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This week on Homeschool Highschool Podcast: Helping Teens to Be Wise in Troubled Times.
Vicki works with teens and adults in her counseling practice. She has learned that in our world of current events, times can get people stressed out, anxious, and worried. Then, it’s sometimes hard to be wise and maintain a Christ-like character.
However, we want to be wise. We want to maintain a Christlike character and give our teens the tools to do that.
Here are a few ideas:
So, during troubled times, our teens (and we adults) will be wiser if we are spending more energy on finding the ways to show reverence to God or experience His awe. (One beautiful way to experience awe is to go outside for a walk, or take a nature field trip. Look for beautiful things God created, such as the sky, clouds, birds, trees. Express some gratitude. You will find awe.)
Probably not act out angrily, argue with difficult people at holiday dinners. Not only that, we probably would not be doing what Jesus would do if we allow ourselves to become swallowed with fear about the situations in politics or the world. Remember, God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). Model for your teens how to pray, then let go and let God when they feel afraid.
Galatians 5:22-23 says that the fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, meekness, and self control.
So, if fruit of the spirit is growing from our spirit, and flowing out of our mouths, we can model that fruit for our teens. When we are our teens about the fruit of the spirit, then we can go through troubling times in a way that keeps us in line with God. AND maybe even might lead people to Christ who watch us.
One of the best gifts a parent can give a teen during these troubled times is the gift of prayer and listening to God (rather than constantly listening to the news).
I have found it useful to help my teens pray for the nation. One way to pray for our country is asking God to bring 2 Chronicles 7: 14 alive in Christians’ lives:
If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and forgive their sin, and will heal their land.
This is a promise that God gave to the Israelites back in the day. We can still see tbis “healing of the land” happen occasionally. People of faith have occasionally humbled themselves. and prayed together and sought God’s face and turned from their own wicked ways (you know, own meanness, selfishness, crankiness…).
Then God in those times has heard from heaven and forgiven their sins. And for a period of time has healed their land. There were great revivals. (Look up the story of the 1904 revival that swept the globe.)
I exhort therefore, first of all, That supplications, prayers, intercession, giving of thanks be made for all men, for kings, and for all that are in authority, that we may lead a quiet and peaceful life in all godliness and honesty.
So your teens (and you) can start with praying for the world. Then pray for everybody you know, pray for everybody in leadership, anybody in authority- in fact, mention “all men”. It will help your teens learn to lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty. Doesn’t that sound good?
There are so many simple ways to stay in a healthy place even in crazy times.
When teens are feeling anger or fear while watching news or social media influencers, help them to ask themselves:
Who is profiting from the news that they see?
For instance, who is making money off of your viewer time? News outlets make money off of advertising. Social media influencers make money off of advertising. .
Teens need to learn that when news is making them very angry or very scared to be aware of somebody’s making money off of that. When we are angry or scared, we tend to keep clicking and watching and watching and watching And getting more and more. And so that’s more ads.
Sometimes politicians or influencers are working on the kind of profiting that might not be directly money, but it is a currency of power. There’s somebody behind it who is making money or getting power off of it and to be wise with that.
You can go right back to those scriptures. If my people are called by my name, humble themselves and pray, seek my face and turn from their wicked ways or praying for all men, especially those in authority that we can live a quiet and peaceable life. The prayer matters.
God is more powerful and real than the nonsense in the world.
When we feel angry or sad or scared, our bodies are being flooded with cortisol, which is a stress hormone. And when that happens, we are getting ready to fight, flight or freeze. If our body is getting ready to fight, flight or freeze, it does not need the logic system.
It does not need to think clearly. It does not need to make rational decisions. It needs to fight, flight, or freeze.
Instead, we handle it in the only way to get rid of cortisol. That way is to increase oxygen. You can do that by deep breathing or by going for a walk or working out at the gym.
Just breathe in through your nose. Nice and deep. Count to five, then purse your lips and breathe out. Slow count to seven. If you do that about three times, you will probably notice the difference.
Here is a progressive relaxation exercise that I do every day before I go to sleep.
And so one of the things that I found useful is the News Literacy Project and their Rumor Guard emails. Teens learn to recognize AI and other fake photos and articles.
Also, it is good to subscribe to Ground News. It takes several trending news items of the day and shows what different news sources have said about that same thing. It helps teens develop perspective-taking skills.
7SistersHomeschool has a free apologetics course. It’s from Dr. Gerald Coley, who is our 7Sisters Sabrina and Allison’s dad. He is a professor emeritus at the University of Delaware and a popular local apologetics teacher.
Not kidding, one of the best life skills a teen can learn is to write their elected officials. So some issues are kind of local, and so they can write like their state representative or senator. Then when things are of national or international interest to write their U. S. representative, their U. S. senators, the president, and/or the vice president.
And if teens have that tool, they can do so much in life and live so wisely and so Christ like. So let’s think about some ways to overcome evil with good. So let’s say that they’re all anxious or angry or nervous about a current event and they did all the other things and they are still feeling “some kind of way”.
Teach teens that any good deed is overcoming that evil in some kind of way. If you think in God’s economy, God runs his spiritual economy in a different way than we do. So any good deed counts. Service is a good way to build a transcript while something better in the world.
And then what happens? Then they can become the people who are making a culture changers and creators in the world.
