With Kail trying to find herself she is exploring what style she thinks best suites her and Becky doesn't agree. The ladies discuss the difference in Trauma Bonds and Trauma Bonding. Talking to your friends is hard but Becky brings up why you need to and maybe she has to take her own advice too. Becky went through a period of lost memories when her and Kail weren't friends and she is still looking for answers.

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They say it’s necessary to have thick skin; for Fatima, the expression is especially true. Having battled a lifetime of severe eczema, this young mother has tried everything to fight her way through debilitating discomfort. After finding a topical steroid that seemed to cure all, Fatima shares with us the devastating side effects she experienced coming off of it. For her, shedding her skin also meant shedding light on the all-too-real Topical Steroid Withdrawal (TSW). Today, though Fatima is still healing from her condition, she sits down with Becky and Laura to share the active choices that have helped her find comfort in her own skin. (S2|E1)

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Kail and Becky start the new year with some body changes and goals. Kail talks a little about her cosmetic surgery. Becky had a breakdown this past weekend and touches on the what led up to it being triggered. An interesting topic about partners not needing to be productive at the same time brings to light a recent incident with Kail and Elijah. 

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Becky and Kail go over what their personal and professional goals are for 2025. Becky briefly explains why she was in so much debt in her 20s, and Kail asks is cheating is inevitable in longterm relationships.

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Coming to your from Kail's office aka Kail's house, meaning anything can happen! Becky and Kail talk about celebrating Christmas and how it's evolved (or not) throughout the years. Becky talks about meeting Elijah for the first time and reuniting with Kail's kids.

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A listener is ready for marriage after being in a long term relationship with two children and a shared bank account but her partner is not on the same page. Kail and Becky give their thoughts on the situation and how they came to wanting marriage themselves. Is there a such thing as being too honest in a relationship? When is it appropriate to cut off a friendship? Becky wants Kail to have a village of trusted people but Kail is reluctant at the idea. 

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Becky and Kail are joined by Alessandra to talk about the importance of friendships throughout the years and how they have changed. Becky explains the complexities of her male friendships, Alessandra shares how she worked through political differences with a friend, and Kail feels like she's only now learning things she should have learned in her 20s. 

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Becky expresses her excitement for this new journey with Kail and the podcast, while Kail tries to not fall into old bad habits. Becky was asked what her favorite era of her life was and it starts the conversation around why our 30s end up being better than our 20s. Both listener stories revolve around grief and losing someone and makes Kail cry again.

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Lindsie joins the show and Becky gets to ask her all the juicy questions about her life. Kail clears up a situation with Becky from five years ago. Lindsie explains why she has yet to unpack some of her past trauma and why she's always felt like the outsider in her own family.

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Becky shares some good news regarding wife Leah and their IVF journey, but also talks about the mixed emotions that has come with it. A listener writes in about losing both her estranged biological father and amazing stepdad in a short amount of time and how she's had to nagivate her grief. Kail doubles down on not wanting her kids to take care of her in old age.

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