Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode we chat about how to RELEASE control from people, places & things. I give you my best advice when it comes to navigating detachment & becoming resilient through times where you simply cannot predict or control the outcomes in life. We dive deep into "parts work" and getting to the root of why we do the things we do so that we can be more aware of when we operate out of the parts of us that might not serve us anymore.. ✨

Link to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets

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The Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcast

My audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io

00:00 why you feel the need to always "control"
10:00 parts work, integration & becoming a new version of you 
13:00 outcomes VS lessons
18:36 practicing detachment & rewiring your brain
27:48 the beauty & benefits of releasing control
30:24 life is inherently unpredictable & mindset reframes
37:49 detaching from a break up
40:20 detaching from expectations & trusting others
44:25 self judgment & learning to reparent yourself

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Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode we chat about the never ending cycle of toxic productivity, "locking in" & winter arcs and what to do if you feel burnt out & tired of it all. I discuss how to live more in alignment with yourself and how to actually meet your needs & learn to enjoy slowing down in life 🤍

How to adopt a positive winter mindset https://youtu.be/pBLRQpy2GyA?si=LBELX7dZYzDpaNCV

Winter blues survival guide https://youtu.be/rjvoac1S7Uw?si=nrHCY_WPIVnZzZyw

How to stop running away from yourself & your life https://youtu.be/ExlUv2swCvk?si=3pOgBh2OonFKNBce

Link to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets

My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGA

"No bad parts" https://amzn.to/41pvIgl

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My main channel @eliciagoguen 🤍 All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsets

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My audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io

00:00 "winter hustle" trends & why we keep wanting to "lock in"
06:53 disconnection with self & learning to meet your true authentic needs
19:31 how to live a more aligned life
25:01 isolation, loneliness & running away from yourself
35:33 redefining success
37:30 cyclical living
45:04 fear of missing out & aligning your actions to your values

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Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode we chat about what to do when life forces you to slow down, how to stop running away from things that make you uncomfortable and what a healing journey REALLY looks like.

My digital are on sale!

🧘🏽‍♀️ Inner Child Discovery journal prompt guide: for those wanting to work on insecurities, self rejection, authenticity, safety & reintegration.
🧠 The Abundance Mindset: for those looking to uncover their current beliefs & actions surrounding abundance. includes a parts work exercise to get in touch with the part of you that is living in (real) scarcity + prompts to create more safety, aligned action & commitment to your actual desires.
✨ Heal to Manifest: I dive deep & share the techniques and tools to help you reprogram your limiting beliefs. it’s a very comprehensive guide.

You’ll also be prompted to watch a YouTube video I made on manifestation so you can understand why I’ve called it “heal to manifest".

All guides are downloadable & can be filled out once purchased. Alternatively you can answer all the prompts within your own journal at home. They also come with book, podcast & youtube recommendations related to each topic 💗

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My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGA

One on one sessions are OPEN 💗 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082

My main channel @eliciagoguen 🤍

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The Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcast

My audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io

00:00 the waiting period
08:17 exiting survival mode
12:35 how to stop running
16:35 “fixing energy”
23:01 “I have to” vs “I want to”
29:47 no longer waiting & finding peace
37:27 the all or nothing mindset
41:00 mindfulness vs productivity

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Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode we chat about how we can survive and THRIVE throughout the winter season. I discuss all the ways in which we can experience this new phase of our lives through mindset reframes, physical health & wellness tips, socializing & much more! ❄️

My vlog channel  @eliciagoguen 

How to adopt a positive winter mindset (part 1) https://youtu.be/pBLRQpy2GyA

How to stop wasting your life away with bad habits https://youtu.be/gJKWDD-Edhc

Sleep mediation https://youtu.be/UwRKEjQ4yuo?si=Q9hne6t8_l-NXvG0

Yoga nidra https://youtu.be/VIIYutOMesw?si=KfdRHD_NliYep-vN

White noise https://youtu.be/fKbxzeD1-jQ?si=HkDdTkbFaYuifI46

Sydney cummings https://youtu.be/YPwiYwZ01Rs?si=qjNwgqQRxHNiUjMJ

Sarah beth yoga https://youtu.be/XCIviBT3Txc?si=KVZsjVsx9LibUGB5

Ultra human ring https://ultrahuman.com/eliciagoguen ELICIA20

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One on one sessions are OPEN 💗 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082

Abundance mindset digital journal guide https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/2d3320d4-64a5-43ec-bb2f-3fbf53242649

Inner child shadow work digital guide https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/76e37742-8b45-4691-a2fd-1acec42c0301

Heal to manifest digital guide https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/1dd4344d-c10c-4134-b2d5-e10c6ab33986 My main channel @eliciagoguen 🤍

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The Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcast

My audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io

00:00 adopting a positive winter mindset 02:44 your “winter arc” mindset reframes, self-talk & goals
16:36 nervous system regulation
26:40 deep sleep
31:36 winter friendly movement
38:32 diet: gut health, immune system support & eating seasonally
42:21 calm & cozy environments
46:32 slow self-care
51:22 wellness weekends, socializing & slow hobbies

