You don’t want to get hurt. You don’t want to waste time. You scan his profile for red flags and ask him important questions up front – and, sure enough, no men are getting through your filter. Congratulations?

In this episode, I explain the difference between fear-based behavior and healthy boundaries, and why over-screening men can backfire.

If dating has felt frustrating, this episode will help you shift your approach and start seeing better results.

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In this episode, I break down why high-achieving men often approach relationships with an “acquisition mindset,” why they come on strong in the beginning, and why their effort can fade just as quickly.

If you’ve ever been swept off your feet by a wealthy guy, only to discover your relationship wasn’t as strong as your courtship, this episode will help you understand and avoid getting hurt again.

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In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I share a coaching story about a woman who broke up with a good boyfriend over an unspoken expectation. Fortunately, she was able to repair things but their disagreement revealed a lot about how her anxiety has dictated many of her past relationship interactions.

I’m not at all defending bad behavior; I’m reminding you that the good men who take on the job of “boyfriend” want to please you but they can’t always do things the way you want. If you’ve ever been frustrated that a man should have known what to do without you actually saying so, this episode will help you communicate with men so they WANT to do better.

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Are you rejecting yourself before men ever get the chance? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I explain how limiting beliefs can sabotage you.

“I’m a single mom.”
“I’m divorced.”
“I’m too old.”

These thoughts are partially true but they’re not universally true.

Dating isn’t about convincing everyone to want you; it’s about finding one man who loves you unconditionally..
Through real-world examples, I explain why limiting yourself is self-defeating and believing in yourself is the secret sauce to any future partnership.

If you’ve ever assumed some guys are “out of your league,” this episode will challenge you to think bigger.

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I spend most of my time answering questions about dating and relationships. Today, in this special Ask Me Anything episode of the Love U Podcast, I answer personal questions about my biggest fears, my childhood, my unrealized dreams, and a bunch of questions about being Jewish. If you’ve ever wondered who I am outside of “man who gives dating advice,” this episode shares things that only my wife knows about me. Hope you enjoy.

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That’s a provocative statement and I don’t literally mean it. However, I have noticed that women and men tend to experience rejection differently.

Men initiate more. They get ignored more. They understand that if they don’t reach out and make a move, nothing’s going to happen. 

Women do, indeed, get painfully ghosted but because it happens less often than men’s daily rejection, it tends to hit women harder – and have a greater effect. 

The episode digs into how sheer exposure shapes the way we see things, and why we all have to get good at rejection to succeed in love. Yes, even you.

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You slept with him. You got attached. Now you’re stuck trying to “make it work” – even when it’s clearly not working.

In this Love U Podcast, I explain why smart successful women get trapped in long-term relationships with men who never earned their commitment. If you’ve ever felt like the relationship depends entirely on your effort, this episode is your reminder that love shouldn’t be this hard.

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Men don’t like being directed or corrected. I’m no different.

The one thing I do that is different than most men is that I apologize – even when I don’t think I’m wrong.

In this Love U Podcast, I share one important skill that makes marriage work and teach you how to bring that same awareness into your own love life. When you lead with empathy and choose to stay connected over being right, you can have an amazing relationship. 

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You loved him and tried everything but the relationship still fell apart. Now he’s back, promising he’s changed, saying this time will be different. Yeah, right.

In this Love U Podcast, I explain why giving second (and third and fourth) chances to men rarely leads to lasting love. If you have a history of holding onto hope for too long, this episode will help you move forward.

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Kate had four FaceTime dates scheduled in one weekend.

All four men flaked.

She was demoralized and turned to me to help reframe this latest disappointment.

In this Love U Podcast, I share the healthiest way to react to the depersonalized nature of online dating and see things from a confident, powerful perspective. 

If you’ve ever felt exhausted by the dating scene, this episode will help you reset your expectations and keep you motivated to persevere. 

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The world feels like it’s falling apart: inflation, politics, AI, you name it. But here’s the truth: while you can’t fix the chaos out there, you can build peace and love in your own life.

In this Love U Podcast, I share the inspiring stories of Debra and Jackie — two smart, successful women who stopped doom-scrolling and started focusing on what they could control. Their reward? One got a new boyfriend. The other has a new fiancé.

If you’re tired of anxiety and ready for love, this episode will show you how.
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