ADHD Aha!

Understood.org, Laura Key

Listen to people share candid stories about the moment it clicked that they have ADHD. Host Laura Key, who’s had her own ADHD “aha” moment, chats with guests about common topics like ADHD and shame, mental health challenges, and more. Through heartfelt interviews, listeners learn about the unexpected, emotional, and even funny ways ADHD symptoms surface for kids and adults.

  • 25 minutes 57 seconds
    What’s scary about ADHD? (Ghost hunter Em Schulz’s story)

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    Em Schulz thought they were just lazy growing up. Years later, after discovering that not everyone’s TikTok was full of ADHD tips that “weirdly work,” they realized they might have ADHD.

    Em is a paranormal investigator (aka ghost hunter) and co-host of the And That’s Why We Drink podcast. Em and Laura chat about ghosts and ghosting, as in ghosting relationships — a not uncommon ADHD behavior. And Em shares their take on whether people believe less in ghosts or ADHD.

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    Timestamps

    (01:32) What it’s like being a paranormal investigator

    (06:13) What do people believe in less: ADHD or ghosts?

    (07:02) Growing up with undiagnosed ADHD

    (10:42) Em’s pandemic diagnosis

    (14:02) TikTok ADHD tips that resonated with Em

    (15:39) How did Em’s ADHD diagnosis change their life?

    (16:55) What’s scary about ADHD?

    (18:34) Why Em became a paranormal investigator

    (19:33) ADHD creativity at night

    (20:28) Scary movies

    (23:43) Where you can find Em

     

    To get a transcript of this show and check out more episodes, visit the ADHD Aha! podcast page at Understood.

    Want to share your “aha” moment? We love hearing from our listeners. Email us at [email protected].

    Understood is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

    29 October 2024, 4:00 am
  • 24 minutes 41 seconds
    When ADHD is mistaken for disobedience (Kayla Sanders’ story)

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    Growing up as a Black girl with undiagnosed ADHD, Kayla Sanders learned very early that getting into trouble was not an option. Kayla was imaginative, playful, and extremely bright. She was also hyperactive, which was occasionally mistaken for disobedience. 

    One incident in particular in the first grade left a lasting mark on Kayla. From then on out, Kayla did everything she could to avoid causing trouble for her hard-working, loving mom. She pushed down her hyperactivity and masked her symptoms for years. Then, during the pandemic, Kayla was finally diagnosed with ADHD.  

    Join Kayla and host Laura Key’s chat on ADHD and masking, and the added pressure that comes from racial bias.

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    Timestamps

    (01:10) Kayla’s pandemic ADHD diagnosis story

    (06:53) Kayla’s childhood behavior

    (09:45) The pressure to mask ADHD as a Black woman

    (13:56) Covering up “mistakes” in the classroom

    (15:35) Kayla’s relationship with her mom

    (20:11) Cultural masking, and the intersection of ADHD and race

     

    To get a transcript of this show and check out more episodes, visit the ADHD Aha! podcast page at Understood.

    Want to share your “aha” moment? We love hearing from our listeners. Email us at [email protected].

    Understood is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

    15 October 2024, 4:00 am
  • 29 minutes 42 seconds
    Emotional regulation — and yelling — as a mom with ADHD (Patricia Sung’s story)

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    Patricia Sung was diagnosed with ADHD in her first year of college. It wasn’t until she became a mother, and other people relied on her, that she realized just how much ADHD affected her.

    Patricia now hosts the Motherhood in ADHD podcast. Join Patricia and host Laura Key as they talk about managing emotions with ADHD. Patricia explains the concept of “raging” — that moment when you go from 99 to 100 and emotions boil over. She also shares strategies that can help. 

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    Timestamps

    ((01:10) Patricia’s diagnosis story

    (06:16) How “ADHD” changed for Patricia when she became a mom

    (09:09) ADHD mom challenges

    (21:47) Acknowledging realistic “wins” for women with ADHD

    (26:41) How you can join Patricia

    To get a transcript of this show and check out more episodes, visit the ADHD Aha! podcast page at Understood.

    Want to share your “aha” moment? We love hearing from our listeners. Email us at [email protected].

