Terrible, Thanks For Asking

Feelings & Co.

Subscribe within Apple Podcasts for ad-free listening, bonus episodes, and access to our full archive. For all those perks and more, including a supportive community of Terrible listeners, mail surprises and live sessions with our team, join us on Patreon.com/ttfa! — It's a question we ask (and get asked) all the time: “How are you?” And normally we just respond with “Fine!” even if we’re totally dying inside, so everyone can go about their day. But it’s not always all that fine, is it? “Terrible, Thanks For Asking” is a show by author Nora McInerny that lets real people get real honest about how they’re really doing. It’s sometimes sad, sometimes funny, and almost always both. A production of Feelings & Co.

  • 1 hour 2 minutes
    Embarrassing Stories

    In this episode, we discuss the defining moments in our lives that forever branded us with shame.


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    15 April 2025, 7:00 am
  • 36 minutes
    How Do You Care for Yourself?

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    8 April 2025, 7:00 am
  • 1 hour 14 seconds
    Angry and Grieving

    Of all the stages of grief, anger has to be the ugliest one. The one that feels the ickiest no matter what side of it you’re on. So today we’re talking about it.


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    1 April 2025, 7:00 am
  • 1 hour 8 minutes
    Issa Rae on Friendships That Need to Go, from IMO

    Sharing a new show from my friends at Higher Ground, hosted by Michelle Obama, called IMO. You know on Thanks for Asking, we keep it real and help each other through some of our hardest times. Similarly on IMO, Michelle and her big brother Craig Robinson tackle real questions from real folks just like you, offering practical advice, personal storytelling, and plenty of laughs. Each week, they’re joined by a guest to bring candid perspectives to the everyday questions shaping our lives, relationships and the world around us. Topics range from dating and relationships, to family and faith.


    Michelle and Craig share stories about being there for each other throughout their lives, from first crushes and fraught college years, to landing at the White House, to losing their mom. For six decades they’ve been each others’ most trusted counsel—and now, they want to be that counsel for you. In this episode, they’re joined by actress Issa Rae for a conversation about navigating the challenges of mismatched expectations in female friendships.


    You can find more episodes of IMO at https://lnk.to/imomichellecraigTT


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    27 March 2025, 7:00 am
  • 1 hour 4 minutes
    Out of The Void, Into The Dating Pool

    In this episode, we get an update from widower David Cherson. This is the first part of a two-part series called Life of a Lonely Widower.


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    25 March 2025, 7:00 am
  • 1 hour 6 minutes
    IGTBO, TFA (Part 2)

    Take a break from the doom and disaster and reset your psyche with some okay things.


    We won’t ever say “everything is going to be okay” but we will do our best to find and focus on even the littlest okay things around us that aren’t the very worst.


    Keep the bar low and your head up.


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    18 March 2025, 7:00 am
  • 30 minutes 28 seconds
    Some Regrets

    I cannot trust anyone who says No Regrets. Because really…you don’t have ANY? NONE?! Are you sure about that? I can tend towards the opposite mentality myself, but in between No Regrets and All Regrets is a safe middle ground of self-reflection and accountability without self-flagellation and rumination, and that is where we met today’s callers, who bravely dialed in to share their regrets - big and small.


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    11 March 2025, 7:00 am
  • 51 minutes 31 seconds
    Creativity, Burnout and Life Beyond Productivity with Maria Bowler

    Rise and Grind, Girlbosses! It’s time to GROWTH HACK your way to your BEST SELF and make this the ULTIMATE year. If you don’t have time, you can make time, because excuses are no excuse.


    Just kidding! Like so many of us, author Maria Bowler found herself caught up in the Productivity Machine, which demands we do more and more and more for the sake of…what, exactly? For the sake of more, of course! 


    Maria’s new book, Making Time: A New Vision for Crafting A Life Beyond Productivity is not a book of tips and tricks and life hacks, but a gentler and more generous approach to how we spend our one precious life. It’s a perfect read for anyone who feels burned out and not “enough” – you can get your copy here and support Maria, small bookstores and this show. 


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    4 March 2025, 8:00 am
  • 28 minutes 14 seconds
    I Hate My Friend’s Partner…What Do I Do About It?

    Do you say something? Do you shut up? I’m just one woman with an opinion, so I took your calls and texts to answer this listener question: do you say something when your friend is in a relationship with someone you hate? 


    This is a preview of Thanks for Asking, a call-in show about what matters to you. You can get the full episode on my Substack.


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    25 February 2025, 8:00 am
  • 1 hour 6 minutes
    Worrying, Fresh Retirement and Movie Extras

    If it’s Tuesday, the phone lines are open and operators (me) are standing by. Today we’re talk to callers from Honolulu to North Carolina about everything from worrying to working as an extra on Hallmark movies to existential crises.

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    18 February 2025, 8:00 am
  • 31 minutes 51 seconds
    AI Wife

    As a widow, I get many emails from other widows. But this one – from a man who created an AI version of his dead wife – was definitely a first. And I knew I had to talk to him.


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    11 February 2025, 8:00 am
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