Covenant Sex

Dr. Anthony Hughes

Certified sex therapist, Dr. Anthony Hughes, counters culture surrounding sex. “We’re actually a very sex positive people. We just don’t know it yet.” LDS (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saint) culture is ready to bring a sex positive perspective into covenant marriages. Direct, but respectfully this podcast cuts through old ways of thinking and brings a healthy view of sex that’s nestled in covenant marriages. Cover art photo provided by Milan Popovic on Unsplash: https://unsplash.com/@itsmiki5

  • 26 minutes 36 seconds
    The Sexual Playground for Issues of Sexual Desire Discrepancy

    This episode creates the understanding, language, and “way out” for couples stuck in issues of sexual desire discrepancy. Dr. Hughes is the first to put forward clear and concrete words, understanding, and ways to move forward for couples plagued by these discrepancies. Dr. Hughes has created a sexual playground analogy that enables couples to do this. The higher desire partner yearns for their partner to play on this sexual playground with them. Playing on the playground isn’t just doing sexual acts. It’s not about sex. It’s about the meaning of sex. It’s about the engagement and desire to play on the playground with the higher desire partner. Dr. Hughes provides examples of how the lower desire partner can still help the higher desire partner feel accepted, connected, seen, and loved while not dramatically increasing intercourse or varied sexual activity. These examples also help the higher desire partner find ways to play on their sexual playground with their partner in ways where they are no longer alone while also respecting the difference in their partner.

    15 November 2024, 5:05 pm
  • 22 minutes 25 seconds
    Step 3-Working Through Sexual Desire Differences in Marriage
    Dr. Hughes provides the roadmap for couples that are struggling to resolve sexual desire differences in marriage. The high desire spouse is really saying “Come and get to know my soul. My very being. Not my entire soul, but a main part of it.” Couples can get the stars to align when their soul communes with their spouses. Dr. Hughes talks about how that can happen, within this podcast.
    14 May 2024, 8:25 pm
  • 25 minutes 30 seconds
    Step 2.5-Working Through Sexual Desire Differences in Marriage
    In this episode of Dr. Hughes talks about the impact of sexual neglect and abandonment for the partner that enjoys bonding and connecting through sexual intimacy. Understanding where the partner that has experienced sexual neglect and abandonment is coming from sets the stage for the 3rd and final step that couples must take to resolve their sexual desire differences and embark on a coupled journey of sexual fulfillment.
    7 May 2024, 10:48 pm
  • 15 minutes 58 seconds
    True Warrior Program for Sexual Addiction
    This podcast discusses the process of transformation for people that struggle with sexual addiction or out-of-control sexual behavior, also known as problematic sexual behavior. Dr. Hughes has created a program that is built off of 24 ways to transform and live for those struggling with problematic sexual behavior.
    25 April 2024, 7:24 pm
  • 18 minutes 58 seconds
    Step 2-Working Through Sexual Desire Differences in Marriage
    LDS (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints) couples dealing with a sexual desire discrepancy within their relationship are provided the second fundamental change required for these couples to resolve their sexual frequency and quality issue within their marriage. This second fundamental change is “ensuring that bids for connection are witnessed for what they are, and accepted”-there is a special way of ensuring that all bids are accepted that is discussed in this podcast.
    8 December 2023, 5:01 pm
  • 26 minutes 8 seconds
    Step 1-Working Through Sexual Desire Differences in Marriage
    The first of three steps for couples struggling with different sexual desires is provided and expounded upon. 1-ensuring each partner differences in sexual desire are accurately seen and respected.
    5 December 2023, 1:08 am
  • 8 minutes 29 seconds
    High Sexual Desire/Low Sexual Desire Problem And Avenues for Change
    In this podcast Dr. Hughes talks about the high sexual desire/low sexual desire problem and avenues for change. Most couples fall into the gap of fighting for their spouse to be more like them. This may be the case for some couples where there is an unhealthy relationship with sexuality that gives rise to either a high or low sexual desire, but for many others differences need to be respected, bids for connection need to be accepted, and the couple embarks on a new way of exploring sexuality.
    3 December 2023, 4:40 am
  • 16 minutes 27 seconds
    4 Low Desire Partner Types
    The 4 low desire partner types are discussed. These include Inaccessible/Cold; Accommodating/Disengaged; Misguided/Wanderer; and Engaged/Open types. How the low desire partner and their high desire partner experience this type is also highlighted.
    2 December 2023, 12:39 am
  • 21 minutes 56 seconds
    How to Make a High Desire/Low Desire Marriage Work
    The broad overview of what doesn’t work and what does work in high desire/low desire marriages is explained. The listener will be able to see why their high desire type doesn’t work and which one does work. You will quickly see what fundamental characteristics are requisite for a happy sex life for high/low desire marriages
    30 November 2023, 8:16 pm
  • 27 minutes 22 seconds
    4 High Desire Partner Types
    Dr. Hughes goes over the 4 different kinds of high desire partners, what high desire partners that aren’t jerks are really looking for, and the impact of rejection.
    29 November 2023, 8:45 pm
  • 8 minutes 55 seconds
    Sexual Play -Part 2
    Dr. Hughes talks about what sexual play is and how vital it is in marriage. It is correlated to being “in love” or “falling out of love”. Sexual play is one of the three indicators of strong romantic loving relationships, along with meaningful time and vulnerability and connection. Part two is brief
    13 September 2023, 9:00 pm
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