Shameless Sex
Amy Baldwin and April Lampert| Pleasure Podcasts
A Real-Talk Podcast on Sex and Relationships
- 18 minutes 12 secondsBonus: What You Really Want in Bed: Exploring Your Core Desires
This clip comes from one of our favorite past conversations: Episode #133 – How Core Desires Lead to Hot Sex with Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA.
What are your Core Desires, and how can understanding them lead to hotter, more fulfilling sex? In this episode, Danielle and Celeste—co-creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching—share how exploring your deepest erotic desires can transform your sex life and deepen intimacy in your relationships.
Using their experiential Somatica approach, they explain how shifting our internal patterns around sex and connection can open the door to greater pleasure, authenticity, and emotional intimacy.
We also answer a listener question: How can you rebuild broken trust in a relationship?
Listen to the full episode here: https://tinyurl.com/bdhs3vv3
About the guests: Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA are the co-creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching and co-founders of the Somatica® Institute. Their innovative, experiential approach helps individuals and couples transform the way they relate emotionally and sexually. They also train professional sex and relationship coaches through the Somatica Institute.
They are the co-authors of Making Love Real, Cockfidence, and Coming Together: Embracing Your Core Desires for Sexual Fulfillment and Long-Term Compatibility.
Learn more:
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Explore Somatica courses and trainings at http://somaticainstitute.com and try their free 2-minute quiz to see if the training is right for you
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Join their free live Q&A on Thursday, March 12, 2026
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Learn more about their Sex & Relationship Coaching Training starting in late April 2026
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Take their online course: How to Get Turned On: Unlock Your Core Desires, or explore other courses at https://learn.somatica.com
Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com
Other links:
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
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6 March 2026, 8:44 pm -
- 59 minutes 40 seconds#475 Girl Gone Wild: Sex, Travel, and Tales from Courtney Kocak
What's the Wildest Thing You've Done for Love (or Sex)?
Join us as we dive into the unapologetic world of Courtney Kocak, writer, podcaster, and comedian extraordinaire, who's just released her scorching hot memoir, Girl Gone Wild! In this episode, we get the tea on Courtney's journey from selling T-shirts on the infamous Girls Gone Wild tour (for the uninitiated, it was a series of spring break party videos that, ahem, "celebrated" youthful abandon) to becoming a respected voice in the world of sexuality and feminism.
Here's what you'll get out of this episode:
* The story behind Courtney's transition from party tour T-shirt vendor to writer and podcaster
* A sneak peek into her wildly popular podcast, Private Parts Unknown, and one of her most unforgettable "Girl Gone Wild" stories
* What it means to be an "unwitting feminist" and how Courtney's experiences have shaped her views on sex and identity
* The good, the bad, and the ugly of Courtney's formative years and how they influenced her adult life
* Advice for those who've been told they're "too much" or "not enough" when it comes to their sexuality
* A cheeky elevator pitch for Girl Gone Wild and how to get your hands on a copy (and maybe even work with Courtney)
Courtney's got a knack for storytelling, and her experiences are both relatable and, well, wild. With over two million podcast downloads under her belt and bylines in top-tier publications like The New York Times and Cosmopolitan, she's the perfect guest to dish out the real talk on sex, love, and being unapologetically yourself.
Tune in for a conversation that's equal parts laugh-out-loud funny and thought-provoking – and stay tuned until the end for a teaser that's sure to leave you wanting more. Trust us, you won't want to miss this episode! Mark your calendars for April 1, 2026, when Girl Gone Wild hits the shelves, and get ready to join the conversation.
To learn more:
Preorder her book:
Follow her:
Threads @courtneykocak
Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Other links:
Get 10% off boosting your load with code SHAMELESS at http://loadboost.com
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Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless
Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
3 March 2026, 6:40 pm - 1 hour 1 second#474 From Shut Down to Turned On with Dr. Moali & Keeley Rankin, MA
Are You Letting Shame Quietly Run the Show in Your Intimate Life?
Join us as we dive back into the powerful conversation from the launch of Intimacy Rewired, Amy and co-facilitator Ian Stratton's six-week online program that helps you break free from disconnection and cultivate deeper, more playful intimacy. This episode feels as if you are a part of the workshop, so consider sitting down with a pen and paper to get the full classroom experience. Packed with expert insights from returning guests Dr. Nazanin Moali and Keeley Rankin, MA, as they share their wisdom on building connection, overcoming shame, and creating safety in your body and relationships.