Thanks to Seth Tillman for editing this episode. And please join the 7SistersHomeschool Facebook group because you can ask questions and get wisdom from your seventh sisters.
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Click the icon below to listen.This week on Homeschool Highschool Podcast: Grace for Holiday Family Gatherings- Special Replay.
We love having homeschooling siblings to journey along with and have adventures with and learn from. We all learn from each other and discuss all of the things that can be a part of the homeschool high school experience. Every family is different, so embrace what we say all the time: there is not just one right way to homeschool. There are so many right ways to homeschool high school- especially during the holidays!
A big piece of what we are doing in high school is preparing our teens for adulting. They are going to have a life after graduation. Yes, it may be hard to believe it sometimes, but they are. That is a big piece of what we want those high school years to be doing. And building character, communication skills and relational skills is very important, though it sometimes gets overlooked from high school.
Did you know there are different kinds of social situations that can be really great character-building experiences for our teens? And since the holidays are upon us, holiday family gatherings are likely in your near future. Here are some ways to equip your teens for these kinds of situations as well as monitor our own character during family gatherings or extended family get-togethers or even just social settings we all have been a part of from time to time.
Because of national health issues, getting together, especially during the holidays, has been tougher than ever. And it is so vitally important that we be with other people and find ways to gather, to build relationships, celebrate with, communicate with, share a meal, and all those wonderful things. Oh, sharing a meal is such powerful stuff!
But we have to do it where people have varied degrees of comfort with how close they are to other people. It can be very tricky. So let’s help our teens and ourselves learn how to build grace into our character while approaching these gatherings intentionally, with a level of sensitivity, while we navigate the room with extra people in it.
When you get together with family, especially extended family, you usually have different versions of what is the right thing to do. In a gathering, is not it funny how we can share a lot of DNA and have very different opinions?
That should be navigated graciously rather than trying to fix the difficult people that are around you and make them “do it right” or “think it right.” Instead, model Christ-like behavior.
We think we know all about our family before these extended gatherings since we’ve known them our whole lives, right? So we think we already know what’s going on with them and know how they can be. It’s like we have a backstory about each person in our minds.
One quote comes to mind:
But there’s nothing worse than knowing that you know just to prove that you know absolutely nothing. – Unknown
In reality, you actually have no idea what is going on in somebody else’s head or in their private life, especially if you don’t see them very often. But you think you know them, and you judge them the moment they do something that you don’t agree with.
To form gracious assumptions is to take a moment before the gathering and tell yourself:
I am going to assume there’s a good reason for whatever anybody does at this gathering. Perhaps there’s a good reason I know nothing about it. And if I need to ask about it because I actually need that information, I will do that respectfully. But I will not allow myself to fill in all the blanks in that person’s story because I don’t really know what they’re going through.
So before you even go to the event, agree to intentionally not make assumptions about the other people there.
So how do we behave when people are not doing it right? One of the things that is our natural response when people are not thinking the right way (because clearly we are the right ones – we are always right) is to let our blood pressure rise while getting an angry face, an irritated posture and start correcting.
We can talk to our teens and model the plan ahead. That is, when people do not do something right, we must still behave with grace towards them.
De-escalate the nonverbals during this time, which will teach your teens how to do that by mirroring your behavior. Have your teen lower their voice while talking a bit more deeper. Then have them bring their shoulders down as well, not up to their ears. See if they can practice a calm exterior.
Redirection is a beautiful tool. When things are awkward, just redirect the conversation towards a different topic.
You could bring humor into the conversation by making a silly little joke at your own expense, such as saying something funny about yourself or making fun of yourself in a funny way. And before you know it, the uncomfortable or awkward topic is gone. Whatever it was that was a problem is a problem no longer.
Just never aim that “funny expense” at others!
In other situations, humans have mirror neurons, so they tend to mimic what they see on other people’s faces. And it happens before you think. For example, when somebody says something kind of stupid and they have their mean face on, your face is going to want to do a mean face too. But if you already know what your calm face is, you can intentionally put on your calm face.
And then people can pick up on their mirror neurons, your calmness, and they will feel some calm too.
It also helped to look in the mirror. They can say:
When I am really mad, this is my face. And when I’m putting on my game face, I’m putting my game face on for the relatives. It’s my calm face.
Therefore, while your teens are in the moment, they can do that and behave gracefully towards them.
Sometimes you might witness a person’s behavior crossing the line into abuse. For example, you see someone in one generation who is cornering someone in the younger generation. This is bullying.
When you need to step in, you can step in very calmly. You might want to start off with saying, “Hey, you can’t talk to them like that. Listen to yourself. You’re being a bully,” even if it is true and honest, but don’t. Unfortunately, it is not going to be very helpful to diffuse the situation.
But you may need to intervene in a situation that is not good, and if so, you can do it without getting upset yourself by projecting calm. This occurs when you stay calm during a heated moment and extends the illusion of authority by being the calmer person.
What may also help a heated situation to add grace for holiday family gatherings is talking in a calm voice with the calm nonverbals. This makes you the one that’s the power broker, since being calm is actually power. You will be stepping in and doing a calm rescue, which will likely cause the bullying person to feel a bit lost or embarrassed. Regardless, they will go settle themselves down somewhere else.
Know that all of this calmness comes from a place of taking a deep breath. It may not fix absolutely everything in the universe, but it is fundamental to being gracious, to behaving graciously, and even to thinking graciously. Because if you are breathing shallowly with a tight chest and throat, you’re not getting enough oxygen for your brain to even be functioning at its best.
