Whether you’re parenting toddlers or teens - these 5 books will give you the tools you need to create a healthier family. Join us as we dive into Karen's top recommendations for parenting books that offer invaluable insights, practical strategies, and wisdom to navigate the ups and downs of raising children. From building strong connections to setting boundaries with love, this episode is packed with essential reads for every parent's bookshelf.
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4:25 - These 5 books truly helped Karen in her parenting journey
5:25 - Personality Plus for Parents unpacks the four temperaments
7:30 - PPP helps you understand the child’s strengths and weaknesses, especially if they are very different from your own
13:21- A Grown Ups Guide to Kids’ Wiring - great for “translating” our kids behavior and helping us speak to them in ways that are more effective
15:40 - Boundaries book: moms are afraid to set boundaries with our kids, but boundaries bring security
18:17- The Birth Order Book explains how the order of our children and age gaps in our family can help us understand our kids’ behavior and tendencies
22:10 - The Five Love Languages of Children
28:02 - Honorable Mentions: Survival Guide to Motherhood, Parenting By The Book, Raising Worry-free Girls, Raising Emotionally Strong Boys, Wild Things, Shepherding A Child’s Heart, Parenting Your Powerful Child, The New Strong-Willed Child, Moms on Call Parenting Series
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In today’s episode, we’re fielding questions about the situations you are facing in your relationship with your own mom. Whether it’s a conflict over parenting style, a strained relationship, or a concern about childcare, Karen has the practical answers you’re looking for so you can honor your mother while still maintaining your boundaries.
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2:31 - Honoring your mom can be difficult when the relationship has not been good
3:57 - This can be a spiritual battle more than anything
4:40 - How can I help my mom out after the death of my father?
8:15 - My mom watches my kids weekly and their misbehavior is causing tension between us
13:00 - I’m afraid my mom will resent us choosing daycare, how would you address it?
16:37- My mom has a new boyfriend and I don’t want to be around his dysfunctional family. What can I do?
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Fear and anxiety among moms today is rampant. In the emails we receive, the churches we visit, and with the moms Karen speaks to- fear is a big deal. Today Karen teaches us a powerful verse and reminds us to fight fear with the truth of God’s Word.
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5:32 - Generally speaking, moms these days are incredibly fearful
6:23 - If fear does not come from God, where is it coming from?
8:27 - I want to trust my family to watch my kids, but feel like I should be scared of letting others watch them based on what I hear in society
12:12 - Help! I worry about all the “what ifs” in life
16:23 - Every evening my anxiety spikes and fear persists
19:33 - My son struggles with fear and I find it hard to understand or be compassionate
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May is coming moms - and it’s full of school commitments, parties, end of year events and more. Today we’re talking about what you can do before the chaos begins to prepare yourself and your family for a more peaceful May.
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7:36 - You can’t do everything for everybody
10:58 - Find the beauty in letting your Senior go
12:50 - Stay present and enjoy it!
16:25 - Find time for self-care
18:53 - Involve your husband in the to-do list
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Today Courtney DeFeo, host of the Pardon the Mess podcast and a dear friend of Karen’s joins us to talk about raising her daughters. They talk about the season when Courtney felt God calling her to take a break from the professional world - which turned into a 3 year pause. Courtney shares what God did in her world during those years and the new season she is moving into now. She and Karen also share how motherhood uncovered their deep-seated selfishness and how the Lord has worked in their hearts to enable them to celebrate their husband’s successes. We know Courtney’s story will encourage you today!
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2:40 - How Courtney and Karen know one another
4:25 - Courtney’s family and work history
9:55 - God called Courtney to take a complete break from work
13:53 - Just as He told her when to get out, He told her when to get back in
15:58 - Motherhood taught them how selfish they were
21:20- Being jealous of their husbands’ careers and successes
24:19 - Separating her children’s struggles from her responsibilities
30:45 - Pause and pray when you are tempted to jump in and fix the situation
32:58 - Learning not to overcommit
34:17 - Seeing how God has been faithful and brought women into her children’s lives to encourage their faith
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Today we’re answering Bible questions you might feel silly asking out loud! This episode is full of insights across a breadth of biblical topics. Be sure to check out the show notes for every scripture reference Karen mentions! We hope this one encourages you to pick up your Bible, pray for wisdom, and get reading this week!
