This week on Pour Minds, we’re talking ambition, fake love, and why chasing success will have you smiling in rooms you lowkey can’t stand. Lex and Drea are back on the couch asking the real questions: how far are you willing to go to level up, and is it really fake… or just good business?

We got into working with people you don’t like, out-hustling your coworkers, and knowing when to clap for others vs. when to move around. Lex shares how she used to snatch tables mid-shift, Drea breaks down her rules for “strategic faking,” and both of them admit they’ve been hatin’ for no reason.

By the end of the episode, somebody’s manifesting a cypher verse, the tequila tastes like water, and we’re all agreeing: if you ain’t greeted that table in two minutes, it’s mine now.

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This week on Pour Minds, we got the homies from Crash Dummies on the couch—and it got real. From arguing about whether men and women can really be “just friends,” to who’s actually the prize in a relationship, this one got heated.
Lex and Drea were not letting up, and Pat and Mike brought that wild Midwest energy. We talked dating rules, emotional maturity, and the difference between a vibe and a red flag.
By the end of the episode, somehow we’re all going to a Bucks game and bottles will be involved. Milwaukee, we might be on the way.

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This week on Pour Minds, it’s a solo couch takeover with your girls Lex and Drea—and we’re just being honest. Lex kicks things off with a very bold claim: Fetty Wap is the greatest balladeer of our generation. Yes, she said that with her chest. From there, the chaos unfolds. We debate if Future’s “Honest” counts as a slow jam (Lex thinks it belongs at a wedding), and why the Macarena might be the original TikTok dance.

We also get into modern-day prom madness, erotic hypnosis, and how sex gets deeper when the mind gets involved. Drea explains why she’s never been truly d-matized, while Lex shares how breathwork unlocked a whole new level of pleasure.

Plus, we introduce a new commandment: Thou shalt not wear see-through thongs to dinner. We’re just being honest.

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This week on Pour Minds, it’s a couple’s couch takeover with Devale and Khadeen Ellis—real-life partners, actors, authors, and co-hosts of the "Ellis Ever After" Podcast. We talk about what it really takes to build a relationship that lasts. Khadeen shares how she made the first move at a scholarship banquet (gown and all), and Devale breaks down why a woman buying the first round didn’t scare him—it impressed him. They open up about getting married young, going through broke seasons together, and what it means to really choose your partner for the long haul.

We also get into doing “wifey things” before the ring, knowing the difference between red flags and real work, and why “pick-me” might not be the insult people think it is. Plus, Lex leaves us with a new prayer: “Don Julio, be blessed.”

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This week on Pour Minds, we’re joined by the legendary Kiki Said So—OG podcaster and content queen.

We talk about the early days of Cocktails, how podcasting has changed (and gotten a little too polished), and what it really means to let a man be a man when you’ve always done it all yourself. Kiki opens up about unlearning hyper-independence, the fear of asking for help, and the launch of her new podcast XO Man—where she’s making space for Black men to get vulnerable, open up, and tell their truth.

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This week on Pour Minds, we’re joined by Lavelle Dontae—a rising comedic star and viral social media sensation. He’s funny, unfiltered, and got a story to tell.

We talk about how he got his start in comedy, how his time in the military added to the mix, and of course… his role in the bedroom 👀

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This week on Pour Minds, we’re joined by Zonnique, Bahja, and Bre of the OMG Girlz. From teenage fame to grown woman moves, the group reflects on what it really took to grow up in the spotlight — and still show up for each other all these years later.

We talk about navigating the industry as young Black girls, maintaining friendship through fame, and how their bond has evolved with time. We also touch on the question: Do girl groups still work? — and why theirs stood the test of time.

And yes, we had to ask… what makes a man say “OMG” in the bedroom?

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Heyy y’all!!! 🎉✨ We’re back with a very unhinged and dysfunctional solo episode that’s giving chaos, truth, and a whole lotta laughs! In this episode, we dive into whether being passive-aggressive is always a bad thing in relationships, debate why Twitter might be one of the most toxic apps out, and explore why some people just can’t handle folks who are blunt and direct 👀💬 It’s raw, it’s real, and it’s Pour Minds at its finest! Tap in for the wild convos and relatable moments.

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Heyy y’all!!! 🎉✨ We got a very unhinged, unpredictable, and unapologetically nutty guest episode for y’all today — Funny Marco is back on the couch with ya gurls, and you already know it’s about to be chaotic in the best way! 😂🔥In this episode, we break down what really makes for good “nutt”, debate whether you can laugh your way into a woman’s heart, and explore the messy side of disrespect in relationships when you’re friends with someone famous 👀💥

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Heyy y’all!!! 🎉✨ We’re back with an unhinged solo episode packed with hot takes, wild convos, and real talk! In this episode, we ask the controversial question: Is Eminem overrated? 🎤 Then we dive into a debate on whether making kids pay bills actually teaches valuable life lessons, explore how sexual health can deeply impact your mental health 🧠💞 & so much more.

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Heyy y’all!!! 🎉✨ We’ve got a very special guest in the building today — the gorgeous and melodious Queen Naija! 🎤👑 In this heartfelt and honest episode, we dive into healing in public vs. private, how to navigate depression and prioritize mental health, and debate whether women can be soft and still taken seriously in the entertainment industry. We also get into the realities of social media trolls and of course… so much more! 💬✨

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