Many of us respond to problems by attempting to solve them. Doing so in coaching conversations undermines our client’s agency. In this episode, Elena shares what causes a fix-it tendency and five steps you can take to resist it in your conversations.

Mentioned on this episode: 

• Become a Friend of the Podcast
• Pre-order Arise: The Art of Transformational Coachingand claim your pre-order bonus offers

• The Creative ACT: A Way of Being, by Rick Rubin

Opportunities for continued learning: 

• Become a Bright Morning Member
• Attend a The Art of Coaching virtual workshop or a The Art of Transformational Coaching in-person workshop with Elena

Reflection questions: 

• Recall the last time you slipped into a fix-it tendency:
  • What uncomfortable emotions were present for you in this moment?
  • What element of your conditioning might have been at play?
  • In retrospect, what alternative approach would have better served your client?
• Elena shared five steps you can take to resist the fix-it tendency. Which will be most challenging for you? How can you build your capacity in this area?

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The Core Human Needs is a thinking tool that has had the biggest impact on Elena’s coaching practice over the past 20 years. 

In this episode, Elena explains what the core human needs are, what you might hear in coaching conversations to indicate they aren’t being met, and how to respond in those moments. This tool is critical for coaching ways of being. 

Mentioned on this episode: 

• Become a Friend of the Podcast
• Pre-order Arise: The Art of Transformational Coachingand claim your pre-order bonus offers
• Core Human Needs
• Episode 43: Coaching Tool: The Spheres of Influence
• Episode 37: How to ACE Your Coaching Conversations
• Episode 183: Try It On: A Confidence Building Sentence Stem

Opportunities for continued learning: 

• Become a Bright Morning Member
• Attend a The Art of Coaching virtual workshop or The Art of Transformational Coaching in-person workshop with Elena

Reflection questions: 

• How do you think/feel/act/communicate when your own core human needs are not being met?
• Think about a client whom you are struggling to support. What types of things are they saying in your conversation? What can those comments tell you about what core human need(s) aren’t being met?
• What do you need to do in order to use the Core Human Needs framework in an upcoming coaching conversation?

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Coaching a way of being is a crucial distinguisher of Transformational Coaching. If you want to be a Transformational Coach, this is something you must know how to do! This is the first episode of a 5-part series that will help you do so. 

Mentioned on this episode: 

• Pre-order Arise: The Art of Transformational Coaching 
• Become a Friend of the Podcast  

Opportunities for continued learning: 

• Become a Bright Morning Member 
• Attend a The Art of Coaching virtual workshop or a The Art of Transformational Coaching in-person workshop with Elena 

Reflection questions: 

• What resonated about this episode? What connections did you make? 
• How would you describe your current default way of being when you coach? 
• What does the concept of coaching ways of being make you want to do as a coach, as a leader, as a human? 
• What kind of actions does this evoke in you or inspire in you? 

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The final sneak peek inside Elena’s newest book, Arise: The Art of Transformational Coaching.  

In this episode, Elena shares what you need to know about coaching emotions–and why you don’t need to be a therapist to do so. 

Mentioned on this episode: 

• Pre-order Arise: The Art of Transformational Coaching 
• Claim your pre-order bonus offers
• Join Elena in person at a workshop this fall!
  • San Francisco - August 8-9
  • Los Angeles - August 26-27
  • Austin - September 5-6
  • Atlanta - September 12-13
  • Minneapolis - September 16-17
  • Chicago - September 19-20
  • Philadelphia - September 23-24
  • New York - September 26-27
  • San Francisco - October 3-4
  • Chicago - October 8-9
  • San Diego - October 24-25

Opportunities for continued learning: 

• Become a Bright Morning Member 
• Join Elena in person at an upcoming book tour/workshop! Sign up for her Weekly Wisdom newsletter to be the first to know all the details. 

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We’re interrupting our regular programming to bring you the third exclusive look inside Elena’s newest book, Arise: The Art of Transformational Coaching.  

In this episode, Elena shares what you must do to build trust in your coaching relationships–a non-negotiable skill for any Transformational Coach. 

Mentioned on this episode: 

• Pre-order Arise: The Art of Transformational Coaching 
• Claim your pre-order bonus offers
• Join Elena in person at a workshop this fall! 

Opportunities for continued learning: 

• Become a Bright Morning Member 
• Join Elena in person at an upcoming book tour/workshop! Sign up for her Weekly Wisdom newsletter to be the first to know all the details. 

Follow Elena on Instagram and LinkedIn.

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Support us by becoming a Friend of the Show! 

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Surprise! We’re bringing you another exclusive look inside Elena’s newest book, Arise: The Art of Transformational Coaching.  

In this episode, you’ll be the first to hear Elena speak about the power of Transformational Listening and what it requires of us. 

Mentioned on this episode: 

• Pre-order Arise: The Art of Transformational Coaching 
• Claim your pre-order bonus offers
• Join Elena in person at a workshop this fall! 
  • San Francisco - August 8-9
  • Los Angeles - August 26-27
  • Austin - September 5-6
  • Atlanta - September 12-13
  • Minneapolis - September 16-17
  • Chicago - September 19-20
  • Philadelphia - September 23-24
  • New York - September 26-27
  • San Francisco - October 3-4
  • Chicago - October 8-9
  • San Diego - October 24-25

Opportunities for continued learning: 

• Become a Bright Morning Member 
• Join Elena in person at an upcoming book tour/workshop! Sign up for her Weekly Wisdom newsletter to be the first to know all the details. 

