the debate of beard versus stubble in intimate moments to navigating the murky waters of social media censorship, Abbyl doesn't shy away from anything. She even dishes out advice on keeping the flame alive in long-term relationships with a mix of flirting and open conversation about sex. This episode is a candid exploration of the challenges and triumphs in talking openly about sexuality.

Key Takeaways

• Podcasts provide a platform for candid conversations about women's health and sexuality.
• Women often lack access to open and honest discussions about topics considered taboo.
• Comedy can be an effective tool for discussing sensitive subjects and making them more accessible.
• Practical tips and information about sexual education can empower women to explore their own pleasure and improve their sexual experiences.
• Stubble can be uncomfortable and unclean during intimate activities, so proper hygiene is important for facial hair owners.
• When taking nudes, consider lighting and angles to create a flattering and confident image.
• Censorship and content restrictions on social media platforms can be frustrating for sex educators and content creators.
• Flirting and open communication about sex can help maintain the spark in long-term relationships.

Check out Abby's IG

Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life

Rat Girls Podcast

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Enter a realm where play parties become immersive experiences. In this episode, Michael Hollice, founder of The Play, walks the hosts through the creation of something special on the play party scene.

Inspired by what he found lacking in his initial forays into the play parties and backed with organizational experience in elevating artistic events, Michael was impassioned to shift the culture. Jeremie and Bryde hear about what to expect between the hours of 8 pm - 4 am at The Play, including special guidelines for socializing, expressive art as foreplay, and the four pillars behind this growing community that guide every event.

Key Takeaways:

• Artful Atmosphere: Immerse yourself in play parties that elevate the experience with artistry and production value, creating a uniquely captivating atmosphere.
• Curated Connections: The Play’s curated experience involves a meticulous application process, ensuring compatibility and safety for attendees through thorough interviews.
• Stigma Shakeup: Break the mold with The Play—regular testing and challenging stigmas are vital for fostering a safe, inclusive environment where everyone feels comfortable.
• Global Allure: The Play attracts a diverse global crowd, emphasizing health and safety with mandatory STI testing, interviews, and strict protocols.
• Convo Over Looks: Conversational connection takes center stage at The Play, shifting the focus from appearances to the ability to engage in meaningful dialogue.

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The Play - Instagram

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Ever thought of hiring a travel agent for your love life? Let Ally Iseman, the creator of Passport 2 Pleasure be your guide to alternative relationships. Ally shares her story with the hosts, emphasizing the importance of personal growth, understanding boundaries, and the transformative power of compersion in relationships. Ally challenges monogamous norms, spotlighting divorce rates and advocating for diverse relationship frameworks. Tune in for a conversation that offers insights applicable to all relationship types. Visit Ally's hub passport2pleasure.com for resources, featuring courses, retreats, and a couple of great prompts for self-discovery.

Key Takeaways:

• Personal growth and self-reflection are essential in navigating healthy non-monogamy.
• Understanding and communicating boundaries is crucial for personal growth and relationship success.
• Compersion, the feeling of joy and excitement when a partner experiences pleasure with someone else, can enhance relationships.
• Relationship agreements, outlining boundaries and expectations, are valuable tools for all types of relationships.
• The skills and tools learned in non-monogamy are applicable to all types of relationships, including monogamous ones. Knowing oneself is crucial for building healthy relationships.
• Monogamy is not the only relationship framework, and it may not work for everyone.
• Divorce rates for monogamous marriages are high, indicating that it may not be successful for everyone.
• There are multiple ways to relate and love others and oneself.

Links:

Ally's Relationship Ratio

Ally's Big Why

Instagram

Tiktok

Facebook

YouTube

Chapters:

00:00

Introduction

00:45

Ally's Journey to Non-Monogamy

02:00

Choosing a Career in Non-Monogamy Education

03:19

Exploring Non-Monogamy in a Relationship

05:14

Personal Growth and Emotional Casualties

06:11

Formal Education and Launching Passport 2 Pleasure

07:51

Understanding Boundaries and Personal Growth

09:46

Unrealistic Boundaries and Hindrances

11:14

Differentiating Discomfort and Lack of Safety

13:47

The Concept of Compersion

15:14

Discovering Compersion and Dealing with Jealousy

18:20

Explaining Compersion to Others

21:46

The Unique Feeling of Compersion

23:16

The Desire for a Partner to Be Everything

25:22

The Importance of Relationship Agreements

27:15

Creating Relationship Agreements

29:04

Applying Relationship Agreement Concepts to Friendships

35:02

Introduction to Passport 2 Pleasure

36:34

Planning Eco-Luxury Retreats

38:04

Applying Non-Monogamy Skills to Monogamous Relationships

40:19

Exploring Relationship Frameworks

41:14

Monogamy and Divorce Rates

41:53

Finding Ally Iseman

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Quick, honey. Grab the lube! This week the hosts explore the transformative world of sexual wellness with another conversation with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent. Jeff takes us through his inspiring journey toward revolutionizing the sexual wellness industry, emphasizing the critical role of medical certification and science-backed products. His narrative delves into the challenges of bringing Promescent to the forefront, highlighting the broader need for comprehensive sexual education and the obstacles encountered in advertising sexual wellness products. Throughout the conversation, Jeff addresses the societal stigmas and restrictions that often hinder the marketing efforts within the sexual wellness space, advocating for the recognition of sex as an essential activity of daily living. Jeff also shares insights into the expansion of Promescent’s product line, focusing on inclusivity and the importance of addressing common sexual health issues, such as premature ejaculation and the pleasure gap.

