At Peace Parents™ Podcast

Casey

  • 35 minutes 15 seconds
    Ep. 88 - Lowering Demands for Your PDA Child or Teen

    Lowering demands is how many parents start accommodating their PDA child or teen, and it's also where many get stuck.

    In this episode I talk through the mindset work that parents can do to get unstuck and be more successful with lowering demands. I also explain why lowering demands is a necessary but not sufficient accommodation for our PDA children and teens.

    Are you ready to start working to deeply understand and support your PDA child or teen and lead your family to peace? Join the waitlist for the next cohort of my signature Paradigm Shift Program at https://www.atpeaceparents.com/paradigm-shift-program

    To learn more about and figure out if your child or teen is PDA, you can take my FREE Clarity Masterclass at www.atpeaceparents.com.

    You can also connect with me on:

    Instagram - www.instagram/atpeaceparents

    TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@atpeaceparents

    Facebook - www.facebook.com/atpeaceparents

    YouTube - www.youtube.com/@atpeaceparents

    And information on my Courses, Programs, and Coaching is at my At Peace Parents website, www.atpeaceparents.com

    Thanks for listening! You are an amazing parent.

    xoxo,

    Casey

    15 November 2024, 2:20 pm
  • 44 minutes 46 seconds
    Ep. 87 - Controlling, Criticizing and Destructive Equalizing in PDA Children and Teens

    Does you child or teen often try to control you, criticize you and/or destroy your things or things around the house. This is very common among PDA children and teens, because they are equalizing.

    Equalizing is a nervous system response - out of their control - in PDA children and teens whereby they try to regain sense of nervous system safety due to a perceived loss of autonomy and equality.

    In this episode I break it all down, and share lots of examples. I hope it's helpful.

    xo,

    Casey

    Are you ready to start working to deeply understand and support your PDA child or teen and lead your family to peace? Join the waitlist for the next cohort of my signature Paradigm Shift Program at https://www.atpeaceparents.com/paradigm-shift-program

    To learn more about and figure out if your child or teen is PDA, you can take my FREE Clarity Masterclass at www.atpeaceparents.com.

    You can also connect with me on:

    Instagram - www.instagram/atpeaceparents

    TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@atpeaceparents

    Facebook - www.facebook.com/atpeaceparents

    YouTube - www.youtube.com/@atpeaceparents

    And information on my Courses, Programs, and Coaching is at my At Peace Parents website, www.atpeaceparents.com

    Thanks for listening! You are an amazing parent.

    xoxo,

    Casey

    7 November 2024, 1:55 pm
  • 1 hour 2 minutes
    Ep. 86 - PDA en Español!

    Este episodio está en español. This episode is in Spanish.

    En este episodio hablo con Juliana Carrillo sobre PDA - la Evitación de Demanda Extrema - y como entender la discapacidad del sistema nervioso en niños y jovenes. Juliana es una psicologa y "coach" con At Peace Parents. Puedes leer más de ella y sus servicios aquí: https://www.atpeaceparents.com/Juliana-asesoria-personalizada

    Are you ready to start working to deeply understand and support your PDA child or teen and lead your family to peace? Join the waitlist for the next cohort of my signature Paradigm Shift Program at https://www.atpeaceparents.com/paradigm-shift-program

    To learn more about and figure out if your child or teen is PDA, you can take my FREE Clarity Masterclass at www.atpeaceparents.com.

    You can also connect with me on:

    Instagram - www.instagram/atpeaceparents

    TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@atpeaceparents

    Facebook - www.facebook.com/atpeaceparents

    YouTube - www.youtube.com/@atpeaceparents

    And information on my Courses, Programs, and Coaching is at my At Peace Parents website, www.atpeaceparents.com

    Thanks for listening! You are an amazing parent.

    xoxo,

    Casey

    1 November 2024, 10:05 pm
  • 31 minutes 55 seconds
    Ep. 85 - If Your Co-Parent Wants Evidence of PDA

    It's very common for two parents to be on different pages or trajectories with PDA understanding and acceptance. Sometimes this is because one parent wants more "evidence" that PDA exists at all, which can be very difficult given that academia has not yet caught up to our lived realities.

    In this episode I provide a possible way forward - building your own evidence!

    I hope it's helpful.

