How to Be a Girl

Marlo Mack

How to Be a Girl is an audio podcast I produce about life with my six-year-old transgender daughter. It stars the two of us -- a single mom and a six-year-old "girl with a penis" -- as we attempt together to sort out just what it means to be a girl.

  • Episode XXXV: Unwelcome (Part II)

    What happens when supporting your child means leaving your home?

    Meet my courageous friends from Montana, who are building a new life in a new state after anti-trans legislation targeted their young daughter.

    This is the second part in a two-part story. Listen to Part One here.

    Music credits:

    Game Hens by Blue Dot Sessions

    Chorus and Call, Detroit by Podington Bear

    22 October 2024, 7:53 pm
  • Episode XXXIV: Unwelcome (Part I)

    Imagine living in a place where your own child has been outlawed. This is happening, right now, all over the United States.

    In this episode, you’ll meet my new friends, a courageous and close-knit family who suddenly found themselves unwelcome in the place they had always called home.

    Music credits:

    Night Light, Dowdy, Quarry Clouds, & November Mist, by Blue Dot Sessions

    Pacific Tree Frogs by Podington Bear

    7 October 2024, 5:13 pm
  • Episode XXXIII: How We Are Now

    It's been over two years. I wanted to let you know how we are doing.

    Thank you for your patience.

    (Spoiler: My daughter is still amazing.)

    MUSIC CREDITS:

    Tides (instrumental) by Benjamin Mullins (Courtesy of Audiosocket)

    Lost in the Dark (instrumental) by Forest Sun (Courtesy of Audiosocket)

    25 December 2023, 1:45 am
  • 42 minutes 52 seconds
    Episode XXXII: The Medical Stuff

    For years, people have asked me what I would do when my daughter hit puberty. Was I going to let her do... “the medical stuff?"

    Well, right after the pandemic struck, so did puberty. And this is what my daughter (and her mother) decided to do.

    If you're interested in learning more about our story, you can check out my memoir:

    Audible Originals version

    Book version

    Find us on Twitter: @girlpodcast

    Support HTBAG on Patreon

    MUSIC CREDITS:

    “Starlight” and “Little Dream” by Podington Bear

    “Hand of God” (instrumental) by Benjamin Mullins (Courtesy of Audiosocket)

    “Lonely Life” (instrumental) by Michelle Lewis (Courtesy of Audiosocket)

    “Climbing Clouds” (instrumental) by Jetty Rae (Courtesy of Audiosocket)

    6 September 2021, 12:36 am
  • Episode XXXI: M is for Middle School, Take Two

    This episode is different from any of our previous episodes. It’s also a do-over, because the first version of this episode overlooked the fact that my daughter is growing up, fast. She’s almost a teenager, and we both agree that it’s time she took charge. So that’s what she did. (Here’s a little more about how this episode came to be.)

    Listen to the book! How to Be a Girl on Audible Originals

    Find us on Twitter: @girlpodcast

    Support HTBAG on Patreon

    MUSIC CREDITS:

    “Edge of the World” (Instrumental) by Dot Dot Dot (Courtesy of Audiosocket)

    Filesharer's Lament by Podington Bear

    2 November 2020, 9:12 pm
  • Episode XXX: Emma at last

    I want you to meet my good friend, Emma. When she was a little girl, she was just like my daughter. But no one knew her for 60 years. I'm so glad she's here now.

    (Note: I recorded this interview early this year, when my daughter was still in elementary school. She just started middle school. Please stay tuned for an episode soon(ish) about that!)


    MUSIC CREDITS:

    “Dust in Sunlight,” “Frosted Glass,” “Boardwalk,” and “Clair_De Lune Solo Piano” by Podington Bear

    "The Wah-Watusi" by The Orlons

    “In the Garden (instrumental)” by Jetty Rae (Courtesy of Audiosocket)

    “Like a Movie” by Nicole Reynolds (Courtesy of Audiosocket)

    23 September 2019, 8:06 pm
  • Episode XXIX: Eleven

    I sit down for a talk with my (almost) 11-year-old: Cliques, gossip, fashion, puberty, and how it feels to be a transgender tween.

    MUSIC CREDIT: “Little Girl” by Jetty Rae (Courtesy of Audiosocket)

    25 January 2019, 3:57 am
  • Episode XXVIII: The Tell

    A new friend at school. A poker lesson. A 10-year-old hatches a plan.

    MUSIC CREDITS:

    “Ganef” by Vagabond Opera and “Moonlight Love Affair” by Steve Rice (Courtesy of Audiosocket)

    “Chill Wave” by Kevin MacLeod

    “The Reckoning” by Podington Bear

    Please consider checking out our Support Page. Your help keeps this podcast going!

    31 December 2018, 8:38 pm
  • Episode XXVII: Playdates with Christians

    Are the new next-door neighbors going to let their daughters play with mine if they find out she's transgender? To attempt to answer this question, I seek expert advice from a new friend in the Bible Belt.

    MUSIC CREDITS:

    “Morning” by Nicole Reynolds, “Shall We Gather at the River” by Pat Holmberg, “Amazing Grace Solo Piano” by Lana Palmer (Courtesy of Audiosocket)

    "Canoe" by Podington Bear

    "Amazing Grace," piano and vocals by Miss M. Mack

    Please consider supporting us on Patreon. It really helps keep this podcast going!

    29 November 2018, 11:09 pm
  • Episode XXVI: Sarah McBride

    Need to hear a positive story about politics? I know I do. Here's the inspiring story of Sarah McBride, the young transgender activist who gives me hope (and is my personal pick for the first transgender president).

    MUSIC CREDITS: "Halflight," “G Piano," “Across the River, and "Triste" by Podington Bear; “Asturias” by Isaac Albeniz (Courtesy of Audiosocket).

    Please consider supporting us on Patreon. It really helps keep this podcast going!

    6 November 2018, 10:09 pm
  • Episode XXV: To Tell or Not to Tell? (Advice from HTBAG listeners)

    In the last episode, I asked my listeners to help me answer this question: Should my daughter tell the kids at her new school that she's transgender? In this episode, you will hear the wisdom that came back to me. My cup runneth over.

    MUSIC CREDITS: “Den," "Floating in Space," "Surface Tension," and "Threshold" by Podington Bear; "You Are a Memory" by Message to Bears (Courtesy of Audiosocket); and "Leave Them" and "Telling Me So" by St. Paul de Vence.

    Please consider supporting us. It really helps keep this podcast going!

    30 October 2018, 9:42 pm
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