Ex-Wives Undercover

Double A Productions

Female power duo, Amber and Athena, join forces to uncover the truth and expose their former husband’s dirty ways. Follow their true story as they embark on an adventure to unravel deeply hidden secrets, expose the truth, advocate for justice and rebuild their lives.Part cathartic experience / part riveting storytelling, these two won’t leave anything to the imagination. They’re spilling all the tea—identifying missed red flags, chatting about the lessons learned, interviewing special guests and more!

  • 1 hour 24 minutes
    Unlocked Patreon Episode: Kenzie Speaks Out About Being Doxed (SWW S12) + Ana Update (EWU S5)

    🎉 Unlocked Patreon Bonus Episode! 🎉

    Today, we’re bringing you something very special from the vault—an episode that was previously only available to our Patreon subscribers. And trust us, this one is worth the wait.

    We’re catching up with two unforgettable women whose stories rocked our listeners:

    Ana (Season 5 of Ex-Wives Undercover) is back to spill all the tea about life after Teddy Boy. What really happened once the dust settled? Has he stayed away? Ana gives us the unfiltered update you've all been asking for.

    Kenzie from Something Was Wrong [Season 12]—who goes by her real name, Jenna, in this episode—joins us to talk about what it was like to share her story on a massive platform and the intense fallout that followed. From being doxxed to facing public backlash, Jenna opens up like never before about why she turned to Ex-Wives Undercover and how she’s reclaimed her voice since. She’s holding nothing back.

    💥 This is one of our most candid and powerful bonus episodes yet—don’t miss it.

    🔗 Listen to Ana’s full story on Ex-Wives Undercover Season 5
    🔗 Hear Jenna’s original story on Something Was Wrong Season 12

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    👉 Follow us on⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠,⁠⁠ TikTok⁠⁠, and⁠⁠ Facebook⁠⁠

    👉 Join our⁠⁠ private Facebook group⁠⁠ for more exclusive discussions

    👉 Support us on⁠⁠ Patreon⁠⁠ for bonus content


    🔔 Subscribe, rate & review to help more people discover survivor stories.

    💌 Got a story to share? Visit ⁠⁠exwivesundercover.com⁠⁠ or DM us on Instagram @exwivesundercover.

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    13 May 2025, 7:00 am
  • 24 minutes 56 seconds
    Feed Drop: Slaycation – "You Cruise, You Lose"

    Ready for a little murder with your mai tai? Today, we’re handing over the mic to our wickedly fun friends at Slaycation—the true crime podcast that mixes tropical vibes with deadly consequences.

    In this snippet from Episode 19, You Cruise, You Lose, we meet Lonnie, a lawyer with a plan to rekindle the flame with his ex-wife Micki… on a cruise, no less! Sounds romantic, right? Well, until someone ends up floating in the deep blue sea.

    Let’s just say: it’s not the kind of splash they hoped to make. With shady characters, shocking twists, and a ship that Slaycation fans will definitely recognize, this story is as wild as the open ocean.

    Love scandal, sun, and suspense? Go binge Slaycation for more vacation nightmares that’ll make you think twice about booking that next getaway.


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    11 May 2025, 7:00 am
  • 56 minutes 5 seconds
    S6E11 Holier Than Thou, Pt. 3 of 3

    In the powerful conclusion of our three-part series, Abby opens up about life after a high-conflict divorce marked by emotional abuse, legal battles, and co-parenting challenges with a narcissistic ex. She shares how she found strength through safety planning, family support, and personal growth. From financial struggles to rediscovering her faith and voice, Abby’s journey is one of survival, resilience, and healing.

    Topics Include:

    • Navigating emotional and legal challenges

    • Safety strategies in abusive situations

    • Co-parenting with a narcissist

    • Mental health, trauma, and emotional recovery

    • Rebuilding through self-discovery and empowerment

    Resources & Links:

    👉 Follow us on⁠ Instagram⁠,⁠ TikTok⁠, and⁠ Facebook⁠

    👉 Join our⁠ private Facebook group⁠ for more exclusive discussions

    👉 Support us on⁠ Patreon⁠ for bonus content


    🔔 Subscribe, rate & review to help more people discover survivor stories like Abby’s.

    💌 Got a story to share? Visit ⁠exwivesundercover.com⁠ or DM us on Instagram @exwivesundercover.

