Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Parenting

Dr. Lisa Damour/Good Trouble Productions

  • 34 minutes 54 seconds
    188: Should I Talk with My Teen About Masturbation?

    Wondering how to approach the topic of masturbation with your teen? In this episode, Dr. Lisa and Reena dive into the challenges and importance of having open conversations about sexual development. They explore how sex-positive parenting can help remove shame from these discussions while respecting teens' need for privacy and boundaries. They also cover the influence of pornography and how parents can guide their teens toward healthier understandings of sex and relationships through thoughtful sex education. 

    We want to hear from you! How do you foster non-judgmental communication and promote healthy attitudes toward sexuality?

    Books mentioned in this episode:

    Girls & Sex by Peggy Orenstein

    Boys & Sex by Peggy Orenstein

    Sex, Teens, & Everything In Between by Shafia Zaloom

    Yes, Your Kid by Debby Herbenick


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    Keywords: masturbation, sex-positive parenting, shame, privacy, boundaries, pornography, sex education

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    8 October 2024, 7:00 am
  • 49 minutes 3 seconds
    187: Getting Into College with Special Guest Rick Clark

    Feeling overwhelmed by the college admissions process? Dr. Lisa and Reena talk with Rick Clark, Executive Director of Strategic Student Access at Georgia Tech, to address key questions from listeners. From when to start the process, how to navigate standardized tests, to what it takes to craft a standout college essay, Rick shares expert advice on how to help your teen shine. Tune in to hear Rick’s perspective on financial aid, academic scholarships, athletic scholarships, and when it makes sense to turn to college consultants for support. 

    We want to hear from you! How do you maintain a positive mindset and support your teen during the college admissions process? 

    Rick’s Blog: https://sites.gatech.edu/admission-blog/author/rc218/

    Rick’s Book & Workbook: https://www.truthaboutcollegeadmission.com/books

    Rick’s Podcast: https://www.truthaboutcollegeadmission.com/podcast


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    Ask Lisa is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com


    Keywords: college admissions, process, standardized tests, support, college essay, standing out, college admissions, test-optional, college essay prompts, athletic scholarships, financial aid, scholarships, college consultants, positive mindset

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    1 October 2024, 7:00 am
  • 33 minutes 24 seconds
    186: Can I Get My Entitled Teen to Change?

    Is your teen acting entitled? In this episode, Dr. Lisa shares practical tips to help parents and caregivers address entitlement and guide teens toward becoming responsible, empathetic adults. Dr. Lisa and Reena explore how holding high expectations, giving kids meaningful responsibilities, and being empathic can help teens move past self-centered behavior.

    We want to hear from you! How do you handle entitlement and maintain perspective during this phase?


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    Ask Lisa is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com


    Keywords: entitlement, teenagers, parenting, routines, responsibilities, empathy, perspective, self-care

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    24 September 2024, 7:00 am
  • 32 minutes 48 seconds
    185: How Should My Son Deal with Trash-Talking Friends?

    Is your middle schooler caught in the whirlwind of trash-talking and competitive behavior? You’re not alone. A parent writes asking for guidance on how to handle the social dynamics that boys often face in middle school, where establishing social power can involve trash-talking and intense competition. But what happens when your child feels uncomfortable with these behaviors? Dr. Lisa offers expert advice on how parents can be sensitive to their kids’ feelings, offer empathy, and start meaningful conversations that help them navigate these tricky situations. Reena & Dr. Lisa discuss practical strategies to guide your child through this challenging phase.

    We’d love to hear your thoughts! How do you manage competitive behavior and social dynamics in middle school? 


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    Ask Lisa is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com


    Keywords: boys, middle school, trash-talking, competitive behavior, social power, sensitive, parenting

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    17 September 2024, 7:00 am
  • 35 minutes 6 seconds
    184: How Do I Support a Teen Who Hates Her Body?

    Are you struggling to support your teen through the ups and downs of body image and self-acceptance? Reena & Dr. Lisa dive into the complex psychology of parenting teens and tweens as they navigate eating, weight, and activity levels during puberty. A concerned parent writes in about her daughters’ struggles with body image. This episode explores the critical role parents play in supporting their teenagers through weight gain and body changes, addresses the dangers of dieting and restricted eating, and notes the red flags that may indicate the onset of an eating disorder. 

    We want to hear from you! How do you help your teenager build a healthy relationship with food and their body?