    Understood is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

    1 October 2024, 4:00 am
  • 24 minutes 20 seconds
    Fear of rejection with ADHD runs deep (Matthew’s story)

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    Matthew Raghunauth always felt like he was a little lazy and sluggish — that’s just how he was. Then the time came to return to office after the pandemic, and he really started struggling at work. He questioned why he would put things off so much. He was scared to mess up, and afraid that his colleagues would think he’s a bad employee. 

    Matthew is an artist and UX designer who was diagnosed with ADHD about a year and a half ago. Join Laura and Matthew as they talk about this ADHD fear of being “found out,” and a grown-up view of growing up.

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    Timestamps

    (01:25) Why did Matthew seek out an ADHD evaluation?

    (05:59) ADHD and prioritization overload

    (07:23) Anxiety and fixations while growing up

    (10:10) Putting off things out of fear of failing and being rejected

    (12:34) ADHD and catastrophizing

    (15:32) Are we really “too sensitive”?

    (16:38) When “growing up” means taking care of yourself

    (21:20) The added pressure of being first generation American

     

    To get a transcript of this show and check out more episodes, visit the ADHD Aha! podcast page at Understood.

    Want to share your “aha” moment? We love hearing from our listeners. Email us at [email protected].

    Understood is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

    17 September 2024, 4:00 am
  • 31 minutes 54 seconds
    “You can’t have ADHD” (Farah Jamil’s story)

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    Farah Jamil had to stand up for herself when two health care providers told her she couldn’t have ADHD. The reasons cited? One thought she was too smart, charming, and cared for to have ADHD. The other seemed to question whether ADHD was even real. Fortunately, Farah has strong self-advocacy skills that allowed her to debunk these myths in real time. 

    Farah is an executive coach, ADHD life coach, and the founder of the community groups Muslim ADHDers and Interfaith ADHDers. Listen as host Laura Key and Farah bust common ADHD myths. They also talk about how ADHD can make keeping friends hard.

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    Timestamps

    (01:14) Farah’s first attempt to get an ADHD diagnosis

    (05:11) Unpacking the 4 myths her doctor told her about ADHD

    (09:22) Farah’s second attempt to get an ADHD diagnosis

    (10:55) What was Farah struggling with?

    (13:41) Why is Farah surprised she “still has friends”?

    (18:53) The ADHD communities Farah has founded

    (27:24) Farah’s advice

    (29:53) Where you can find Farah

    To get a transcript of this show and check out more episodes, visit the ADHD Aha! podcast page at Understood.

    Want to share your “aha” moment? We love hearing from our listeners. Email us at [email protected].

    Understood is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

    3 September 2024, 4:00 am
  • 34 minutes 31 seconds
    Jessica McCabe (!!) on motherhood, social anxiety, and ADHD medication

    How to ADHD creator Jessica McCabe has been the source of many ADHD “aha” moments — so what were her ADHD “aha” moments? 

    Jessica was diagnosed when she was 12 years old but didn’t start to look into what ADHD meant for her until she was 32. Taking ADHD medication felt like putting on glasses — experiencing the world as everyone else did. But she didn’t have the skills and strategies to cope with ADHD.

    So, she started making YouTube videos...and the rest is history. Listen in as Jessica answers Laura’s many questions, including: What’s it like for her to be a new mom with ADHD? Does she ever get a vulnerability hangover? And why doesn’t she think she’s cool? 

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    Timestamps

    (03:08) How Jessica feels about being involved in so many people’s “aha” moment

    (04:55) Jessica’s diagnosis story at age 12 

    (06:16) Jessica’s ADHD medication “aha” moment

    (07:33) The creation of Jessica’s YouTube channel How to ADHD

    (11:29) Jessica on social anxiety

    (14:07) Busting ADHD medication stigma

    (16:52) ADHD and new motherhood

    (22:49) Going back to work after maternity leave

    (26:01) Laura’s rapid-fire questions

    (31:49) Jessica’s parting words

    To get a transcript of this show and check out more episodes, visit the ADHD Aha! podcast page at Understood.

    Want to share your ADHD “aha” moment? We love hearing from our listeners. Email us at [email protected].

    Understood is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

    20 August 2024, 4:00 am
  • 32 minutes 10 seconds
    ADHD and trauma

    Dr. Monica Johnson joins Laura to talk about a topic that comes up a lot on ADHD Aha!: ADHD and trauma. She explains how trauma and ADHD can look alike and whether ADHD can lead to trauma. Dr. J, as she’s known, also talks about misdiagnosis, treatment, and how to support someone who’s struggling. 

