You slept with him. You got attached. Now you’re stuck trying to “make it work” – even when it’s clearly not working.

In this Love U Podcast, I explain why smart successful women get trapped in long-term relationships with men who never earned their commitment. If you’ve ever felt like the relationship depends entirely on your effort, this episode is your reminder that love shouldn’t be this hard.

Men don’t like being directed or corrected. I’m no different.

The one thing I do that is different than most men is that I apologize – even when I don’t think I’m wrong.

In this Love U Podcast, I share one important skill that makes marriage work and teach you how to bring that same awareness into your own love life. When you lead with empathy and choose to stay connected over being right, you can have an amazing relationship. 

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You loved him and tried everything but the relationship still fell apart. Now he’s back, promising he’s changed, saying this time will be different. Yeah, right.

In this Love U Podcast, I explain why giving second (and third and fourth) chances to men rarely leads to lasting love. If you have a history of holding onto hope for too long, this episode will help you move forward.

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Kate had four FaceTime dates scheduled in one weekend.

All four men flaked.

She was demoralized and turned to me to help reframe this latest disappointment.

In this Love U Podcast, I share the healthiest way to react to the depersonalized nature of online dating and see things from a confident, powerful perspective. 

If you’ve ever felt exhausted by the dating scene, this episode will help you reset your expectations and keep you motivated to persevere. 

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The world feels like it’s falling apart: inflation, politics, AI, you name it. But here’s the truth: while you can’t fix the chaos out there, you can build peace and love in your own life.

In this Love U Podcast, I share the inspiring stories of Debra and Jackie — two smart, successful women who stopped doom-scrolling and started focusing on what they could control. Their reward? One got a new boyfriend. The other has a new fiancé.

If you’re tired of anxiety and ready for love, this episode will show you how.
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What does science say about why we love the way we do? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Justin Garcia, Executive Director of the Kinsey Institute and author of The Intimate Animal, to explore the real forces shaping modern relationships.

We talk about how hookup culture has evolved, why Gen Z craves connection more than casual sex, and how dating apps and AI are changing human instincts. If you’ve ever felt like something about dating today feels off, this conversation will help you understand why—and how to navigate it.

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About Today’s Guest:
Justin R. Garcia, PhD, is an award-winning evolutionary biologist and authority on the science of sex and relationships, specializing in modern romance, dating trends, and sexual behavior. He has served as Executive Director of the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University since 2019, where he leads pioneering research and global collaborations. He is widely published in academic journals, he serves an advisor for Match, and frequently contributes to major news outlets such as the New York Times, NPR, and the Wall Street Journal. He is author of The Intimate Animal: The Science of Sex, Fidelity, and Why We Live and Die for Love.

Where You Can Find Justin:
Website: https://kinseyinstitute.org/about/staff/executive-director-justin-garcia.html
Instagram: DrJustinGarcia
LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justingarcia/

“There are no good men online.” I know it feels that way. It’s just not the full picture. In this Love U Podcast, I explain how false assumptions are causing you to eliminate great guys before you even get to know them.

You’ll learn how dating apps train you to swipe too fast, why minor flaws don’t mean incompatibility, and what happens when you start giving the “6’s” a chance. If you’re tired of feeling frustrated, this episode will help you shift your mindset and start making better choices in love.

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Living apart together sounds like a dream. A committed couple living in separate spaces. More freedom and fewer fights. What could be better? In this Love U Podcast, you’ll learn why this setup appeals to women who’ve been hurt before, how it can feel safer than marriage, and what you might be giving up without realizing it. If you’ve ever thought about having something like a marriage – without the marriage part – this episode casts a few doubts about whether this is ideal as it seems.

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In this episode, I explain why anxiety is your body’s way of telling you something’s off. Whether you’re walking on eggshells with a new guy or constantly overthinking your partner’s mixed signals, that tension isn’t “normal.” It’s a red flag. You’ll learn the difference between healthy excitement and relationship anxiety, how to know whether the problem is him or you, and what a calm, secure relationship actually feels like. If you’re tired of mistaking butterflies for love (they’re not!), this episode could change everything.

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Have you ever felt blindsided by a guy who seemed perfect for the first few weeks? He was flirty, attentive, and made you feel special…until you realized all he really wanted was sex.
In this Love U Podcast, I’ll show you how to tell the difference between a man who’s looking for a hookup, a girlfriend, or a future wife. You’ll learn why their early behavior is nearly indistinguishable and how to stop mistaking chemistry for compatibility. If you’re tired of confusing short-term courtship with long-term intention, this episode will give help you start investing in men who are actually investing in you.

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In this episode:
• Why the first 45 days of dating are a terrible lie detector
• The difference between effort and commitment
• The three types of men you meet in early dating
• How women accidentally collapse the sorting process
• The behavioral tells most women miss
• How to let the right man reveal himself without guessing or interrogating

You’ll learn how to distinguish:
– The man who wants access to sex
– The man who wants companionship
– The man who wants partnership and marriage
This isn’t about outsmarting men or playing games.

It’s about stopping the reward of the wrong incentives — and letting time, consistency, and follow-through do the filtering for you.

That’s what it means to be the CEO of your love life.

This episode is personal, because it has to be. But what I really learned in 2025 isn’t just about me. It’s about what happens to people when the world changes faster than our values, our nervous systems, and our expectations can keep up. These eight things are my experience in 2025 but they’re also reflections of the moment we’re all living in.

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