Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

Swinger Friends

In this episode, we delve into the intricacies of "Pants On / Off Swinger Friends," a dynamic that blurs the lines between friendship and sexual exploration within the swinging lifestyle.

Pants On / Off Friendships The Pros

• Explore the freedom and excitement of maintaining close friendships while also enjoying the benefits of sexual intimacy.
• Foster a deeper level of trust and understanding between partners and friends.
• Experience heightened sexual pleasure through the comfort and familiarity of established relationships.

Pants On / Off Friendships The Cons

• Navigate potential emotional complexities and jealousy within friendships and romantic relationships.
• Struggle with blurred boundaries and the risk of misunderstanding or miscommunication.
• Manage the delicate balance between maintaining friendships and managing expectations in a swinging context.

Is the Swingers Lifestyle Approach for you?

• Consider your own desires, boundaries, and comfort levels when contemplating this unique approach.
• Discover whether you thrive in an environment of openness, trust, and shared exploration.
• Evaluate whether you and your partner(s) are equipped to navigate the challenges and rewards of Pants On / Off Swinger Friendships.

Join us as we dissect the nuances of this intriguing relationship dynamic and offer insights into who might find it fulfilling and who might prefer to steer clear.

 

Mentioned

• Spicy Match Island, join us this July on a Full Swingers Island Takeover https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

 

Swingers Events

We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/

 

Join us in Miami this May/June for Libertine Events Vices https://libertineevents.com/miami/ a Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover 

 

Support us

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Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com 

 

Love, Peace and Respect

 

C&D

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Swingers Date Ideas

Get ready to spice up your dating game with swingers date ideas. Firstly, we share what we think a date in the swingers lifeestyle is, then we take a break and tell a sexy story before sharing our top 5 tips to creating sexy swingers dates.

In this episode, we're dishing out hot tips for picking the perfect date spots, from quirky outings to steamy soirées, join us as we reveal the secrets to sizzling swingers' adventures. 

Swingers Foursome Play 

In the middle of our date episode and the date that sparked this entire conversation is our Swingers Foursome Date in Amsterdam that ended in a fun, flirty play session in their fancy hotel.

Cate talks about how comfortable she was with her body and why her jaw is now sore. We talk about being the perfect sexual wing person and why you really need to up your game when it comes to physical play barriers. 

Curious about swingers foursomes and couple swaps? Let's chat.

 

Mentioned

• Bar Rouge Amsterdam https://www.barrouge.nl/ 

 

Swingers Events

We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/

 

Join us in Miami this May/June for Libertine Events Vices https://libertineevents.com/miami/ a Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover 

 

Support us

Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder

 

Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com 

 

Love, Peace and Respect

 

C&D

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Swingers Health Vol 6 - Mental Health

The Swingers Lifestyle is exciting, there are all these fun parties, costumes and new emotions to play with. But there is also the reality that with these new emotions and new experiences we need to consider what impact this might have on us, our primary relationship and the other people. In today's epsiode we're diving into the fascinating world of nonmonogamy,we’re going to dig into communication, boundaries, conflict resolution and more. She wants something, he doesn’t… how the f**k do we move forward?!

Swingers Communication

You know what the cliché is .. communicate, communicate, communicate

Yeah ok but… really? Let’s get into it.

What are the intricacies of effective communication, setting boundaries, and maintaining open and honest conversations.

Resentment in the Swingers Lifestyle

Let’s shift our focus to addressing the inevitable challenges in the swingers lifestyle. How do we deal with resentment and misunderstandings. We’re going to explore common sources of tension, strategies for conflict resolution, and tips for fostering a positive relationship environment

Links

• Expansive Connection website https://expansiveconnection.com/enm 
• Instagram https://www.instagram.com/expansive.connection.coaching 
• Twitter https://twitter.com/expanconnect
• Pursue and Withdraw cycle https://drkimblackham.com/understanding-the-pursue-withdraw-cycle 

 

Swingers Events

We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/

 

Support us

Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder

 

Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com 

 

Love, Peace and Respect

 

C&D

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

Today we’re interviewing Jem and Daz, UK Swingers that seem like any other couple. They have kids, they go to the gym together, they lead normal lives. But that relationship was broken according to Jem and Daz and Swinging Saved Their Relationship.

