She's So Lucky

She's So Lucky

She’s So Lucky is a chart-topping weekly podcast dedicated to women who create their own luck against all odds. Join host Les Alfred and special guests for compelling conversations that will inspire you to live life on your terms. Les and her guests are giving you a sneak peek into the minds and habits of successful women sharing their wins, losses, and lessons that you can apply to your own life. From entrepreneurs, to creatives, to wellness experts, She’s So Lucky is a space for women to feel free and inspired to live up to their fullest potential. Each episode will help you uncover new ways to create your own luck and harness the magic you already have.

  • 1 hour 11 minutes
    You're Not Cringe, You're Just Getting Started with Siff Haider

    #324: If you've ever wondered what it really takes to build a multimillion-dollar brand from scratch — beyond the polished Instagram posts and the "overnight success" stories — this conversation is for you. Today I'm sitting down with Siff Haider, co-founder of Arrae and host of the Dream Bigger podcast, who turned wedding savings into a $100M wellness empire while keeping her sanity, her marriage, and her authenticity intact.

    Siff gets refreshingly real about the unglamorous early days: bootstrapping, sounding like "two little bitches" on investor calls (her dad's words, not mine), and sweating through her first podcast recording. She shares the mindset shifts that helped her step into her power, why she treats customers like influencers, and how she built a team of 33 people who care as deeply as she does.

    This episode is for you if:

    • You're building something and terrified of looking cringe
    • You're trying to figure out when to take funding (and how much)
    • You want to understand how to scale without losing your soul
    • You're navigating the balance between data and intuition as a founder
    • You're curious about building a personal brand that's bigger than your business


    If you enjoyed this episode, leave us five stars — I heard that if you rate the show five stars, something lucky happens. Test that theory, and make sure you're subscribed on Apple, Spotify, and YouTube. See you next week!


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    • Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.
    • Heifer International: Spread some luck by funding a loan at heifer.org/lucky.
    • Rula Online Therapy: Visit rula.com/lucky to get connected with a licensed therapist.
    • BBoutique: EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! Visit https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/shessolucky-podcast


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    This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.


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    16 December 2025, 8:00 am
  • 45 minutes 13 seconds
    The Truth About Your Biological Clock: Top Fertility Doctor Shares How to Take Action [BONUS]

    #323: Nothing is more impactful to our ability as women to create our own luck than the journey of motherhood—how we embark on it, and when. That's why I sat down with Dr. Catha Fischer, reproductive endocrinologist and Medical Director at Spring Fertility, for this critical bonus episode to demystify reproductive health, fertility, and the power of reproductive autonomy. 


    We dive into what every woman in her 20s and 30s needs to know, from understanding your menstrual cycle (which Dr. Fischer calls your "fifth vital sign") to the truth about how birth control impacts your fertility, and what egg freezing actually entails. This is an honest, judgment-free conversation about removing the shame around fertility and making informed, empowered choices for your future.


    This episode is for you if:

    • You want to understand your reproductive options regardless of your relationship status.
    • You're on hormonal birth control and are curious about what's *really* happening with your natural menstrual cycle.
    • You've been frustrated by the shame and secrecy surrounding fertility struggles or feel like you're "running out of time."
    • You want a factual breakdown of the egg freezing process, including pricing, and outcome data.
    • You're having a hard time getting your questions about reproductive health answered and are seeking patient-centered care.


    Episode Sponsor:

    • Visit springfertility.com and use code LUCKY for $150 off your initial fertility consult (virtual or in-person).


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    This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.


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    12 December 2025, 8:00 am
  • 46 minutes 16 seconds
    How To Feel Content When You Don't Have What You Want Yet

    #322: Sometimes the biggest transformations happen not when everything changes around you, but when you finally shift how you show up. In this solo episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the internal work that led to one of the most profound shifts I've ever experienced — and why people keep telling me my energy feels completely different.

    I'm sharing the honest story of what most of this year really looked like behind the scenes (spoiler: it wasn't what you saw on social media), the exact daily practices that changed everything for me over the summer, and why finally feeling content has nothing to do with checking boxes or hitting milestones.


