Gender: A Wider Lens Podcast

Stella O'Malley & Sasha Ayad

Two therapists explore the expanding concept of "gender" from a psychological depth perspective.

  • 2 minutes 28 seconds
    Premium: I Was Not Looking to Be An Activist with Tamara Pietzke
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    In many regions, institutional mandates and professional standards that prioritize affirming a child's gender identity without considering alternative approaches or potential risks, are requiring therapists to adhere to gender-affirming care protocols, regardless of any personal reservations and/or evidence based recommendations for anything other than …

    27 April 2024, 10:00 am
  • 1 hour 1 minute
    161 - The Unlikely Whistleblower with Tamara Pietzke

    If you work in pediatric gender medicine and have concerns about the safety of practice, you are not alone. Contact the LGBT Courage Coalition for guidance and support (including finding legal counsel and connecting you with media contacts).

    Stella and Sasha welcome whistleblower, Tamara Pietzke for an important conversation highlighting the valuable role that clinicians who are able to speak openly play in revealing insights from ‘behind the gender affirming care curtain’.

    Tamara’s story highlights the challenges and ethical dilemmas involved in providing gender-affirming care to children and the difficulties whistleblowers are facing in speaking out against harmful practices and the lack of informed consent.

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    Sasha Ayad: https://sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching  

    Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching

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    26 April 2024, 10:00 am
  • 2 minutes 56 seconds
    "People Aren't Born into Some Special Category of Person Called Trans"
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    Teenagers, particularly those on the autism spectrum, encounter unique challenges in navigating social expectations, understanding their own identity, and processing information. These challenges can be compounded by the influence of social media and mainstream narratives, which often perpetuate misconceptions.

    Yet, the capacity of teenagers for critical analysis and insightful reflections is frequently underestimated. It is crucial to promote open dialogue and the exploration of diverse viewpoints to empower teenagers to develop a deeper understanding of themselves and their surroundings.

    In this bonus episode for premium subscribers, Christina Buttons emphasizes the complexities teenagers encounter, especially those who are grappling with their identity amid societal pressures. She highlights several tools and approaches that she believes young people could benefit from in fostering intellectual curiosity.

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    20 April 2024, 10:01 am
  • 1 hour 14 minutes
    160 - People Deserve Better Than This "Gender-Affirming Care" with Christina Buttons

    This episode opens with an extended introduction exploring the recent release of The Cass Review - Final Report, as this is a massive development in the world of gender medicalization. The guest feature begins at the 00:10:30 timestamp, so please feel free to skip ahead if you’d like.

    Sasha and Stella welcome guest, Christina Buttons, for a special conversation covering everything from her personal experiences with autism, her troubled adolescence, and her work as an investigative journalist, to her awakening to gender issues and her extensive research efforts. 

    The episode gets into the concept of stress perception and resilience, the intersection of autism and gender dysphoria, and the lack of informed consent in medical interventions for trans identified individuals.

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    Sasha Ayad: https://sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching  

    Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching

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    19 April 2024, 10:00 am
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    Premium: When "Helpful" Treatments Harm Patients
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    As the medical establishment continues to extract valuable lessons in the aftermath of the opioid crisis, the medical use of cannabis has become legalized in many US states. But is it an appropriate substitute for opioids? With a lack of scientific evidence supporting the efficacy of cannabis compared to traditional over-the-counter pain relievers (like Motrin), do we fully understand the impact that elevated THC levels can have in patients long term? The push for medical marijuana parallels the opioid crisis, with both instances involving the broad application of treatments without sufficient consideration of potential harms — sound familiar?

    “So you've created a whole new set of adverse effects that of course they didn't think of…it just got so broadly applied that now they've caught a giant mass of young people that are exposed to interventions that aren't appropriate or they're ignoring adverse effects”

    In this bonus episode for premium subscribers, Carrie highlights concerns about the medicalization of ‘spiritual’ problems and the over reliance on medication as a solution.

    “My job isn't to practice medicine based on what message you want to hear, it's based on diagnosing your problem and treating it.”

    She also discusses her shift in focus towards gender-related issues, particularly after encountering cases of young individuals undergoing drastic medical interventions.

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    13 April 2024, 10:00 am
  • 1 hour 5 minutes
    159 - From Opioids to Gender, How Harmful Policies Scale in our Modern Healthcare System with Dr. Carrie Mendoza

    Sasha and Stella welcome Dr. Carrie Mendoza back to the show for her second appearance with the Wider Lens duo. Together, they dive into crucial topics surrounding medical practice, healthcare education, ethical healthcare standards and policy implementation in healthcare administration. Carrie’s insights draw from her experience with the opioid epidemic, highlighting the lessons learned about its origin, scale, and mitigation, shedding light on how these insights can inform our understanding of medicalizing radical gender ideology and preventing its harm.

