- 25 minutes 46 secondsEnding Endless Brunches, Dealing with Double Dippers, Greeting Bus Riders, and More
Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about ending endless brunches, dealing with double dippers, greeting bus riders, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)
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QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:
- How do you handle a fellow diner whose constant storytelling stretches a meal to three hours?
- As a host, how do you politely correct a guest who double dips into a communal dish?
- How do you respond to fellow churchgoers who scold you for missing services?
- What do you do when you've been receiving a stranger's group texts for years and never spoke up?
- What are some good greetings for a bus driver in a small college town?
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8 June 2026, 8:00 am - 39 minutes 41 secondsAsking About Brian, Living With Homeowners Associations, Redirecting a Birthday Gift, and More
Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle asking "Where is Brian?", living with homeowners associations, redirecting a birthday gift to a different recipient, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)
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EPISODE CONTENTS
- AMUSE-BOUCHE: Where is Brian?
- A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Homeowners Associations
- QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: Is it rude for someone to redirect a gift to a different recipient? Can I show up late if my friend says they're running late?
- VENT OR REPENT: Blowing a comedy light, Oyster forks on the left
- CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Thanks for the soda info, Thanks for the nice letter
THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW
- Gad Elmaleh's "Where is Brian"? joke
- "Christmas with the Kranks" trailer
- Previous episode discussing oyster forks
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1 June 2026, 8:00 am - 46 minutes 9 secondsSecond Helpings: Sitting on Suitcases, Going on Ghost Tours, Being Disappointed by Mahi-Mahi, and More
Etiquette, manners, and beyond! This week, Nick and Leah are enjoying a well-deserved break, but they'll be back next week with an all-new episode. In the meantime, here's one of their favorite episodes from the archives in which they tackle sitting on suitcases before a trip, going on ghost tours, being disappointed by mahi-mahi, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)
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EPISODE CONTENTS
- AMUSE-BOUCHE: Sitting on suitcases
- A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Ghost tours
- QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: What should I do about colleagues who haven't checked in on me after my knee surgery? What do you do about people who complain about the food when you've treated them to dinner? More "Said to My Face" submissions.
- VENT OR REPENT: Nincompoops at gas stations, Being oblivious at TSA
- CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Thanks to a weightlifting group, A nice letter
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25 May 2026, 8:00 am - 31 minutes 16 secondsFinding Cat Hair in Food, Picking People's Brains, CCing the Wrong Person, and More
Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about finding cat hair in food, picking people's brains, CCing the wrong person, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)
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QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:
- How should I have handled a holiday guest whose home-baked cake turned out to contain cat hair?
- Is it rude when you ask someone to meet with you as a favor to then send a calendar scheduling link?
- Is it OK to announce the death of an old classmate on Facebook before their family does?
- How should my mother handle a no-shoes household when her doctor says to keep her shoes on?
- What words of comfort can you offer after I accidentally included the wrong person on an email?
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18 May 2026, 8:00 am - 40 minutes 20 secondsReceiving Black Napkins, Squatting in Strangers' Kitchens, Slurping Smelly Foods, and More
Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle receiving black napkins in restaurants, squatting in strangers' kitchens, slurping smelly foods on airplanes, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)
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EPISODE CONTENTS
- AMUSE-BOUCHE: Napkins 201
- A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Making phone calls on airplanes
- QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: Should we host a difficult houseguest again or should we just decline? What do I do when I don't want to reschedule with a friend who has cancelled on me five times?
- VENT OR REPENT: An unfortunate airplane seatmate, Bringing too many items to the express lane
- CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Thanks for the theater outing, Thanks for the nice reviews
THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW
- Basic napkin etiquette (Episode 20)
- Napkin rings (Episode 94)
- Placing napkins on a table (Episode 230)
- Should passengers make phone calls on airplanes with new Wi Fi (USA Today)
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11 May 2026, 8:00 am - 27 minutes 35 secondsOutrunning Your Friends, Bragging About Possum Sweaters, Renaming Your Coworkers, and More
Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about outrunning your friends, bragging about possum sweaters, renaming your coworkers, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)
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QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:
- What's the etiquette of running your own race when you've signed up with friends?
