I'm back!! March was a wild month, but very excited to get things going again. I talk about whether or not I might be emotionally unavailable after all (and what my therapist had to say about that) plus I answer a listener question about whether or not they should move to a new city for a better chance at finding love. Listen now and enjoy!

This episode is a dive into ~manifestation~ and how it can relate to the previous episodes about "quitting" dating. Reframing the narrative! Plus, a few quick updates and more.

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Here's the rest of the conversation! Diving into the topic of "quitting" dating -- what that means, and why it's not as bleak as it sounds. Maybe. Listen to part one if you haven't yet, then immediately get into this!

I gabbed too much on this one. It's a loaded topic!! So I've made it into two parts. Referencing an August 2024 article from Atlantic "The People Who Quit Dating" I dive into what this means and my personal relation to it. Next part will be posted in a couple of days.

Back for a more productive 2025! Expect weekly episodes moving forward and if not, still a lot more frequent!!! For this week's episode, I dive into the movie Babygirl and how much it bugged me! But this is less about the movie itself and actually a wider conversation about how women are almost always portrayed as sexually submissive in mainstream erotic media.

Lots to catch up on! I give some personal life updates, then get into a message I recieved that has more to do with the previous episode about fatness in dating, and THEN get into the rise of the 4B Movement. Listen now!

This was a tough one to talk through because trust me, I don't want to sound negative about my body at all, but I tried to tackle the loaded topic of fatness and dating and the many complications and mixed signals that arise from being a fat woman on the dating scene. There will probably be a part two to this!

It's another solo ep...yay!! (I hope)

I dive into my little bullshit. Some life updates, and a general question I hope you'll respond to.

THEN, I answer a listener question about whether or not to respond to a love bomber's rejection message.

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I am joined by comedian Rachele Friedland, a fellow "active dater" who likes talking about this stuff! And is good at it! We had a great conversation covering a wide range of topics. You are going to want to listen to this bad boy!!!

Note: The audio quality isn't perfect because I am bad at audio technology and still learning. Totally still listenable though. And you should listen!

Another solo ep (guest next episode!). I talk about a tarot reading I had which lead me to believe a tinder match might be my soul mate. Then I think out loud about the question: do we always get into relationships with people we see as our "forever person"?

Sorry for the hiatus! I have a good excuse this time (a medical emergency) so you can't be mad at me...

I have guests...three of them! I'm joined by my slightly younger friends Maddy Mulderry, Adam Sloves, and Hannah Carpenter. Live from inside Maddy's garage. We talk about how we each date, comfortability in dating, doling out rejection, and more. We also answer a question Maddy has...listen now!