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    Ask Lisa is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com


    Keywords: teenagers, body image, weight gain, puberty, eating disorders, healthy eating habits, body positivity, red flags, parenting

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    10 September 2024, 7:00 am
  • 37 minutes 14 seconds
    183: Back to School with U.S. Secretary of Education Dr. Miguel Cardona

    Ready to make this school year your child’s best year yet? We’re kicking off Season 5 with special guest U.S. Secretary of Education Miguel Cardona! In this episode, Reena and Lisa explore the initiatives shaping the future of education. They discuss the importance of building community in schools, reducing chronic absenteeism, enhancing out-of-school activities, and expanding access to mental health support. Secretary Cardona shares powerful advice for parents on advocating for their children and celebrating their unique strengths, and Lisa emphasizes the critical role of connection in learning. 

    More info on the 2024 Back to School Bus Tour.

    We want to hear from you! How are you preparing your child for the new school year?


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    Ask Lisa is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com


    Keywords: education, school year, community, chronic absenteeism, out-of-school time, mental health support, relationships, uniqueness

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    3 September 2024, 7:00 am
  • 35 minutes 30 seconds
    182: Untangling All Things Digital for Parents

    Live from New York, it’s the Digital Parenthood Summit! In this live episode, Dr. Lisa and Reena dive deep into the challenges of parenting in the digital age, exploring top concerns like managing kids' screen time, the pressure to get devices, and handling social media's impact on teens. They also discuss valuable strategies for putting boundaries on technology use, keeping phones out of bedrooms, and dealing with the reality of kids encountering toxic content online.

    We want to hear from you! How are you handling parenting in the digital age? 


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    Ask Lisa is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com

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    27 August 2024, 7:00 am
  • 34 minutes 15 seconds
    181: Encore: How Do I Help My Disorganized High School Kid?

    Preparing for life after high school is about more than just getting into college - it’s also about having the ability to operate independently. A parent writes in worried about a charming, but disorganized, son. Dr. Lisa explains what executive functioning skills are - and how to help kids build them. Dr. Lisa and Reena address what drives procrastination in kids, how adults can provide executive functioning "training wheels," and how to get kids to do things like homework without having to nag constantly. The conversation also considers when parents should offer lots of support, and when kids should be allowed to feel the consequences of being disorganized.


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    20 August 2024, 7:00 am
  • 42 minutes
    180: Encore: Never Enough: Confronting Toxic Achievement Culture (with author Jennifer Wallace)

    Our special guest this week is author and journalist Jennifer Breheny Wallace, who discusses her brand new book: “Never Enough: When Achievement Culture Becomes Toxic - And What We Can Do About It.” Dr. Lisa, Reena, and Jennie address how achievement pressure harms kids and what parents can do to combat grind culture. They unpack research from Harvard and the London School of Economics to answer key questions: What do the kids who are thriving in high pressure situations do differently? What can adults do to shield kids from toxic stress? How do parents put pressure on kids without even realizing it? Tune in to learn about the "puppy dog principle," why mattering is what really matters, and the one thing that parents can do that makes a difference. 


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    Ask Lisa is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com


    This episode was sponsored, in part, by the podcast In It: Raising Kids who Learn Differently

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    13 August 2024, 7:00 am
  • 38 minutes 4 seconds
    179: Encore: Teens and Sleep, with Journalist & Author Lisa L. Lewis

    Sleep is essential for mental and physical health, but most teens don’t get nearly enough of it. Special Guest Lisa L. Lewis, journalist and author of "The Sleep-Deprived Teen: Why Our Teenagers Are So Tired, and How Parents and Schools Can Help Them Thrive," joins Dr. Lisa and Reena to answer listener questions about teens and sleep, tech use, summer bedtimes, school start times and more. Their conversation unpacks the results of the Stanford Sleep Study, and Reena finds out how Lisa L. Lewis helped change school start times in California. Tune in for expert advice and practical tips to ensure that our teens get the rest they need.


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    Ask Lisa is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com

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    6 August 2024, 7:00 am
  • 29 minutes 8 seconds
    178: Encore: My Son and his Friends Use Slurs. Can I Stop This?

    A mother writes in about the fact that her teen son and his friends - who come from a mix of racial, religious, and socio-economic backgrounds - "jokingly" use slurs. Does she have the power to stop this? Dr. Lisa and Reena explore what's driving the rise in hateful language and what adults can do to address this hurtful behavior. Reena asks whether it's realistic for adults to think they can change the dynamics that unfold when teens are with their friends. Dr. Lisa offers advice on how to guide teenagers toward acting with empathy and respect.


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    Ask Lisa is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com

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    23 July 2024, 7:00 am
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