Take huge, deep breaths before you respond in any way to anybody.
Find a new activity even for just a minute to save the grace for holiday family gatherings! In fact, if you can plan ahead before you go to your get-together.
Your kids can make pleasant, engaging conversations with the older family members by asking them to tell their life stories. What was it like in the old days?
By doing this, your teens could log this down as history too! Engage the older ones in storytelling or bring some cards and play a card game. Do things that keep people from just sitting down. This will help lessen any anxiety in the air, and it will create positive engagement experiences.
It helps us grow in grace when we recognize relationships are more important than opinions. God has those beautiful, strong relationships in place, and family is vitally important. Therefore, recognize those relationships are not worth losing over opinions, even over opinions that you hold very dearly.
Simply agree to disagree – you’re going to be family at the end of the day. You can overlook lots of other things and still respect them as an individual.
God and grace brings it all home. You can tell your teens:
Sometimes in life, you’re going to need to intentionally do something to facilitate relationships being protected and strengthened. And it is worth it. It’s worth it every time.
Having grace for holiday family gatherings is a good time for your kids to learn life skills, which as we said, you can even log as a couple history hours while you’re at it!
BTW- If you want to keep up some of the homeschooling during the holidays, check this post.
Thanks to Richie Soares with Homeschool and Humor for transcribing this episode.
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Click the icon below to listen.This week on Homeschool Highschool Podcast: Social Language Arts with Dachelle McVey.
In the dynamic and ever-evolving world of homeschooling, finding fresh ways to engage high schoolers in language arts can feel like searching for the Holy Grail. Teens often face a range of challenges when it comes to literature: finding the material relevant, staying engaged, and, let’s be real, battling the lure of screen time.
This week Vicki chats with our friend Dachelle McVey, the visionary behind Literary Adventures for Kids. Her approach has not only redefined how we think about language arts but has also transformed it from a solitary, often isolating subject into an exciting, social experience. Listen to Dachelle’s story about social language arts. It’s a game-changer for homeschool families everywhere!
Dachelle McVey’s journey into the world of innovative homeschooling started in the most relatable way possible: necessity.
As a homeschooling mom herself, she noticed something troubling—her teens, who once devoured books, were beginning to see literature as a chore. The spark that once lit up their eyes when cracking open a new story was dimming, and she was not about to let it fizzle out.
Traditional language arts curricula were missing the mark for her family. The rigid structure, uninspired materials, and lack of connection were not meeting her teens’ needs. So, like many determined homeschooling parents, she took matters into her own hands.
She began crafting her own curriculum—one that blended creativity, community, and literature. This passion project grew into Literary Adventures for Kids, a comprehensive interactive language arts curriculum that does not just teach, it invites learners to explore, connect, and rediscover the joy of stories.
As we 7Sisters always say: There’s not ONE right way to homeschool, and Dachelle exemplifies that in her own family.
Each year, when planning their homeschool year her family reassesses their educational goals, deciding what is best for each child. Sometimes that means continuing to homeschool; other times, it means incorporating traditional schooling.
This willingness to adapt ensures that her children’s education is always tailored to their unique needs—a vital takeaway for parents navigating their own homeschooling journey.
At the heart of Dachelle’s program is the concept of socializing language arts, and honestly, this idea is brilliant.
It all started when her daughter expressed the need for more social interaction while homeschooling. That simple request sparked a movement—one that would eventually redefine how her family, and countless others, approached language arts.
At the book clubs the kids could come together, dive into stories, and discuss them in a relaxed, engaging way.
It was not long before she realized that this model could work for other homeschool families as well. Thus, the idea of incorporating book clubs and interactive activities into her curriculum was born.
Book clubs became the centerpiece of Literary Adventures for Kids. These are not your typical, stuffy book discussions either. Dachelle’s book clubs bring stories to life through activities, projects, and discussions that connect learners with the material on a deeper level.
It’s not just about reading; it’s about experiencing literature. Students might compare themes from a classic novel to modern movies or explore poetry through creative projects. The result? Kids who might otherwise groan at the thought of analyzing Shakespeare are suddenly debating Hamlet’s decisions with genuine enthusiasm!
Dachelle did not stop at making an interactive language arts curriculum fun for younger students—she also tackled the often-daunting world of high school literature. For teens, classic works can sometimes feel irrelevant or out of touch with their world.
Recognizing this, Dachelle developed high school book clubs and courses that bridge the gap between traditional literature and modern media, making the book clubs the social aspect in her social language arts curriculum.
Imagine pairing Pride and Prejudice with a contemporary romantic comedy or using popular movies to unpack the themes of a classic play. By weaving in elements of pop culture, Dachelle makes classic literature feel fresh and relatable.
Her interactive courses challenge students to think critically about the stories they read while keeping the process engaging and enjoyable. The goal isn’t just to teach; it’s to spark curiosity and help students see literature as something alive and dynamic, not just words on a page.
What makes Dachelle’s approach so impactful is the communal element she has introduced into a traditionally solo activity.
Reading is often a personal experience, but by adding a social component, she has created a space where students can share ideas, challenge each other, and build a sense of camaraderie.
It’s no longer just about finishing the book, it’s about engaging with the story and the people discussing it.
