Challenge yourself to communicate beyond " I don't care".

https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/JBce6cECqAb We are finally here at the finale for Push The Button. Here we discuss the support you give for the friend who looks crazy, stupid, or plain dumb based on your standards, when it comes to cheating or betrayal. We don't see support often being shown in moments where our own beliefs don't align with the choices being made. So we discuss what it looks like to support someone for something you disagree with. Christal is more willing to sympathize here in this instance. Feeling like there has to be a shoulder to lean on for such a hard choice to stay with someone who betrays you. BJ, on the other hand, feels like you should have an understanding that this road is often less traveled. As well as taking full responsibility for the hard choice. Simply put...most of us, if not all of us, feel like we deserve more from our partners when it comes to infidelity. So to think that you should expect your support system to be dishonest with their beliefs just to support your decision is difficult to ask someone. And can sometimes create a tension amongst your support system, while the focus should be on your partner. How would you handle an instance like this where the odds are against you...and the only person who may understand you is YOU? because even your partner is removed from what you feel simply because they are hurting from actually hurting you. Very tough conversation to have. tune in and let us know what you think!

Wrong and Unsafe (Rough Draft 1) https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/CcZF6NhhdAb https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whogetslove

Here we have a conversation built around the discovery of Christal's intuitive abilities to see the undetected traits of people around her. And what she has noticed is the methods people are using to express the needs they currently have. In this conversation, titled The Outcry, we break down what a need sounds like today. The details that you now see when an expectation is made known. And how the actions we see from men and women don't line up with the request at hand. Let's get to the bottom of this one. Tune In!!!! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whogetslove

https://www.flowcode.com/page/whogetslove BJ and Christal begin this conversation with their own perspectives to Willingness. An entendre if you will. Saying their perspectives out loud made the other variable that much powerful. We break those perspectives down in pieces, and we realize that we communicate the same things, just differently. Which is why we subtitled this conversation, The Common Misconceptions. Listen as we discuss being willing, scared, in the dark, in the know, and in fear….in one conversation. And what each of us should do for each other once we arrive to these spaces. There was so much uncovered in this, that made sense to all of the challenging moments we experienced that may have led to us being unwilling today. You will enjoy Part 1 of THREE conversations we are having this month. The Willingness is such a great dialogue from your new Co-Ed content creatives. Let's dig in!!

Episode 142 Did the "Jarrett & Iyanna" match (on Love is Blind S2) leave you angry? I wonder why?

Episode 141 The question " Can you receive freely? " sat upon my heart and mind today and inspired this episode.

Episode 140 He loves me not?

Episode 139 Do you want love on display or do you really need your boo to prove their love. Or is this a test. have they been paying attention!?

Episode 138 Look at me.. look at me .. I am changing.

Episode 137 1. Do you own your presence? 2. 8:57 - Can you trust? On this episode I talk about both.