    For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/episode-159 

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    Sasha Ayad: https://sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching  

    Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching

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    12 April 2024, 10:00 am
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    Identity formation and development involves a multitude of factors at play. Historical events, societal norms, cultural movements, traditions, customs, language, ‘social norms’, cognitive process, emotional development, sexual development...These factors collectively influence not only an individual's personal sense of identity but also contribute to shaping broader societal perceptions of identity as well.

    The shaping of perceptions surrounding gender and identity is intricately linked to both the interpretations of psychological theories and the impact of societal responses. Seeking out diverse sources of information, critically evaluating that information, and being open to challenging one's own beliefs are crucial for achieving a deeper understanding of the historical and contemporary issues within the LGBTQ+ community, the individual experience of identity development, and the societal responses to it.

    In this bonus episode for premium subscribers, Malcolm Clark joins Sasha and Stella as they consider:

    * Psychological theories, such as the desire for sacrifice and humiliation, and how they may relate to transgender experiences, particularly in the context of sissy porn and autogynephilia.

    * The relationship between sexuality and gender identity, as well as the role of fantasy and desire in shaping one's understanding of their gender.

    * The desire for self-mutilation, particularly in religious contexts where individuals may perceive it as a form of sacrifice or redemption.

    * Societal responses to transgender individuals, including the role of activism, victimization narratives, and the influence of religious institutions like the Christian Church.

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    6 April 2024, 10:00 am
  • 1 hour 3 minutes
    158 - The Little-Known Shocking History of Gender Identity Ideology with Malcolm Clark

    In this episode, Sasha and Stella welcome Malcolm Clark for a really interesting conversation exploring various facets of historical ideas and identities around gender, homosexuality, and the evolution of identity activism. This discussion navigates the intricate and contentious terrain of understanding gender non-conformity and identity expression across history. 

    For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/episode-158 

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    Sasha Ayad: https://sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching  

    Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching

    To learn more about our sponsors, visit:

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    Genspect at https://genspect.org/



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    5 April 2024, 10:00 am
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    Premium: From Transmaxxing to Transhumanism
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    From bionic enhancements to extreme body modifications, the lines are blurry between identity theory and queer theory. There is a complex interplay of incentives, ideological beliefs, optimized physical and mental wellness, and functionality within society - all reliant on quality medical care and support, but at whose financial expense?

    And what is the purpose of medicine (particularly where it intersects with technological advancements)? Is medical care primarily about restoring health or is it also for fulfilling consumer preferences? There are many questions to be raised about the philosophical underpinnings behind medicine and personal/body autonomy.

    "I don't think people are going to be getting the toaster [body] attachment because they feel like a toaster. I think they'll be getting it because they want to toast toast."

    In this bonus episode for premium subscribers, Sascha Bailey joins hosts Sasha and Stella as they contemplate the evolving role of medicine, exploring critical inquiry into the ethical and ideological landscapes shaping modern healthcare practices.

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    30 March 2024, 10:00 am
  • 1 hour 5 minutes
    157 - Is Our Culture Incentivizing Men to Transition? with Sascha Bailey

    Guest, Sascha Bailey, reflects on his journey as a model, art curator, and pioneer in the NFT (Non-Fungible Tokens) art scene. A captivating account of the intersection where art, tech, and culture collide with personal identity. Sascha differentiates between emotional and functional motives for transitioning, discussing transmaxxing, incentives, and societal trends. Offering listeners a blend of unexpected insights, even challenging hosts, Sasha and Stella, to step outside their familiar gender-centric framework.

    For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/episode-157 

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    For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:

    Sasha Ayad: https://sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching  

    Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching

    To learn more about our sponsors, visit:

    Therapy First at https://www.therapyfirst.org/ (formerly GETA)

    Genspect at https://genspect.org/



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    29 March 2024, 10:00 am
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    Premium: How Has WPATH Responded to the Leaked Files?
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    There is no question, given the recommendations outlined in WPATH’s SOC-8, that WPATH is in fact recommending extraordinary medical procedures resulting in extreme body modifications. Some of the most unusual cases, promoting individually customized procedures that are meant to create body types that don't exist in nature. So why doesn't WPATH just rebrand as a sexual cosmetic surgery group? Why do they say that these extreme body modifications are medically necessary and life -saving?

    In this bonus episode for premium subscribers, Mia Hughes shares her insights into the above. As well as her criticisms of WPATH’s lack of accountability and diversionary tactics in response to the WPATH Files Report and leaked files.

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    Shellenberger’s thread with clips from panel discussion video

    Leaked Files From Influential Transgender Medicine Group Cause Uproar, Could Imperil Liberal Efforts To Undo State Bans on Gender-Transition Treatments for Children The damning new report on the World Professional Association for Transgender Health ‘is going to really bite them,’ says a former WPATH leader. ‘I’ve tried to steer them. I gave up.’, Benjamin Ryan’s article from The New York Sun

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    23 March 2024, 10:01 am
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