Have you been cheated on? I have and I want to help you. 

The devastating impact of narcissistic abuse hidden behind the veil of cheating is a calculated tactic used by narcissists to wear down their partner's self-worth, isolate them, and maintain control. 

This form of emotional and psychological abuse often goes unrecognized, leaving victims feeling responsible for their partner's actions. 

My personal experience with a cheating narcissist is a reminder that cheating is not just a "mistake" but can be a manifestation of a deeper pattern of manipulation and coercive control. By shedding light on this complex issue, I want to empower you to break free from the cycle of narcissistic abuse and reclaim your sense of self-worth.

0:00 Introduction

2:50 The Impact of Cheating on Self-Worth  

6:23 Personal Experiences with Cheating  

11:24 Understanding Psychological and Emotional Abuse  

14:15 The Role of Cheating in Manipulation  

14:27 Encouraging Listeners to Seek Support  

Podcast Resources:

• Join my FREE Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveafternarcissisticabuse

• Access my low cost Narcissistic Trauma Recovery Programme https://go.carolinestrawson.com/heal-the-trauma-of-narcissistic-abuse

• Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinestrawson/

• Find me on TikTok!: https://www.tiktok.com/@carolinestrawson

• My website: https://www.carolinestrawson.com/

Have you been through the narcissistic abuse cycle? The insidious pattern of love bombing, devaluation, and hoovering can leave you feeling trapped, questioning your own sanity. Caught in the web of this toxic dynamic, the trauma bond becomes a physiological addiction. Your body craves the dopamine highs and cortisol rushes, even as your mind yearns for peace. But know this: the fault lies not with you, but with the manipulative tactics of the narcissist.

Recognising the patterns of this cycle is the first step towards reclaiming your power. Through intentional self-care and somatic healing, you can break free from the narcissistic abuse and rediscover your true, authentic self. The journey may be arduous, but the rewards of liberation and self-love are worth the effort. Take that first brave step towards a life free from the narcissist's control.

 0:00 Understanding Narcissistic Behavior  

1:27 Caroline Strawson's Journey and Mission  

2:29 Challenges of Leaving a Narcissistic Relationship  

5:42 The Narcissistic Abuse Cycle: Love Bombing  

8:49 The Narcissistic Abuse Cycle: Devaluation  

11:14 The Narcissistic Abuse Cycle: Hoovering  

13:19 Breaking the Trauma Bond  

15:44 The Role of Somatic Healing in Trauma Recovery  

17:10 Conclusion and Final Thoughts  

Podcast Resources:

• Join my FREE Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveafternarcissisticabuse

• Access my low cost Narcissistic Trauma Recovery Programme https://go.carolinestrawson.com/heal-the-trauma-of-narcissistic-abuse

• Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinestrawson/

• Find me on TikTok!: https://www.tiktok.com/@carolinestrawson

• My website: https://www.carolinestrawson.com/

Ready to leave the narcissist's toxicity behind? It's time to take back control in 2025.

This year, make the bold decision to leave the narcissist in the past. Reclaim your power and your peace of mind. No more walking on eggshells or anticipating their next outburst. Embrace a future free from the narcissist's manipulation and abuse.

Healing is within your reach. By tuning into your body's signals and allowing yourself to fully feel and process your emotions, you can break the cycle. Discover the transformative power of somatic practices that calm the nervous system and restore your wellbeing.

Don't wait another day. Take the first step towards a life unburdened by the narcissist's influence. You deserve to thrive, not just survive. This is your year to break free and create the fulfilling, authentic life you desire.

Free Workshop - The 3 Stages Of Healing Trauma After Narcissistic Abuse

https://www.carolinestrawson.com/three-stages-of-trauma

0:00 Navigating the Year Ahead with Narcissistic Abuse 2:01 Personal Update and Office Move 4:03 The Impact of Narcissistic Abuse on the Body 8:48 Navigating Emotions and Healing 11:30 Upcoming Masterclass and Support 13:56 Commitment to Healing in 2025

Podcast Resources:

• Join my FREE Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveafternarcissisticabuse

• Access my low cost Narcissistic Trauma Recovery Programme https://go.carolinestrawson.com/heal-the-trauma-of-narcissistic-abuse

• Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinestrawson/

• Find me on TikTok!: https://www.tiktok.com/@carolinestrawson

• My website: https://www.carolinestrawson.com/

What can you do to heal from the trauma of narcissistic abuse and regain your power in 2025? You have to set small, achievable goals rather than grand resolutions that often lead to failure. 

You have to focus on one manageable step at a time and understand the impact of trauma and narcissistic abuse on your life. You need to heal by doing nervous system regulation and addressing the root causes of trauma. 

By breaking down goals into bite-sized chunks and adopting a mindset of "for now," you will empower yourself to build sustainable habits as well as prioritise self-care, even amidst the challenges of healing from narcissistic abuse. With the support of my free masterclass and community, you have to guide you towards regaining your true potential in the new year.