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Key takeaways:

• Medical certification and evidence-based products are paramount in the sexual wellness industry.
• Comprehensive sexual education is essential for overcoming common sexual health issues.
• The advertising and marketing of sexual wellness products face unique challenges due to societal stigma.
• Recognizing sex as an integral part of daily living is crucial for holistic health.
• Expansion and inclusivity in product lines are key to addressing diverse needs in sexual health.

Chapters:

00:00

Introduction to Jeff Abraham and Promescent

03:05

The Importance of Medical Certification and Science-Based Products

05:27

Jeff's Journey to Promescent

07:20

Addressing Premature Ejaculation and the Pleasure Gap

12:31

Jeff's Understanding of Sexuality and Pleasure

16:41

The Need for Comprehensive Sexual Education

21:30

The Frustrations of Advertising Sexual Wellness Products

25:17

Sex as an Activity of Daily Living

32:47

Expanding the Product Line of Promescent

49:15

Continuity and Customer Experience

50:08

Expanding into Retail and Women's Products

52:17

Discreet Packaging and Retail Expansion

53:40

Financial Motives and Sexual Wellness

54:34

Family Planning and Women's Rights

56:01

Considering Other Locations

57:22

Educating Customers and Product Satisfaction

59:11

Authenticity and Trust in Marketing

01:02:38

Closing Remarks and Support

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The Turn Me On family is growing, and Jeremie and Bryde are excited to be introducing a new team member, Anna, who has come on board to bring her incredible support and help us delve deeper into the fascinating world of sexuality research. Anna's arrival marks a new chapter for the podcast, infusing the show with fresh energy and enthusiasm. After some Anna love bombs, the hosts dive into the sex lives of bugs. Digging into insect mating rituals, covering everything from seductive mating calls to the exchange of spermatophores (yum). Bryde and Jeremie explore the peculiar practices of feeding during mating, and even the ultimate sacrifice some insects make for reproduction.

Key Takeaways:

• The addition of Anna to the podcast team has brought new energy and support to the show.
• The hosts plan to focus more on the research side of sexuality in future episodes.
• Bug sex is a fascinating topic, with insects using various strategies for mating and reproduction.
• Valentine's Day controversies, such as naming exes in cat litter boxes, can be seen as toxic and unnecessary.

Chapters:

00:00

Introduction and Announcement

03:08

The Role of Anna in the Podcast

06:56

Exploring Bug Sex

08:40

Mating Calls and Musical Seduction

09:31

Spermatophore and Feeding During Mating

10:19

Fatal Attractions and Self-Sacrifice

16:52

The Pleasure Principle

21:26

Acknowledging the Listeners and Future Plans

22:23

Discussion on Valentine's Day Controversies

25:59

Conclusion and Call to Support the Podcast

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Who knew a plateful of nutrition could be your ally in the bedroom and beyond? Dive into the vital connection between nutrition and fertility with Lisa Hendrickson-Jack in this episode of Turn Me On. Celebrating her new book, Real Food for Fertility, Lisa emphasizes the power of diet in preparing for pregnancy and boosting fertility. She explores the importance of tracking the menstrual cycle for natural birth control, conception, and gauging overall health, highlighting the critical role of micronutrients in hormone production and building a healthy foundation for your baby. The conversation also covers navigating the transition off of birth control, the impact on fertility, and delves into sperm and egg quality. Learn about the significance of striving for optimal fertility markers, influenced by factors like age, diet, and lifestyle, and discover practical strategies to enhance fertility. Whether you're planning for pregnancy or are keen on reproductive health, this episode offers invaluable insights and actionable advice for anyone looking to optimize their fertility through real food and lifestyle adjustments.

Key Takeaways:

- Understanding the menstrual cycle and tracking it can support natural birth control, conception, and overall health.

- Nutrition plays a crucial role in fertility, and women should prioritize their macronutrient and micronutrient intake.

- Coming off birth control should be planned ahead to allow time for hormone normalization and nutrient replenishment.

- Egg quality and quantity decline over time, and it is important to prioritize overall health and nutrition to support fertility.

- Sperm quality is a significant factor in fertility, and men should also focus on their nutrition and overall health. The World Health - - Organization guidelines for sperm quality represent a low bar for fertility and do not reflect optimal parameters for conception.

- There has been a significant decline in sperm quality over time, with the average man today having lower sperm concentration compared to men in the 1940s.

- Factors such as aging, diet, and lifestyle can affect both sperm and egg quality.

- Practical strategies to improve sperm and egg quality include incorporating nutrient-rich foods, avoiding heat exposure to the testicles, and addressing lifestyle factors like smoking and excessive exercise.

Relevant Links:

Real Food For Fertility Book

Lisa’s Podcast: Fertility Friday Radio

TMO Ep. 200 - The Fifth Vital Sign

Episode Chapters:

00:00 - Introduction and Background

02:15 - The Collaboration and Book

06:05 - The Role of Nutrition in Fertility

17:37 - Preparing for Pregnancy

26:47 - Coming Off Birth Control

36:08 - Egg Quality and Fertility

42:03 - Sperm Quality and Fertility

43:55 - Understanding Sperm Parameters and Guidelines

46:20 - Optimal Sperm Parameters

51:04 - Misconceptions about Sperm Parameters

52:33 - The Importance of Sperm in Fertility

59:46 - Factors Affecting Sperm and Egg Quality

01:03:14 - Heat and Lifestyle Factors Affecting Sperm Quality

01:05:21 - Improving Sperm and Egg Quality

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