    This episode contains discussion about trauma, PTSD, and examples of traumatic events. It’s intended for educational purposes, but may not be for everyone. You can visit mentalhealthhotline.org, or rainn.org for support.

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    Timestamps

    (04:05) Dr. J defines trauma

    (05:18) The difference between trauma and PTSD

    (07:59) Can trauma cause ADHD? Can ADHD cause trauma?

    (09:51) Misdiagnosis

    (16:50) What happens when you have both ADHD and trauma

    (19:25) Possible treatment

    (23:54) How can caregivers and loved ones support someone who has ADHD and trauma?

    (28:13) More on ADHD and... on the MissUnderstood podcast channel

    To get a transcript of this show and check out more episodes, visit the ADHD Aha! podcast page at Understood.

    We love hearing from our listeners. Email us at [email protected].

    Understood is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

    6 August 2024, 4:00 am
  • 26 minutes 57 seconds
    ADHD in marriage: How it changed a relationship (Breon and Dan’s story)

    Breon and Dan Gummel are a mixed-neurodiversity married couple. After about 5 years of marriage, Breon was diagnosed with ADHD. The conflicts they’d been having as a couple took on a new shape. The more they learned about ADHD, the better they understood each other.

    Now, they’ve founded an ADHD community called ADHDinner. This is where people with ADHD, and their close ones, can come together for a meal and share their experiences. You can create your own wherever you live with their free ADHDinner guide. 

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    To get a transcript of this show and check out more episodes, visit the ADHD Aha! podcast page at Understood.

    We love hearing from our listeners. Email us at [email protected].

    Understood is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

    23 July 2024, 4:00 am
  • 32 minutes 28 seconds
    Career tips and starting a business with ADHD. Plus ADHD and PTSD (Phoebe Gavin’s story)

    Leadership and career coach Phoebe Gavin was diagnosed with ADHD at a young age. Phoebe’s mom was her number one advocate. She never made Phoebe feel like there was something wrong with her, and that’s followed her to this day. Now, she works with clients to empower them in the same way. 

    Phoebe takes us through serving in the military, to fashion school, to starting a business with ADHD. She shares career tips when you have ADHD and her journey navigating ADHD and PTSD.

    Related resources

    To get a transcript of this show and check out more episodes, visit the ADHD Aha! podcast page at Understood.

    We love hearing from our listeners. Email us at [email protected].

    Understood is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

    9 July 2024, 4:00 am
  • 28 minutes 19 seconds
    “ADHD for Smart Ass Women” host Tracy Otsuka!

    As women, it can feel like we have to do it all, yet not be “too much.” Add ADHD stigma and shame on top, and it can feel impossible. Good thing we have Tracy Otsuka to remind us that no one has ever made a difference by being “too little.” 

    Tracy is an ADHD coach, the host of the ADHD for Smart Ass Women podcast, and author of the book with the same name! In this episode, host Laura Key and Tracy talk about how her son’s diagnosis led to her own, the need for an ADHD cookbook, and challenging the status quo. 

    Related resources

    To get a transcript of this show and check out more episodes, visit the ADHD Aha! podcast page at Understood.

    We love hearing from our listeners. Email us at [email protected].

    Understood is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

    25 June 2024, 4:00 am
  • 29 minutes 1 second
    Toxic productivity, remembering to remember, and rejection sensitivity (Jesse Anderson’s story)

    Jesse Anderson wishes he’d had an ADHD manual when he was first diagnosed as an adult, so he wrote one. Before he was diagnosed, he never considered having ADHD himself. After his wife encouraged him to look into it more, his trouble with remembering to do things, time management, and anger started to take a different shape in his mind.

    Today, Jesse is an ADHD advocate, writer, speaker, and author of the book Extra Focus: The Quick Start Guide to Adult ADHD. Join host Laura Key and Jesse as they discuss toxic productivity, prospective memory, and the magic of owning a whiteboard. 

    Related resources

    To get a transcript of this show and check out more episodes, visit the ADHD Aha! podcast page at Understood.

    We love hearing from our listeners. Email us at [email protected].

    Understood is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. Learn more at Understood.org.

    And if you like what you hear, help us continue this work by donating at understood.org/donate.

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    Understood is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

    11 June 2024, 4:00 am
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