Dachelle’s approach creates opportunities for meaningful interaction and shared experiences, making learning more holistic and fulfilling.
Dachelle McVey’s thoughtful approach to homeschooling demonstrates that language arts can be both educational and enjoyable. Through her thoughtful integration of social interaction, creativity, and flexibility, she has made reading exciting again for countless families. Her story is a testament to the power of creativity and flexibility in homeschooling, offering valuable insights for parents seeking to inspire a love for learning in their children.
Join Vicki and Dachelle and be inspire with social language arts ideas!
Thank you for Seth Tillman for editing this podcast and for Richie Soares with Homeschool and Humor for writing this blog post!
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Click the icon below to listen.This week on Create a Great Transcript Using Levels in 7Sisters Curriculum Special Replay.
You’ve probably noticed that there is a LOT of difference in homeschool high schoolers. They have different:
We also know that our teens have different interests. We need to put emphasis on the areas they want to explore by increasing the levels of their interest courses. Your teens probably cannot manage Level 5 every interest area, but you can choose some. Talk to your teen!
This doesn’t mean that you haven’t allowed them to face challenges. It simply means you are wise enough to find your teen’s sweet spot in education to have a well-rounded transcript with challenges in the appropriate areas for them. If you haven’t listened to Episode 116: What Are Levels on the Homeschool Transcript, be sure to catch up!
7Sisters Literature Guides include instructions for enjoying our popular Literature Guides at Level 1 (Remedial), Level 2 (Average), Level 3 (College Prep), Level 4 (Advanced), Level 5 (Honors). Each guide covers only one or two literature themes so we don’t kill the book. There is also vocabulary, a little background information, comprehension and inferential questions. Use higher levels for college bound teens who are English, Communications, History, Humanities majors. Use Level 2 for a workforce-bound teen, adapt by using questions as discussion rather than writing (see each Literature Guide for more Level 2 information). Level 1 (Remedial) is for teens with learning difficulties, so do the guides together choosing which questions and vocabulary are useful to them; also use adaptive technology for listening and writing.
A Successful Approach to Teaching Acting and Directing
Fine Arts for Non-artsy People
How to Direct a Homeschool Drama Camp
Foundations of Physical Fitness
High School Health for the Whole Person
Speech 1: Public Speaking and Practical Life Skills
Apologetics 101 (the first of sixteen free presentations)
History and Philosophy of the Western World
Human Development from a Christian Worldview
Introduction to Psychology from a Christian Perspective
Check out Cathy Duffy’s Review of American History Literature Bundle. It is in-depth and helpful.
Join Sabrina, Vicki and Kym for more details than you can capture in words here! Also, enjoy these posts:
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Click the icon below to listen.This week on Homeschool Highschool Podcast: Stress Management for the Holidays with Natalie Mack.
We know that stress can be a big issue, especially during the holidays, but even after the holidays, anxiety, depression, and the winter blues can creep in. Let’s talk about ways to manage these feelings and create a calm and enjoyable atmosphere for our families. Our friend and Cousin Natalie Mack shares tips for stress management for the holidays.
Natalie has been a homeschooling mom for twenty-two years with five children, four have graduated from college while one is still homeschooling high school!
She is a retired Navy chaplain spouse and has a Master’s Degree in Education and Counseling. Natalie has worked in various fields such as drug and alcohol abuse, social work, and marriage and family therapy. Recently, Natalie has been leading the military outreach program for HSLDA. She also shares her wisdom at Natalie-Mack.com, where she offers some helpful freebies for homeschooling families.
Homeschooling through the holidays can look completely different from “work, work work”! You can slow down with the schoolwork during the holidays and focus on creating fun experiences with your children. While it may be tempting to push through and maintain a rigorous academic schedule, remember that the academics will always be there. Take the time to enjoy holiday activities, bond as a family, and create lasting memories.
(Here’s a fun writing project about creating a Holiday Family Narrative, instead of typical academics.)
The picture-perfect moments we often see on social media or in magazines are not the reality of everyday life. Instead of striving for perfection, try embracing the joyful imperfections that come with family gatherings.
Remember the quote from GK Chesterton:
Anything worth doing is worth doing badly.
Learning happens in many different ways (including the developing a growth mindset during the ups and downs of imperfect celebrations).
It may sound simple, but taking deep breaths and focusing on our breath can do wonders for managing stress. When we are feeling overwhelmed, our bodies flood with stress hormones, but the antidote is right there in the air.
So, whenever you can, take a moment to pause, take a deep breath in, and slowly exhale. It helps chip away at those stress hormones and calms our nervous system. You can teach this technique to your teens as well!
Take advantage of the unique field trip opportunities available during the holiday season. Many places offer special events and attractions during the holidays.
Whether it’s visiting nature gardens with beautiful lights or driving along the boardwalk to see Christmas decorations, these experiences create lasting memories and provide valuable learning opportunities for your kids. Plus, they are just a lot of fun!
Field trips during the holidays are a fantastic way to bond as a family and create positive memories. Education an happen anywhere, and these experiences enrich our lives in so many ways.
Holiday-themed picture books are a great way to create a cozy and magical atmosphere during the season. They have a way of bringing joy and warmth to our hearts. Snuggling up together and reading these books aloud fosters a sense of togetherness and creates cherished memories.
