The Dildorks

Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan

Sex bloggers and best friends Bex (bextalkssex.com) and Kate (girlyjuice.net) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.

  • 58 minutes 11 seconds
    Leave a Message At the Tone

    Vocal tone can have a big effect on kink scenes and everyday conversations alike, so this week we’re discussing our feelings on voices and dirty talk.

     

    Dirty Talk & Humiliation | Voice Kink & Praise Kink | Long-Distance | Off-Camera vs. On | Speaking vs. Typing | Attraction | The Ick | Performativity | Billy’s Yes/No/Maybe List | Gender & Pitch | Dom & Sub Voices | Archetypes & Parts | Gender & Bottoming

    Credits:

    Music by PROTODOME

    Artwork by Addison Finch

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    17 December 2024, 6:25 pm
  • 52 minutes 35 seconds
    One Singular Sensation

    People are always coming up with new and interesting fetishes, and this week we discuss some unusual ones we’ve seen lately.

     

    Current Definition | “Deviating” from the “Norm” | Taboo & Shame | Cream Pies & Facesitting | Bubble-Blowing | Sex Work Stigma | Mind-Reading | Sex Worker Fetish | Accelerator & Brakes

    Credits:

    Music by PROTODOME

    Artwork by Addison Finch

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    10 December 2024, 8:03 pm
  • 1 hour 10 minutes
    Access Denied

    This week, a conversation about denial kink devolves into a wide-ranging discussion of gendered sex narratives, the kinky legacies of trauma, and the Big Nut.

     

    Orgasms vs. Other Stuff | Enough to Make You Blush | (Lack of) Power | Motivation & Specialness | Big Shiny Stakes | Self-Worth & “Deservingness” | Family Influences | Working Toward a Reward | Healing | Topping | “Throw ‘Em a Bone” | “Men Only Want One Thing” | Hyperawareness | Begging | Solo Processing | Orgasm Intensity | Mindfulness & Meaning

    Credits:

    Music by PROTODOME

    Artwork by Addison Finch

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    3 December 2024, 10:49 pm
  • 56 minutes 10 seconds
    Hello, Stranger

    What if celebrity crushes can be healthy, actually? This week, we discuss some of the benefits of parasocial relationships, for people on both sides of the slash.
     

    Masculinity in the Sex Shop | Benefits for Crush-er | Emotional Energy | Low Investment | Is It New? | The Tragedy of Heterosexuality | Dead Famous | Stalkers | Benefits for Crush-ee | Motivation & Inspiration | Needing Reassurance | Fame & Self-Expression | Persona vs. Self | “Cool Guy” Masculinity | Domme Energy | Something More?

    Credits:

    Music by PROTODOME

    Artwork by Addison Finch

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    26 November 2024, 11:30 pm
  • 56 minutes 5 seconds
    Nuttin' in Common

    This week Kate and her spouse mb discuss the politics and philosophy of No Nut November, and how it compares to chastity play.

     

    NNN vs. Chastity Kink | Greater Purpose | Love & Affection | “Don’t Think About It” | Teasing | Sleep Hygiene | Insomnia | Working Out | Flagging | Unusual Turn-Ons | Concentration | Willpower & Inescapability | Political Spectrum | NNN’s Far-Right Roots | Locktober | Nut Hunters | Religion | Daily Task | Mandatory Semen Sample | Different Desires | Pussy-Free | Social Motivation | Friend As Keyholder

    Credits:

    Music by PROTODOME

    Artwork by Addison Finch

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    19 November 2024, 10:55 pm
  • 57 minutes 2 seconds
    You Don't Know Me, But...

    We’ve experienced parasocial relationships from both sides of the coin, so this week we’re discussing our experiences with this sometimes-nice, sometimes-yikes type of attraction.
     

    That Fuckin’ Election, Man | People vs. Characters | “Mainstream” Pop Culture | Presumed Intimacy | Social Staircase | Is It A Problem? | Avoiding Vulnerability | Manic Pixie Fucktoy | Tech Adaptations | Crushworthy Traits

    Credits:

    Music by PROTODOME

    Artwork by Addison Finch

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    12 November 2024, 5:35 pm
  • 55 minutes 5 seconds
    Phantasms & Fantasies

    Happy Halloween! This week we’re discussing our favorite fantasies outside the realm of realism.

     

    Fantasies Changing Over Time | Impossibilities | Tropes & Genres | Hypnosis | Being Watched | Magic vs. Medicine | Mind-Reading | Fairies | Dragons | Love Potions | Settings & Mechanics

    Credits:

    Music by PROTODOME

    Artwork by Addison Finch

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    29 October 2024, 10:31 pm
  • 49 minutes 14 seconds
    Wand-ering Down Memory Lane

    We’re taking the week off, so here’s the full, previously-unreleased conversation we had when Kate interviewed Billy for Making Magic in September of last year! We touched on the Magic Wand’s role in queer sex, trans sex, porn, kink, and our lives as a whole.
     

    First Memories | Current Relationship to the Wand | Aesthetics | Porn | Conducting Vibrations | Dysphoria | Trans Sex | Queer Sex | “Best” Vibrator? | Tech Considerations | Kink | Safewords | Roleplay | Casual Hitachi’ing | Surgery Recovery

    Credits:

    Music by PROTODOME

    Artwork by Addison Finch

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    22 October 2024, 7:21 pm
  • 52 minutes 17 seconds
    Are You Mad At Me?

    This week, we dig deeper into the fear of rejection, sharing some ways we cope with this fear in our own lives and discussing how cultural and hormonal factors can influence it.
     

    Asking for Reassurance | Self-Soothing | What’s “Too Much”? | Incels | What Does Sex “Mean”? | Hormones | Confidence & Self-Awareness | Vote for Making Magic!

    Credits:

    Music by PROTODOME

    Artwork by Addison Finch

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    15 October 2024, 7:17 pm
  • 1 hour 1 minute
    The Brush-Off Blues

    Halloween is coming up, so we decided to talk about fear… of rejection!
     

    Fear Fluctuations | Self-Soothing | Vulnerability Points | Pandemic Changes | Building Resiliency | What Are We Afraid Of? | Scarcity Mindset | “Hey, Fuck You!” | Rejecting vs. Rejected | “Beggars Can’t Be Choosers” | Guilt vs. Shame | Non-Monogamy | Rejection-Sensitive Dysphoria | Vote for Making Magic!

    Credits:

    Music by PROTODOME

    Artwork by Addison Finch

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    8 October 2024, 6:15 pm
  • 55 minutes 37 seconds
    We Heart Sadists!

    Sadists get a bad rap sometimes, so this week we’re discussing some of the things we love about them.
     

    Stigma | Consent | Emotional Complexity | Intimacy & Vulnerability | Fantasy vs. Desire | Empathy & Understanding | Trust & Holding Space | Communication Tools | Joy Over Normalcy | Comedy vs. Psychodrama

    Credits:

    Music by PROTODOME

    Artwork by Addison Finch

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    1 October 2024, 9:48 pm
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