Here's what you'll learn:
* How shame shows up in sex and relationships, and why it's often misunderstood
* Practical tools for working with shame as a teacher, rather than letting it limit your pleasure and connection
* Actionable practices to create safety in your body and partnerships, laying the foundation for deeper intimacy and hotter sex
*How to negotiate boundaries and speak you "no"
* The importance of embodied and sustainable connection in your intimate life
Dr. Nazanin Moali, a sex and relationship expert with extensive training in trauma and sexual wellness, brings her expertise to the conversation. With her postdoctoral training and experience hosting a top-rated Sexology podcast, Dr. Moali offers compassionate guidance on relating to shame and building deeper connections. Keeley Rankin, a sex therapist and relationship coach, shares her mindful, body-based approach to creating safety and intimacy. With her Master's in Counseling Psychology and experience helping individuals and couples overcome intimacy challenges, Keeley offers practical practices to help you feel more grounded and present.
Tune in to this episode and discover how to build more safety, ease, and intimacy in your relationships—starting from the inside out. And stay tuned for the next launch of Intimacy Rewired by signing up for the Shameless Sex newsletter. Trust us, you won't want to miss it!
Learn more about Intimacy Rewired here: https://www.intimacyrewired.com/
Learn more or work with Dr. Naz here: https://oasis2care.com
Follow her on IG @sexologypodcast
Learn more or work with Keeley Rankin, MA here: https://www.keeleyrankin.com
Follow her on IG @keeleyrankinintimacycoach
Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Follow us (even though we are shadow-banned) on IG: Go to Amy's profile @amyshamelesssex => find a post with @shamelesssexpodcast to follow and see contests
Other links:
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Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless
Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
24 February 2026, 8:31 pm - 59 minutes 4 seconds#473 Shameless Talk: Healing from Trauma with Jimanekia Eborn
What if we told you that healing from trauma is possible, and it starts with having shameless conversations about sex and vulnerability?
Join us on this week's episode of Shameless Sex, where we dive into the world of trauma, sex, and healing with the incredible Jimanekia Eborn, aka The Trauma Queen. With 16 years of experience in mental health, Jimanekia is a Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert, Trauma Media Consultant, and Comprehensive Sex Educator who's on a mission to normalize conversations about life's most challenging experiences.
Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode:
• The importance of understanding trauma and its impact on our lives, relationships, and sex lives
• How trauma can show up differently in various cultural, socio-economic, and personal contexts
• Easy-to-apply tools and techniques to help you understand, uncover, and work with your trauma (yes, it's possible!)
• About Jimanekia's amazing work with her nonprofit, Tending The Garden, and her Intimacy Coordinator training program, Cintima
By tuning in to this episode, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the complex relationships between trauma, sex, and healing. You'll also learn how to take the first steps towards healing and recovery, and how to find support and resources to help you along the way.
Jimanekia's story is a testament to the power of resilience, vulnerability, and shameless conversations. As she shares her journey, you'll be inspired to start your own path towards healing and self-discovery.
So, what are you waiting for? Dive into this powerful conversation and discover how you can start healing from trauma and living a more shameless, sex-positive life.
Tune in to this episode to find out how Jimanekia went from being a mental health professional to becoming The Trauma Queen, and how you can start your own journey towards healing and recovery. To learn more:
IG:
Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Other links:
Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless
Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
17 February 2026, 9:26 pm - 53 minutes 4 seconds#472 Sex Toy Secrets Exposed - Part 2
Join us for part 2 of this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive deeper into sex toys and sex stories with the fabulous Samia Mounts - podcaster extraordinaire and all-around sex-positive superstar. As the host of ClosetEd, Samia is no stranger to diving into the juicy details of human desire, and she's here to share her expertise and enthusiasm with us. Tune in next week as we dive in even deeper and juicier for part 2.