Swinging Saved Our Relationship - UK Swingers

We’ve all heard creators, bloggers, podcasters… random swingers on the sidewalk give the advice not to enter the lifestyle if your relationship or relationship is suffering ‘’don’t swing unless you have a good foundation’’, ‘’don’t swing to save your relationship."

Let's break down the taboo

 

The Ups and Downs of the Swingers Lifestyle

Let's talk about the realities of swinging. It's not always smooth sailing. How do you navigate the highs and lows?

 

Links for this episode

• Jem and Daz Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jemanddaz  
• Jem and Daz Twitter https://twitter.com/jemanddaz 
• Jem and Daz TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jem.daz 
• Shameless Care, STi Testing and ED Medication for the lifestyle (use code Libertine for $30 off) https://shamelesscare.com/?ref=Libertine 
• Casual Toys (use code Wanderlust for 15% off) https://www.casualtoys.com/ 

 

Swingers Events

We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/

 

Support us

Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder

 

Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com 

 

Love, Peace and Respect

 

C&D

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

Get ready for an intimate and revealing episode as Darrell, your host, turns the tables and interviews Cate about hosting a Swingers Hotel Takeover in the sizzling city of Miami.

Tune in now for a conversation that goes beyond the surface and into the heart of the Swingers Hotel Takeover experience.

Swingers Hotel Takeover Miami

In this candid conversation, delve into the ins and outs of organizing the Libertine Events Carnival Swingers Hotel Takeover in 2023. From the initial inspiration to the unexpected challenges faced, join us for an unfiltered exploration of the behind-the-scenes world of the lifestyle community.

The ins, outs and inner workings of running a Swingers Hotel Takeover

Step into the shoes of Darrell as he bombards Cate with a series of unexpected and intriguing questions. From the whimsical to the downright curious,

Darrell covers everything from the best moments to what went wrong during the Libertine Events Carnival Swingers Hotel Takeover.

Brace yourself for an entertaining rollercoaster ride as we unravel the mysteries of what makes Cate want to masturbate at these events and discover the thrilling highs and inevitable lows of orchestrating an unforgettable experience in the world of Miami's libertine lifestyle.

 

Links for this episode

- Libertine Events Swingers Hotel Takeovers https://libertineevents.com/ 

- Win a Prize Package to Libertine Events Miami https://swingershelp.com/libertine-giveaway/  

- Meet and Greet in Brisbane

https://www.opendoorqld.com.au/event-details-registration/logan-meet-n-greet 

- Walkthrough the Casual Toys Penthouse Playroom https://www.instagram.com/reel/C0127OpuboT/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== 

- Get some custom made Lifestyle Costumes and Outfits https://www.instagram.com/thetherapeuticdandy/  

- Hashtag Open Dating App for NonMonogamous People https://hashtagopen.onelink.me/iDmG/libertine 

- Shameless Care, STi Testing and ED Medication for the lifestyle (use code Libertine for $30 off) https://shamelesscare.com/?ref=Libertine 
- Casual Toys (use code Wanderlust for 15% off) https://www.casualtoys.com/ 

 

Swingers Events

We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/

 

Support us

Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder

 

Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com 

 

Love, Peace and Respect

 

C&D

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

Today I'm interviewing Ash and Russ aka That Hot Couple In GA on all social media platforms. We're going to be talking about their jouney and how they met at 22, started in a DOM / SUB relationship and eventually found the swingers lifestyle and now live out and proud with their faces on social media. 

