In this episode, we celebrated Masturbation May with a chat with The Pussy Priestess, Josefina Bashout. This woman knows her stuff and had magic! The short meditation exercise we did, on-air, left John trembling and a bit aroused. Listed in on this sensual conversation.

Josefina's Bio
Josefina has experienced many catalyzing events in her life, an extremely serious one in particular, being diagnosed with CIN III Severe High-Grade pre-cervical cancer and HPV at the age of 26. In understanding her options in her new reality, she initiated a life changing journey in 2010. Josefina began working with alternative healing methods which spurred her passion for what is now her life’s work. She found pleasure in her healing journey and is now inviting her clients to step forward into their fullest physical, spiritual, & emotional health. 

Josefina combines her degree in advanced spiritual psychology with her Tantra training and focuses on awakening & arousing the senses as well as empowering the feminine energy. She is a guide that helps clients create a space for sensual self-love, increase energetic love making, and helps them to stay aroused and enlivened even during the pandemic. 


The Bridge of Bliss is an energetic experience to show how energy is real.  This will activate your sexual channel without needing sexual contact with anyone or anything. Josefina accesses the bliss and ecstasy that lives within you. This experience is done together through a brief sequence of guided practices she crafted rooted in Tantra leaving you feeling happier, lighter,  & buzzing with high vibe natural orgasmic energy. 

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As we close out Sexual Assault Awareness & Child Abuse Awareness Month, we chatted with Kolee from the Practicalsaint Talks podcast about her childhood trauma all the way to her journey of healing. We discuss the importance of therapy and the evolution of therapy from talk, play, art and now geek therapy. There is something for someone. It is a matter of continuing to look for the right healing model for yourself. All her hard work of healing herself has paid off. Now, she is a million-dollar mother of 5 sons, entrepreneur, writer, and online book publisher. It was a long journey but she made it. Giving others hope that we can triumph over trauma.


Kolee is a million dollar mother of 5 sons, entrepreneur, writer and online book publisher.  Also a pro Wellness advocate and re-parenting coach;  she writes, blogs and podcasts all about her heroic and awesome life!  @practicalsaint on social and www.essentialmind.me for one stop organic shop, blog and Practicalsaint Talks podcasts. 

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Right Response Consulting works with law enforcement, businesses and educational institutions on training & investigations of sexual assault, harassment & domestic/workplace violence. We had the opportunity to chat with cofounder and legal prosecutor, Kathryn Marsh. She worked for 17 years with Washington DC's SVU as well as with sex abuse survivors prosecuting sex crime cases. One thing is for sure, it pays to know the law. Her stories were heartbreaking but her advice is invaluable for everyone.

Biography
Kathryn Marsh is the Co-Founder of Right Response Consulting (RRC) and a career prosecutor of seventeen years.

She presently serves as Special Counsel, Assistant Chief of the Special Victims Family Violence Unit and the Legislative Co-Chair for the State’s Attorney’s Office in Prince George’s County, Maryland.

For the past twelve years Ms. Marsh has specialized in the field of child abuse and sexual assault cases. Mrs. Marsh also functions as professional trainer for Assistant State’s Attorneys and staff, as well as for law enforcement, community organizations, state organizations and other legal professionals.

She has served on several National and State Task Forces and has been asked to assist in drafting legislation and has been called on to testify on behalf of criminal legislation before the Maryland legislature for a number of years.

Ms. Marsh has also worked as an adjunct professor of Criminal Law for the University of Maryland University Campus from 2009-2019, and is a Current Associate Professor with the National Criminal Justice Training Center of Fox Valley Technical College. In addition to her work with the in the criminal law field, Ms. Marsh also serves on many community boards.

She is currently the Treasurer of the Calvert County Commission for Women and sits on the Board of Directors for the Library Foundation of Calvert County, and the Optimists of Calvert County. Mrs. Marsh has been recognized for her work with children and sexual assault prosecution numerous times, she was named one of Maryland’s Top 100 women in 2019, received the Collaborative for Children & Youth’s Champion of Children award and the Crisis Intervention Center’s Domestic Violence POWER award in 2018.