Free Workshop - The 3 Stages Of Healing Trauma After Narcissistic Abuse

carolinestrawson.com/three-stages-of-trauma

Podcast Resources:

• Join my FREE Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveafternarcissisticabuse

• Access my low cost Narcissistic Trauma Recovery Programme https://go.carolinestrawson.com/heal-the-trauma-of-narcissistic-abuse

• Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinestrawson/

• Find me on TikTok!: https://www.tiktok.com/@carolinestrawson

• My website: https://www.carolinestrawson.com/

Are you ready to break free from the shackles of narcissistic abuse and reclaim your life? 

Healing from narcissistic trauma requires intentionality and a deep understanding of the impact on your nervous system. Gone are the days of simply waiting for time to heal all wounds. Instead, you must actively engage in embodied practices that address the physiological responses triggered by the narcissist's behavior. 

This isn't about changing the narcissist - that's an impossible task. Rather, it's about reclaiming your power by transforming the way your body and mind react to the trauma. With the right support and strategies, you can break free from the cycle of shame and self-doubt, and step into a future filled with self-compassion and authentic connection. Your journey to wholeness begins now, and the path forward is within your reach.

0:00 Navigating Narcissistic Trauma and Abuse 5:08 Creating a Supportive Environment 5:22 Addressing Shame and Self-Care 6:22 The Role of Self-Care in Healing 7:07 The Limits of Talk Therapy and the Importance of Embodied Healing 9:17 The Three Stages of Healing After Narcissistic Abuse 10:50 Community Support and Resources 11:03 The Importance of Intentionality in Healing

12:27 Encouragement and Final Thoughts

Podcast Resources:

• Join my FREE Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveafternarcissisticabuse

• Access my low cost Narcissistic Trauma Recovery Programme https://go.carolinestrawson.com/heal-the-trauma-of-narcissistic-abuse

• Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinestrawson/

• Find me on TikTok!: https://www.tiktok.com/@carolinestrawson

• My website: https://www.carolinestrawson.com/

Have you been dreading the holiday season due to the presence of narcissistic individuals in your life? I have a transformative solution which is guided meditation. 

By focusing on grounding exercises and intentional breathwork, you can effectively down-regulate your nervous system and cultivate a sense of safety, even amidst the stress. 

Affirmations like "I am allowed to feel joy" and "I deserve peace" empower you to embrace your emotions and reclaim your right to happiness. Rooted in scientific principles, this meditation equips you with practical tools to manage triggers and approach interactions with narcissists from a place of calm logic, rather than survival responses. 

With this powerful practice in your toolkit, you can navigate the holidays with greater ease and self-compassion, taking crucial steps towards healing.

0:00 Navigating Holiday Stress with Meditation

3:26 Introduction to the Meditation

5:00 Breathwork and Grounding Techniques

7:09 Embracing Emotions and Building Inner Strength

9:43 Science Behind Meditation and Narcissistic Abuse

12:23 Support and Community

Podcast Resources:

• Join my FREE Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveafternarcissisticabuse

• Access my low cost Narcissistic Trauma Recovery Programme https://go.carolinestrawson.com/heal-the-trauma-of-narcissistic-abuse

• Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinestrawson/

• Find me on TikTok!: https://www.tiktok.com/@carolinestrawson

• My website: https://www.carolinestrawson.com/

Grief can resurface at any stage of your healing journey, even years after a traumatic event, and giving space to these emotions is crucial for your well-being. 

I reflect on my own experience of grief resurfacing during a funeral, and how allowing myself to fully feel and express those emotions was essential for my recovery. 

By addressing the sensations and emotions in our body, you can better navigate your healing journey from narcissistic abuse, toxic relationships and childhood trauma. Being emotionally aware and using self-compassion, particularly when it comes to the grieving process, is an essential part of the recovery process.

Key Topics Covered:

• Addressing grief in healing from narcissistic abuse

• Personal experience with resurfacing grief

• Stages of grief and the need to process emotions

• Suppressing emotions, the nervous system, and physical health

• Emotional awareness and self-compassion in recovery

• Creating a platform for survivors to share stories

Podcast Resources:

• Join my FREE Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveafternarcissisticabuse

• Access my low cost Narcissistic Trauma Recovery Programme https://go.carolinestrawson.com/heal-the-trauma-of-narcissistic-abuse

• Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinestrawson/

• Find me on TikTok!: https://www.tiktok.com/@carolinestrawson

• My website: https://www.carolinestrawson.com/

It’s almost Christmas time again and the holiday season is starting to get into its swing! Because of the rapidly approaching festive season, I want to share with you how to cope with the narcissist over the next month as it’s very common for the narcissist to ramp up their aggressiveness at this time of the year. From dealing with Christmas dinners with a narcissist to who has the kids for certain events, the holiday season can be really demanding for those who have to deal with a narcissist, so listen in so you can learn how you can cope over the holidays. 

