Snow day’s got nothing on this episode. Kail and Becky kick off this week's episode with real-life mom chaos: sleep deprivation, jet-lagged babies, fever dreams that feel way too real, and the whiplash of going from “easy baby” to “I’m about to lose my mind.” From there, they get honest about how parenthood can shift friendships, identity, and even your relationship with your partner; these are the parts people don’t always say out loud, especially during the holidays.

They also dive into building traditions, navigating the guilt of not showing up the same way for friends once kids enter the picture, and why the “village” feels harder to find than ever.

To wrap it up, Kail and Becky tackle a wild “Karma or Chaos” submission from a veterinary nurse facing a moral dilemma: protect a brand-new business or report a vet for questionable (and potentially illegal) practices. It’s messy, funny, empathetic, and very Karma and Chaos.

Listen now for relatable motherhood talk, unfiltered friendship conversations, and a moral debate that’ll have you yelling at your speaker.

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It’s been way too long, so Kail and Becky finally sit down for a real catch-up and nothing is off limits. From seasonal depression and holiday heaviness to Kail’s entire house getting hit with influenza A, the girls get honest about what this time of year actually feels like behind the highlight reels.

Kail opens up about the emotional (and literal) weight of five-hour custody drives, missing kid events, and trying to hold it all together with seven kids and nonstop sports. Becky shares updates on baby Becks Florida travels, her changing relationship with motherhood, and why Miss Rachel absolutely counts as survival.

The conversation spirals (in the best way) into audiobook commitments, Barnes & Noble rebrands, kid milestones, performative good deeds, fake influencers, childhood letters to soldiers, and reminiscing on Becky's Uber days?

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An “Is It Karma or Is It Chaos?” listener write-in that sparks their first disagreement ever.

It’s chaotic. It’s comforting. It’s exactly why you’re here.

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Kail and Becky are joined by Enrique, the TikTok creator who shot his shot to get on the pod. He shares how he accidentally built a following by covering online drama and Teen Mom lore, and what it’s like feeling “raised by MTV.”

Kail opens up about how she really got cast on 16 & Pregnant, what was actually scripted vs. recreated, the truth about those voiceovers and reunions, and how reality TV impacted her mental health and friendships. Becky gives her honest take on watching Kail grow from peak chaos into a business-minded mom, while still staying the same unfiltered friend.

From ranking Kail’s baby dads, to dog-ashes-as-grandma-ashes karma, and a chaotic Teen Mom RV road trip pitch, this episode is equal parts behind-the-scenes tea, emotional honesty, and pure unhinged group chat energy.

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ENCORE: In the premiere episode of Karma & Chaos, Kail and Becky dive into the ups and downs of their long-time friendship and discuss what they learned after years apart. Reflecting on the past five years, they address rumors (are they in love with each other?), clarify the original timing for their podcast's launch, and share a heartfelt message about their vision for the show.

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Kail and Becky kick off this episode of Karma and Chaos with late-start banter that turns into something real: food insecurity, SNAP benefits, and how Kail is stocking her Delaware egg stand with pantry staples so local families don’t go hungry. From there, the chaos takes over with Kail’s deep dive into the mob and space conspiracies. The girls wrap the episode with an “Is it Karma or is it Chaos?” listener story about divorced parents possibly getting back together (and why it’s never the kid’s fault).

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This week the girls are spiraling through: kid eczema (gut talk, steroid drama, mom guilt), sports-mom sidelines when you don’t know the plays (but you are the loudest), and a Louvre heist hot take no one asked for. We debrief Verity, argue about waking sleeping babies, and settle the eternal debates: is sharing toothbrushes disgusting or a part of being in a comitted relationship?

The episode closes with an Is It Karma or Is It Chaos? where a listener is worried about karma after potential infidelity?

It’s cozy. It’s unhinged. It’s home. It's the chaos you know and love.

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It’s a cozy-chaotic catch-up with Kail and Becky coffee in hand, baby cameos, and a big question: is college still worth it?

They unpack college vs. trade routes, why study abroad can be life-changing and what queer-teen safety looks like at sleepovers. They dig into student-athlete scholarship politics, current reads , boundaries with draining friends, budgeting wins plus a listener letter you don’t want to miss.

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Kail and Becky are back with a cozy dose of chaos. From spontaneous game-night adventures to gratitude check-ins that get real, they open up about parenthood, partnership, and finding peace in the mess. There’s laughter, a little online drama, and one spicy “Karma or Chaos” confession you don’t want to miss.

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This week Kail & Becky are catching you up on all the goings on! Becky updates us on how she's feeling and she is determined to keep her eyes dry this episode! Kail chats with us about some lip updates and shares why AI is really getting scarier. Of course there is always some Karma and some Chaos with your submissions!

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TW: This episode has mentions of miscarriages.

On this week's episode of Karma & Chaos Kail and Becky are back with some sad updates. The ladies come together to offer perspective and support to one another through the challenging times they are each facing. Later in the episode the ladies answer some hard hitting questions like would you let your child skip out on a scholarship for love? And as always there's a dash of Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos with your submissions!

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This week Kail and Becky are coming in HOT with the chaos and maybe some crying. Things may sound a little different since we are mixing things up and recording in a new setting. The ladies show a new side of their relationship this week; their sisterly dynamic sometimes gets a little feisty like when they discuss if matcha tastes like dirt, does Becky have street smarts and of course so much more.

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