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Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode we chat about how we can adopt a positive winter mindset so that we can ENJOY this new season of life and BEAT seasonal depression ❄️

"How to Winter" https://amzn.to/48XB3NJ

My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGA

One on one sessions are OPEN 💗 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082

Abundance mindset digital journal guide https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/2d3320d4-64a5-43ec-bb2f-3fbf53242649

Inner child shadow work digital guide https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/76e37742-8b45-4691-a2fd-1acec42c0301

Heal to manifest digital guide https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/1dd4344d-c10c-4134-b2d5-e10c6ab33986

My main channel @eliciagoguen 🤍

All my home, favourite beauty, skincare, clothes & wellness products on LTK https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen

Link to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9X

The Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcast

My audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io

00:00 are you ready to accept winter ?
03:13 your negative winter mindset
05:45 the stories you tell yourself, limiting beliefs & “affective forecasting errors”
15:56 false narratives & “peak-end rule”
20:58 the power of your attention & becoming a "wintertime ambassador"
29:20 dealing with hard times: family, finances & having to work
34:05 living cyclically
42:13 breaking up winter phases: early, mid & late
46:23 how do you want to experience winter moving forward?

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Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I give you my step by step process of quitting bad habits, ending self sabotaging cycles and LEVELLING UP and living a more fulfilling life.

One on one sessions are OPEN 💗 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082

Abundance mindset digital journal guide https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/2d3320d4-64a5-43ec-bb2f-3fbf53242649

Inner child shadow work digital guide https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/76e37742-8b45-4691-a2fd-1acec42c0301

Heal to manifest digital guide https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/1dd4344d-c10c-4134-b2d5-e10c6ab33986

My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGA 

My main channel @eliciagoguen 🤍

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The Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcast

My audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io

00:00 it's time to reclaim your energy
04:24 getting to the root
08:27 it WILL happen again
10:58 pros and cons
18:39 boundaries & mindful consumption
24:17 what's the plan ?
30:56 "do one thing first"
33:02 all or nothing thinking

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Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode we discuss how to navigate detachment to people, places & things. Why it's important that you take back your energy and thought provoking questions to help you see if YOU are currently magnetic!

One on one sessions are OPEN 💗 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082

Abundance mindset digital journal guide https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/2d3320d4-64a5-43ec-bb2f-3fbf53242649

Inner child shadow work digital guide https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/76e37742-8b45-4691-a2fd-1acec42c0301

Heal to manifest digital guide https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/1dd4344d-c10c-4134-b2d5-e10c6ab33986

My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGA 

My main channel @eliciagoguen 🤍

All my home, favourite beauty, skincare, clothes & wellness products on LTK https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen

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My audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io

00:00 exiting your "low vibration" chapter
03:06 life responds to your ENERGY
06:47 who and what is taking your energy ?
08:55 observing VS responding & "dropping anchor" 
14:20 the scarcity mindset 
17:32 practicing detachment
25:30 dealing with anxiety

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Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I give you my best advice on how to become more unapologetic if you are a people pleaser and find that you LOWER your standards in hopes to have people value you and like you more. It's time you learn how to have BIG SISTER standards!

My main channel  @eliciagoguen  🤍

Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082

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The Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcast

My audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io

00:00 people pleasing, fear of abandonment, perfectionism & childhood wounds
04:25 becoming your own big sister
06:50 radically unapologetic
11:40 negotiating your worth & accepting the bare minimum
22:28 clarity
25:22 calling yourself out
27:54 removing toxic people & habits from your life
32:20 prioritize yourself = them prioritizing you

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Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I give you my best advice when it comes to all things dating as an anxiously attached person. I chat self abandonment in relationships, how to stop losing yourself to your anxious attachment while in the dating stages & what I've done to overcome anxious triggers throughout my years of dating.

My main channel  @eliciagoguen  🤍

Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082

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My audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io

00:00 the root of your self abandonment
09:35 waiting for love, detachment & discernment
16:07 self concept
24:36 you are not your anxious attachment
25:09 silence, space & time
28:22 boundaries
32:42 don’t take things personally & co-dependancy
38:30 long-term goals
39:06 face rejection
43:45 stop trying to do it all by yourself
48:26 putting people on pedestals
50:29 the process

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Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I discuss the evolution of self and how embracing the current moment is KEY to your transformation 🤍

My main channel  @eliciagoguen  🤍

Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082

My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGA

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My audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io

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Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I talk about the journey of releasing your old story so that you can finally embrace a whole new chapter of life 🤍

My main channel  @eliciagoguen  🤍

Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082

My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGA

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The Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcast

My audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io

Timestamps:

00:00 intro 
00:43 releasing your old story to step into a new version of you
04:10 dropping the you don’t “get” to have a good life complex
06:00 childhood trauma waiting for the ball to drop
11:25 feeling “deserving”
12:36 playing into life’s delusions
14:38 you don’t need to know if it will work out
16:25 rushing through life
22:46 start taking your life seriously & slowing things down
27:30 how do you want the rest of your life to go?
30:56 you should be PROUD of yourself

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