Depression is on the rise, and the mental health crisis affects everyone. When addressing our lives as body, mind, and soul—always at war with the forces of evil—the concept of spiritual desolation inevitably arises. Spiritual desolation is something the Church has addressed and discussed for centuries. While depression and spiritual desolation are very different, they are often confused, with desolation mistakenly attributed to depression. Today, John Heinen, Devin Schadt, and Sam Guzman (a mental health counselor) discuss the differences between the two and how to overcome each.

In our full extended edition, we also answer a listener's question about tactics to get her husband to see a spiritual director. We love to answer your questions so please send them to us at [email protected]

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Men, what behaviors or actions might be pushing women away? In this episode, John Heinen and Devin Schadt explore four common traits that can hinder your relationships. Whether you're single or married, we discuss why these actions are off-putting both physically and psychologically. Learn how to reorder your life to avoid these pitfalls and cultivate virtue and love. Tune in to discover how to become the man women truly desire.

We also answer a listener's question about controlling ourselves when children constantly meltdown and tantrum, even on vacation. If you have a question for us, please send it to us at [email protected]

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There has been a growing obsession with Halloween and horror in recent years. Halloween is now America's 2nd largest commercial holiday, and its fascination does not appear to be in decline. When you consider the argument of this festival's pagan roots, Catholics are often left confused. Today John Heinen, Sam Guzman, and Devin Schadt discuss the Catholic origins of Halloween as well as Hallowstide, and explain what we, as men, can do with our families and neighbors to take back Halloween.

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We have found live footage of five men who recently saved the lives of women and children. In the aftermath of Hurricane Helene, heroes have emerged, demonstrating strength and courage in the face of adversity. John Heinen, Sam Guzman, and Devin Schadt highlight five heroic men and their stories from the hurricane's devastation. They examine the virtues displayed by each man and how these qualities exemplify authentic masculinity.

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The most elite, successful, and powerful people have their bag of tricks, skill sets, hacks, daily routines, and habits. They use them, profess them, and generate a ton of online traffic, views, subs, and money from them. Today John Heinen and Devin Schadt discuss the real source of their wisdom which is the Catholic Church. From its rich monastic heritage and the teachings of Jesus Christ, all of these practices originate from the Church's understanding of the nature of man and how practicing these habits can help improve your life.

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The rosary is the most excellent form of prayer that is the remedy for all evils today. John Heinen meets with Mark Hartfiel of That Man Is You! to explore the profound significance of the rosary and expose why it should be prayed daily. They discuss Mark's remarkable series that takes viewers around the world, allowing them to engage with the mysteries of the rosary in unprecedented ways.

If you want to find peace within yourself, your homes, and your society, pray the Rosary. Sr. Lucia stated that in these times Our Lady has given new efficacy to the recitation of the Holy Rosary and that everything can be solved with the Rosary.

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John Heinen, Devin Schadt, and Sam Guzman explore the nature of marriage in our fast-paced hook-up culture and examine why some men (and women) argue that men should avoid marriage. With declining marriage rates and persistently high divorce rates, it's clear that marriage is challenging, leading millions to opt out entirely. We discuss 5 reasons why marriage is difficult for men and why some argue we should abandon this supposedly outdated social construct. But is there truth to these statements? The discussion reveals how these five reasons fall short in helping men live their best lives and uncovers the enduring value of marriage.

We also get to answer a question from a listener about how to pray and improve his life after a devastating divorce.

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WARNING: This episode contains adult content. John Heinen and Devin Schadt explore the seven torments of hell as described in Scripture and elucidated by saints and doctors of the Church. Every person of goodwill should be aware of these torments to inspire a deeper commitment to holiness and truth. Few doctrines of the Faith cause more discomfort and denial among Christians than the existence of hell. How could an all-good and loving God allow eternal damnation for finite failings? These questions and a lot more are addressed in today's discussion.

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John Heinen, Devin Schadt, and Sam Guzman meet to discuss the confusing and often controversial topic of working on Sundays. We are called to abstain from work on Sundays, and indeed it can be sinful to engage in unnecessary labor. Yet we face the challenge of discerning what constitutes work, how we as men living for God can fulfill this precept, and what we should avoid to ensure our Sundays remain holy. We explore what the Church actually teaches, why leisure is essential for our lives, and what can prevent the Holy Day from being truly effective.

We also get to answer a question from a listener about helping his friend after his wife had an affair. If you have a question for us to answer on the show please send a voice recording or written out question to [email protected].

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John Heinen, Devin Schadt, and Sam Guzman discuss the incomparable role that fathers have in the lives of their children. Being a father is not easy; however, our families and our societies depend on it. Today we distill the struggles of a father to the largest reason that fathers fail. This reason can present itself in two extremes and understanding this reality is only going to help you be the man you were created to be. Join us as we explore these challenges and discover how to embrace fatherhood with confidence and purpose.

We also get to answer a question from a listener about protecting our children from spiritual attacks. If you have a question for us to answer on the show please send a voice recording or written out question to [email protected].

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John Heinen meets with Dan Burke to dive into how we can clearly know God's will in our lives. Looking at the great Doctor of the Church, St. Alphonsus, we discuss the truths that everyone needs to hear and commit to memory. We often view our relationship with God as some sort of game to be won, rather than a loving union to be experienced and strengthened. Our decisions can be flooded with stress and anxiety, and our suffering can feel isolating. However, we can find peace in the storms of our struggles; even in the uncertainty of our decisions, God's will can be known, and aligning our lives with it is the ultimate victory.

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