- What's the proper age to start calling someone "Miss" or "Mister"?
- How do I get my in-laws to stop talking incessantly about their luxury vacations?
- Is it rude to refuse to learn your colleagues' names and to just make up new ones for them instead?
- What is the etiquette of inviting a second round of guests when a venue has a minimum spend and you want to make sure you have enough attendees?
- Inserting a card into an envelope redux.
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4 May 2026, 8:00 am - 43 minutes 21 secondsEarning Girl Scout Badges, Washing Strawberries in Soda Fountains, Whisking Away Cake Plates, and More
Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle earning Girl Scout badges, washing strawberries in soda fountains, whisking away cake plates, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)
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EPISODE CONTENTS
- AMUSE-BOUCHE: The "Social Butterfly" Girl Scout Badge
- A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Soda fountains
- QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: Is it rude for a host not to offer seconds of cake and then whisk your plate away? Should you let houseguests use your washing machine?
- VENT OR REPENT: An etiquette breakthrough, A chaotic coffee shop
- CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Thanks for the support, Thanks for the kind words
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27 April 2026, 8:00 am - 19 minutes 15 secondsOuting AI Videos, Evicting Lingering Guests, Reserving Paper Towels, and More
Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about outing AI videos, evicting lingering guests, reserving paper towels, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)
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QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:
- Is it rude to tell someone that a video or post they sent you is obviously AI-generated?
- How do you get a friend to leave your house when you're ready to be alone?
- Is it okay to be annoyed when the driver changes the song you're playing in their car?
- At a party, how do you navigate dietary restrictions without being rude to the host or cook?
- How do you decline an invitation from someone you don't really want to spend time with?
- Bonkers: Claiming a pre-loaded paper towel in a workplace restroom.
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20 April 2026, 8:00 am - 47 minutes 23 secondsDecoding Different Cultures, Pursuing Dry Cleaners, Blasting Techno Music, and More
Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle decoding different cultures, pursuing dry cleaners, blasting techno music, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)
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EPISODE CONTENTS
- AMUSE-BOUCHE: "The Culture Map" by Erin Meyer
- A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Food delivery services
- QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: What's the best way to follow up on a date invitation now that I no longer live in the area? How do I respond to a parent who wants to know who else is going to my party before they'll RSVP for their child?
- VENT OR REPENT: Passing on narrow roads, Aggressive airport lounge music
- CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Thanks for the accountability, Thanks for organizing our Dallas live show
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13 April 2026, 8:00 am - 23 minutes 16 secondsSecond Helpings: Removing Shoes on Airplanes, Exiting Weddings Early, Welcoming Guests In, and More
Etiquette, manners, and beyond! This week, Nick and Leah are enjoying a well-deserved break, but they'll be back next week with an all-new episode. In the meantime, here's one of their favorite episodes from the archives in which they answer listener questions about removing shoes on airplanes, exiting weddings early, welcoming guests in, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)
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QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:
- What are your thoughts on removing one's shoes on an airplane?
- How do you handle a friend who wants a friendship more than you do and also always suggests meeting up closer to where they live?
- Should a bride and groom leave their wedding reception before the last song?
- How do you feel about the phrase "Welcome In"?
- What do you do about a friend who's always a downer at parties?
- PSA: You're on camera when you sit front row at an opera or musical.
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6 April 2026, 8:00 am - 39 minutes 33 secondsSecond Helpings: Eating Baguettes in France, Spitting Wine at Tastings, Returning Gifts to Guests, and More
Etiquette, manners, and beyond! This week, Nick and Leah are enjoying a well-deserved break, but they'll be back soon with an all-new episode. In the meantime, here's one of their favorite episodes from the archives in which they tackle eating baguettes in France, spitting at winery tasting rooms, returning gifts to guests, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)
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EPISODE CONTENTS
- AMUSE-BOUCHE: Baguettes in France
- A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Tasting Rooms at Wineries
- QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: What can be said to in-laws who are expecting a baby at the same time as my wedding? Is it OK to give dinner party guests the wine back that they brought?
- VENT OR REPENT: Forgetting gluten, Rude coyotes
- CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Thanks to the librarian, A nice review
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