Shameless Sex

Amy Baldwin

A Real-Talk Podcast on Sex and Relationships

  • 59 minutes 34 seconds
    #378 Pheromones and the "Should I Bang You" Sniff Test - with Jacqui Rubinoff

    What is the purpose of pheromones? What do they do and how do they work in the body? Do pheromones change based on hormones? Is it true that certain people’s pheromones are not for us? Is there anything that can be done when pheromones don't feel aligned? Is the universe saying this person isn’t compatible with me?

    About our guest: Jacqui Rubinoff is a dynamic entrepreneur and relationship expert with a profound passion for promoting healthy and fulfilling connections between individuals. With over a decade of dedicated work, Jacqui has made a significant mark in the international market, having successfully built a brand that spans over 20 countries.

    As an owner and the Vice President of Eye of Love, a distinguished company specializing in high-quality sensual products, Jacqui is at the forefront of creating innovative solutions to enhance people's love lives. Her products, which include vegan and cruelty-free pheromone perfumes and body products, are crafted with meticulous attention to detail, reflecting her commitment to quality and ethical standards.

    Beyond her role in the sensual products industry, Jacqui is a certified Love Coach and Relationship Expert. She leverages her expertise to offer invaluable advice and guidance to singles and couples alike. Whether through events, seminars, or the Eye of Love platform, Jacqui empowers individuals to strengthen their relationships and foster enduring connections. 

    With a vision deeply rooted in the belief that everyone deserves a love- filled, fulfilling life, Jacqui Rubinoff continues to make significant strides in the realm of relationships and sensuality. Her unwavering dedication, coupled with her innovative products and expert guidance, has solidified her as a leading figure in the pursuit of love and connection. 

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    23 April 2024, 10:50 pm
  • 1 hour 9 minutes
    #377 Scrotox, Dicktox, and Erections - with Dr. Paul Gittens

    What is ED, what are the main causes, and who does it affect? What are some of the common treatments and exercises that can help with blood flow issues that cause ED? Is Scrotox really Botox for the balls? What does it do and does it really work? What about Botox for the penis? Is it a thing and how can it help with erections? How does a person’s mental health (stress/depression/anxiety) have an effect on ED just as much as a person’s physiological health? And can people who have experienced prostate cancer still have a bright sexual future?

    About our guest: Dr. Gittens is one of the country’s leading specialists in sexual function for men and women, hormone replacement, male infertility and wellness. He is a board certified urologist, fellowship trained specifically in sexual medicine and male infertility. He is also a clinical associate professor in obstetrics and gynecology. He founded the Rockwell Centers for Sexual Medicine & Wellness in Philadelphia, New York, and Lehigh Valley (formerly Centers for Sexual Medicine) – to provide patients a place with expert care, where they can discreetly address their sexual medical concerns without being rushed or waiting hours to see a physician. An expert in the field, Dr. Gittens takes the time to provide an unmatched level of individualized care by listening to his patients and devising personalized treatment plans. To learn more go to https://centersforsexualmedicine.com or https://xersizer.com/

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    16 April 2024, 6:38 pm
  • 1 hour 1 minute
    #376 Porn and (Empowering) Gang Bangs - with Erika Lust

    How has the porn industry shifted over the past 20 years, and how is it that Hollywood still gets it wrong when it comes to intimacy? What are the most common fantasies that women have based on their top porn interests? What about men/other genders? If I identify as a feminist and yet I’m super attracted to porn that involves dominance and submission, and maybe even some rough sex, can I still be a feminist while thinking this is hot? How can gang bang scenes (and gang bangs in general) be empowering? Can the woman receiving all the D be in control?

    About our guest: Erika Lust is an award-winning indie erotic filmmaker who creates sex-positive adult cinema by portraying relatable characters and realistic hot sex, going beyond gender stereotypes and harmful fetishization to offer a ground-breaking alternative to mass-produced mainstream porn. Over the past 20 years, the Erika Lust brand has gone from strength to strength. Erika has directed 6 feature films and series, over 130 short films, and produced around 180 more.

