• 1 hour 34 minutes
    Our Traumas Can Determine Our Kinks Feat Daddy Doyenne
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    This week Tahoe and Yesssterday sit with lifestyle domme and kink educator Daddy Doyenne to talk why they dont date straight men, the uncomfortablity Tahoe feels as a straight man being tip toeing around LGBTQIA and Cis womens traumas, should straight ppl and LGBQTIA segregate to maintain the peace, the origin of Daddys "demon" persona, what Daddys experience growing up was like and whather her family was supportive of it, establishing boundaries and knowing when to let ppl go, how speaking about these topics lets people know its ok to live in their truths and much more!! ENJOY!

    Socials:
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    @Thee.Demonatrix on Instagram
    @Daddy_Doyenne on Twitter
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    @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

    Yessssterday
    @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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    2 September 2026, 7:46 pm
  • 1 hour 41 minutes
    Great Sex vs Sexual Chemistry: What's The Difference? I Cheating, Pleasure & Bedroom Confessions Feat Kelly Moonstone
    Nut Navy ROLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!

    This week on Hard or Soft, music artist and producer Kelly Moonstone joins the crew for a completely shameless conversation about pleasure, cheating, sexual chemistry and what men and women REALLY expect from each other in the bedroom.

    Why do some people feel guilty after pleasuring themselves? And we tackle an even crazier question: Can cheating ever actually SAVE a relationship? Is infidelity always the beginning of the end, or can what happens afterward expose problems a couple needed to confront?

    Then it’s confession time: What’s something you did because you were horny that you had absolutely NO business doing? 😂

    We also break down the difference between great sex and genuine sexual chemistry—because they’re definitely not always the same thing.

    Then the men turn the conversation toward women: What are five things women can do to be better in the bedroom? And why do some women expect men to bring their A-game sexually without putting that same level of effort into pleasing their partner?

    Kelly Moonstone joins us for all of it as we talk pleasure, attraction, effort, chemistry, cheating and the things people don’t always admit about their sex lives. 

    Welcome to Hard or Soft—where nothing about sex and relationships is off limits.

    ENJOY!!

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    Socials:
    Kelly
    @KellyMoonStone on Instagram

    Courtney
    @Courtney_Shav on Instagram

    Tahoe
    @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

    Yessssterday
    @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

    Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free

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    27 August 2026, 4:47 pm
  • 1 hour 39 minutes
    Does Size Really Matter? Sex Symbols, Bedroom Confidence & Wild Confessions
    Nut Navy ROLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!

    This week on Hard or Soft, the crew gets into a wild conversation about attraction, sex appeal and what really makes someone unforgettable in the bedroom.

    Are Black men too critical of Black women? How many people have probably pleasured themselves while thinking about you—or looking at your pictures? And the question nobody knew we needed answered: Is Tahoe actually a sex symbol? 👀

    Tahoe also reveals his latest sex-toy purchases before the crew breaks down how men with smaller packages can still show up with confidence in the bedroom. Plus, Tahoe tells the story of how his girl actually studied the videos he sent her, took notes and came back ready to experiment. 😂

    Then we get into backhanded sexual compliments, Courtney’s Kink of the Week, and Yesssterday introduces a brand-new Confessions segment that immediately goes completely off the rails.

    Sex, relationships, attraction, bedroom confidence, kinks and absolutely zero shame—welcome back to Hard or Soft.

    Socials
    Courtney
    @Courtney_Shav on Instagram

    Tahoe
    @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

    Yessssterday
    @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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    Enjoy!
    20 August 2026, 11:30 am
  • 1 hour 52 minutes
    I Have A Freaky Side That I Cant Tell My Wife About
    Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAAALLLLLL!!!!!!!!

    This week we welcome musician Denhim to the couch as we talk Courtney listening to True Crime pods and of course Tahoe finds a way to relate it to secks, not being able to tell your partner about your kinks, Tahoe being the face of men getting their groceries eaten and being hit on by his ghey fans, whether its going too far for him and why ghey men try straight men, Denhims music career and how he likes living in NY, the toxic inspiration behind some of the songs on his album and catching his partner having secks with his bestie, the difference between dating down south and dating in NY, the  physical touch love language and how it relates to men vs how it relates to women, ppl expecting secks after the first date and actually demanding secks, not intiating enough witrh your partner, being irresponsible with your dick and SO much more!! ENJOY!!!!

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    Socials:
    Denhim
    @ItsDenhim on Instagram

    Courtney
    @Courtney_Shav on Instagram

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    @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

    Yessssterday
    @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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    13 August 2026, 11:25 am
  • 1 hour 54 minutes
    Why Am I Always Being Judged For Being Secksual??
    Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!

    This week Courtney rejoins the cast as we talk people lying on their secks game, advocating for micro peens, Tahoe gifts Yesssterday with his first male secks toy, when should women pull out their secks toy on a guy, the proper way to use anull beads, Tahoes wife surprises him with a game, Courtneys new and improved secks life, how to properly hit the different climax spots in the vulva, how many holes does the vulva have, why Courtney came back to the show, the difficulties that come while living in your secksual truth, being in a marraige where only one person initiates, the best position to eat cat in, and what is the best time to have secks outside on your patio?? ENJOY!!!

    Listen To the full episode ad free on Patreon now!!

