Navigating Betrayal Trauma: A Spouse Survival Guide 
Today we delve into the profound journey of navigating betrayal trauma as a partner of someone struggling with sex addiction and pornography addiction. In this podcast, we will explore key insights shared by Michelle Perra, who offers a unique perspective and valuable advice from her own experiences alongside her husband, the addict, Craig Perra. 

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Embracing Empowerment Amidst Turmoil: Michelle's story unfolds as she reflects on the tumultuous period of discovering her husband's struggles and the subsequent impact on her mental and emotional well-being. The journey through betrayal trauma is often overwhelming, leaving partners feeling lost, ashamed, and unsure of how to move forward.

The Spouse Survival Guide: In the midst of chaos and despair, Michelle emphasizes the importance of self-care, mindfulness, and seeking support as essential pillars to anchor oneself amidst the storm of emotions. Let's take a closer look at some key points highlighted in the Spouse Survival Guide: 

1. Allowing Time for Decision-Making: Making significant decisions under duress may not be the most empowering choice. Michelle advocates for granting oneself the space and time needed to make informed decisions from a place of strength rather than fear. 

2. Prioritizing Self-Care: Taking care of oneself during times of crisis is not just a luxury but a necessity. By focusing on basic self-care practices such as eating well, resting, exercising, and practicing mindfulness, partners can nurture their well-being amidst the turmoil.

3. Finding Support: While it may feel isolating to confront betrayal trauma, reaching out for support is crucial. Whether through therapy, counseling, or community resources, finding a safe space to share and process emotions can be transformative in the healing journey.

4. Feeling Emotions Without Judgment: Acknowledging and accepting one's feelings without self-criticism is an essential step in processing betrayal trauma. By embracing the full spectrum of emotions and allowing space for healing, partners can navigate through the pain with compassion and resilience.

5. Practicing Mindfulness: Utilizing mindfulness techniques, such as breathing exercises and visualization, can offer partners a sense of grounding and calm in the midst of emotional turmoil. By centering oneself in the present moment, partners can cultivate a sense of clarity and resilience.
## Closing Thoughts: As we conclude this blog post, we invite partners navigating betrayal trauma to embrace the Spouse Survival Guide as a beacon of hope and empowerment in their journey towards healing. Remember, you are not alone in this struggle, and by prioritizing self-care, seeking support, and practicing mindfulness, you can reclaim your strength and resilience in the face of adversity.


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Thank you for joining us on this insightful exploration of the Spouse Survival Guide. Remember, healing is possible, and you deserve to prioritize your well-being on this transformative journey.

You must incorporate basic risk management principles into your life to break your bad habits and beat sex & porn addiction once and for all. We manage risk in business but often fail miserably to do it in our personal lives. Listen to how Craig brings the critical organizational philosophy of risk management into a simple, easy way to leverage these critical principles to help you manage the patterns you are stuck in. We are creatures of habit and listen to this podcast to learn about the 80/20 and 90/10 rules, how to define your red zone, and what to do about it.

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Craig shares his thought's on Matthew Perry's death. The Friend's star struggled with addiction his entire life and was very open about his struggle with alcohol and drugs.
Craig, too, struggled with opiates and alcohol and sex and porn .... Listen as Craig honors Matthew Perry's vulnerability and inspires you to be vulnerable too.

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In this podcast, Coach Craig shares some very serious allegations against 2 famous therapists with strong porn addiction counseling practices. Both were recently arrested after allegations surfaced that they abused clients and in one case it's alleged the therapist abused clients and children. Licensed therapists Jodi Hildebrandt and Maruice Harker were both recently arrested in separate incidents. It's alleged that both of these therapists abused their clients by using unethical and wildly inappropriate techniques that reinforced shame and hurt their clients tremendously, among other serious allegations that are beyond the scope of this program. There are allegations of violence and more and more former clients are coming out to share additional allegations of inappropriate and dangerous techniques. It's important to note that everyone has the right to be presumed innocent until proven guilty and everything expressed in this text and in the broaadcast is my opinion. Learn techniques that might be causing you harm and learn to identify red flags in your treatment relationship so you can get the best help. Men, because you are valued listeners, use the coupon code PODCAST to save 36% off of Core Training Weekly Webinar with Expert Craig Perra Program: https://www.themindfulhabit.com/online-video-program/ CALL if you want to talk to someone to learn more about our programs and costs: (877) 769-3790 TEXT us at 916-665-0145 if you want more info about our programs via text We offer a 100% UNCONDITIONAL 30-Day Money Back Guarantee on our self-study, group, and one on one coaching programs with Craig Read our 400+ Excellent 5 ️️️️️ Verified Testimonials and read exactly what clients say about our programs https://www.trustpilot.com/review/themindfulhabit.com Follow us on social media to join me live and to learn more about habits, mindfulness, unmet needs, parts work, and other tools to live your best life. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/themindfulhabitsystem YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/themindfulhabit Twitter: https://twitter.com/themindfulhabit Memento Mori Merh (created by "Scotty the Artist"): https://powerpurposegear.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0ILT9xCM1SxEbJpWUmlF00?si=eD1QL8dgQJmnE4C5yg1R0w iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/sex-afflictions-porn-addictions/id556373664?mt=2 Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/mindfulhabitcoach

