Callers are back in session! Today we're joined by not one, but TWO lovely callers: Sally and Cat! Sally's situation is from several years ago but she still wonders if she was the A-hole for sharing what her husband told her about their mutual acquaintance. Where is the line when it comes to "breaking" the Bro Code, and are you the A-hole if you're the one to then share that information? Cat, meanwhile, is at a crossroads with two platonic friendships. She has felt disappointed by both friends, and being a direct person, she's willing to air her grievances head on. But with the passing of time and different priorities, are some friendships simply meant to fade? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sally!

21:21 - Shandy Debrief

26:22 - Welcome To Caller Cat!

56:49 - Shandy Debrief

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Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 7, episodes 1-6!

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2:46 - Garrett & Taylor

16:12 - Ashley A & Tyler

25:13 - Monica & Stephen

40:06 - Marissa & Ramses

48:41 - Alex & Tim

1:01:40 - Leo & Brittany

1:12:09 - Hannah & Nick

1:34:23 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand Finale of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!

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0:00 - Housekeeping

3:34 - Finale Kick Off

10:25 - Bora Bora

43:55 - After The Final Rose

50:08 - Grant

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find out your therapist used to be your mother's therapist, should you "break up" with them, and if so, how? If your friend keeps asking bothersome requests of you, is there a way to get them to stop? If your partner is against marriage, is that a dream you should let go? And if you tend to play photographer to your friend group but are saddened when they never seem to reciprocate, is this a fixable friendship dynamic? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - A Very Random Introduction

3:15 - Q1: How Do I Break Up With My Therapist?

11:15 - Q2: How Do I Get My Friend To Stop Asking Me This Question?

21:04 - Q3: I Love My Partner But She Never Wants Marriage Or Kids—How Do I Bury These Dreams?

32:38 - Q4: I’m The “Paparazzi” In My Friend Group But It’s Never Reciprocated—Help!

52:18 - Q5: How Do I Befriend My Online Match-Turned-Coworker?

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down Men Tell All for the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:18 - Men Tell All

36:50 - Bloopers

41:30 - Preview

44:02 - Andy’s A-Game

46:52 - Shandy Word Watch

48:34 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

5:36 - Episode 7 Kick Off

11:58 - Guy’s Overnight

39:45 - Pascal

42:04 - Pascal’s Overnight

51:51 - Andy’s A-Game

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find yourself in a flirty dynamic with your (married) boss, is this pre-mistress territory? If your sister is interested in your brother-in-law but you question their compatibility, how honest should you be? If your friend sleeps with the ex of another friend of yours, is this friendship-ending messy behavior? And how do you make friends if you're not "pretty"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

4:49 - Q1: Am I About To Become The Mistress?

18:39 - Q2: My Sister Is Interested In My Brother-In-Law—What Should I Do?

29:37 - Q3: My Friend’s Recent Behavior Disgusts Me—Is She Too Messy?

45:39 - Q4: Can I Avoid Visiting My In-Laws?

1:01:40 - Q5: I Wish I Had More Friends & Think It’s Because I’m Not “Pretty”—Shandy’s Advice?

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:27 - Guy’s Hometown

13:14 - Pascal’s Hometown

28:50 - Jordan’s Hometown

37:09 - Chock’s Hometown

49:00 - Rose Ceremony

1:00:14 - Andy’s A-Game

1:00:38 - Shandy Word Watch

1:02:11 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!

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0:00 - Housekeeping

3:50 - Episode 5 Kick Off

12:41 - Keith’s 1-On-1

18:43 - Mark

24:55 - Back On The Date

32:58 - Group Date

39:46 - Mark’s 1-On-1

47:47 - The Next Day

50:27 - Rose Ceremony

56:06 - Andy’s A-Game

57:44 - Shandy Word Watch

1:00:36 - Shandy’s Predictions

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! When in a relationship, is it inappropriate to get dinner alone with your opposite-sex friend and his parents? Is closure within reach when the object of your affection was hot and cold to begin with? And if your boyfriend tells you your singing annoys him, is that a nothing burger or dealbreaker territory? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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13:00 - Q2: Should I Reach Out To My Hot-And-Cold Date For Closure?

23:20 - Q3: Am I The Asshole For Feeling Neglected By My Friend Since She Met Her New Boyfriend?

33:23 - Q4: My Boyfriend Told Me My Singing Annoys Him So Now I Don’t Sing Around Him—Does This Matter?

55:22 - Shandy’s Favorite Flavors

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!

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4:15 - Episode 4 Kick Off

5:04 - Group Date

22:59 - The Next Day

26:00 - Jordan’s 1-On-1

33:50 - Guy’s 1-On-1

39:33 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

51:19 - Rose Ceremony

53:35 - Andy’s A-Game

54:26 - Shandy Word Watch

57:27 - Shandy’s Predictions

1:03:30 - F***, Marry, Kill

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