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    6 May 2025, 10:30 am
  • 1 hour 2 minutes
    S6E10 Holier Than Thou, Pt. 2 of 3

    In this raw and emotional episode, Abby takes us deeper into her harrowing journey. What started as one magical night with a charming stranger soon unraveled the web of control, cult-like oppression, and emotional abuse that defined her marriage to Bobby. From secret phone calls and a fleeting romance to financial manipulation and being spiritually silenced, Abby reveals the impossible decisions she had to make to reclaim her power.

    🔊 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

    • The night Abby met someone who made her feel seen again — for the first time in ten years.

    • The moment Abby realized her husband had drained their joint bank account — leaving her with just 49 cents.

    • Physical and emotional abuse that escalated until she was literally barricaded in her own closet.

    • Bobby’s twisted logic: lying “in the name of God” and using religion to excuse manipulation.

    • A disturbing psychiatric showdown after Bobby demanded mental health evaluations for them both.

    • Cult leaders, marriage “reconciliation,” and the breaking point that led to Abby filing for divorce.

    💔 This is a story of unimaginable control and the courage it takes to leave—not just a man, but a deeply entrenched system designed to keep women silent.


    Resources & Links:

    👉 Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook

    👉 Join our private Facebook group for more exclusive discussions

    👉 Support us on Patreon for bonus content


    🔔 Subscribe, rate & review to help more people discover survivor stories like Abby’s.

    💌 Got a story to share? Visit exwivesundercover.com or DM us on Instagram @exwivesundercover.


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    29 April 2025, 10:00 am
  • 56 minutes 46 seconds
    S6E9 Holier Than Thou, Pt. 1 of 3

    In this heartfelt episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, Abby opens up about her whirlwind romance with Bobby—from their spontaneous elopement in Reno to the deeply personal challenges that unfolded behind closed doors.


    Abby’s story is more than just a love tale—it's a powerful exploration of womanhood, identity, and growth. Together, we unpack the often-silenced experiences of postpartum depression, mental health stigma in religious communities, and the slow, painful unraveling of manipulation and financial control in abusive dynamics.


    Abby’s journey reminds us of the strength it takes to reclaim our voices and the healing that comes from sharing our truth.


    🎧 What You'll Hear in This Episode:

    • The fast-paced romance that led to a spontaneous elopement
    • How love bombing and religious expectations shaped Abby's early marriage
    • The subtle beginnings of manipulation and financial control in abusive relationships
    • Why leaving a toxic relationship is more complex than it seems


    💡 Key Takeaways:

    • Love can be intoxicating—but fast starts often come with red flags.
    • Faith and tradition can influence personal decisions in ways that blur boundaries.
    • Abuse often hides behind control, manipulation, and the pressure to maintain appearances.
    • It’s okay to seek help—whether through therapy, medication, or trusted support systems.


    ✨ A Quote to Remember:

    "You can love someone and still lose yourself in the process—healing begins when you start choosing you." — Abby


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    👉 Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook

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    22 April 2025, 7:00 am
  • 1 hour 10 minutes
    S6E8 From Perfect Husband to Life in Prison

    In this deeply emotional episode, Sara opens up about her powerful journey through friendship, love, and the shattering truths that changed her life forever. What began as a fairytale romance quickly turned into a story of struggle as her husband descended into alcoholism, testing the strength of their marriage and her faith in love.


    Sara courageously shares the moment everything changed—a shocking revelation about her husband's abuse of a young girl, the painful investigation that followed, and the impact on her family. She walks us through her heartbreak, the trial, and the difficult path toward healing.


    💡 Key Takeaways:

    • Early red flags—like his drinking—were overshadowed by his intelligence and charm.
    • Sara’s story highlights the emotional weight of uncovering abuse within a trusted relationship.
    • She discusses the importance of standing up for victims, even when it means losing everything.


    Resources & Links:

    👉 Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook

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    👉 Watch this episode on YouTube

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    15 April 2025, 7:00 am
  • 39 minutes 24 seconds
    S6E7 Who's Johnny?

    In this gripping episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, we sit down with Victoria, who shares her unbelievable experience of meeting Johnny—who later turned out to be Canada’s very own Tinder Swindler [Jon Mulder]. She opens up about how their relationship unfolded, the red flags she noticed (or missed), and the shocking revelation that exposed his true identity.

    This eye-opening conversation sheds light on online dating scams, emotional manipulation, and the importance of staying vigilant in the digital dating world.


    Key Takeaways:

    • The tactics used by online scammers to gain trust and financial support.
    • How Victoria uncovered Johnny’s deception.
    • Essential tips to protect yourself from romance scams.


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    8 April 2025, 7:00 am
  • 1 hour 4 minutes
    S6E6 From Green Flags to Red Flags

    In today's podcast, you will meet a woman named Danielle who, in the beginning, saw only green flags regarding a handsome Italian professor named Luca, whom she began dating. Unfortunately, it wouldn't take too long before the green flags turned red.


