Questions from the Closet

Questions from the Closet

Charlie Bird and Ben Schilaty discuss questions they are commonly asked as gay members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Each week they are joined by a guest to talk about a question as it relates to LGBTQ+ topics within the context of faith. To submit a question or share a comment about an episode, you can email [email protected].

  • 1 hour 18 seconds
    Converting to the Church as a Gay Youth in the Philippines

    In this episode, Iese Wilson interviews Cris Sembrano, a gay Latter-day Saint and convert from the Philippines. Chris shares his journey of balancing faith and identity, from navigating cultural challenges in his hometown to finding community and love at BYU-Provo. His story highlights resilience and the strength of personal faith in finding belonging.

    12 November 2024, 12:00 pm
  • 55 minutes 19 seconds
    Being a Peacemaker in a Divided World (with Julie Spilsbury)

    ALL TOGETHER: In this special Election Day episode, hosts Liz and Michael welcome Mesa Councilmember Julie Spilsbury for an inspiring conversation about peacemaking in a divided world. Julie shares insights from her experience as a public servant dedicated to fostering unity through initiatives like the #MesaKindness campaign. From her early days in Mesa Public Schools to leading community partnerships, Julieā€™s journey reflects her deep commitment to bridging divides and building community. Join us for an empowering discussion on how each of us can become peacemakers in our own communities.

    5 November 2024, 12:00 pm
  • 46 minutes 9 seconds
    Sticking with a Tough Conversation (Part 2)

    OPEN UP: In this episode, Charlie and Ben continue their important conversation, choosing to stay in the discomfort to explore their differing experiences. As they navigate the tension, Ben is able to identify the root of his pain and feelings of rejection, leading to several enlightening ā€œah-haā€ moments. Through this process, they find resolution and understanding.Ā 

    The episode ends with a segment filmed two weeks later, where they each reflect on the discussion and share takeaways for listeners. Join them for a candid exploration of how engaging in tough conversations can foster growth, healing, and deeper connections.

    29 October 2024, 11:00 am
  • 1 hour 7 minutes
    Unpacking our Different Reactions to General Conference

    THE Exclusive: In this episode, Charlie and Ben reflect on their contrasting experiences at the most recent General Conference. Charlie had a positive and hopeful experience, while Ben felt deeply hurt and ostracized by certain messages. As they discuss the positives and negatives, the conversation shifts away from the conference itself and becomes more focused on personal pain and frustration. Ben shares his struggles with feelings of exclusion, while Charlie tries to validate his pain but struggles to fully connect with its source.

    This leads to a tense moment between the two, as they try to understand each otherā€™s emotions but find it hard to see eye to eye. The episode sheds light on how, as LGBTQ members of the church, things that may seem harmless or unremarkable to others can be deeply triggering. Itā€™s an honest exploration of how two people can have different emotional responses to the same event and the complexities of supporting one another through those differences.

    22 October 2024, 11:00 am
  • 57 minutes 4 seconds
    Finding Light in Troubling Times (with Dr. Kristine Coons)

    IN the Scriptures: This week Clare Dalton is joined by Dr. Kristine Coons to explore the cautionary tales found the books of Mormon and Ether. They delve into the profound lessons learned from the destruction of two civilizations, reflecting on how these narratives serve as powerful reminders of the consequences of turning away from God. Throughout their discussion, Clare and Dr. Coons emphasize the unwavering truth that God is always willing to partner with us, providing light even in our darkest moments. They highlight the importance of humility and open dialogue in fostering understanding and growth, showcasing how we can learn from one another to illuminate our paths.

    15 October 2024, 11:00 am
  • 49 minutes 43 seconds
    Navigating Identity and Faith in New Zealand (with Shaqaila Uelese)

    OUT and About: Iese Wilson takes us to New Zealand where Shaquaila Uelese opens up about growing up, discovering her identity, and embracing the Māori term Takatapui. While her family initially struggled with her coming out, their love helped her reconnect with God and heal her testimony. Shaq also shares the inspiration behind her nonprofit, Nevertheless, which helps people heal from shame, and offers powerful advice to anyone who feels different.

    8 October 2024, 11:00 am
  • 34 minutes 52 seconds
    Passing LGBTQ+ Nondiscrimination in a Conservative Community (with Mayor Giles)

    ALL Together:Ā In this compelling episode, hosts Liz Macdonald and Michael Soto sit down with Mayor John Giles of Mesa, Arizona, to discuss the groundbreaking journey of passing an LGBTQ+ nondiscrimination ordinance in the city. Mayor Giles shares the intricate process of engaging with community members and church leaders, highlighting the challenges they faced in a polarized environment.

    Listeners will gain insights into the collaborative efforts that were crucial for overcoming resistance, as well as the personal stories that fueled their commitment to justice and inclusion. The episode emphasizes the importance of building strong relationships within the community, demonstrating how these connections ultimately led to the successful enactment of legislation that enhanced protections for millions. Tune in to hear about the power of dialogue and the impact of community-driven change.

    1 October 2024, 11:00 am
  • 56 minutes 17 seconds
    Podcast Announcement - All Out In The Open

    In this live event from the gather conference, Charlie and Ben discuss the future of the podcast and where things are headed

    24 September 2024, 2:00 pm
  • 38 minutes 1 second
    Bonus: How Has Dating Ben?

    In this episode Ben and Charlie discuss future plans for the podcast, the gather conference, and get an update on how dating has gone for Ben

    27 June 2024, 1:00 pm
  • 33 minutes 42 seconds
    Season 6 Wrapped

    Season 6 has come to a close! Ben and Charlie are joined by Sound Guy Mike to talk about the highlights from the season, including another AI written segment! Things are getting shaken up for Season 7 - keep an eye on our instagram for more.Ā 

    19 March 2024, 11:00 am
  • 1 hour 7 minutes
    How Do I Work Through Past Statements From Church Leaders?

    Ben and Charlie are joined by historian Barbara Jones Brown to discuss how they work through difficult things that past church leaders have said.

    12 March 2024, 11:00 am
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