    Are you ready to start working to deeply understand and support your PDA child or teen and lead your family to peace? Join the waitlist for the next cohort of my signature Paradigm Shift Program at https://www.atpeaceparents.com/paradigm-shift-program

    To learn more about and figure out if your child or teen is PDA, you can take my FREE Clarity Masterclass at www.atpeaceparents.com.

    You can also connect with me on:

    Instagram - www.instagram/atpeaceparents

    TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@atpeaceparents

    Facebook - www.facebook.com/atpeaceparents

    YouTube - www.youtube.com/@atpeaceparents

    And information on my Courses, Programs, and Coaching is at my At Peace Parents website, www.atpeaceparents.com

    Thanks for listening! You are an amazing parent.

    xoxo,

    Casey

    21 October 2024, 2:32 pm
  • 28 minutes 22 seconds
    Ep. 84 - Using Declarative Language with Your PDA Child or Teen

    In this episode I share the techniques for using declarative language that I've seen are most effective for parents of PDA children and teens. And I snuck in a suggestion on how to get your PDAer's teacher to use declarative language, too ;)

    Are you ready to start working to deeply understand and support your PDA child or teen and lead your family to peace? Join the waitlist for the next cohort of my signature Paradigm Shift Program at https://www.atpeaceparents.com/paradigm-shift-program

    To learn more about and figure out if your child or teen is PDA, you can take my FREE Clarity Masterclass at www.atpeaceparents.com.

    You can also connect with me on:

    Instagram - www.instagram/atpeaceparents

    TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@atpeaceparents

    Facebook - www.facebook.com/atpeaceparents

    YouTube - www.youtube.com/@atpeaceparents

    And information on my Courses, Programs, and Coaching is at my At Peace Parents website, www.atpeaceparents.com

    Thanks for listening! You are an amazing parent.

    xoxo,

    Casey

    17 October 2024, 2:29 pm
  • 39 minutes 6 seconds
    Ep. 83 - Misconceptions on Setting Boundaries with a PDA Child or Teen

    There are tons of misconceptions about if and how we set boundaries with our PDA children and teens (spoiler - we do!), and in this episode I talk through the most common of them.

    I also explain the process I use - cost-benefit decision making within constraints - to help parents decide when they should set boundaries and how to do so with eyes wide open to the activation this will cause their PDAer.

    I hope it helps you!

    Are you ready to start working to deeply understand and support your PDA child or teen and lead your family to peace? Join the waitlist for the next cohort of my signature Paradigm Shift Program at https://www.atpeaceparents.com/paradigm-shift-program

    To learn more about and figure out if your child or teen is PDA, you can take my FREE Clarity Masterclass at www.atpeaceparents.com.

    You can also connect with me on:

    Instagram - www.instagram/atpeaceparents

    TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@atpeaceparents

    Facebook - www.facebook.com/atpeaceparents

    YouTube - www.youtube.com/@atpeaceparents

    And information on my Courses, Programs, and Coaching is at my At Peace Parents website, www.atpeaceparents.com

    Thanks for listening! You are an amazing parent.

    xoxo,

    Casey

    10 October 2024, 1:44 pm
  • 30 minutes 8 seconds
    Ep. 82 - Changing to a PDA Parenting Approach Can Be Awkward!

    Hi everyone - in this episode I share some of the many messy, awkward and (in retrospect at least) kinda funny situations I found myself in during the many months I was in the process of changing my parenting approach to better support my PDA son.

    I share these as a reminder that this can be (almost always is) a chaotic transition, and that's ok. You're learning and implementing a new parenting paradigm, and it takes time for you, your family members, and you PDA child to get into a new rhythm.

    Are you ready to start working to deeply understand and support your PDA child or teen and lead your family to peace? Join the waitlist for the next cohort of my signature Paradigm Shift Program at https://www.atpeaceparents.com/paradigm-shift-program

    To learn more about and figure out if your child or teen is PDA, you can take my FREE Clarity Masterclass at www.atpeaceparents.com.

    You can also connect with me on:

    Instagram - www.instagram/atpeaceparents

    TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@atpeaceparents

    Facebook - www.facebook.com/atpeaceparents

    YouTube - www.youtube.com/@atpeaceparents

    And information on my Courses, Programs, and Coaching is at my At Peace Parents website, www.atpeaceparents.com

    Thanks for listening! You are an amazing parent.

    xoxo,

    Casey

    8 October 2024, 1:39 pm
  • 29 minutes 49 seconds
    Ep. 81 - Is ABA Really the Gold Standard for Our PDA Children?

    ABA is helpful for some PDA children and their families. For other PDA children it doesn't help or can make things worse.