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April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM), an annual campaign to raise public awareness about sexual assault and educate communities and individuals on how to prevent sexual violence. In support, we interviewed Shannan Webster the volunteer & outreach coordinator at The Victim Service Center of Central Florida. They offer a variety of services for those affected by sexual assault and violence including support and therapy. These are services we all hope we'll never need but are truly invaluable in the event we do. We learned what Denim Day (April 28) is, how it started and why it is so important to get involved.


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We are kicking off Sexual Assault Awareness & Child Abuse Awareness month with Rosalia Rivera from CONSENTParenting and AboutCONSENT Podcast.

We had a very informative, insightful, and touching conversation. We could have gone on for hours talking about consent, sexual abuse, grooming, and human sex tracking.

She is changing the dialogue of teaching from a fear-based conversation to a consent-based one by working on dismantling rape culture, creating a consent culture, and helping survivors step into their healing journey. She teaches parents, especially parents that are survivors themselves, how to navigate the journey of abuse prevention, break the cycle and empower all of us!

These are very valuable conversations that we need to have with both children and adults. She offers plenty of free resources in her private Facebook group, website, and podcast. As well as offering classes, workshops, and courses.

Rosalia Rivera is a consent educator, abuse prevention specialist, sexual literacy advocate, speaker, change agent, and the founder of CONSENTparenting™. She is the host of the AboutCONSENT™ podcast and creator of CONSENTwear™. Rosalia teaches parents, particularly child sexual abuse survivors, how to educate their children on body safety, boundaries, and consent so that they can empower their families to prevent abuse and break intergenerational cycles. Rosalia is on a mission to end child sexual abuse, dismantle shame, and help survivors heal and become thrivers.
 
Rosalia is certified through the Canadian Centre for Child Protections COMMIT TO KIDS® program, and Darkness To Light Stewards of Children® program, as well as the human trafficking prevention training program: OnWatch™ by Safe House Project.
 
Although Rosalia was born in El Salvador and grew up in NY, she now resides in northern Canada with her partner and three young kids.

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In this episode, our guests were Executive Producer & Story Coach Reba Sparrow and Co-Producer Eric Scheur of The Mystery Box Show.  We discuss about the birth of The Mystery Box Show as it started as a show to entertain people at the same time have a safe place to talk about sex but it's grown into so much more. 

The production has been around 2012 and have over a 100 shows.  We asked about their favorite shows but they said "it was not fair to ask, it's like asking a parent who is your favorite child".  We understood but we did talk about some past experiences in producing such a production.

The show is was going through an evolution, pre Covd-19, where they were hosting an audience of 400 people. Unfortunately, due to the pandemic, they had to pivot and did a handful of live stream shows, but are looking forward to returning in 2022.

In the meantime you can see some of their shows on YouTube and Pateron. Please support the arts and consider to donate to The Mystery Box Show to help them come back strong. 

Guest Bio's
“It’s not TedX... it’s like TedSEX!” audience members have said about the show.Stories told at The Mystery Box Show both entertain and build a bond between audience members and storytellers. The details of each story may be sexual in nature (and often graphically so), but the core emotions are what each person relates to as universal.

From vanilla to kinky, queer to straight, and everything in between, a night at The Mystery Box Show brings you tales of one-night stands, explorations into fetish, awkward first times, dark fantasies come true, and much much more. Storytellers have included bestselling authors, nationally touring comedians, adult film industry veterans, theatre professionals, sex toy experts, members from the kink community, students and people from all walks of life. Nothing here is too raw, too sweet, too strange, or too deep; it's all about the sex, and all about the story.

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This week we veered away from our usual topics of relationships and kink to talk about a tragedy that could have been prevented and is being reported on through a skewed lens. On Tuesday, March 16th a senseless and preventable tragedy occurred when a 21-year-old man massacred 8 people in 3 different locations. What makes it so preventable is that it appears the main motivation behind these murders was sexual shame. This is an extreme and unfortunate cost of false sexual education.

