It's not a Monday without a new UA episode! A huge thank you to everyone who's reached out or contributed to the California wildfire relief efforts, your support means the world. On today's episode, we're diving into the art of crushes! We’re sharing practical tips on how to flirt, how to make a move, and how to talk to that cute new guy in your friend group!

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Happy Monday, UA listeners! This week’s episode is going to be a bit different. In light of the devastating California fires and the ongoing crisis, we wanted to make sure we still brought you a Monday episode, but our team wasn’t able to gather in person to record. So, this episode will be audio-only.

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We’re kicking off 2025 with a bang! In our first story, our writer is feeling hesitant about a new relationship and wondering if being a late bloomer in the dating world is a red flag. Spoiler alert: It’s not! In the second story, we tackle a much heavier topic: How do you leave a marriage when you have nowhere to turn? We’re here to remind her (and anyone else feeling stuck) that breaking free and starting over is always possible. You’re never alone in this journey.

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Happy (almost) New Year, everyone! As we wrap up 2024, we're reflecting on all we've achieved this past year and sharing our dreams, goals, and resolutions for 2025. Thank you for all your support we couldn’t do this podcast without you!

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Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays, everyone! This year, we’re re-airing our most listened to episode—an absolute nail-biter! We can’t thank you enough for all the love and support over the years. We truly appreciate you all!

Young love can be so sweet, but it can all come crashing down when your college crush marries someone else. In today's story we have a girl that has finally moved on from a guy she used to like, now he's married. But his questionable text messages have her second guessing everything! 

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Navigating life in your late 20s can be a confusing season of change: weddings, baby announcements, and so much more. It’s completely normal to find yourself drifting apart from friends during this time. In our first story, we explore the reality of growing apart and how to embrace these changes. In our second story, we're talking about self-love! Join us as we share practical steps to help you break free from negative thinking and cultivate a healthier relationship with yourself. 

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In today’s episode, we dive into a difficult and emotional situation: What do you do when you find out your dad is cheating on your mom? It’s a heartbreaking position that leaves you torn between your parents. Navigating the discomfort of this situation is anything but easy, and knowing when and how to tell your mom can feel overwhelming. We explore the importance of communication, finding trusted support, and taking steps toward healing—for yourself and everyone involved.

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Happy Monday UA Fam! We’re back with our regularly scheduled programming! In today’s story, our writer has been happily in a relationship with her boyfriend for 7 years. But recently, she’s been grappling with guilt over a brief breakup they had a few years ago. How does she move forward when she can’t shake the feeling that she hurt him?

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Surprise, surprise! In today's episode, we're doing something we've never done on the pod before. And trust us, you won't want to miss it! We've got two jaw-dropping dropping stories today! First, our writer's boyfriend's mother is toxic and overbearing. How will she handle the upcoming holiday season?? Then, in another story, our writer discovers that her boyfriend of three years has been leading a double life! This episode is packed with unexpected turns and wild revelations! 

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Dating, Drama & Getting Dumped! In this episode, our writer shares the heartbreak of being dumped just three weeks into a new relationship—after everything was going so smoothly. Was he just not ready for a relationship, or just not with her? In our second story, our writer’s boyfriend is ready to get engaged, but she wants to take things slow. How can she ask for a pause without hurting his feelings? Tune in, as we discuss closure and how to block out everyone else’s opinions while figuring out what’s best for you!

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In today’s episode, we’re diving into the little things about boys that give us the ick and those moments that make us melt. But we also have a more serious topic to discuss. Our writer was in a happy relationship with her husband until she discovered suspicious activity on his computer. She believes he has a serious problem, but he insists it’s not a big deal. How do they move forward when he continues to gaslight her?

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