Explore book lists from resources like Read Aloud Revival and 7Sisters Homeschool to discover wonderful holiday reads. Visit your local library and pick up some holiday-themed picture books. Make it a tradition to read holiday books with your loved ones and let the joy and laughter fill your home.
7SistersHomeschool has a Literature Study Guide for A Christmas Carol. Not only that, we offer a Cinema Studies for Literature Learning Guide for A Christmas Carol, as well. This is a meaningful way to sneak in some no-busywork, meaningful education.
Organization can make a big difference in reducing stress during the holidays. (Hey, it’s okay if organization is not your strong suit.) You can learn the value of organization, especially during the holidays, from others, such as from our 7th Sister, Allison, who is a master at event planning. We turned her planning skills into a unit study for planning the Thanksgiving meal.
Consider the flow of activities, such as setting up a buffet with silverware and napkins placed at the end to avoid juggling them while serving food. These small organizational adjustments can make a significant difference in reducing stress levels.
Do what you can to prioritize your to-do lists and let go of unnecessary tasks. Recognize that it’s impossible to do everything perfectly, and some things can be dropped without major consequences.
Focus on what truly matters and be intentional about allocating your time and energy to activities that bring joy and fulfillment. Good holiday event planning is about finding what works for you and creating a sense of calmness amidst the busyness!
The holiday season should be a time of joy, togetherness, and relaxation. Follow these stress management tips for the holidays and then let us know how they helped you!
Find Natalie Mack at Natalie-Mack.com and lots of places through Linktree.
Wishing you a peaceful and joyful holiday season filled with beautiful memories!
Thank you to Seth Tillman for editing and Richie Soares with Homeschool & Humor for writing this blog post!
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Click the icon below to listen.This week on Homeschool Highschool Podcast: Why Teach Human Development in Homeschool High School? Special replay.
When Vicki was in graduate school for counseling, she specialized Human Development. She loved it so much because as a mom, she was watching Human Development develop in her own kids! After all Human Development is the study of how people grown and change from womb to old age.
So, when her kids started to homeschool high school, she wanted them to have a Human Development course for their homeschool transcripts. She felt like it would be great life preparation, since it is likely that they would interact with people the rest of their lives and understand why people at different ages do different things would be helpful. It would help them understand their baby brother learning object permanence or their grandfather who always told the same stories over and over.
Unfortunately for Vicki, there was no high school Human Development text available to homeschool high schoolers, especially one from a Christian worldview. SO, what to do? In typical 7SistersHomeschool fashion, Vicki wrote her own text! Also in typical 7SistersHomeschool fashion, she wrote 7Sisters Human Development from a Christian Worldview text to cover the necessary scope and sequence but with no-busywork and readable (and enjoyable) by an average teen. Then, in typical 7SistersHomeschool fashion, she included instructions for leveling up to Honors credit in a meaningful way for the college-bound teens.
The study of the physical, cognitive, emotional and social changes that people experience as they grow from womb to old age.
For instance, adolescents go through a cognitive process called metacognition. Metacognition is the ability to think about thinking. Metacognitive teens think about who they are, what they feel, what the believe and why things are what they are. When teens learn from their Human Development course that the metacognitive process they are experiencing is natural and normal, they can enjoy the process!
Also, Human Development learn their two-year-old siblings (or the kids they are babysitting) are stomping their feet and saying, “NO!” (Toddlers are going through the early stages of finding out they are individuals. They find out where their personhood “stops” by testing out “No!”
They also learn about why their parents push them to accomplish stuff (middle-aged parents are in the “generative stage”- needing to be productive).
It sure is! Human Development can be a blast! Not only do homeschool high schoolers have the chance to learn and discuss what they are learning and experiencing in their own families, but there are so many fun things that can be done in the co-op setting.
For instance, homeschool co-ops can:
Homeschool co-ops are also a wonderful place to allow teens to present projects they have done related to things that interest them about Human Development.
Hey, did you know that we will provide a homeschool co-op discount for Human Development from a Christian Worldview and all our texts?
Also, you can find lesson plans for co-op teachers and a suggested syllabus for your homeschool co-op classes.
No way! Teens do not need to be preached at! However, the idea that God created people is implied through the text.
Join Vicki for an informative chat about her favorite subject: Human Development!
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Click the icon below to listen.This week on Homeschool Highschool Podcast: Soft Skills and Leadership Training with Ignite4Impact.
Want to give your teens some biblically based soft skills that build compassion and leadership skills? Join Vicki and Michelle Koles of Ignite 4 Impact to discuss ways her program equips them to be the world-changers of the next generation.
Vicki met Michelle Koles at the digital Homeschooling Teen Successfully Summit and was excited to find someone who had a full program that develops social skills, compassion skills and leadership skills. These are ALL vital skills that our teens need for their own success personally. Not only that, homeschoolers need these skills so that they can fully take their place in the world after they graduate.
Michelle holds a Master’s in Education, Special Education Leadership and Teaching. She has been in education for twenty-five years. She has done lots of things in education over the years. For instance, she ran a Montessori school when her oldest child was young and taught college classes.
Michelle’s first born was bright and curious, so at two years old, she started teaching him at home, reading and, and letters and different things. They also loved going on field trips together. This gave Michelle an early taste of homeschooling!
Then Michelle and her husband adopted two kids. One of these children had medical problems and fetal alcohol syndrome. He was having a big struggle in middle school, made worse by his medical problems affecting his learning and abilities.