Here's what you'll get out of this episode:
* The unvarnished truth about how our hosts (and Samia) got into the field of sexuality - and what drove them to become advocates for sex positivity
* The shame-free lowdown on sex toys: why we've been made to feel guilty for using them, and why that's total BS
* A tour of our hosts' current favorite toys - from clit stimulators to bondage gear - and why they love them
* Hilarious and relatable "worst toy fails" stories that'll have you laughing and nodding in solidarity
* Epic erotic toy stories that'll leave you feeling inspired and maybe even a little turned on
* The benefits of sharing and listening to real human's sexy stories - and how it can bring us closer together
By tuning in, you'll get to:
* Join the conversation and ditch the shame around sex toys
* Discover new ways to explore your desires and pleasure
* Connect with a community that's all about embracing our true selves
Samia's background as an actor, singer, writer, and podcaster brings a unique perspective to the conversation, and her podcast, ClosetEd, has become a go-to destination for anyone looking to explore the complexities of human desire. With her quick wit and infectious enthusiasm, she's the perfect guest to guide us through this conversation.
Learn more about Samia here:
http://linktr.ee/samia.mounts
Join us for our online Pre-Valentine's Day workshop on Thursday, February 12th - all about full body pleasure: https://tinyurl.com/2s4uvs6v
Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Other links:
Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code SHAMELESS to get 45% off!
Get an additional 15% off taking care of YOU in the New Year + any annual membership at http://masterclass.com/shameless
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless
Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
10 February 2026, 6:14 pm - 1 hour 55 seconds#471 Sex Toy Secrets Exposed - Part 1
Ever Been Shamed for Your Toy Preferences? Let's Get Real About Sex Toys and the Stories We Tell About Them
Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we get up close and personal with the fabulous Samia Mounts, podcaster extraordinaire and all-around sex-positive superstar. As the host of ClosetEd, Samia is no stranger to diving into the juicy details of human desire, and she's here to share her expertise and enthusiasm with us. Tune in next week as we dive in even deeper and juicier for part 2.
Here's what you'll get out of this episode:
* The unvarnished truth about how our hosts (and Samia) got into the field of sexuality - and what drove them to become advocates for sex positivity
* The shame-free lowdown on sex toys: why we've been made to feel guilty for using them, and why that's total BS
* A tour of our hosts' current favorite toys - from clit stimulators to bondage gear - and why they love them
* Hilarious and relatable "worst toy fails" stories that'll have you laughing and nodding in solidarity
* Epic erotic toy stories that'll leave you feeling inspired and maybe even a little turned on
* The benefits of sharing and listening to real human's sexy stories - and how it can bring us closer together
By tuning in, you'll get to:
* Join the conversation and ditch the shame around sex toys
* Discover new ways to explore your desires and pleasure
* Connect with a community that's all about embracing our true selves
Samia's background as an actor, singer, writer, and podcaster brings a unique perspective to the conversation, and her podcast, ClosetEd, has become a go-to destination for anyone looking to explore the complexities of human desire. With her quick wit and infectious enthusiasm, she's the perfect guest to guide us through this conversation.
Stay tuned till the end as we wrap up with our hosts sharing their offerings, upcoming events, and how to find them online. And don't miss the tantalizing teaser at the end of this episode... let's just say we're not done getting real about sex just yet!
Learn more about Samia here:
Join us for our online Pre-Valentine's Day workshop on Thursday, February 12th - all about full body pleasure: https://tinyurl.com/2s4uvs6v
Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Other links:
Get 10% off boosting your load with code SHAMELESS at http://loadboost.com
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless
Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
3 February 2026, 6:20 pm - 1 hour 20 minutes#470 Sex, Power, and the Downfall of a Wellness Cult
What happens when a sexual wellness practice turns into a cult, and how can we spot the warning signs?
Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we explore the fascinating and disturbing world of OneTaste, a company that promised to unlock the secrets of orgasmic meditation but allegedly became a breeding ground for abuse and manipulation. Award-winning investigative journalist and author Ellen Huet takes us on a journey into the heart of OneTaste, sharing her insights from her book Empire of Orgasm: Sex, Power, and the Downfall of a Wellness Cult
Here's what you'll learn from this episode:
* The history of OneTaste and how it started as a seemingly innocuous wellness practice
* The benefits and risks of orgasmic meditation (OM) and how to approach it with a critical eye
* The warning signs of a cult and how to spot when a practice or community is becoming toxic
* The latest updates on the criminal case against OneTaste's leaders and what it means for the future of the wellness industry
* How to prioritize consent, safety, and critical thinking in your own sex life and wellness practices
As a journalist who's covered some of the most complex and intriguing stories of our time, Ellen Huet brings her expertise and sharp analysis to the conversation. Whether you're a seasoned sex educator or just curious about the world of wellness, this episode is for you.
