This episode is MESSY, listener! Breanne Williamson is a content creator, comedian, filmmaker, and beloved co-host of WHGS, but today she is a journalist uncovering the truth as I tell the follow up to my CRAZIEST and MESSIEST hookup story ever! We discuss my first ever MMF (Masc-Masc-Femme) three-way, the insanity of how it came about, and how the boring city of Calgary is somehow the thirstiest city alive. Bre, who opened for me during the whole ordeal, keeps me honest as I break it all down. If you want to listen to the first half of this epic tale, use one of these links:

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This episode is deeply in love, listener! Jen Davis is an actor, content creator, and MY GIRLFRIEND, and today we decided to show you the visceral details of what we do together in bed: PODCAST! We switch up our usual format while the crew is on vacation and try out “Pillow Talk,” where Jen and I talk intimately from our bedroom in an idea that totally hasn’t been done the exact same way by hundreds of other creators. We open up. We share our quirks. We share our passions. And finally, we take the silliest questions from our discord, and finally let you know who smells the best of them all

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This episode is traumatized & sober, listener! Emma Dalenberg is an amazing stand up comedian and writer who recently came out as a lesbian, but today she’s in the apartment to put theory into practice! We discuss dating men AFTER coming out, how addiction and trauma can fuel such decisions, and how hanging out with Kylie Vincent WILL get you banned from your local coffee shop. Ashley fumbles a dishy dame. Kylie sets boundaries. 

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This episode is EXCLUSIVE, listener! Ashley’s NEW podcast with Josh Johnson is dropping THIS THURSDAY, 3/6, so with all hands on deck for it’s preparation, we are releasing one of the funnier Patreon bonus episodes of “You’re Having Gay Sex” from our back catalog to the general public! Joined by the hilarious comedian and beloved former co-host Kate Sisk, we read and react to your LISTENER-SUBMITTED gay sex stories about trans-masc hookups and locking people out of a home to bang. In-between, we banter about embarrassing moments when taking T, fostering a girthy garden, and how Alex is just a little juice boy.

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This episode is undefiled, listener! Grace Reiter is an unfathomably hilarious content creator, comedian, and full-blown virgin, but today she’s in the apartment to destroy fruit because she needs this CHERRY POPPED! We discuss being a virgin in your mid-20s, beauty standards in straight vs. queer dating, destigmatizing sex when you haven’t had any, and how to invest in lucrative new opportunities like playing Minecraft. Ashley bangs her boss. Kylie wrestles with snakes.

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This episode is instructional, listener! Brenda Jordan is a spellbinding transgender comedian, content creator, and 2015 viral sensation who blew up by dancing at a mall, but today she’s in the apartment to go viral again by NO-PANTS DANCING with YOU! We discuss the do’s-and-don’ts when sleeping with a trans woman, overcoming the fetishization of trans women, plunging men into their own sexuality crises, and how long you have to be on estrogen before you earn your slur rights. Ashley gives her that HAWK TUAH. Bre is chit-chatting. 

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This episode is informative, listener! We switch up our typical format for a dedicated interview of Madam Tara Adkins, the manager of Nevada’s first legally licensed brothel — Mustang Ranch. We get into the nitty-gritty of everything you’ve ever wanted to know about organized sex work: how the business operates, how it does so safely, the life of courtesans, and the outrageous stories of the patrons who seek them out. This episode has it all: elderly lesbians using the brothel to explore polyamory, war veterans using it as a form of sex therapy, and even parents taking their children to lose their v-card. You won’t want to miss this! 

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This episode will touch you (literally), listener! Akeem Woods (The Late Late Show) is a sensational stand-up comedian, writer, and fan-favorite at Ashley’s weekly show, but today he’s in the apartment because he’s the favorite fan of most adult stars! We discuss hooking up with adult film stars on the regular, the nuances of strapping your partner, and how crazy it is that there are people who have probably and literally whacked off to this podcast. Ashley is the 5th wheel. Maddie starts GLP-1s.

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This episode will give you the ICK, listener! Lizzy Cassidy (Don’t Tell, Cracked) is a hilarious stand-up comedian, podcaster, and Maddie’s best friend/comedic equal, but today she’s in the apartment for some queer sex therapy after a date that RUINED IT ALL. We discuss cringe-inducing dates with non-binary people, addiction, replacing drugs with sex and love after going sober, and how Lizzy needs to embrace her true identity that she’s been shoving down: goth. Ashley gets gay in Thailand. Maddie investigates the link between neurodivergence and being queer.

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This episode is genderless and asexual, listener! Irene Tu is a side-splitting comedian, writer, WHGS regular, and self-prescribed “nun” who never has sex, but today she’s in the apartment to spurn ace identity regardless. We go DEEP on philosophy this episode as we discuss rejecting both gendered AND genderless labels, reconciling how you perceive yourself vs. how people perceive you, and how the only thing stopping Irene from being asexual is that they’re dorks. Ashley bushwhacks a pubic forest. Maddie seeks the moon.

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This episode is scandalous, listener! Our dear co-host and Canadian compatriot Breanne Williamson has RETURNED to the apartment from her mental health break, but today she’s in the apartment to break your BACK! We have a big catch up this week and discuss Bre’s sabbatical, lesbians in Florida, encountering vehement homophobes in the wild, and how Bre has been hiding a secret weapon: massive boobs. Even crazier, Ashley finally confronts “The Bachelor” cast member that dated her girlfriend and blocked her, and she may have gotten blacklisted by the entire franchise in the process.

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