What you will learn in this episode:

• How to minimize the time you spend with a narcissist over the holidays
• Ways to stop the narcissist from getting their supply 
• The traps narcissists will set under the guise of holiday spirit

I’ll also discuss how to set up a new communication method if you need to communicate with a narcissistic person without letting them back into your life. I hope this episode helps you prepare and plan for a great holiday time and helps you stop the narcissist in their tracks so they can’t ruin your festivities.

Resources:

Get a copy of my masterclass: https://carolinestrawson.com/dangers-of-a-narcissist

Podcast Resources:

• Join my FREE Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveafternarcissisticabuse

• Access my low cost Narcissistic Trauma Recovery Programme https://go.carolinestrawson.com/heal-the-trauma-of-narcissistic-abuse

• Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinestrawson/

• Find me on TikTok!: https://www.tiktok.com/@carolinestrawson

• My website: https://www.carolinestrawson.com/

Have you ever felt like your emotions were dismissed or invalidated by someone close to you? The manipulative tactic known as gaslighting is often used by narcissists to undermine your sense of reality. 

Narcissists are driven by a deep-seated need for control and validation and use gaslighting as a means to maintain power over you. 

This is a form of emotional abuse that chips away at your confidence, making you question your own perceptions and experiences. 

The narcissist's goal is to create a parallel reality where you become reliant on their version of events, ultimately losing touch with your own sense of self.

By recognising the signs of gaslighting, you will take the first step towards reclaiming your autonomy and break free from the narcissist's grip. 

Staying vigilant for phrases that dismiss, minimise, or deny your reality is crucial in identifying this manipulative behaviour. With self-awareness and access to support, you can begin the journey of healing and personal transformation, ultimately finding the light at the end of the tunnel.

Key topics covered in this episode:

• Understanding gaslighting and its impact on victims

• The nature of trauma and personal transformation

• Common gaslighting phrases used by narcissists

• The psychological impact of gaslighting on victims

• Resources and support for those experiencing narcissistic abuse

Get a copy of my masterclass: https://carolinestrawson.com/dangers-of-a-narcissist

Podcast Resources:

• Join my FREE Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveafternarcissisticabuse

• Access my low cost Narcissistic Trauma Recovery Programme https://go.carolinestrawson.com/heal-the-trauma-of-narcissistic-abuse

• Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinestrawson/

• Find me on TikTok!: https://www.tiktok.com/@carolinestrawson

• My website: https://www.carolinestrawson.com/

What is the hidden danger of the narcissist that we must be aware of? Through my personal journey of healing from narcissistic abuse, I know the importance of understanding the narcissist's behaviour and the impact it has on our self-worth and trauma. 

You need to shift the focus from the narcissist to your own healing, as continuing to obsess over the narcissist only perpetuates the cycle of abuse. 

In my masterclass I will give you practical insights and strategies to help you recognize the red flags of a narcissist, handle relationships with toxic individuals, and ultimately reclaim their power. By attending this masterclass, individuals can take a significant step towards breaking free from the hidden dangers of the narcissist and embarking on a transformative healing journey.

Sign up to the masterclass: https://carolinestrawson.com/dangers-of-a-narcissist

Key topics covered in this episode:

• The importance of understanding narcissistic abuse and trauma through evidence-based approaches

• The desire to know everything about narcissistic abuse and the challenges it presents

• The overuse of the term "narcissist" in society and its impact on those who have experienced true narcissistic abuse

• The concept of post-separation abuse and the prevalence of narcissists in various relationships

• The announcement of a free masterclass on the "Hidden Dangers of the Narcissist"

• The emphasis on personal healing and understanding one's own emotional wounds rather than solely focusing on the narcissist

Podcast Resources:

• Join my FREE Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/thriveafternarcissisticabuse

• Access my low cost Narcissistic Trauma Recovery Programme https://go.carolinestrawson.com/heal-the-trauma-of-narcissistic-abuse

• Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinestrawson/

• Find me on TikTok!: https://www.tiktok.com/@carolinestrawson

• My website: https://www.carolinestrawson.com/

Have you ever heard your partner say, "Don't worry, I'll handle everything and put it in my name," or "Just let me know if you need anything"? While these phrases might seem like generosity, they can actually be signs of financial abuse. In this episode, I’ll explore covert financial abuse and how narcissists use it to gain control, leaving you with little financial independence and making it hard to leave the relationship. But fear not, I'll guide you on reclaiming your financial independence and safely exiting the relationship.

What you will learn in this episode:

• How narcissists hide their control behind generosity.
• Why so many people suffer from covert financial abuse without noticing. 
• How to become financially independent and safely leave a narcissist. 

I’ll share a story about a woman I once helped. She left her partner after enduring years of financial abuse, where nothing, not even her phone number, was in her name. She couldn't even get a phone in her own name due to her lack of credit history, as everything financial was tied to her partner. Tune in to discover how you can regain control of your finances and prevent a situation like this. It's important to know that healing from this form of narcissistic abuse is possible.