Tune in to learn more about the intersection of sex, power, and exploitation, and how to create a safer, more consensual world for everyone. And stay until the end to find out how to get your hands on Ellen's book and support her work.
So, can a wellness practice be both empowering and toxic? Listen in to find out.
website: https://www.ellenhuet.com/
buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/Empire-Orgasm-Power-Downfall-Wellness/dp/0374604193
instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ehuet/
newsletter: https://ellenhuet.substack.com/
Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Other links:
Get into turbo drive with Drive Boost from VB.Health, and use code SHAMELESS to get 10% off at vb.health
Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code SHAMELESS to get 45% off!
Get an additional 15% off taking care of YOU in the New Year + any annual membership at http://masterclass.com/shameless
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless
Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
27 January 2026, 9:43 pm - 52 minutes 10 secondsBonus Episode: The Truth About Modern-Day Sex Ed
What is really happening in K–12 sex education across the United States right now? In this episode, we unpack the good, the bad, and the truly troubling — and imagine what sex ed could look like if it were inclusive, medically accurate, intersectional, and pleasure-positive.
We’re joined by Gina Lepore (she/her), an ASSECT-Certified Sexuality Educator with over 30 years of experience spanning healthcare, research, curriculum development, and education. Gina holds a master’s degree in Sexuality Education from Widener University and has taught comprehensive sex ed to middle and high school students, trained future sexuality educators and medical students, conducted research, and even spent time educating about (and selling!) pleasure products at her favorite adult store, Pure Pleasure Shop — because real-world learning matters.
Together, we explore why sex education often feels inaccessible or incomplete, and what’s needed to bridge the gap between academic research and online, community-based sexuality education. Gina shares insights from her work as an adjunct lecturer at Cabrillo College and California State University, Chico, reflecting on what she’s learned from teaching hundreds of students — their questions, their gaps, and their hunger for honest, affirming information.
We also dive into current research in the field, including buzz around an Emerging Adults Pleasure Survey, and discuss why pleasure belongs in conversations about sexual health. Gina breaks down what sexual empowerment and sexual agency truly mean, how pleasure education can play a role in reducing sexual violence and trauma, and why embodied, holistic approaches to sexuality are essential.
In addition to her work in sex education, Gina is a Certified Personal Trainer and Health Coach, integrating fitness and embodied wellbeing into her practice through Focus Integrated Fitness and Joyride Sexual Empowerment Coaching. She brings a grounded, compassionate, and deeply human lens to sexuality — shaped not only by her professional work, but also by her lived experience as a proud mama of two young men.
✨ Stick around to the end to learn how to connect with Gina, explore her work, and dive deeper into pleasure-positive, empowering sexuality education.
To learn more go to:
IG: EAPS_2023
For direct access to the survey: https://tinyurl.com/yc36n7pc
Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Other links:
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless
Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
23 January 2026, 10:05 pm - 1 hour 7 minutes#469 From Meh to Mind-Blowing Sex with Dr. Tara
What's the secret to getting exactly what you want in bed?
Join us on this sizzling episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of unapologetic intimacy with the one and only Dr. Tara, author of How Do You Like It? A Guide to Getting What You Want (In Bed) and host of the Luvbites podcast.
Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode:
* How Dr. Tara became the go-to expert in the field of sexuality (hint: it involves a passion for sex education and a whole lot of sass)
* What inspired her to write a book that's all about empowering you to take control of your desires
* The top issues people face in the bedroom (and how to overcome them)
* Why we settle for mediocre sex (and how to break free from it)
* The difference between micro and macro sexual communication (and how to master both for a more fulfilling sex life)
* The importance of building sexual self-esteem and confidence (and how to do it)
* Practical tools and tips for boosting your erotic life (even in long-term relationships)
As a Kinsey-certified sexologist, tenured professor, and award-winning researcher, Dr. Tara is the ultimate authority on all things sex. With her expertise and infectious energy, you'll be empowered to take charge of your desires and create a more fulfilling sex life.
So, what are you waiting for? Tune in to this episode and get ready to unlock your full erotic potential!