    This episode is for you if:

    • You're doing all the "right things" but still feel like something's missing
    • You're tired of feeling like you're grasping for the next achievement to feel whole
    • You're ready to shift your energy but don't know where to start
    • You want to understand what manifestation actually looks like in practice
    • You're struggling with the gap between how your life looks and how it feels


    I talk about…

    • Why going full-time with the podcast in 2024 brought up more triggers than I expected
    • What it was like to have everything feel hard during the months that looked the most successful from the outside
    • My exact daily manifestation practice
    • How mirror work went from incredibly uncomfortable to one of my most powerful tools
    • Why the manifestations I wanted didn't come exactly when or how I expected, but something better happened instead
    • Why feeling content doesn't mean you stop being ambitious
    • The real prize of manifestation work


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    Sponsors:

    • Google Shopping: #sponsored Shop the 100 products that made our year by visiting g.co/shop/holiday100
    • Happy Mammoth: Try Hormone Harmony risk-free AND get 15% off your first order with code LUCKY at happymammoth.com.
    • Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.
    • Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Visit thefabricofourlives.com to learn more.
    • Kale Health: If you’re interested in a career in wellness, check out the CN-P certification with Kale Health. Use code LUCKY for $1500 off the program.
    • Vionic: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.
    • Heifer International: Spread some luck by funding a loan at heifer.org/lucky.


    This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.



    Produced by Dear Media


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    9 December 2025, 8:00 am
  • 52 minutes 7 seconds
    The Power of Play: How Letting Yourself Experiment Changes Everything with Darcei Giles

    #321: If you've ever felt like you had to choose between the beauty trends you love and the ones that were "meant for you," this conversation will feel like permission to explore it all. Today I'm sitting down with Darcei Giles — the award-winning content creator who's been pioneering inclusivity in beauty since before it was an industry buzzword.

    Darcei shares her journey from making webcam videos in 2010 to becoming a bridge between Korean beauty innovation and Black beauty consumers. She opens up about the viral series that changed everything, the moment a brand actually listened to her feedback, and why she's spent over a decade refusing to delete her early content.

    This episode is for you if:

    • You're navigating spaces where you don't see yourself reflected
    • You're curious about what real brand inclusivity looks like behind the scenes
    • You want to understand how to build longevity in a constantly changing industry


    We talk about…

    • How a lighthearted video concept became a movement that gave thousands of Black women permission to experiment
    • The real reason Korean beauty brands are getting inclusivity right (and what American brands can learn)
    • Why Darcei made three TikToks a day for 90 days straight — and gained 100K followers
    • What happened when she told a foundation brand "call me" and they actually did
    • The difference between creating 30 shades and creating 30 good shades
    • Going into the lab to create foundation shades that had never existed before
    • Why she keeps her earliest videos up despite the cringe factor
    • What it takes to stay relevant for 15 years without losing yourself
    • Her plans to merge Korean skincare innovation with Black beauty needs in her own future brand


    Episode Links:


    Sponsors:

    • Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Visit thefabricofourlives.com to learn more.
    • LMNT: LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.
    • Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.
    • Happy Mammoth: Happy Mammoth: Try Hormone Harmony risk-free AND get 15% off your first order with code LUCKY at happymammoth.com.
    • Kendra Scott: Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.
    • Google Shopping: #sponsored Shop the 100 products that made our year by visiting g.co/shop/holiday100


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    Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.


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    2 December 2025, 8:00 am
  • 1 hour 3 minutes
    The Science of Manifesting Your Dream Life (Even When It Feels Impossible)

    #320: What if there’s less standing between you and your dream life than you think? If you've ever caught yourself thinking "that's too big of a dream," this episode is going to completely shift how you see what's possible for your life.

    Today I'm sitting down with Olivia Rose Thomas — manifestation coach, co-host of Inspired Delusions, and someone who went from being skeptical of the idea of manifesting to completely transforming her life through it. Olivia breaks down the neuroscience behind why getting your hopes up is the most powerful thing you can do, why your 95% subconscious mind might be sabotaging what you want, and how to rewire your brain to expect good things.

    This isn't just woo-woo talk — Olivia connects quantum physics, nervous system regulation, and brain science to explain why manifestation actually works. She shares how she manifested her dream apartment the day after putting it on her vision board, why being audacious about your goals gives your brain more dopamine and motivation, and the exact tools that help you feel safe enough to dream bigger than you ever thought possible.