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    @Courtney_Shav on Instagram

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    @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

    Yessssterday
    @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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    6 August 2026, 9:06 pm
  • 1 hour 50 minutes
    Are White Men Easier For Black Women To Date?
    Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!!!

    This week we welcome Zeema of the Honestly Tho podcast to talk her getting favors and offerings from white men, dating white men and why she thinks it is easier to date them than black men, being turned off by a man after pegging him and why she feels that being pegged isnt for "straight' men, the difference in beauty standards for white women vs black women, warming the booty hole up for penetration, recycling nudes and the best camera tricks to take nude videos with, Tahoes love for toys and what he gets out of it, 5 ways to be a dicksman, and more!!! ENJOY!

    Listen To the full episode ad free on Patreon now!!

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    Zima 
    @TopTier_Zee on Instagram

    Honestly Tho Podcast
    @_HonestlyThoPodcast on Instagram

    Courtney
    @Courtney_Shav on Instagram

    Tahoe
    @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

    Yessssterday
    @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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    30 July 2026, 4:47 pm
  • 2 hours 4 minutes
    343. Damn My P*ssy Grew Alot!! Feat Goddess Jessi
    Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLL!!!!

    This week we sit with The Sweet Love Sanctuary's own Goddess Jessi to talk balancing your energy, where Goddess Jessi originally met Tahoe and Loon, the definition of the word "Goddess", defining the Sweet Love Sanctuary, living a polyamorous lifestyle and Goddess Jessi's liberation, the reaction that Goddess Jessi receives when she lets potential partners know that she is married but open, Tahoe and his trash d*ck days, the guys experiences with women that maybe weren't too favorable, having a good d*ck radar and so much more! ENJOY!!

    Socials:
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    @SweetLoveSanctuary on Instagram

    Tahoe
    @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

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    @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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    22 July 2026, 7:17 pm
  • 2 hours 7 minutes
    342. You Can Fk Her But NO CUDDLING! Feat @NYCThickums
    Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!

    This week we welcome @NYCThickums to talk women loving boyfriend d*ck, trying to be with someone with a smaller member and the adjustments she tried to make to make it work, testing the bewtyhole to see if men were with bewty play, the connection between mens ego and secks, what pp get from swapping partners or letting them have secks with other ppl, being open to sharing your partner and the scale of boundaries that people place on such activities, the conversations that need to be had before opening your relationship, the effect of religion on your secksual inhibitions, and so much more!! ENJOY!!

    Socials:

    @NYCThickums on Instagram
    @ThisBronxGirlWrites for her blog

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    @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

    Yessssterday
    @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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    16 July 2026, 4:12 am
  • 2 hours 2 minutes
    341. Is A Little Delulu Necessary? Feat @TheRealMarkel
    Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!

    This week we welcome Markel Logan Coleman (@TheRealMarkel) to talk not telling the truth in the bedroom, how the miltary shaped some of Markels personality traits, having an affair on his then boyfriend with his now husband, understanding why some ppl cheat, allowing your partner to step out for freaky tithings, and Markel takes over the show to ask Loon and Yesssterday some questions. ENJOY!

    Socials:
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    @TheRealMarkel on instagram

    Loon
    @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

    Tahoe
    @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

    Yessssterday
    @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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    8 July 2026, 6:55 pm
  • 2 hours 13 minutes
    340. Being Gay is Actually Mad Lit Feat Mr Dominus
    Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLL!!! Strap yourselves in TIGHT because this episode is a DOOZY!! Mr Dominus steps in and takes Tahoe and Loon for the ride of their lives as we talk poly and hierarchical relationships and whether gay men suffer from the same ego/control and jealousy that staright men go through in their relationships. Trying to explain to your partner that you needing other ppl has nothing to do with them, Dominus being a platinum gay member and what it takes to maintain that member status, different hookup sites in the Gay community and how free gay men are in their secksual exploits, Dominus love language, where his arousal to men comes from and when he realized he was gay. The convo gets intense as he talks his west indian family and their response to his sexual orientation and lifestyle, wearing flags to show what types of kinks you're into, his love for  and SOOOO much more. This is a Platinum level episode!!! ENJOY!!!

    Socials:
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    @MrDominus_DC on Instagram
    Listen to the @FreakNSeePodcast

    Loon
    @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

    Tahoe
    @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

    Yessssterday
    @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

    Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free

    Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

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    1 July 2026, 10:32 pm
  • 1 hour 51 minutes
    339. Why Cant More Women Be Like Daphne Joy Feat Marley Moore
    Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!

    This week we welcome an old friend of the show, content creator and corn star Marley Moore, to talk Tahoes lil man not being present, Daphne Joys effect on men since shes been doing interviews, why women dont like Daphne Joy, Marleys early retirement and getting back into the corn game, how corn has changed, Being a sensual Domme and what that entails, Domme'ing Yt guys vs Domme'ing Black guys (specifically Yesssterday), the domme who went to jail for a kink gon wrong, what a JOI is and how Marley gives them, women sneaking out cums and men being able to tell or not being able to tell when a woman climaxes and so much more... ENJOY!!!

    Socials
    Marley
    @MarleyDaBooty on Twitter
    @MarleyXMoore on Instagram

    Loon
    @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

    Tahoe
    @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

    Yessssterday
    @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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    24 June 2026, 7:13 pm
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