And, as a special treat, stay tuned until the end to find out how to get your hands on Dr. Tara's book and connect with her for more sexpert advice. Trust us, you won't want to miss it! To learn more go to https://www.luvbites.co
Get her book on Amazon here
Follow her:
IG: @luvebites.co
TikTok: @luvbites.co
Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com
Learn more about the fabulous Reid Mihalko here: https://reidaboutsex.com
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Other links:
Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless
Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
20 January 2026, 6:24 pm - 1 hour 10 minutes#468 Power, Pleasure, and the Men Who Want More
In this episode, we’re joined by Ashley Randall, also known as Irreverent Femme—a Los Angeles–based Sex, Intimacy, and Kink Coach, Dominatrix, and erotic parfum-ist. Ashley shares how her journey into sexuality work emerged from a desire to help people shed shame, reconnect with their bodies, and access deeper intimacy and pleasure.
Ashley primarily works with cisgender, predominantly straight men, many of whom are successful yet disconnected—from their emotions, their desire, and their partners. She explains why working with a confident, sexually embodied woman can be both confronting and profoundly healing, offering men a space to drop performance and explore authenticity.
The most common issue Ashley sees is disconnection, often showing up as performance anxiety, erectile challenges, or difficulty leading and communicating sexually. Beneath it all is a longing for confidence, presence, and deeper connection. In early sessions, Ashley focuses on nervous system regulation, consent, and embodiment, gradually guiding clients toward more grounded desire, emotional intimacy, and conscious power.
We also explore Ashley’s work as a Dominatrix and how dominance—whether kinky or not—is about presence, responsibility, and attunement rather than control. She shares practical insights for men who want to be more dominant, emphasizing self-regulation, listening, and clarity.
Plus, we dive into Ashley’s erotic perfumes, which she uses as a powerful sensory and somatic tool in sessions to anchor desire, memory, and arousal.
Ashley leaves listeners with one golden reminder: your desire is not a problem—it’s information.
Learn more or work with Ashley at www.irreverentcoaching.com
Follow her on Instagram: @IrreverentLoveCoachingDo you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Other links:
Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code SHAMELESS to get 45% off!
Get 15% off taking care of YOU in the New Year + any annual membership at http://masterclass.com/shameless
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless
Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
13 January 2026, 6:02 pm - 1 hour 14 minutes#467 Heal Your Nerves, Ignite Your Sex Life - Melanie & Mark Curtis
Ready to Rewire Your Nervous System for More Pleasure, Intimacy, and Connection?
Join us on this juicy episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of nervous system healing with Melanie and Mark Curtis, the dynamic duo behind Coming Home Coaching. These two experts are on a mission to help you crack the code to deeper intimacy, more fulfilling relationships, and a sex life that's off the charts.
Here's what you'll learn:
• The surprising ways your nervous system is impacting your sex life (and how to take control)
• How to recognize and release shame, and why it's the ultimate intimacy killer
• The role of safety in feeling desire, and how to create a life that's safe for your wildest desires
• What SomaCode is, and how it can help you unlock your full sexual potential
• Practical tools and techniques for working with your nervous system, decreasing shame, and increasing your sense of worth and authentic expression
Melanie and Mark bring their unique blend of somatic and subconscious expertise to the table, having navigated their own journeys of healing and growth. With their guidance, you'll learn how to move out of survival mode and into a place of safety, connection, and presence – leading to richer relationships, greater intimacy, and more fulfilling sex lives.
By tuning in, you'll gain:
• A deeper understanding of your nervous system and how it impacts your sex life
• Practical tools for releasing shame and increasing your sense of worth
• Insights into how to create a life with more sexual safety and intimacy
• A new perspective on how to cultivate more pleasure, connection, and wholeness in your relationships
So, are you ready to unlock the secrets to a more shameless, vibrant, and fulfilling sex life? Tune in to this episode and get ready to transform your relationships and ignite your passion. And, as a special treat, Melanie and Mark share how you can work with them to start your journey of coming home to yourself and to one another.
To learn more and recevie your FREE 12 part series to unlock your subconscious patterns, go to:
Follow them on IG @cominghomeglobal
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Other links:
Get 10% off boosting your load with code SHAMELESS at http://loadboost.com
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless
Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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