    In 2015, Erika gave her essential TEDx talk 'It’s Time for Porn to Change'. Her story was featured in the Netflix documentary series 'Hot Girls Wanted: Turned On (“Women on Top”)', directed by Rashida Jones, and 'Principles of Pleasure', directed by Niharika Desai. In 2019, Erika was named one of the BBC 100 Women’s most influential women of the year, and in 2022, her alternative vision of porn was featured in The New York Times and in the BBC Three & HULU series 'Planet Sex with Cara Delevingne'. 

    Want to see for yourself? Go to http://erikalust.com and use code 30Shameless for 30% off!


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    9 April 2024, 10:00 am
  • 32 minutes 31 seconds
    Bonus: Your Mom's Favorite Sex Toys

    In this episode Amy talks about our current favorite sex toys including Amy's mom's favorite, which just might be your mom's kryptonite too. From pussy toys to cock stimulators, Amy shares all about what's getting us off in 2024, as well as how to find the right sex toy for you.

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    5 April 2024, 10:00 am
  • 52 minutes 34 seconds
    #375 How to Do (and Not Do) Single Life - with Brianne Hogan

    What’s the truth about being single? The good, the bad, the ugly? Why is being single at some point in your adult life important? How can single people become “single and stoked”? What are the steps or what does it take to love single life? What if I’m single and want to stay that way for a while. How can I navigate casual sex without getting into a relationship? And what if I’m single and looking for a LTR? Top tips for navigating sex and dating from this perspective?

    About our guest: Brianne Hogan is a Canadian writer, author, and podcast host. She has written for over 60 publications, including The Washington Post, the BBC, Elle Canada, Shondaland, Men’s Health, BuzzFeed, HelloGiggles, among others. She’s a regular contributor for Scary Mommy, Lifehacker, SheKnows and Parents, writing mainly in the relationship and lifestyle space. Google “Brianne Hogan and dating” and you’ll find articles ranging from “Easy First Date Ideas” to “How to Flirt” to “How to Date After Divorce.” Ironically, however, she's been single for most of her adult life. Which is why she started the podcast, Seriously Single. You can read her most personal writing on her substack: briannehogan.substack.com


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    2 April 2024, 10:00 am
  • 49 minutes 22 seconds
    Bonus Episode: Abortion Pills Are in My Medicine Cabinet and They Should Be in Yours Too - with Amy Merrill, MA

    Amy Merrill is an artist/activist at the intersection of creative communications, technology, and social change. In 2015, she co-founded Plan C to transform access to abortion pills by mail in the US, and under her co-leadership Plan C has grown to an annual audience of millions on an award-winning website, press reach in the billions, nationwide partnerships in research, creative and tech and “Plan C” as a household term for abortion pills. She was named in Fast Company’s 2023 Most Creative People in Business, serves as advisor for new gen-z emergency contraception brand Julie and new abortion chatbot Charley, and was an inaugural member of the Buckminster Fuller Institute’s Design Science Studio in 2020. Amy holds 20+ years navigating complex social issues, from human trafficking to economic injustice to gender equity: which led to reproductive health and access as a current focus. Her design studio Eyes Open leads creative communications for purpose-driven individuals and organizations. She is based in the Bay Area CA. To learn more about Plan C go to https://www.plancpills.org

    29 March 2024, 6:50 pm
  • 1 hour 6 minutes
    #374 Kiss Like a Pro - with Erwan and Alicia Davon

    This episode is all about kissing, smooching, making out, and doing the nasty tongue dance. Repeat guests and relationship experts Alicia and Erwan Davon teach us all about the skills needed to be a great kisser, how to match your lover's kissing style, what to do if your partner is just so so in the kissing department, as well as hickeys, spitting, and if there's such thing as too much tongue

    About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support. Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based The Davon Method. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy. 

    Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end boutique service that gives their clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. They offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world. 

    To learn more text Alicia at 415 308 9580 or visit their website at www.davonmethod.com

    Find them on social media at @davonmethod


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    26 March 2024, 6:39 pm
  • 1 hour 21 minutes
    #373 How to Get (or Not Get) Pregnant - with Lisa Hendrickson-Jack

    What non-hormonal options are available to prevent pregnancy OR increase fertility/support getting pregnant? What are some of the most common issues or health risks from using hormonal birth control? What is missing in the common fertility nutrition advice out there today, and why can it be problematic? What do both ancestral practices and modern research suggest to be optimal for female and male fertility when it comes to macronutrients, micronutrients, meal timing/spacing, and so on? And what are some of the specific recommendations for nutrient-dense foods to emphasize as well as ingredients to avoid to support fertility? Are there any specific diets that are more supportive than others?

    About our guest: Lisa Hendrickson-Jack is a certified Fertility Awareness Educator and Holistic Reproductive Health Practitioner who teaches women to chart their menstrual cycles for natural birth control, conception, and monitoring overall health. She is the author of three bestselling books: Real Food For Fertility (co-authored with Lily Nichols), The Fifth Vital Sign, and the Fertility Awareness Mastery Charting Workbook. Lisa works tirelessly to debunk the myth that regular ovulation is only important when you want children by recognizing the menstrual cycle as a vital sign. Drawing heavily from the current scientific literature, Lisa presents an evidence-based approach to help women connect to their fifth vital sign by uncovering the connection between the menstrual cycle, fertility, and overall health — something our education systems have consistently failed to do. With well over 4 million downloads, her podcast, Fertility Friday, is the #1 source for information about fertility awareness and menstrual cycle health. When she’s not researching, writing, and mentoring women's health professionals, you’ll find her spending time with her husband, her two sons, and her baby girl. To learn more, visit https://fertilityfriday.com

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    Come see us for a FREE LIVE sex ed workshop in Los Angeles Saturday, March 23rd 6-8pm at Hustler's Hollywood Blvd store. Learn all about sex toys and how to up your pleasure game. Sign up ASAP here because the first 20 people get free sexy gifts!

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    Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List

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    19 March 2024, 3:24 pm
  • 1 hour 32 minutes
    #372 Soft Cock Play (and why we love them) Round Two - with Michelle Renee and Erica Leroye

    This is a continuation of episode #338 Soft Cock Play and Why We Love Them (which is also our top viewed video on YouTube!). You asked, so we are answering by responding to the following questions: why are “you” women able to talk about soft cocks and penis owners' bodies in general? Why is reframing sex so important when it comes to soft cocks? What are the techniques that encourage blood flow AND increase pleasure and fun? What do I do when my partner is in a downward spiral regarding their own soft cock? What do I do if my partner doesn’t want to be part of the problem solving for my soft cock? And what about soft cocks as a symptom of prostate issues/cancer/diabetes?

    About our guests: Erica Leroye, M.Ed (she/her/they) is the Founder and "Chief Erotic Officer" of Creative Body Release, a philosophy and methodology that is built upon 30+ years of body/mind training and educational expertise across the lifespan. Erica is a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Human Development Specialist, Healing Arts professional, and Erotic Artist/Educator. After the sudden death of her fiancee to undiagnosed diabetes, her life's mission became “De-Mystifying the International Erectile Epidemic” using research-based best practices from multiple disciplines, common sense, and a knowing splash of women's intuition.

    Erica's unique method for working with arousal and erectile issues (in all gender identities) is founded on a deep understanding of the developmental trajectory of the sensory-motor system and the body/mind challenges of "going with the flow" when it comes to moving through stressful life realities. To learn more go to https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com

    Michelle Renee (she/her) based in San Diego, is dedicated to helping clients live their most authentic life. From her personal journey, Michelle knows that love heals. Michelle has combined her 8+ years of experience as both a cuddle therapist and a surrogate partner to create a hybrid offering called Foundations of Human Connection. She affectionately welcomes clients into her Human Connection Lab, where she supports them in relational healing through experiential touch, unconditional positive regard, celebrated agency, and authentic connection. 