Finally, Michelle said, “enough is enough. We can’t do this anymore. I’m just gonna homeschool him!”
Homeschooling has been going great for Michelle and her son! Like many of us homeschooling parents, we find that our teens can get a lot done! Not only that, but he’s learning so much and at a much (as many people realize) at a much faster and easier pace.
Now, her son your son goes with her when she teaches at a local homeschool organization. So homeschooling and homeschool-community involvement kind of just happened. As Michelle says, “you know, like God directing your path!”
Ignite 4 Impact came out of work she was doing with her son and the local homeschool community. She saw the need for soft skills compassion skills and leadership skills not only with her son and his friends but also, her husband saw deficits in these skills in the young college students he was hiring at his job.
Michelle noticed that it is not difficult teach young people how to do the job. However, it is harder to teach them skills like:
In fact, research shows that “85% of job success is related to having well-developed soft skills and people skills”. (Cambridge University)
When young people loose their jobs in the first eighteen months of employment, it is not usually because they cannot handle the actual job. Rather, it is because they are coming in late, making excuses for things, not working together well with colleagues.
So, during Covid lockdown, Michelle took the courses she was teaching her son and the local homeschoolers and created a digital program to teach, from a biblical viewpoint, about soft skills, compassion and leadership skills.
During Covid lockdown, Michelle and her son practiced soft skills and compassion skills in several ways:
They helped out their community by running errands for neighbors.
They brought coffee and snacks to overworked hospital staff. Because the hospital cafeterias were closed, so the staff did not have access to like snacks and coffee. So Michelle and her son did a fundraiser and with the help of a local coffee distributor and a local farm, dropped off goodies that helped keep the staff going during those hard times.
To celebrate her son’s sixteenth birthday, he wanted to host his own charity game tournament. So, he had these local mom pop businesses supporting his idea along with individuals who donated to the cause. Then, participants played the game all day long and learn how that whole process worked, learn how to talk to adults. He donated the proceeds to a special education program and the local food bank.
Thus, with her (and her son’s) love and passion for service she created an online organization. Check out their mission statement:
Ignite4Impact helps young people learn and apply valuable soft skills to build a strong foundation for success. We provide lessons, activities and guides that will help your teens discover these skills. Our program gets teens into amazing team building lessons as they learn these skills to become effective teammates as they create and run project to make an impact on themselves and the world.
The teens in that first program were joined by experts from around the world. The young people learned soft skills as they were developing a meaningful project to make an impact. These teens created projects like:
Each module has a different soft skill to develop.
Click here for more information on the twelve-module program from Ignite4Impact.
Teens learn soft skills with these free, engaging activities! Michelle also has activities for younger children.
Give your teens some biblically-based, soft skills, compassion skills and leadership skills!
If you are looking for simple social skills for elementary-aged children, also check out 7SistersHomeschool’s Social Skills for Children.
Thanks to Seth Tillman for editing this episode!
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Click the icon below to listen.This week on Homeschool Highschool Podcast: Financial Literacy for Homeschool High Schoolers.
How do you go about preparing homeschool high schoolers for managing money throughout their lives? Financial Literacy is a life skills math credit that many teens will use WAY more often than their high school math. Join Sabrina, Vicki, Kym and Eagle, the Seeing Eye puppy for a fun discussion of Financial Literacy curriculum.
Back in 2008, when the economy crashed, some economists believed that poor training in personal financial management (including too much mortgage debt) was part of the problem. In reaction to this, many state education departments began to require that high school transcripts include Consumer Math so that teen could have at least basic money management skills.
But Consumer Math might not be enough for many teens. If they want real-life preparation for not just money, but for making financial decisions, for planning and for other financial considerations, teens need more. They need Financial Literacy.
Financial Literacy involves a ton of life skills! You have seen memes on social media:
At tax time, nobody wants to know whether you can balance an algebra equation!
However, it IS important to how to fill out your 1040! Not only that, teens are wise to learn how create a budget, purchase the right kind of insurances, as well as understand how to invest in the future with savings and investment accounts. That’s what financial literacy is about. It is not plain math. It is math that your teen will actually use.
We, of course, like 7Sisters’ Financial Literacy because it covers all the bases of Financial Literacy courses but also trains students on how to find information (and where to avoid information).
This course takes homeschool high schoolers through an interactive course where they:
Teens finish the course with a life plan and a current budget and lifestyle decisions for their present and future!
This is a powerful contrast to simply reading a Consumer Math or Financial Literacy textbook and taking the chapter tests. So many teens feel bored as they work through a classic textbook. However, when they interact with the curriculum and make plans that affect their current lives, they feel empowered and engaged. That is what we want from life skills training!
As soon as 7Sisters’ published our Financial Literacy course, our teens began using it and teaching it in our local homeschool co-op and umbrella-school classes. The curriculum was vetted by the teens, who gave valuable feedback on how they learn best. Those teens are now adults and still using the skills they learned from their Financial Literacy course.
Check out these posts from 7Sister Sara’s sons Luke and Joel. You’ll also enjoy this Dollars and Cents Podcast episode on How to Teach Kids about Managing Money.
So, download 7SistersHomeschool’s Financial Literacy from a Christian Perspective for your teens and help them be prepared for finances in adulthood. While you are at it, take a look at these related articles and resources to enrich your teen’s Financial Literacy experiences:
BTW- We’re 7SistersHomeschool.There are six of us: Vicki, Sabrina, Kym, Marilyn, Allison and Sara. So, WHO is the 7th Sister? YOU are!