 

BDSM and The Swinging Lifestyle

What do you know about the Dom/Sub relationship? Have you heard couples discuss their contracts and boundaries? Today we dig deep into Ash and Russ start in the kink lifestyle before moving into swinging. We talk about how their communication from BDSM assisted them in their initial journey.

Spoiler Alert - they were DOXXED and we discuss how they lost friends and loved ones in the process

 

Health Journey and Body Positivity

Having both lost over 100 pounds each (45kg for my metric friends) Ash and Russ know what it's like to be lacking in confidence to join the swingers lifestyle. We discuss how this health journey helped shape their lifestyle experience and what it truly means to be comfortable in your skin.

I put them on the hot seat and I ask if they are portraying a healthly lifestyle for those looking in on social media.... let's see what they have to say!  

 

Links for this episode

- Find Ash and Russ on Social Media here https://linktr.ee/Thathotcoupleinga  

- Choking 101 Mens Health https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a26471117/choking-during-sex/ 

- Choking 101 Sex With Emily https://sexwithemily.com/choking-etiquette-101/ 

 

Swingers Events

We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/

 

Support us

Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder

 

Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com 

 

Love, Peace and Respect

 

C&D

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

Today I'm interviewing Mr Dutchie, one half of an amazing couple that live in the Netherlands that we met through reddit of all places. 

We're talking about the different approaches to nonmonogamy in Europe and how Mr and Mrs Dutchie have navigated their lifestyle journey.

 

Swinging In The Netherlands 

Mr Dutchie walks us through their experience visiting one of the biggest clubs in Europe (Fun4Two), how culturally diverse this club is and what to expect. 

We share a story or two about their adventures at Fun4Two over New Years and how consent can be gained through body language.... 

 

Mentioned in this episode 

- Fun4Two Swingers Club Netherlands https://www.fun4two.nl/ 

- Fata Morgana Swingers Club Netherlands https://www.fata-morgana.nl/ 

- SDC Dating Site https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 

- Big Little Secrets BLS - https://biglittle-secrets.nl/en/ 

- Caviar De La Nuit https://www.caviardelanuit.com/ 

 

Swingers Events

We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/

 

Support us

Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder

 

Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com 

 

Love, Peace and Respect

 

C&D

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

We share all the details about our recent event in the UK for the first ever Swingers Hotel Takeover, Floor Crawl and Swingers Club Takeover of Penthouse Playrooms

 

UK Swingers Hotel Takeover

We took over an entire 87 room hotel and share the details from the event in a mash up podcast called the Wanderhoppers Podcast (a PennyYoko Production)

Find part 2 on the bed hoppers podcast https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/ 

Parties, buses, a floor crawl... what could go wrong 

Come and meet the lord and lady of fucktown

 

Swingers Events

We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/

 

Support us

Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder

 

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Love, Peace and Respect

 

C&D

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

We share all the details about our recent event in Sicily with the team at Spicy Match. We shares the ins and outs of the event, some useful tips on how to make an event a success, what types of people attended this event and all the juicy details.

We also share a story about Darrell playing solo in an orgy.... check it out.

Cap En Sicile

Cap En Sicile is inspired by the famous Cap D'Agde in Southern France. Spicy Match are literally bringing the Cap D'Agde scene to Sicily.

The people, the music, the party!

Including Pool parties by day, every day, and Themed Parties by night, every night....... bringing together the best DJ's and Erotic Acts from the Village Naturist in Cap d'Agde.

Who Are Spicy Match?

