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In this special crossover episode of Business of Pleasure x The Hard or Soft Show, Tahoe is joined by Kasha Vanessa and the incomparable Kandi Burruss for a real, funny, and affirming conversation about transitioning from marital life into single womanhood, reclaiming self-love, and using pleasure as both confidence and care. We get into setting intentions for the year ahead and saying yes to ourselves, our pleasure, and our evolution.

Kandi opens up about the whether she is ready or thinking about dating in today’s wild outside world, we talk people trying to spin the block, and the importance of true alignment in relationships, friendships, and energy as she steps into this next season with intention.

We get into all the fun, toys that get you through transitions, riding it right, confidence in your body, and how pleasure plays a role in healing and empowerment. The conversation expands into the Hard or Soft framework, sharing our Hard/Wet, what turns us on, and our Soft/Dry, what turns us off, along with an honest discussion about ethical non-monogamy versus polyamory. This episode is grown, candid, and exactly the reminder you need to step boldly into your Year of YES. ENJOY!!!

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Its 2026 and we are BACK with a hilarious episode to start the new year! ENY Scoot sits with us to talk having bad secks with a good partner, is there such a thing as pulling toys out too early in dating, the idea that ppl look for reasons to not cheat more than they look for reasons to cheat, why men dont just tell the truth, a young man writes us a letter asking for help, and whats something you learned about secks the hard way that you wish you wouldve learned sooner?

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This week the crew are back to talk.. not gon lie yall I have to be up for work in 3 hours..I'll fill out the description later ..but this episode was GOOD!! ENJOY!

Welcome back to Part Two!

Madame Se continues with the mommy wound conversation, being the problem in her previous marraige, having postpartum depression after her pregnancies and feeling like she wouldnt be a good mother for her children, survivng her own depression and attempts to self harm, how to support people who suffer from depression, why Aysha says a woman should leave a guy who is not treating her right two weeks after his mom passes, and if she will ever be 'Ok"...ENJOY!

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This week Tahoe sits with Coach Bellamy aka Madame Sé aka The Kinky Oracle to talk her new show on the Hard Or Soft network RAW, starting her show Temple of Euphoria after being secksually assaulted at a play party, which of her kinks are attached to her trauma, graduating therapy, Tahoes fear of therapy, how she deals with being diagnosed with epilepsy, what she loves about the Hard Or Soft Show, wanting to be a Dominatrix, why she tends to sympathize with the male experience, Mommy wounds and so much more! Tune into our patreon to hear the full episode ad free or tune in this friday for Part Two! oh and ENJOY!!

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Welcome back guys! The crew starts the show asking if they think they are "nice" people, sucking d*ck for 100 million, Freddy from the Southern Pleasure Expo calls in to tell us about it, a poly woman talks about the difficulties dating monogamous people, Tahoe calls a friend to confess something about the past, a woman says to keep the big d*cks away from her, 5 issues men with big d*cks have to deal with and MORE! ENJOY!!

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Loon
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Alexis Jade (@JupiterGrl_) is back to talk Christmas and liking experiences vs receiving gifts, having a child and dating, being single and ready to mingle (kinda), and she teaches Tahoe about the rest of the chakras and what they mean to the body and mind. We ask what exactly is a hoodoo baddie and then we get secksy as she talks about the things that make her hard and the things that make her soft. ENJOY!

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This week Tahoe gives the crew a week off for the holidays as he speaks with spiritual advisor Alexis Jade about the benefits of tantric secks and even if it could be harmful to do it. Pisces being psychics and people who protect their energy from being stolen by friends and lovers. Then we get into the different chakras of the body and how Alexis became so good at her craft. Tune into part two releasing this friday and ENJOY!!

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This week Courtney shares a situation she went thru where a guy told her that her secks was lackluster, a man wants his wife to make up scenarios where she cheats on him and tell them to him while they're having intercourse, improper use of numbing cream, the play party recap and then we are joined by HoodMan who is a pro Bottom for femme dommes who tells us how they became a bottom, what they're into and how they wound up having multiple surgeries after taking their desire for pain a little too far. Then we have an exhibition of sorts as Hoodman teaches Courtney how to top them. ENJOY!!!

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Fetlife: Hoodman
Twitter @Hoodman2nd
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Courtney
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Loon
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Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free

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This week the crew talk the typical men that love bigger women (Yesssterday coded), a guy taking too much time to set up a first date, giving to give vs giving to receive, seeing signs of other people in a person you're datings home, discussing boundaries before going to a swinger party, telling your partner that you want to engage secksually with other people, being in a relationship without adequate communication about your desires, the difference between making love, quickies and f*cking, the different kinks prevalent in each state and MORE! ENJOY!!

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@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free

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This week the crew talk uncomfortable situations that happen when involving a third partner in your relationship, when you partner cheats with somebody moore popular than you, how a mans health effects his peen performance, only giving good secks when your partner is used to getting great secks from you, intercourse not being the most pleasurable secksual expereince for women, the proper way to engage with a woman secksually when you dont have a big peen, and the way secks can positively affect your mood. ENJOY!!

Socials:
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free

Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

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