In this episode, Kate and Liam discuss the ups and downs of desiring -- and being desired --  in the Lifestyle.

Find our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com

Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com

Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options
Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/
Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad
Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/
Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/

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In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss the impact of intoxicants on the lifestyle, and in their own lives.

Travel with us: www.SapioTours.com

Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options
Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/
Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/
Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/
Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad

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Kate talks to coach Cara Turnquist about the challenges people with bigger bodies face to feel fully embraced in the Lifestyle.

Links
Cara's Website
https://www.thepushfitness.com/

Kate's Women's Retreat webpage
https://sapiotours.com/womens-retreat

All Kate's Links
https://katemonogamish.com/my-links

The Monogamish Marriage Blog
https://themonogamishmarriage.com/

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In this episode, Kate & Liam talk about their recent orgy experiences...and consider the real possibility that they've gone a little overboard.

Show Links
Email us: The [email protected]

Support us: www.patreon.com/Kate_and_Liam

Travel with us: www.SapioTours.com

Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options 
Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/
Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/
Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/
Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad

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Kate talks to non-monogamous relationship coach Catherine from Expansive Connection Coaching about inner parts work. She explains The Adult Chair approach to recognizing and having compassion for our inner child and adolescent, especially when faced with the triggers the lifestyle can bring.

Want to dig deeper with Kate and Catherine? Consider joining us for our Women of the Lifestyle wellness retreat this April. Go to www.sapiotours.com for more information.

Resources Mentioned

Expansive Connection Coaching

Catherine's Adult Chair Webinar

No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover  

The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller 

The Adult Chair: A guide to Loving Yourself by Michelle Chalfant Book: 

The Adult Chair Podcast

Life Without Ed by Jenni Schaefer 

Getting the Love You Want by Harvel Hendrix 

PCAP (Podcast-a-Palooza) 

Naughty Gym’s Be Better at Being Bad week at Hedonism 

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Three months into their online dating experiment, Kate and Liam wrap up their long separate dating saga (spoiler, it doesn't end the way you might think!).

Kate dishes about her sexy -- and not so sexy -- dates with both men and women, including one that goes very wrong (trigger: SA).  Liam reports back on the dates with women he met on two additional dating sites, and lets us know how all his hard-won  freedom and confidence paid off at PCAP Miami last month.

Events mentioned in this show:

Libertine events (PCAP)

Naughty Gym

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In response to Liam's continued interest in separate dating, Kate proposed that they both try to find people to go out with online. The plan was that they would post their profiles at the same time, and ideally go on dates with other people on the same evenings.  Equality was the goal. It was a fine idea that brought about all kinds of unforeseen complications.

Links:

Sapio Tours
Small Group European travel for non-monogamous couples hosted by Kate & Liam:
https://sapiotours.com

Libertine Events
Carnival Miami and Soiree Montreal
https://libertineevents.com/

Naughty Gym Adventure Travel
Be Better @ Being Bad Week at Hedonism II
https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad

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Kate & Liam start this episode by describing their experiences at the various lifestyle vacations they took earlier this year, culminating in the launch of their very own travel brand. In the second half, they offer a full report on their first Sapio Tours trip, which was to Crete in June of 2023.  Information on all future Sapio Tours trips can be found at https://SapioTours.com

If you're interested in any of the other excellent trips mentioned, please see the following websites for further details... 

Naughty Gym Adventure Travel...
    https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-adventure-trips

Room 77 Events...
   https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/

Casual Swingers...
https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/

Libertine Events/Podcast-A-Palooza...
    https://podcast-a-palooza.com/

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In this episode, Kate & Liam speak with Dedeker, Emily & Jase of the Multiamory Podcast. They share information about creating healthy boundaries and avoiding common relationship pitfalls. To find out more about them, go to their website,,,
https://www.multiamory.com/

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In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss their experiments with the idea of the 'Three Hour Sex Date' -- an idea they picked up from se & relationship coach Kim Anami.

https://open.spotify.com/episode/5QRhLdb7aV7fIlHscBugXf?si=R1wqLreLQD2sbei-ffqpew

Never have Kate & Liam shared so explicitly about their practices between the sheets as they do here!

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This episode discusses the discovery by Kate of secret messages that Liam had been sending to another woman.  A blow-up ensues, which sends Kate into research mode, where she discovers the EPIC communication model from author Kate Loree.  Focusing on the Emotional, Physical, Intellectual and Compassionate dimensions of conflict, they work through this issue and reach a deeper level of mutual understanding. 

OPEN DEEPLY Podcast (on Spotify)
https://open.spotify.com/episode/4xGf0sYeaQIjv2HDX67Lrq?si=ID0Xg-xZQaWTl9FR1_SsCw&dd=1

OPEN DEEPLY Book (on Amazon)
https://a.co/d/de0ed3t

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