    This episode is for you if:

    • You're tired of playing it safe and ready to let yourself receive what you actually want
    • You've tried manifesting before and felt like it didn't work
    • You want to understand the science behind why your thoughts literally shape your reality
    • You're ready to stop being realistic and start being audacious


    We talk about…

    • The moment Olivia went from manifestation skeptic to believer — and manifested her exact dream living situation
    • Why getting your hopes up is actually less painful than believing nothing is possible
    • The study that proves we only see what we're looking for (and how to use this to your advantage)
    • What your subconscious mind really is and why 95% of your thoughts are working against you without you knowing it
    • The three R's formula: Recognize, Rewire, Regulate — and how to actually change your beliefs
    • Why EFT tapping calms your nervous system and clears the "clouds" blocking your natural state of worthiness
    • How to use subliminals safely (and why creating your own with your voice works faster)
    • Why acting "as if" and changing your identity is more powerful than any manifestation ritual
    • Why being realistic is the fastest road to mediocrity — and what to do instead
    • How to feel safe enough in your nervous system to actually let yourself hope for more


    Episode Links:


    Sponsors:

    • Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.
    • Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.
    • BBoutique: Everyone who signs up gets a FREE rose suction toy with their order. Visit https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/shessolucky-podcast.
    • Vionic: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.
    • Ritual: Get 25% off your first month of Ritual when you visit ritual.com/balanced and add Essential Protein today.
    • Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Visit thefabricofourlives.com to learn more.
    • Google Shopping: If you're stressing about finding those perfect presents, head over to g.co/holiday100


    Keep in touch with Les and She’s So Lucky


    Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.


    Produced by Dear Media.


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    25 November 2025, 8:00 am
  • 1 hour 5 minutes
    How to 10X Your Life By Doing Less (Not More) with Rachel Rodgers

    #319: If you've ever lost your spark — that fire that used to drive you — and wondered if it would ever come back, this conversation is for you. Today I’m welcoming Rachel Rodgers back to the podcast. You know Rachel as the founder and CEO of Hello Seven, bestselling author, and someone who's living proof that audacious goals are within our reach.

    Rachel gets incredibly honest about a period of deep grief that nearly derailed her eight-figure business, how community pulled her back to her center, and the casual question in Greece that sparked a 100-million-dollar plan. She shares why 10X-ing isn't about doing more (it's actually about doing less), how to use what you already have to create something new, and why setting small goals keeps us stuck.


    This episode is for you if:

    • You're ready to stop playing small and set goals that actually light you up
    • You’re ready to get your spark back after a period of being off your game
    • You want to understand what it really takes to 10X your focus and impact


    We talk about…

    • How Rachel turned a podcast into a TV show by following her creative instincts
    • The six-month period of grief and depression that nearly stopped her business
    • Why shame shields solutions — and the importance of community during hard times
    • The casual question in Greece that sparked a 100-million-dollar business plan
    • Why 10X-ing your business is actually about subtraction and editing, not addition
    • How big goals wake you up in ways that 10% growth never will
    • Why most people quit right before things work — and how consistency wins
    • How to take stock of what you have and cook up your next move (even with nothing)
    • Why Gen Z needs a completely different financial playbook than generations before them


    Episode Links:


    Sponsors:

    • Quince: Quince is the go-to for elevated basics at affordable prices. Visit quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.
    • LMNT: Get a free sample pack with purchase at drinklmnt.com/balancedles.
    • Mosh: Support your brain health with MOSH Bars. Head to moshlife.com/lucky to get 20% off plus FREE shipping on the best sellers Trial Pack or the plant-based trial pack.
    • Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.
    • Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.
    • Happy Mammoth: Try Hormone Harmony risk-free AND get 15% off your first order with code LUCKY at happymammoth.com.


    Keep in touch with Les and She’s So Lucky


    Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.


    Produced by Dear Media.


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    18 November 2025, 8:00 am
  • 52 minutes 23 seconds
    Every Opportunity Has a Cost — How to Choose What’s Worth It with Beatrice Dixon

    If you've ever wondered what it really takes to scale a mission-driven business without losing yourself (or your values) along the way, this episode is for you. Today I'm joined by Beatrice Dixon, co-founder and CEO of The Honey Pot Company — the groundbreaking personal care brand that's transformed an entire industry.