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1:45 - Emily’s confusion over multiple James and Johns in the New Testament
4:30 - Is everything all white in heaven? Where does that stereotype come from?
9:43 - What did the “judges” do in biblical times?
13:04 - Why do we tithe? Where does God command it?
15:50 - Help me straighten out all the ‘Marys’ in the New Testament!
19:03 - Why do so many Bible characters go by two different names?
21:30- What’s the difference between the Pharisees and the Sadducees?
23:20 - Where does the phrase, “for this child I have prayed” come from?
26:00 - Why do we obey the Ten Commandments but not the Levitical law?
28:30 - Help! Reading the Bible confuses me!
31:20 - Tools for studying the Bible
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Danielle from Intentional Marriages joins us today to share insights from over a decade of working with married couples. She offers practical ways couples raising young kids can connect with one another on a daily and weekly basis and shares hope for couples who are struggling in their marriage.
We hope you pick up one practical tip that helps you be intentional about prioritizing your marriage relationship today.
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11:45 - Connecting with Your Spouse in Seasons of Busyness
14:30 - What Does a Daily Check-In Look Like?
15:50 - Pausing to Talk Through “The Story I’m Telling Myself…”
19:10 - Tigers Vs. Turtles
23:15 - You Need a Weekly Check-In
27:30 - Everything Else Is Scheduled, Schedule Sex!
31:30 - Get Help Before Your Relationship Is In Trouble
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Our strong-willed children can drive parents up the wall with their forceful opinions! In today’s episode Karen gives advice for any mom locked in a battle with her “red” child. She reminds us of the needs our strong-willed children have, and offers encouragement for coming alongside them without giving in to their demands.
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04:28 - Why Karen Loves Her Reds
5:30 - Strengths and Weaknesses of the Red Personality
7:50 - Dead Giveaways You Have a Red Child
11:00 - How Do I Handle My 6 Year Old’s Stubbornness?
19:00 - How Do I Discipline a Defiant Toddler Who Hits?
24:15 - How Do I Break Bad Habits We Started During Covid?
29:05 What Do I Do About My Picky Eater?
32:00 - Give Choices to Your Strong-Willed Child
34:33 - Reds Are Your Leaders, Get Them on the Right Path
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Today Karen is sharing a simple way to talk with your kids about the meaning of Easter. Listen as she walks us step-by-step through the Easter story using Resurrection Eggs. This may be a great new tradition you can start with your family this year!
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11:00 - Karen walks through the Resurrection Eggs
14:30 - Old Testament prophecy Jesus fulfilled (Zec. 9:9)
22:10 - Don’t try to sugarcoat the ugliness of the crucifixion for your kids
36:05 - You can have fun with Easter and still focus on the reason we celebrate
36:45 - How can we share the Good News of the resurrection with our older kids?
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Moms face conflicting priorities daily. From little things, like: do I wake up early to get a workout in or catch extra sleep because the baby was up last night to bigger questions like, do we have another baby or do I prioritize going back to work? The answers aren’t always black and white, but today Karen offers up wisdom to help guide you when you’re caught between two good choices.
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Today's episode rides the emotional rollercoaster ride of defiance, particularly with red/blue personality kids. Karen shares insights, encouragement, and practical tips for parents who are facing defiance head-on.
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08:26 - Red and Blue Temperament Combination
10:16 - Seeking God's Wisdom
19:41 - Addressing Defiance in Children
24:56 - Gaining Respect from a Defiant Child
27:54 - Letting Fathers Take the Lead
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