Have you ever wondered what “real power” looks like when it isn’t tied to manipulation or the patriarchy’s playbook? In this eye-opening episode, I sat down with Kasia Urbaniak, former professional dominatrix, long-time Taoist practitioner, and women’s empowerment coach, to reveal the subtle ways we give up our power—and exactly how to take it back. We’re talking about personal agency, unapologetic desire, and how to step into every room—boardroom or bedroom—with the kind of confidence that amplifies your voice and serves your well-being.

If you’ve ever found yourself holding back from asking for a raise, a favor, or even a simple upgrade because you fear rejection or being labeled “too much,” this episode will be your game-changer. 

Kasia’s Links: 

Website: https://www.kasiaurbaniak.com/

Unbound Book: https://www.kasiaurbaniak.com/unbound-book

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TikTok is (maybe) shutting down. The app I used to grow an audience of over 2 MILLION followers is likely disappearing this week –– but I’m not afraid, and you shouldn’t be either. In this episode, I’m breaking down how my team is preserving my data on TikTok and planning for a future without the app that brought us SO much. I’m also getting into how I got followers off of social media and onto my own land and how you can do the same as a business owner.

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What if I told you the whole “new year, new me” mantra is bs? You don’t have to change your entire personality every January for the sake of achieving a goal. Change happens gradually,  that’s why in today’s episode I’m sharing the five biggest lessons I’m carrying into the new year –– and I promise it’s not about overhauling every aspect of your life come January 1st. It’s about finding incremental, sustainable ways to show up for yourself and for the women around you. So, if you’re ready to learn some practical steps to make 2025 a great year, this episode is for you. 

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Forget everything you’ve been told about reaching for your dreams, because in today’s episode, we’re busting myths and revealing the evidence-based secrets to setting and achieving big goals—without relying on the decades-old (and often ineffective) SMART framework.

As we kick off a new year (and possibly a whole new you!), I'm excited to welcome Caroline Adams Miller, a globally recognized authority on positive psychology, grit, and the true science of goal-setting. We cover everything from mastering the difference between performance and learning goals to building a supportive community that actually cheers you on. If you’re done playing small and ready to step into your power, this conversation has your name all over it.

Caroline’s Links: 

Caroline's Website: https://www.carolinemiller.com/

Big Goals book: https://biggoalsbook.com/buy-the-book/

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What am I here for? Can I actually make money following my passions? Big questions with even bigger answers –– but today’s (returning!) guest, Dr. Jordan Grummet, is here to guide us through figuring out that fine balance between passion, purpose, and building a financial future that supports our dreams and goals. In the episode, Doc G clarifies how to find “big P” and “little P” purpose in your day-to-day life, why following your passion may not be the best way to make money, and how to build in anchors to keep you grounded as you figure it all out. A fantastic episode for the start of the year, especially if you’re setting goals and feeling overwhelmed by it all.

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The Purpose Code

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Ever wondered if saving your first $100K is actually doable—or just another financial fairy tale? I’m Tori Dunlap, founder of Her First $100K and host of the Financial Feminist podcast, and in this first episode of 2025, I’m pulling back the curtain on real-world steps for building tangible wealth—starting with building an emergency fund, to paying off debt, investing, and automation. 

We’ll also talk about why your mindset matters just as much as the numbers, and how a supportive community can make or break your progress toward that six-figure milestone. Speaking of supportive communities…I’ve been teasing my secret new project for the last few weeks, and today I’m introducing The $100K Club! The $100K Club is where I’ll be teaching the strategies that earned me financial freedom and curating a community to help you do the same. 

To learn more, visit http://herfirst100k.com/100K-pod.

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Have you ever felt guilty about wanting more money? Have you ever felt shame around wanting to charge more or get paid more? This special ‘Best of 2024’ episode of Financial Feminist tackles the deep-seated societal narratives that discourage women from pursuing financial security and independence and exposes the double standard that exists around money and wealth. Men are celebrated for their financial success, while women are expected to be selfless and prioritize the needs of others, often at the expense of their own financial well-being.

This episode is a must-listen for any woman who wants to challenge the status quo and build a life of financial freedom.

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Have you ever felt like the holiday season leaves you more frazzled than fulfilled? I have, and in this episode, I’m diving deep into why the end of the year can feel so overwhelming—and how embracing rest in all its forms can be your secret weapon against burnout, stress, and the constant hustle that dominates our lives. From exploring seven distinct types of rest (yes, there are actually seven!) and their impact on our mental, emotional, and financial well-being, to discussing the subtle differences between simply having time off and truly recharging, this conversation is all about finding sustainable peace amidst the holiday chaos. Plus, I’ll share personal stories—from my family’s favorite holiday movies to my journey with an energy coach—and reveal how rest can help you show up as your best self in 2025 and beyond.

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“If you are stacking your day with so many habits and routines that you don't have any time to sit and just be or to enjoy your life or to play or to run into spontaneity, that's not wellness.”

In this special replay episode, we explore how integrating small changes into your life and building small habits can help us lead richer, more rewarding lives. Our guest today is Liz Moody, host of the top-rated “The Liz Moody Podcast” and author of the book 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success.” In this deeply insightful conversation, Liz is sharing her own wellness journey, what she’s learned along the way, and giving us actionable tips we can use to cultivate meaningful change. 

Liz's Links:

Liz’s website

The Liz Moody Podcast

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Liz’s Book: 100 Ways To Change Your Life

Liz Moody and Dr. Richard Schwartz Podcast Episode

Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/how-to-change-your-life-in-2025-with-liz-moody-best-of-2024/. 

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What does it take to turn long-standing financial trauma into a sustainable path toward stability and control over your money? In today’s episode, I’m chatting with Dr. Darla Bishop, aka “The FinanSis,” about just that as she takes us through her story of navigating financial and personal trauma. Dr. Darla Bishop shows us that changing your financial story isn’t about quick fixes or hollow advice, but about recognizing deep-rooted fears, making intentional choices, and building a foundation strong enough to support both your dreams and your well-being. 

Tune in to learn tangible steps to confidently handle debt, access higher education affordably, and build wealth from the ground up. Whether you’re chipping away at student loans, juggling work and school, or simply seeking more confidence in your financial decisions, this is the episode you’ll replay again and again.

Dr. Darla’s Links: 

Website: darlabishop.com 

Free email template to ask your school for tuition money: paycheckplaybook.com  

How To Afford College E-book: https://howtoaffordeverything.com/product/how-to-afford-college/ 

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Hey Financial Feminists I'm beyond excited to bring you an eye-opening conversation with Marina Gerner, the author of The Vagina Business. We’re discussing the shocking gender biases in healthcare — from the staggering lack of medical research focused on women's health to the uphill battles female entrepreneurs face when pitching women-centric innovations. This episode is packed with actionable insights on how we can support better research, champion women-owned businesses, and finally start talking openly about the topics that impact us most.

Marina’s Links:

Substack: https://marinagerner.substack.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marinagerner/

Get Marina’s book: The Vagina Business: The Innovative Breakthroughs that Could Change Everything in Women's Health

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