    Beatrice opens up about what it means to lead a company that serves millions while staying deeply connected to its purpose. She shares the real story behind turning down a $450 million offer, why choosing the right partners matters more than the biggest check, and how she's learning to balance ambition with actual rest.

    This episode is for you if:

    • You're building something at the intersection of abundance and integrity
    • You want to understand what a partnership really looks like in business
    • You're trying to figure out when to say no (even to big opportunities)


    We talk about…

    • How preparation creates freedom (even when plans don’t go exactly right)
    • Why Beatrice turned down higher offers to protect the integrity of her company
    • What founders should look for when choosing investors and partners
    • Where The Honey Pot stands on its relationship with Target
    • The difference between being ahead of your time and wasting energy
    • How to stay in flow while still being strategic and prepared
    • Why loyalty and gratitude matter in business relationships


    Episode Links:


    Sponsors:

    • Bumble: Start your love story on Bumble.
    • Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.
    • Grüns: Grüns are comprehensive nutrition packed into a snack pack a day. Visit gruns.co and use the code LUCKY for 52% off your first order.
    • BBoutique: Everyone who signs up gets a FREE rose suction toy with their order. Visit https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/shessolucky-podcast.
    • Vionic: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.
    • Kale Health: If you’re interested in a career in wellness, check out the CN-P certification with Kale Health. Use code LUCKY for $1500 off the program at kalehealth.com.


    Keep in touch with Les and She’s So Lucky


    Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.


    Produced by Dear Media.


    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    11 November 2025, 8:00 am
  • 1 hour 2 minutes
    You’re Not Behind. You’re Just in the Wrong Room

    #317: If you’ve ever felt like you were doing everything “right” in your career but still felt stuck, this is your episode. Today I’m joined by Naomi Wright and Krystal Vega, the powerhouse best friends and co-founders of Fortune & Forks — a community and social club built by and for women navigating their careers, connections, and calling.

    We talk about they went from meeting as interns at BET to launching and scaling a thriving movement. They share how they grew from curating intimate dinners to building a cross-city network of 500+ women, a foundation, and game-changing partnerships — all without losing the plot (or each other).


    This episode is for you if:

    • You’re looking to build genuine relationships in your industry.
    • You’ve been wondering how to actually find your people.
    • You need motivation to help you start something before you’re ready.


    We talk about…

    • How to actually network across
    • Why good people still win in business
    • How Naomi and Krystal grew Fortune & Forks in its early stages
    • How to be a real villager in your friendships + community
    • Navigating entrepreneurship during an economic downturn


    Episode Links:


    Sponsors:

    • Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.
    • LMNT: Get a free sample pack with purchase at drinklmnt.com/balancedles.
    • Quince: Quince is the go-to for elevated basics at affordable prices. Visit quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.
    • Heifer International: Spread some luck by funding a loan at heifer.org/lucky.
    • Kale Health: If you’re interested in a career in wellness, check out the CN-P certification with Kale Health. Use code LUCKY for $1500 off the program.
    • Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.


    Connect with Les:


    Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.


    Produced by Dear Media.


    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    4 November 2025, 8:00 am
  • 58 minutes 19 seconds
    How to Make Peace with Your Past and Move Forward with Power ft. Nia Sioux

    #316: Nia Sioux has been in the public eye since she was 9 years old. Most people first met her on Dance Moms, where she became known for her talent, her grace under pressure — and yes, for often being put at the bottom of the pyramid.

    Now at 24, Nia is reclaiming her story — on her own terms.

    In this conversation, we talk about what it’s like to be perceived before you even know who you are, and how you begin to unpack that when the whole world thinks they already know your story. Nia opens up about the emotional process of writing her upcoming memoir Bottom of the Pyramid, what it took to revisit her childhood through adult eyes, and how she found closure by using her own voice.

    This is an honest, layered conversation about resilience, identity, and what it means to own the narrative of your life, especially when that narrative has long been shaped by others.

    Nia reminds us that reclaiming your narrative isn't just empowering — it's healing.