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Navigate the murky waters of cognitive distortions with us in this enlightening episode of Sex Afflictions & Porn Addictions. We’ll spotlight nine critical cognitive distortions that cast shadows on individuals grappling with sex and porn addiction and their spouses. Gain insights into how these distortions shape reality, breed misunderstanding, and perpetuate cycles of pain. More importantly, we'll uncover strategies and solutions to dispel these shadows, fostering clearer understanding and healthier interactions. Whether you’re battling addiction, supporting a loved one, or simply seeking to deepen your awareness, join us in this transformative journey towards healing and clarity. Men, because you are valued listeners, use the coupon code PODCAST to save 36% off of Core Training Weekly Webinar with Expert Craig Perra Program: https://www.themindfulhabit.com/online-video-program/ Call if you want to talk to someone to learn more about our programs and costs: (877) 769-3790 We offer a 100% UNCONDITIONAL 30-Day Money Back Guarantee on our self-study, group, and one on one coaching programs with Craig and The Mindful Habit Team. Read our hundreds of Excellent 5 ️️️️️ Verified Testimonials and read exactly what clients say about our programs https://www.trustpilot.com/review/themindfulhabit.com Follow us on social media to join me live and to learn more about habits, mindfulness, unmet needs, parts work, and other tools to live your best life. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/themindfulhabitsystem YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/themindfulhabit Twitter: https://twitter.com/themindfulhabit Memento Mori Merh (created by "Scotty the Artist"): https://powerpurposegear.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0ILT9xCM1SxEbJpWUmlF00?si=eD1QL8dgQJmnE4C5yg1R0w iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/sex-afflictions-porn-addictions/id556373664?mt=2 Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/mindfulhabitcoach

Welcome to "Sex Afflictions & Porn Addictions," a podcast dedicated to guiding individuals and couples on their journey to conquer sex and porn addiction. In this episode, we delve into the powerful impact of cognitive distortions on those facing addiction, uncovering the tools to break free from these mental barriers. For those navigating sex or porn addiction, we begin by exploring the concept of cognitive distortions—those tricky thought patterns that can perpetuate addictive behaviors and hinder the path to recovery. Through empathy and understanding, we shed light on how these distortions may have taken root and why they seem so challenging to overcome. Throughout the episode, we focus on various types of cognitive distortions commonly experienced in addiction, such as catastrophic thinking, emotional reasoning, and black-and-white thinking. By recognizing these distortions, we can gain insight into their effects on behavior and emotions, empowering us to take back control of our lives. We share practical techniques to interrupt and challenge these cognitive distortions head-on. By fostering self-awareness and mindful responses, we learn how to break the cycle of addiction and cultivate healthier thought patterns, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling life. In addition, we address the trigger response plan—a powerful tool to identify and cope with cognitive distortions in moments of vulnerability. This plan acts as a roadmap to navigate challenges and build resilience, enabling us to make conscious choices aligned with our recovery goals. Join us on this transformative episode as we shine a light on the path to overcoming cognitive distortions in sex and porn addiction recovery. Together, we embark on a journey of empowerment, growth, and healing, reclaiming control of our thoughts and actions, and paving the way to a brighter, addiction-free future. USE THE COUPON CODE "PODCAST" TO SAVE 30% off our Core Training Program membership, including a weekly webinar by the master himself, Coach Craig. Here's the link and start right now for less than a college textbook!!! https://www.themindfulhabit.com/online-video-program/

In this episode, we explore a powerful technique that can help men struggling with sex and porn addiction find their path to recovery. Join us as we shed light on Dialectal Behavior Therapy's transformative approach called REST. Sex and porn addiction can be overwhelming, affecting various aspects of a person's life. Breaking free from its grasp may seem challenging, but with the right tools and support, it is possible. REST, which stands for Relax, Evaluate, Set an Intention, and Take Action, provides a structured framework to guide individuals on their road to healing. Throughout this episode, we dive into the four key stages of REST, learning how to relax the mind and body, evaluate triggers and patterns, set a clear intention for change, and take actionable steps towards a healthier life. Whether you are personally dealing with addiction or seeking to support someone on their journey, this episode offers valuable information and encouragement. Together, we aim to foster a safe and compassionate space for growth, breaking the stigma surrounding addiction and promoting mental well-being. Tune in to discover how the REST approach can empower you to reclaim control, rebuild relationships, and lead a fulfilling life beyond addiction. Remember, the first step towards healing is seeking support, and we are here with you every step of the way. Subscribe now and join our community of brave individuals walking the path of recovery and transformation. Together, we can find balance, embrace self-compassion, and build a brighter future. USE THE COUPON CODE "PODCAST" TO SAVE 30% off membership in our Core Training Program which includes a weekly webinar by the master himself, Coach Craig.