    With this in mind, I'd love to live in a world where ABA and additional options were available - and covered by insurance - to support PDA children and teens.

    In today's episode I provide more information about ABA and the how parents of PDA children can better understand the research supporting it.

    Also - here are links to the two articles I referenced:

    https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40614-022-00338-x

    https://www.nature.com/articles/tp2017207

    Are you ready to start working to deeply understand and support your PDA child or teen and lead your family to peace? Join the waitlist for the next cohort of my signature Paradigm Shift Program at https://www.atpeaceparents.com/paradigm-shift-program

    To learn more about and figure out if your child or teen is PDA, you can take my FREE Clarity Masterclass at www.atpeaceparents.com.

    You can also connect with me on:

    Instagram - www.instagram/atpeaceparents

    TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@atpeaceparents

    Facebook - www.facebook.com/atpeaceparents

    YouTube - www.youtube.com/@atpeaceparents

    And information on my Courses, Programs, and Coaching is at my At Peace Parents website, www.atpeaceparents.com

    Thanks for listening! You are an amazing parent.

    xoxo,

    Casey

    3 October 2024, 5:00 am
  • 26 minutes 59 seconds
    Ep. 80 - Can Therapies Help PDA Children and Teens?

    In this episode I share my experiences with the Safe and Sound Protocol, and also provide guidance on how parents can think about trying therapies with their PDA child or teen.

    Are you ready to start working to deeply understand and support your PDA child or teen and lead your family to peace? Join the waitlist for the next cohort of my signature Paradigm Shift Program at https://www.atpeaceparents.com/paradigm-shift-program

    To learn more about and figure out if your child or teen is PDA, you can take my FREE Clarity Masterclass at www.atpeaceparents.com.

    You can also connect with me on:

    Instagram - www.instagram/atpeaceparents

    TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@atpeaceparents

    Facebook - www.facebook.com/atpeaceparents

    YouTube - www.youtube.com/@atpeaceparents

    And information on my Courses, Programs, and Coaching is at my At Peace Parents website, www.atpeaceparents.com

    Thanks for listening! You are an amazing parent.

    xoxo,

    Casey

    30 September 2024, 4:49 pm
  • 31 minutes 14 seconds
    Ep. 79 - When and How Do You Correct Your PDA Child or Teen?

    This is a question I get frequently, and there's a lot of nuance that goes into answering it. I hope this is helpful to you!

    Are you ready to start working to deeply understand and support your PDA child or teen and lead your family to peace? Join the waitlist for the next cohort of my signature Paradigm Shift Program at https://www.atpeaceparents.com/paradigm-shift-program

    To learn more about and figure out if your child or teen is PDA, you can take my FREE Clarity Masterclass at www.atpeaceparents.com.

    You can also connect with me on:

    Instagram - www.instagram/atpeaceparents

    TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@atpeaceparents

    Facebook - www.facebook.com/atpeaceparents

    YouTube - www.youtube.com/@atpeaceparents

    And information on my Courses, Programs, and Coaching is at my At Peace Parents website, www.atpeaceparents.com

    Thanks for listening! You are an amazing parent.

    xoxo,

    Casey

    26 September 2024, 12:00 pm
  • 25 minutes 51 seconds
    Ep. 78 - Why Behavioral Approaches Don't Work With PDA Children and Teens

    In this episode I explain the logic that underpins all my teaching, and why traditional behavioral parenting approaches - which are great for many children - don't work for PDA children and teens because of the way their brains and nervous systems work.

    Are you ready to start working to deeply understand and support your PDA child or teen and lead your family to peace? Join the waitlist for the next cohort of my signature Paradigm Shift Program at https://www.atpeaceparents.com/paradigm-shift-program

    To learn more about and figure out if your child or teen is PDA, you can take my FREE Clarity Masterclass at www.atpeaceparents.com.

    You can also connect with me on:

    Instagram - www.instagram/atpeaceparents

    TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@atpeaceparents

    Facebook - www.facebook.com/atpeaceparents

    YouTube - www.youtube.com/@atpeaceparents

    And information on my Courses, Programs, and Coaching is at my At Peace Parents website, www.atpeaceparents.com

    Thanks for listening! You are an amazing parent.

    xoxo,

    Casey

    24 September 2024, 3:31 pm
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