    In this episode, we cover:

    • Nia’s emotional journey of revisiting her childhood on reality TV
    • What it means to be “the underdog” — and how that label lingers
    • How the title Bottom of the Pyramid became a reclamation, not a resignation
    • Learning how to tell your full story, even when people only want to hear certain parts
    • Releasing the pressure to prove yourself (and who that performance is really for)
    • What she's learned from watching the show as an adult — and what her mom taught her about strength


    Episode Links:


    Sponsors:

    • Jones Road Beauty: Modern-day makeup that’s clean, strategic, and multifunctional for effortless routines. Use code LUCKY at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a free Cool Gloss with your first purchase!
    • Quince: Quince is the go-to for elevated basics at affordable prices. Visit quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.
    • Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.
    • Ritual: Get 25% off your first month of Ritual when you visit ritual.com/balanced and add Essential Protein today.
    • Grüns: Grüns are comprehensive nutrition packed into a snack pack a day. Visit gruns.co and use the code LUCKY for 52% off your first order.
    • MOSH Bars: Support your brain health with MOSH Bars. Head to moshlife.com/lucky to get 20% off plus FREE shipping on the best sellers Trial Pack or the plant-based trial pack.
    • Mood: Visit mood.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your first order of functional gummies.


    Connect with Les:


    Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.


    Produced by Dear Media.

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    28 October 2025, 7:00 am
  • 1 hour 5 seconds
    How to Win When People Underestimate You with Taylor Rooks

    #315: If you’ve ever felt underestimated, this episode is for you.

    Taylor Rooks is one of the most respected sports journalists in the game — and not because she plays it safe. She's built her career on asking fearless questions, trusting her gut, and refusing to shrink herself to fit into anyone else's idea of who she should be.

    In this conversation, Taylor and I talk about what it means to be a woman who takes up space and why the pressure to be palatable isn’t worth giving in to.

    We talk about ambition, integrity, reinvention, and the deep self-trust it takes to keep showing up when you have a big vision for your life. Taylor doesn’t just bring her voice to the table — she brings her values. And you can feel it in everything she does.


    We talk about:

    • How the experiences of women in sports mirror broader societal beliefs
    • Why it’s powerful not to respond to every critic
    • The art of asking better questions (in life and interviews)
    • Knowing your value, even when others want you to shrink
    • Building a career that reflects your values, not just your resume
    • How to trust yourself when the opinions of others become too loud


    Episode Links:


    Sponsors:

    • LMNT: LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.
    • Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.
    • Bumble: Start your love story on Bumble.
    • Vimergy: Vimergy makes liquid vitamins that are clean, potent, and actually easy for your body to absorb. Visit vimergy.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your first order.
    • Headspace: Visit Headspace.com/solucky to try headspace for free for 30 days.
    • IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials is my go-to drink for getting all the nutrients I need. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order.


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    Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.


    Produced by Dear Media.



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    21 October 2025, 7:00 am
  • 1 hour 2 minutes
    Women Are Expected to Do It All — What Happens When We Stop? with Nina Westbrook

    #314: If you've ever felt like you're supposed to be everything for everyone—while somehow also building a career, maintaining relationships, and taking care of yourself—this conversation is for you.

    Nina Westbrook is a licensed marriage and family therapist, founder of the mental wellness app Nebbi, host of the Do Tell Relationship Podcast, and a wife and mom of three. She's also someone who knows what it's like to push through challenging seasons including launching a business while navigating a debilitating injury.

    We talk about what happens when you stop making yourself smaller to keep everyone else comfortable. Nina shares how she navigates the tension between being fully present for her family and building something that matters to her, why difficult conversations don't have to feel like confrontations, and what it actually looks like to let people see your full humanity—even when it's messy. If you've been shrinking yourself to make room for everyone else, or waiting for the "right time" to prioritize what you actually need, this episode will leave you feeling inspired to show up for yourself fully.

    We also talk about:

    • Recognizing when you're in a difficult season vs. when it's just your life
    • How to teach the people in your life that you're a whole person, not just their support system
    • Why prioritizing yourself first isn't selfish
    • How to build self-care moments into small moments of your day


    Resources:


    Sponsors:

    • Grüns: Grüns are comprehensive nutrition packed into a snack pack a day. Visit gruns.co and use the code LUCKY for 52% off your first order.
    • Mood: Visit mood.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your first order of functional gummies.
    • Nutrafol: Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.
    • Quince: Quince is the go-to for elevated basics at affordable prices. Visit quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.
    • Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.


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