    She is also the founder of SoftCockWeek.com, co-founder of Embrace Surrogate Partner Resource Group, host of The Intimacy Lab podcast, and Director of Training for Cuddlist.com

    You can find Michelle on social media at @meetmichellerenee or check out her sites HumanConnectionCoach.com and MeetMichelleRenee.com

    Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here

    Come see us for a FREE LIVE sex ed workshop in Los Angeles Saturday, March 23rd 6-8pm at Hustler's Hollywood Blvd store. Learn all about sex toys and how to up your pleasure game. Sign up ASAP here because the first 20 people get free sexy gifts!

    Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy

    Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List

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    Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com

    Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless

    Get 20% off Shameless Sex Fav's with code SHAMELESSLOVE24 or 15% off all other sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

    12 March 2024, 10:00 am
  • 18 minutes 24 seconds
    Bonus: Keeping the Spark Alive in Long-Term Relationships featuring the Sex Ed with DB Podcast

    This bonus ad-free episode is a 10 minute teaser from one of our favorite sex-ed podcasts Sex Ed with DB. DB sits down with Dr. Lexx Brown-James, therapist and sexologist, to shed light on maintaining healthy conflict resolution, intimacy, and communication in a long-term relationship. They also dive into Dr. Lexx's work in the world of sex-positive parenting, unraveling what it means and how to address personal trauma and therapy's role in the journey towards becoming a sex-positive parent. In a world where sex education is often shrouded in fear, Dr. Lexx guides breaks down how provide shame-free sex education to our children, fostering a future of non-judgmental understanding of sex.

    Listen to the full episode here

    More about Sex Ed with DB: Sex Ed with DB is a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got through unique and entertaining storytelling, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. We discuss topics such as birth control, pleasure, LGBTQ+ health and rights, abortion, consent, BDSM, sex and disability, HIV, sex in the media, and more.

    Learn more about Sex Ed https://www.sexedwithdb.com

    Follow Sex Ed with DB on:

    Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast

    TikTok: @sexedwithdb

    YouTube: Sex Ed with DB

    Twitter: @sexedwithdb

    Facebook: @edwithdb

    8 March 2024, 7:20 pm
  • 1 hour 33 seconds
    #371 Domination and Anal Training - with King "Daddy" Heff AKA the Duke of Debauchery

    Learn why King "Daddy" Heff says “In submission there is freedom. In dominance there is responsibility”. King Heff also teaches us how to be more dominant in the bedroom, how to master the sensual art of impact play (spanking), as well as the in's and outs (pun intended) of anal training.

    About our guest: King Heff is a sexual enhancement product specialist from Charlotte, NC. A strong believer and promoter of positive, honest, & healthy sexual relationships, King Heff is the creator of Pink Heffs & Black Heffs; a line of all natural sexually stimulating supplement vitamins designed to help strengthen and improve the sex lives of both women and men. Unique in nature, the product line, which is comprised of the Pink Heffs The Original Vagina Vitamin for women & Black Heffs God Dick Pill for men, offers individuals an organic option for intense, long lasting, intimate pleasure. King Heff aka Daddy Heff is also a Professional Dom who specializes in the Sensual Side of BDSM. He educates men/women/couples at The Sensual Art of Impact Play Seminar, through his private sessions as well as his seminars at the Exxxotica Expo. King Heff continuously uses the platform that The Heffs Lifestyle provides him to educate others about the importance of self-truth, self-love, self awareness, and sexual satisfaction. To learn more go to https://linktr.ee/kingheff

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    Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy

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    5 March 2024, 7:04 pm
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