Join ALL your other 7th Sisters over at our 7SistersHomeschool Facebook group, where you can ask questions and share ideas.
Interactive Financial Literacy Course: Why it is Awesome & How to Use it
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Click the icon below to listen.This week we will discuss: Training Teens to be Civil in an Uncivil World- Special Replay
In our opinion, this is one of the most important episodes we have ever recorded. We replay it periodically, please join us for a listen.
Join Sabrina, Kym and Vicki for an important discussion about civility. Our world is increasingly unkind and uncivil. Teens are surrounded by political figures on the news who are crude, rude and unkind. Social media is full of ugly, unkind behavior. Civility seems to be going out of style.
This is so contradictory to the love of Christ and the fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, meekness and self-control. There is no room for unkindness there. If we are wise, we will train our teens to be civil in this uncivil world.
Because we are all broken, so we can have compassion on other broken people.
When we operate in incivility we tend to emotionally eat each other up. Remember the book Millions of Cats? A peasant with a million cats found that they were a cranky and jealous bunch who got into such a big fight that they ate each other up. Here’s a video of that classic book.
Teens do not come to these skills on their own. They need parents to:
Here’s another Homeschool Highschool Podcast episode on training your teens to become cultural influencers.
Or check out this post where teens explain how 7Sisters Great Christian Writers course was powerful for their character development.
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Click the icon below to listen.This week on Homeschool Highschool Podcast: Harmonious Homeschools with Teresa Wiedrick.
Homeschooling is a rewarding but often chaotic journey. If you are feeling the pressure, especially around October when the honeymoon phase of the school year starts to wear off, you are not alone. The idea of a “harmonious homeschool” might seem like a distant dream when the kids are arguing, the curriculum feels overwhelming, and you are running low on patience. The good news is that finding peace in your homeschool is not only possible but essential for long-term success in finding a relaxed homeschooling lifestyle!
Let’s dive into some practical tips that can help transform your homeschool into a more harmonious environment for both you and your children. These ideas come from the experience and wisdom of Teresa Wiedrick, our dear friend and Cousin, as well as homeschool mama self-care coach at Capturing the Charmed Life.
Also, check out her fun interviews with Homeschool Highschool Podcast about homeschooling in Canada and how to engage high schoolers.
One of the most valuable lessons in creating a harmonious homeschool is recognizing that it starts with you. As Teresa highlights,
“We set the precedent by being what we’re hoping our children will be.”
In other words, how you manage your own emotions and reactions has a significant impact on your children. If you are feeling stressed or overwhelmed, chances are that tension will spill over into your homeschool.
Before diving into the day’s lessons, take a moment to check in with yourself. Ask,
“How am I feeling right now? What do I need?”
Addressing your own emotional needs sets an example for your children and creates an environment where they, too, can learn how to manage their emotions.
Remember, your kids are watching and learning from you, even on your tough days.
Unrealistic expectations are one of the biggest stressors for homeschool moms. Teresa recalls her early years of homeschooling when she had a vision of the perfect homeschool day:
“I had this idea that we should look like the cover of a homeschooling magazine—kids all smiling around the table with their books open, and everything going smoothly.”
But let’s be real – homeschooling rarely looks like that!
The key is to embrace imperfection and adjust your expectations.
It’s okay if the day doesn’t go as planned. It’s okay if you don’t finish the entire curriculum.
Learning happens in a variety of ways, and sometimes the most valuable lessons come from unplanned moments. Be flexible and recognize that every day won’t be perfect – and that’s perfectly okay. That’s what realistic expectations can do for us!
Around October, many homeschool moms start to feel the strain. The initial excitement of the new school year fades, and the reality of day-to-day homeschooling sets in.
Burnout is real, but it does not have to be the end of your homeschooling journey.
Take time to reflect on what’s causing your stress. Are your expectations too high? Are you feeling isolated or overwhelmed?
Once you identify the source, you can start taking small steps to address it. Whether it’s incorporating more breaks into your day, seeking support from a homeschool community, or simply giving yourself permission to slow down, managing burnout is essential for creating harmonious homeschools.
Homeschooling is not a one-size-fits-all approach. Every family is different, and what works one year might not work the next. It’s okay to adapt and change. There’s no perfect way to homeschool.
Some years, you might thrive on a structured schedule; other years, you might lean more toward unschooling or a more relaxed approach.
The key is to remain open to change and adopt a growth mindset.
Having a routine provides structure, but do not be afraid to leave room for spontaneous learning experiences. While your family may eventually find a rhythm that works for everyone, be sure to also allow for flexibility.
Some days, educational activities might flow seamlessly, while other days require a break or a shift in focus. It’s all about finding a balance that works for your family.
As homeschool moms, we often hold ourselves to impossibly high standards. But remember, you are human. Teresa encourages moms to practice self-compassion, especially on the tough days.
We are not always going to have amazing days, but our goal is to do our best and trust the process.
Give yourself grace, acknowledge that not every day will go perfectly, and celebrate the small wins along the way.
Calm homeschooling does not mean a perfect homeschool. It means creating an environment where both you and your children can thrive, even amid challenges. Start by regulating your own emotions, adjusting expectations, and allowing room for flexibility. Recognize that getting weary is normal but manageable, and most importantly, be kind to yourself throughout the process.
