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Becca Tilley joins Mal this week to discuss her relationship with "Lesbian Jesus" Hayley Kiyoko - how it started, the conversations that led to keeping it private for years (but don't worry, Taylor Swift knew the whole time), and the challenges that came with being two public figures in a private relationship.

Becca chronicles her journey from her southern, christian upbringing, going on The Bachelor (twice!) and finally falling in love for the first time... with a woman.

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In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month, we bring you a conversation centered around queer mental health and borderline personality disorder, with Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, Jordan Werner. Jordan discusses the complexities of queer mental health and the patterns she sees in her LGBT-identifying clients: anxiety, shame, and identity issues.

Jordan discusses the employment of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) in her practice: a modality developed for the treatment of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Jordan explains the symptoms of BPD, common traits to look out for, and the challenges of diagnosing personality disorders. The discussion also covers the intersectionality of mental health and marginalized communities, the perception of BPD as a patriarchal diagnosis, and the potential for recovery through therapy. Lastly, Jordan teaches us TIPP Skills for when we feel dysregulated and want to calm ourselves down.

The resources mentioned in this episode are:

"I Hate You, Don't Leave Me" by Jerold J. Kreisman, MD

Open Path Collective: https://openpathcollective.org/

Follow our guest @instadub92 and check out her website (she's taking new clients!) at www.jordanwtherapy.com

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Singer-Songwriter Zolita joins Mal this week for an honest conversation about food and disordered eating. Zolita opens up about her battle with anorexia throughout her young adulthood, the health implications it had, and how she finally overcame it. Mal shares details of her binge eating disorder, the yo-yo effects of extreme diets, and how she still struggles with finding balance today. This episode also explores a correlation between eating disorders and coming out, how being vegan is often used as a "crutch" during recovery, and how the girls both finally learned to love and appreciate their bodies through yoga.

*Content Warning: This episode contains content that may be challenging to some listeners.*

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Get out your pen and paper - Professor Kej is here to whip your wardrobe into shape! This episode looks into how your style evolves and changes as you come out and become more in tune with your queerness. Kej shares her journey with clothes and how she struggled to express herself through outfits when she was unsure of who she was, and how realizing she was gay shaped her. This episode also answers questions such as:

• How do I build the perfect closet?
• How should I handle body insecurities?
• How do I know which style category is more "me"?
• I have so many clothes but nothing to wear, what can I do?
• How do I dress for a formal event if I don't enjoy wearing dresses?

Note - this episode has a lot of fun visual elements, so we recommend you watch on Spotify or YouTube.

Follow our guest for more styling tips @kejtheanimal and feel free to reach out for fashion advice!

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This week, Mal and Cammie Scott talk mental health. Cammie opens up about her early struggles of being a very anxious child, dealing with PMDD as an adult, and facing a depressive episode during what should've been the easiest and healthiest time of her life. The two discuss facing sadness while in happy relationships, the pros and cons of psychiatric medicine, and the importance of finding the right therapist. 

*Content Warning: This episode contains content that may be challenging to some listeners.*

Follow our guest @cammiescott and check out her podcast "Staying Up with Cammie and Taryn" @stayinguppod or https://stayingup.lnk.to/listen

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Pippin' hot tea is about to be spilled! This week, reality TV royal Jasmine Goode shares all the juicy details of her time on ABC's "The Bachelor". Although Jasmine is openly bisexual, the Producers of the show chose not to share that part of her story and made her stick to a very specific storyline. Jasmine opens up about the challenges of being on the show, how the cast is treated during production, and her real thoughts on Nick Viall.

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This week's episode is a conversation for the soul. Queer poet and artist Grey Centauro shares their journey with gender, balancing the masculine with the feminine and identifying as neither - genderless!

This episode also includes conversations around dealing with conservative families, legal name and gender changes, and whether or not it's gross to share a toothbrush with your partner (it is.)

Wish our guest a happy birthday @restlessbabygrey and order their book on Amazon, link below: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0CYXX76D3/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&dib_tag=AUTHOR&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.KQMZBZ3owJT1ExwWl-Y1IeqTlGeZEYfvIwFhI4BBj4w.SY9YpzYDsyami6XbIYNeMDQmLEj4Id3ecmF0PU5Cm8A&qid=&sr=

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Actor Jacqueline Toboni joins Mal for a lil chat about ignoring signs from the universe (and everyone around you...) that you might be gay. Jacqueline shares her journey with sexuality and gender expression - and the relationship between the two. Warning: this episode is A LOT OF GOOD, CLEAN FUN!

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If you’re looking for a sign to follow your dreams… this is it! 

This week, Mal is joined by Tiktok creator and lesbian icon Hina to discuss the hurdles they overcame on their road to success. The conversation highlights the importance of pursuing big dreams, overcoming doubts cast by ~haters~ and the concept of fate vs. free will. Hina is the philosophy professor you didn't know you needed! 

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This week, Mal is joined by her friend Kristi Gramlich who shares her story of being outed in her sorority while coping with the loss of a parent. Kristi discusses how the public outing experience shaped her and her relationship at the time, and where she's at with her sexuality today. Kristi also opens up about her lifelong struggle with OCD and how she copes with it as an adult.

**Content Warning: This episode contains content that may be challenging to some listeners.**

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Comedian Ali Kolbert sits down with Mal to discuss her pattern of pursuing straight women. The two dive into Ali's high school obsession with her straight best friend and how the dynamics of that friendship affected her lesbian dating life. Ali opens up about why she found herself in these seemingly dead-end relationships and what steps she's taken to break the pattern. The two also discuss finding your queer identity, fitting into queer spaces and Anxious-Avoidant attachment styles.

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