Follow Elena on Instagram and LinkedIn.

Receive weekly wisdom and tools from Elena delivered to your inbox! Sign up at https://brightmorningteam.com/newsletter/ 

As a Bright Morning Member, you get a front-row seat to see the process of Transformational Coaching unfold during live coaching demonstrations by our presenters and the training and practice time you need to transform your skills and impact. Learn more: https://www.brightmorningteam.com/membership 

We’re interrupting our regular programming to bring you an exclusive look inside Elena’s newest book, Arise: The Art of Transformational Coaching.  

Overwhelmingly, educators are not thriving. This book will help change that reality. Listen in to hear Elena read you the first page of this game-changing text. 

Mentioned on this episode: 

• Pre-order Arise: The Art of Transformational Coaching 
• Claim your pre-order bonus offers
• Join Elena in person at a workshop this fall! 
  • San Francisco - August 8-9
  • Los Angeles - August 26-27
  • Austin - September 5-6
  • Atlanta - September 12-13
  • Minneapolis - September 16-17
  • Chicago - September 19-20
  • Philadelphia - September 23-24
  • New York - September 26-27
  • San Francisco - October 3-4
  • Chicago - October 8-9
  • San Diego - October 24-25

Opportunities for continued learning: 

• Become a Bright Morning Member 
• Join Elena in person at an upcoming book tour/workshop! Sign up for her Weekly Wisdom newsletter to be the first to know all the details. 

Follow Elena on Instagram and LinkedIn.

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Are you a coach who feels like you’re “between” different groups in your building (admin, teachers, etc.)? 

Are you trying to navigate an “us vs. them” mentality at your site? 

Are you wondering what your role is in facilitating relationships between teachers and administrators?
 
If you answered “yes!” to any of these questions, this episode is for you!
 
Mentioned on this episode: 

• Become a Friend of the Podcast
• Rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts
• Elena’s Weekly Wisdom newsletter
• The Art of Coaching Teams(Book by Elena)
• The PD Book (Book by Elena)
• Onward (Book by Elena)

Opportunities for continued learning:

• Become a Bright Morning Member
• The Art of Coaching Teams (Bright Morning workshop)

Reflection questions:

• Is your site experiencing an us vs. them dynamic? If so, which of the causes that Elena shared feel like they are at play?
• What role do you play in the dynamics at your site that you are not content with? 
• What is one shift you’re willing to make in support of shifting your experience?

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We all experience moments in our conversations where our compassion and curiosity reserves are low. We also know that compassion and curiosity are core dispositions for a Transformational Coach. In this episode, Elena tells you exactly what you need to know and do when you find yourself falling short of how you want to show up. 

Mentioned on this episode: 

• Become a Friend of the Podcast  
• Rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts 
• The Art of Coaching (Book by Elena, retired July 2024)

Opportunities for continued learning: 

• Become a Bright Morning Member 
• The Art of Coaching (Bright Morning workshop, retired July 2024)

Reflection questions: 

• Think about a time when you struggled to access curiosity or compassion. What was going on with youat that moment? Which of your needs were unmet? 
• What gets under your skin? What kinds of behaviors in others close up your curiosity and compassion? 
• Why does being compassionate and curious matter to you? 

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Do your classroom walkthroughs and data collection lead to empowered teachers and stronger relationships? If not, this is the episode you need. Elena shares what you need to consider and specific steps to take in order to make these (potentially) powerful experiences work for everyone involved.

Mentioned on this episode: 

• Become a Friend of the Podcast
• Rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcast
• Rate and review any of Elena’s books on Amazon

Opportunities for continued learning: 

• Become a Bright Morning Member
• The Art of Coaching (Bright Morning workshop)

Reflection questions: 

• Do you use walkthroughs and data collection as part of your coaching process? If so, what context is provided for your teachers?
• Do teachers have choice and agency over when walkthroughs and data collection occur? Why or why not?
• What did this episode make you want to explore and/or do differently?

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Are your team meetings working for you? If you’re experiencing…

• Underlying tension
• Things that are not being said
• People not listening to each other
• Topics that go way off the agenda
• People dominating the conversation 

…a process observer might be what you need. In this episode, Elena shares what you need to know about introducing this powerful role into your team meetings.  

Mentioned on this episode:

• Become a Friend of the Podcast
• The Art of Coaching Teams (Book by Elena)

Opportunities for continued learning:

• Become a Bright Morning Member
• The Art of Coaching Teams (Bright Morning workshop)

Reflection questions: 

• You can’t have a process observer without having team norms. Does your team have norms? Are they actively known and shared by your group? If not, what is holding you back? What is the first step you could take to help get them into place?
• What has your (and your team’s) experience been with process observers in the past?
• What are you experiencing in team meetings right now that makes you interested in introducing a process observer? What would you hope this results in?

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