Homeschooling is a journey, and by focusing on harmony rather than perfection, you can create a more peaceful and fulfilling experience for your family. It is not about creating a picture-perfect experience, either. It’s about nurturing your children’s love for learning while maintaining your own well-being.
Join Vicki and Teresa as they talk about giving yourself permission to adapt, grow, and find joy in the imperfections.
Check out Teresa Wiedrick at:
Thank you for Seth Tillman for editing this podcast and for Richie Soares with Homeschool and Humor for writing this blog post!
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Click the icon below to listen.This week on Homeschool Highschool Podcast: Teens Who Become Entrepreneurs with Leigh Nguyen.
Teens have the potential to be anything they want to be and do anything they want to do. It’s incredible how many opportunities are available for homeschool high schoolers in today’s age. One popular path many young adults are taking nowadays is entrepreneurship.
Leigh Nguyen, of the Little by Little Homeschool podcast, is a homeschool mom who’s raising entrepreneurial teens. Leigh joins Vicki to not only share her experience homeschooling her children but also the remarkable journey of her son. He turned a simple lawn mowing gig into a thriving business. Leigh’s story will encourage you to embrace their individuality and help you to guide your them on their unique paths!
Leigh Nguyen’s homeschool journey began, as many do, unexpectedly. She did not initially plan to homeschool her children. Like most of us, she thought the public school route was a given.
However, halfway through her daughter’s 2nd grade year, Leigh felt a calling, a nudge from God, encouraging her to homeschool. What started as a leap of faith led to years of dedication, growth, and some incredible achievements, including raising teens with a passion for entrepreneurship.
Leigh’s story highlights that homeschool is not just about academics, it’s about nurturing your child’s unique gifts and potential… even if that means stepping into the unknown world of entrepreneurship.
Leigh’s 19-year-old son, who once ran a humble firewood stand, now owns a full-fledged landscaping business with multiple employees, trucks, and a snow-plowing operation.
His entrepreneurial spark was first noticed when he expressed a desire to split and sell firewood. Fast forward to today, and that small venture has grown into something much bigger, fueled by his interest in business and the freedom that homeschooling allows.
Homeschooling gave Leigh’s son the time and flexibility to pursue his interests, even incorporating business principles into his elective credits. By weaving entrepreneurship into his homeschool curriculum, he pursued his passion while ensuring he met academic requirements.
Business books, hands-on learning, and mentorship all counted toward his education, and as Leigh wisely notes, “We learn best by failure.”
Leigh believes in giving kids room to fail, encouraging them to learn from mistakes without the fear of drastic consequences. It’s this balance of guidance and freedom that has allowed her son to grow into a confident and capable young entrepreneur.
For homeschool moms looking to foster entrepreneurial minds in their teens, Leigh offers a few key insights.
Encourage them to pursue their passions by allowing room for mistakes, provide opportunities to learn through real-world experience, and find mentors who can guide them.
Entrepreneurship helps start a business, yes, but it also involves cultivating soft skills like resilience, networking, and problem-solving. By doing this, Leigh has helped her son—and now her younger children—turn their interests into potential careers.
One of the unique opportunities in homeschooling high schoolers who are pursuing entrepreneurial ventures is capturing these experiences as elective Career Exploration credits on a transcript. Leigh found creative ways to do this by blending traditional courses, like accounting, with practical business experience.
Her son took online accounting courses and read business books to help him better understand his company’s finances. These studies, combined with hours spent running his business, counted toward elective credits in his homeschool curriculum.
Leigh emphasizes the importance of finding balance. Her son may not be on a college track, but that does not mean his education lacks depth or rigor. He is fulfilling state requirements for graduation while gaining real-world business experience. After all, as we always say:
There’s not ONE right way to homeschool high school…we help our teens develop their interests and goals in the way the is right for each unique capability.
For other homeschool moms, Leigh suggests naming courses creatively. If your child is passionate about entrepreneurship, credits could be given in areas like business management, finance, or marketing.
The beauty of homeschooling is the flexibility to tailor education to your homeschool high schooler’s interests and gifts.
Leigh’s younger son is also showing signs of entrepreneurial ambition, though his interests are entirely different. He is currently working on getting his drone pilot license, a passion that started years ago with a small toy drone.
Leigh’s approach with her youngest is similar to how she guided her older son:
Whether it’s mowing lawns, selling firewood, or piloting drones, homeschooling offers the flexibility to nurture these unique interests, allowing teens to grow into entrepreneurs in their own right.
Leigh’s journey with her children reminds us that homeschooling is about more than textbooks and tests – it’s about fostering independence, creativity, and self-confidence. Her teens are not following the traditional college path. Rather, they are fulfilling their potentials and interests as they are gaining skills and experiences that will serve them for a lifetime.
Your teen’s education is a journey, and it doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s.
Whether your teen is destined to be an entrepreneur or follow a more conventional path, homeschooling gives you the freedom to help them become who they were meant to be – little by little.
Hear more from Leigh Nguyen: check out her podcast, Little by Little Homeschool, where she shares practical tips for homeschooling moms, encouraging us all to embrace this unique and rewarding journey.
Thank you for Seth Tillman for editing this podcast and for Richie Soares with Homeschool and Humor for writing this blog post!
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