This was a breakthrough kind of episode. A little bit like 6 years of therapy condensed into half an hour. We hope it offers you as much of an "Aha" moment as it did for us!

In this week's conversation:

• What if your past isn't your past?
• What if you could go back to the worst bits in your story and re-write them?
• What if your pain isn't fossilized? 
• What if your present can set you free from your past?
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We're not sure why it took us so long to figure this out (and understand how much it matters!), but of course this podcast is like a weekly memoir of ordinary life. Here's what that means for you ...

In this week's conversation:

• Christie and Lisa-Jo explore an epiphany: they've been recording a podcast memoir all these years!
• Memoir-writing nudges us to reflect on the distant past
• podcasting nudges Lisa-Jo and Christie to reflect on the recent past
• Lisa-Jo explains the practice she is now using to reflect on the day just past
• What happens when we pause to notice and reflect? The answer is so good, Christie wonders if it's really too good to be true
• Lisa-Jo shares a special invitation for local listeners

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Only a longtime friend can get away with asking some of the questions Christie asked Lisa-Jo today. We hope they are a balm to your own scarred places. 

In this week's conversation:

• A kind of live therapy takes place between Lisa-Jo and Christie
• Failure turns out to be a powerful catalyst for new things
• Growth looks unlike what we expect else maybe we'd never even try
• If you've ever felt like life is one wave after another and you can't catch your breath, welcome. 

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Today's episode began with big smiles, journeyed through tears, and ended with laughter.

In this week's conversation:

• Lisa-Jo explains why her new book is an Ebenezer stone
• Christie and Lisa-Jo realize each witnessed God making things new this week
• personal stories of church hurt and church healing
• what it looks like when God makes the sad things of life un-true 

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In today's episode Lisa-Jo shares the story of how God brings each of us to a feasting table, set with a chair all ready and prepared. And what happens if you're willing to sit down. 

In today's conversation:

• Lisa-Jo finds herself unexpectedly back in a courtroom setting 
• When your hometown is no longer your hometown.
• The difference between an invitation from God vs a pushy God
• How the Kingdom of God moves at the speed of relationships. 

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In today's episode we unpack:

• The surprising work Christie has been doing
• How good it is to feel seen and to have our unique gifts acknowledged
• If God is a creator, shouldn't we embrace the creators in our communities?
• How to start this conversation where you are 

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Life is full of surprises, and often, it's in the most unexpected moments that we find profound meaning and guidance. In today's conversation Christie and Lisa-Jo discuss one specific instance that arrived much later in Christie's life than might be typical and how these instances are opportunities to stay receptive and attentive to God at work in the mundane and challenging.

In today's episode we unpack:

• The significance of turning 50 and being a beginner again 
• Receiving strength from the Holy Spirit, whether we feel strong or not 
• The shift from relying on feelings to being receptive to God's invitations
• A unique church experience for Christie and how it met her in a weary season 
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In today's episode Lisa-Jo and Christie realize they have both learned how to avoid disappointment and prepare to be happy on a special day ...

• Lisa-Jo is astonished to learn this about Philadelphia
• Christie shares everything she's discovered about celebrating milestones
• These friends ask: how can we better communicate expectations and desires in relationships? With spouses? young kids? teens? with our friends?
• Plus, different communication styles and learning to "stay in the room" to unravel communication knots together
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In today's episode Lisa-Jo and Christie unwrap a Peck of Purple Peppers and share the story of a sentimental seed and the final book in a gardening trilogy.

• It's a book launch gift haul -- unwrapped on air. 
• Which of the the three Jane Austen gardening sisters in Christie's Trilogy are YOU? 
• How to name a book
• The powerful narratives that seeds and plants carry through generations.
• How our family's shape our stories 
• Bonus: Christie reads an excerpt from her new book "Seedtime and Harvest"
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In today's episode Lisa-Jo and Christie celebrate a four-year project that is finally complete. What's it like to stand at the finish line?

• A conversation between friends on the creative process and completing a trilogy
• Thanks to Lisa-Jo, Christie discovers that her book is like a Jane Austen heroine
• Which of these three books with their distinct personalities should you read first?
• How writing a trilogy teaches you contentment (and how that carries over to parenting and marriage)
• Why some creative projects deplete us and some feel like play
• Why Gardening Matters To Christie (and why it should matter to you too)

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Lisa-Jo has a personal epiphany in the bathtub this week and Christie offers insights on the healing that comes from addressing our shadows.

• We're facing our demons this week -- from the safety of the bathtub!
• Lisa-Jo looks in the mirror of her past and doesn't like what she sees
• Christie points us to the cyclical nature of life that can bring order and understanding out of the darkness--especially as it relates to parenting teens.
• Lisa-Jo tells the story of confronting one of the worst shadows from her past on a stage in front of 4,000 people. 
• We want to uncover the transformative power of confronting our past and finding meaning in the pain.
• Christie recommends: Like Dew Your Youth: Growing Up with Your Teenager by Eugene H. Peterson
• Lisa-Jo's bathtub read: A Wizard of Earthsea by Ursula K. Le Guin

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Follow Emily Graffius on Instagram @emily.graffius and learn more about her work as a TBRI Practitioner, Speaker, and Parent Coach & Cultivate Connection Facilitator. Follow Lisa-Jo on Instagram @lisajobaker and Christie at @christiepurifoy and please leave a review about what you think about today's podcast!

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