Amazing stories from real people
Content warning for today’s episode, which includes a brief discussion of suicidal thoughts.
When you think of the word “addiction”, what comes to your mind?
I think for most people, the most common thought would be drugs or alcohol. For some people, it’s very easy to fall into that. I’m always thankful that I never was interested in smoking, because tobacco addiction is a really difficult thing to beat.
And there are other categories – you can be addicted to eating, gambling, dieting, or even petty crimes such as compulsive shoplifting.
Today’s guest is Fenna. She stumbled into her addiction without even realizing it. In fact, she works in mental health and she didn’t even realize that what she was experiencing WAS an addiction.
Fenna was addicted to a person.
Fenna’s YouTube channel:
https://www.youtube.com/@followingfenna
If you’d like to contact Fenna, you can do that through her website:
Subreddit for limerence:
https://www.reddit.com/r/limerence/
Full show notes and pictures for this episode are here:
https://WhatWasThatLike.com/199
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Every Tuesday, we grab a past question from the Facebook group, then Meredith and Scott answer it and read some of the answers given by other listeners.
The question for this episode:
What is something from your childhood that now no longer exists?
Links for this episode:
Telephone party lines:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Party_line_(telephony)
Jarts –
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lawn_darts
Magic mushrooms:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psilocybin_mushroom
Ketamine therapy:
https://www.pacificneuroscienceinstitute.org/blog/trip/what-is-ketamine-therapy/
When Redbox got acquired:
AAA TripTik – they still exist!
https://triptik.aaa.com/home/index.html
Meredith’s podcast is Meredith For Real – the Curious Introvert:
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Adam lived in Newtown, Connecticut. He was 20 years old, and had no criminal record. One December morning, before 9:30 am, Adam shot and killed his own mother, Nancy, while she was still in her bed. Her body was later found with four gunshot wounds to the head.
Nancy was a gun enthusiast, and had quite a few rifles and handguns. After he killed her, Adam took some of those guns and drove his mother’s car to the Sandy Hook Elementary School. The front entrance doors were locked, but he shot his way through the glass panel. He then carried out one of the deadliest school shootings in US history.
26 people were murdered at the school that day. Six of those were adult staff and faculty. The other twenty fatalities were children. All of them were age 6 or 7.
One of those children was Emilie Parker, an amazing 6 year old girl.
Today you’re going to hear from Robbie Parker, Emilie’s dad, about what happened to their family that day and afterward. And the famous radio personality that made their grief so much worse.
Content warning: this episode includes discussion of child death as a result of a mass shooting
If you’d like to contact Robbie, you can do that through his website:
Robbie’s book:
https://www.amazon.com/Fathers-Fight-Taking-Jones-Reclaiming/dp/1635769833
Alissa’s book:
https://www.amazon.com/Unseen-Angel-Mothers-Story-Healing/dp/1629722790
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https://WhatWasThatLike.com/198
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Every Tuesday, we grab a past question from the Facebook group, then Meredith and Scott answer it and read some of the answers given by other listeners.
The question for this episode:
What's your favorite family tradition?
Links for this episode:
Thousand Schnapsen:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Russian_Schnapsen
Scattergories:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scattergories
Meredith’s podcast is Meredith For Real – the Curious Introvert:
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In 1988, Phil had just moved to Los Angeles. And he was in a tough spot.
At the time he had no job and very little money. So he was trying to come up with some kind of plan that could save him from being homeless. Since he had pretty vast knowledge in lots of different subject areas, he decided that he would try his hand at going on the TV game show, Jeopardy!
He had to pass an initial test, which he did, then he went to the contestant interview, and he passed that as well. And he actually got on the show. It didn’t solve his money problems though – even though he did well, he lost to a 5-time champion – by two dollars. Rather than earning any actual money, his parting gift was a bedroom set which forever became known as the Jeopardy! bed.
But twelve years later, he decided to try again, on a different show. In the year 2000, he was able to get on Who Wants to be a Millionaire, which at the time was hosted by Regis Philbin. This game show experience was very different.