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This week we spoke with Christine Delozier about her book "Diet For Great Sex". We really enjoyed the read as it had the right balance of information, history, health benefits, and humor!! She claimed that the Chile Pepper is considered a Kink spice, as it gives you both pleasure and pain. How cool is that! Sounds like something we would say in class.

She gave us diet tips, dating tips, and how to create a great sexually adventurous date. The book is not only filled with science and medical information but helps you to think outside of the box of what you should do to have a healthy sexual date night.

She reinforced our belief that the mind, body, and spirit are connected. Listen now and learn how to make simple changes in your diet to support a lifestyle of great sex!

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A Certified Sexologist, Authentic Tantra Practitioner, and International Pleasure Coach and self-professed "Kinky Bitch"! That's how our guest described herself and we touched on all the bases. Tyomi has a long impressive resume but when shared her latest adventures we were on the edge of our seats. Do you want to know about the latest evolution of her "Cowgirl Workout" and how it combines exercise with sexual liberation? Listen in now!

Tyomi is a Certified Sexologist, Authentic Tantra Practitioner and International Pleasure Coach with 9 years of experience in the sexual health field. Her down-to-earth approach to sexuality has garnered the views of millions of eyes around the world via her advice-based Youtube channel and interactive social media presence. She is the founder of Sex Ed blog Glamerotica101.com and emphasizes sexual empowerment of black women worldwide. Tyomi's advice has been featured on several platforms and traditional media publications including Essence.com, EBONY Magazine, Blackdoctor.org, Huffington Post, Comedy Central, The New York Times, SHAPE.COM, Blacklove.com, Vogue.com, Cosmopolitan.com, Washington Post's The Lily, Clear Channel Radio, CBS Radio, Sirus XM, Playboy Radio and dozens of others. Tyomi currently serves as the Resident Sexpert and Seminar Coordinator for the Exxxotica Expo and is a member of the National Coalition for Sexual Health. 

Website: Glamerotica101.com
https://members.thecowgirlworkout.com/
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This week we decided to take one for the team! Meaning you, our audience.  HBO MAX has a documentary called 'There is no "I" in threesome' and holy train wreck. Everything that we teach, preach and talk about Ethical Non-Monogamy as things NOT to do, is in this documentary. We honestly thought it was a mockumentary based on how the story was going. 

That is why the title is  "Just saved you 88 minutes". We wanted to save you from the horror of the movie. The ending twist was worst than the Sixth Sense. But if you are truly interested to see people make immature, obvious, and stereotypical mistakes attempting an open relationship, feel free to watch it.

Just know we are here for you and holding space. We are available for coaching session in case you are in need of guidance.

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"There's no point in having sex if you don't enjoy it!". That's a quote from our interview with Ms. Meka Nicole and we couldn't agree more.
Meka is the creator of Sex and Sensuality® an educational burlesque show but that's just her side gig. She's also a licensed professional counselor, sex educator, author, motivational speaker, and CEO of In-to-Mate Counseling Services, LLC in Atlanta.

Sex and Sensuality® takes a fun and funky twist to traditional burlesque with hearty doses of seduction, games, and audience interaction. The show combines dance with a steamy storyline and a hint of sex ed to both entertain and open minds. Previous shows have included scenes on threesomes, BDSM, and voyeurs & exhibitionists. Listen on to how this production was created and how it's evolved over the years.

If you're in Atlanta, don't miss their next show coming up on March 20, 2021.

Ms. Meka Nicole's Bio
Ms. Meka Nicole, the creator of Sex and Sensuality® an educational burlesque show that utilizes dance, acting, seduction, audience interaction, and more to help women, men and couples confidently express their sexual desires, hails from Atlanta, GA and emerged as nationally recognized for providing dating, relationship, and intimacy counseling services to individuals, couples, and families to help them live a more fulfilled life. Founder and CEO of In-to-Mate Counseling Services, LLC, Ms. Meka Nicole, is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Sex Educator, Life Coach, Author, and Motivational Speaker specializing in trauma, infertility, maternal mental health, intimacy, LGBTQI, and grief therapy.

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