    With Halloween around the corner and a couple of costumes picked out for the pair, Danielle would slowly unmask the many disguises her new beau was wearing. As the story unfolds, it reveals themes of deception, outrageous lies, scandal and the complexities of modern dating. 


    Danielle walks us through all the crazy, as she reveals the emotional rollercoaster of their relationship. From navigating his family issues to discovering his deceit through community support, Danielle's story highlights the importance of communication, self-empowerment, and recognizing red flags in relationships.


    This episode will remind you just how powerful community is, especially in uncovering truths and supporting one another in the dating world.


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    Thank You for Listening!

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    #ExWivesUndercover #Podcast #TrueStories #SurvivorStories #DatingApps #Healing #WomenEmpowerment #Hinge #Newyork #Lovecon

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    1 April 2025, 7:00 am
  • 3 minutes 46 seconds
    The A-Team Joins From Mrs. to Ms., Season Updates & More

    Guess what? We had the amazing opportunity to be guests on the popular podcast From Mrs. to Ms.! 🎉


    Since there won’t be a new episode of Ex-Wives Undercover this week, we’d love for you to check out our special guest appearance on From Mrs. to Ms. with Andrea. It was an absolute blast, and we know you’re going to love it!

    Tune in to Episode #82, show Andrea some love, and let us know what you think! 💕🎧


    If you still want more Ex-Wives Undercover, Amber will be interviewed on Jake Deptula's new podcast, LoveLustFear, on Friday, March 14th.


    From Mrs. to Ms.


    LoveLustFear


    We're still looking for more stories to share. If you're interested, please send us an email at [email protected]

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    11 March 2025, 2:00 pm
  • 1 hour 6 minutes
    S6E5 The Hidden Dangers of Dating as a Widow with Christine Baumgartner

    [VIDEO PODCAST AVAILABLE ON YOUTUBE] In this special bonus episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, Amber sits down with dating and relationship coach Christine Baumgartner to discuss the unique challenges widows face in the modern dating world. Christine, who has been both divorced and widowed, shares her personal journey, the lessons she learned, and expert advice on how to navigate dating safely and successfully after loss.


    From emotional vulnerability to financial scams, widows are often targeted by predators who exploit their grief and longing for companionship. Christine breaks down red flags to watch for, how to protect yourself online and why healing before jumping back into dating is crucial.


    💡 Key Takeaways:

    ✅ Why widows are more vulnerable to dating scams

    ✅ The psychology behind love bombing and mirroring

    ✅ How to spot a scammer before they steal your heart (and wallet)

    ✅ The importance of healing and rediscovering yourself before dating

    ✅ Safe dating strategies for widows ready to find love again


    🔥 Resources & Links:


    🎧 Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review, and follow us on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook and YouTube!

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    4 March 2025, 8:00 am
  • 57 minutes 15 seconds
    S6E4 Ghosted, Pt. 4 of 4

    [VIDEO PODCAST AVAILABLE ON YOUTUBE] In this gripping episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, we dive into Lori’s shocking experience of being ghosted by her husband, Richard Ruland, who disappeared after draining their bank account and selling her belongings. Lori’s viral TikTok detailing her ordeal garnered 1.3 million views and caught the attention of the beloved influencer, Mama Tot (Ophelia Nichols), who offered her support.

    Join hosts Amber and Athena as they unpack Lori’s journey, from the moment she realized her husband had vanished to the community of strong women who rallied around her. We also hear about the web of deception spun by Richard Ruland, including multiple wives, fiancées, and girlfriends, and how Lori’s courage is helping other women escape similar situations.


    Key Moments in This Episode:

    🔹 Lori’s viral TikTok that started it all

    🔹 How Mama Tot and the TikTok community came to Lori’s aid

    🔹 The unraveling of Richard Ruland’s past and the women he deceived

    🔹 The emotional impact of narcissistic abuse and the journey to healing

    🔹 Lori’s powerful advice on financial independence and self-love


    Special Guest:

    🎙 Mama Tot (Ophelia Nichols) – The TikTok sensation shares her perspective on helping people through their darkest moments.


    Resources & Links:

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    Thank You for Listening!

    If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review and share it with someone who needs to hear it.

    #ExWivesUndercover #Podcast #TrueStories #SurvivorStories #Ghosted #NarcissisticAbuse #MamaTot #Healing #WomensEmpowerment

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    25 February 2025, 8:00 am
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