Phil’s appearances on Who Wants to be a Millionaire:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XEPMGv0S9Hc&t=2257s
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0QLq2Hq8_Dk
Phil’s wrote a detailed account of his experience:
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Every Tuesday, we grab a past question from the Facebook group, then Meredith and Scott answer it and read some of the answers given by other listeners.
The question for this episode:
When you were a child, what did you get the most excited about?
Links for this episode:
The Five Love Languages:
Meredith’s episode 247 – Is your food causing your depression?
Meredith’s podcast is Meredith For Real – the Curious Introvert:
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Here in America, we’re gaining weight.
In 1990, the average weight of a US citizen was 161 pounds. By 2020, just 30 years later, the AVERAGE weight went up to 181 – a 20 pound increase.
The rate of obesity varies by state. The state with the most obesity has almost 41% of residents falling into that category – and that is Mississippi. The state with the lowest obesity rate, around 24%, is Colorado.
Today you’ll hear from Ray. At one point in his life, Ray was way above average in a category that no one wants to be above average in. He weighed over 500 pounds. He knew his weight was way up there, but it was when they weighed him at the doctor’s office that he realized how high it was. So he made the decision to do something about it, and his turnaround has been amazing. He now runs ultramarathons – these are footraces from around 30 miles to even 100 miles.
This is a Flashback episode. Ray came on the podcast and told his story about 5 years ago, so I wanted to bring him back on and ask the question that everyone wants to know – has he kept the weight off? You’ll hear the answer to that, right after our conversation.
Full show notes and pictures for this episode are here:
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Having your first baby is exciting.
Your life is changing because you’re gonna be bringing this new little human into your home and into your family. The whole dynamic will change. Your focus will change.
But having that first baby can also be a little scary. You’ve never done this before. You don’t really know what to expect exactly. You might even wonder if you’re doing it right.
Today you’re going to hear from Jessica. She and Cody were looking forward to the birth of their first child, their little girl named Hayden. But things didn’t happen as they expected.
Content warning – this episode includes discussion of stillbirth.
If you’d like to contact Jessica, you can do that through her Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/j3ssbb/
Full show notes and pictures for this episode are here:
https://WhatWasThatLike.com/195
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Every Tuesday, we grab a past question from the Facebook group, then Meredith and Scott answer it and read some of the answers given by other listeners.
The question for this episode:
What’s something that most people have done, but you’ve never done?
Links for this episode:
You Probably Think This Story’s About You podcast:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-probably-think-this-storys-about-you/id1747985859
The movie I was trying to think of starting Paul Newman and Kevin Costner (that was filmed in Maine) is Message in a Bottle:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Message_in_a_Bottle_(film)
Mountain Dew Mouth:
Ep 251Meredith’s Food Addiction episode:
Meredith’s podcast is Meredith For Real – the Curious Introvert:
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For many people, being at home should be where you feel the safest from the outside world.
I mean, we have doors with locks, sometimes multiple locks. Our windows can have locks. We have alarm systems that not only notify us if someone is trying to break it, but also makes loud noises to scare them away. The alarm can even call the police for you, if you’re not able to.
We have a roof to protect from the weather, we have a heater or air conditioning to control the indoor temperature, and we can even control the temperature of our bed.
So when we’re in our home, we shouldn’t have to worry about bad things happening.
That’s what Chris thought too. But then a stranger came into his home with a gun. And toward the end of our conversation, you’ll hear where that stranger had been just 10 days earlier.
Full show notes and pictures for this episode are here:
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Every Tuesday, we grab a past question from the Facebook group, then Meredith and Scott answer it and read some of the answers given by other listeners.
The question for this episode:
What’s something that people do, that’s normal, that grosses you out?
Links for this episode:
Bite: An Incisive History of Teeth, from Hagfish to Humans:
https://www.amazon.com/Bite-Incisive-History-Hagfish-Humans/dp/1643751786
Meredith’s episode with Dr Bill Schutt – Teeth: the Ultimate Status Symbol?
Accidental Swingers? Part 1:
Dr Bukk fake teeth:
https://www.drbukk.com/p/bukk-teeth/
Abby and Brittany Hensel, conjoined twins –
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abby_and_Brittany_Hensel
Meredith’s podcast is Meredith For Real – the Curious Introvert:
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