We make it simple for you to meet local swingers and track down a variety of swingers party options. Become a member so you can learn even more about the swing lifestyle. Join Spicy Match and find other like minded European Swingers https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=WanderlustSwingers and events

Spicy Match Event Links

• Cap D'Agde July 2024 Season Spicy Match https://www.spicymatch.com/events/40577/?edc=Wanderlust
• Cap D'Agde August 2024 High Season Spicy Match https://www.spicymatch.com/events/40571/?edc=Wanderlust
• Spicy Island Swingers Island Takeover Spicy Match June https://www.spicymatch.com/events/40000/?edc=Wanderlust 

Swingers Events

We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/

 

Support us

Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder

 

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Love, Peace and Respect

 

C&D

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

Swingers Health Vol 5 - Vaginal Health and BV

Keeping your Vaginal health at optimum levels is one of the most difficult things about the swingers lifestyle. Vulva owners need to deal with potential risks that extend outside of Sti’s and into general wellness and health which include Yeast Infections, Uti’s, BV, Thrush & more

Vaginal Health

You might not think these are sexy topics to talk about AND that is part of the problem, we’re too shamed to discuss this taboo topic and this leads to us thinking we’re the only one suffering and you're not!

We talk about everything from pre and post swingers play vaginal health, maintaining a healthy vagina, pH balance and more.

Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) in the Swingers Lifestyle

Bacterial vaginosis (BV) is a condition that happens when there is too much of certain bacteria in the vagina. This changes the normal balance of bacteria in the vagina… Any woman can get bacterial vaginosis. Having bacterial vaginosis can increase your chance of getting an STD.

Bacterial vaginosis is the most common vaginal problem for women and people assigned female at birth (AFAB) ages 15 to 44. In fact, about 30% of people with a vagina will get BV. The rate is higher if you’re Black. 21.2 million women in the USA are estimated to have BV right now.

Links

• Wende practice in Arizona https://arizonaspecializedgynecology.com/
• About Wende https://arizonaspecializedgynecology.com/wende-holt/
• Beckee practice https://perspectivehealthllc.com/
• Beckee email address [email protected]
• Probiotic Strain Recommendations:  L. Rhamnosus, L. Reuteri, Acdiophilus
• Clairvee by Bonafide highly recommended probiotic clear HERE to check it out on Amazon https://amzn.to/3Zb17Qu 

Want to read more?

Our good friends over at Swingers Help have a fantastic blog article about this very topic, you can check it out on their website including hundreds of other insightful and helpful posts. Check out the Swingers Help blog here https://swingershelp.com/bacterial-vaginosis-swinging-lifestyle/ 

 

Swingers Events

We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/

 

Support us

Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder

 

Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com 

 

Love, Peace and Respect

 

C&D

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

Swingers Health Vol 4 - Being Swinger Fit

Let’s talk about being Swinger Fit, Insufficient activity kills 1.6 million people around the world each year, according to the World Health Organization. Cardiovascular and respiratory disease, cancer and diabetes is responsible for 81 per cent of all noncommunicable diseases globally, which accounts for 70 per cent of the world's deaths.

Swinger Fit 

What is Swinger Fit, we break it down through the episode and you'll be surprised to hear it's NOT about your physical appearance. 

Be Your Best Self

Being someone’s best self or being confident can mean different things to different people. With so many body shapes and types out there it’s hard to define what one person’s trash and another’s treasure is. Being confident at a swinger’s event or clothing optional resort is not something that many people have to consider.

Links

• Naughty Gym Website https://www.naughtygym.com
  
  • Use code SWINGERFIT to get your 1st month free, trial their community and health support for 30 days with no cost. You can cancel anytime.
• Naughty Gym Twitter https://twitter.com/NaughtyGym
• Naughty Gym Instagram https://www.instagram.com/naughty_gym
• Naughty Gym YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@TheNAUGHTYGYMShow
• Join Naughty Gym at Hedonism Resort January 6th-13th, 2024 at their Full Resort Takeover for Be Better At Being Bad Week https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad 

Want to read more?

Our good friends over at Swingers Help have a fantastic blog article about this very topic, you can check it out on their website including hundreds of other insightful and helpful posts. Check out the Swingers Help blog here https://swingershelp.com/staying-in-sexy-shape-at-home/ 

 

Swingers Events

We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/

 

Support us

Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder

 

Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com 

 

Love, Peace and Respect

 

C&D