Hi hi! I have returned. Apologies for the unexpected long break. The good news is, I went on a lot of dates and have something to talk about...Why is no one fun to hang out with? Something is going on. Whether it be with the men, with me, or BOTH. Or a secret fourth thing? This ep dives into it, so tune in before you jump to any conclusions. I haven't even done that.

Anhedonia is a symptom characterized by a diminished ability or inability to experience pleasure or joy in previously enjoyable activities...hmm...sound familiar much? I dive into this concept in relation to dating and beg you to help us all figure how to break free from feeling this way. This conversation will be continued in the next ep.

I'm back with a new ep, reading your messages aloud and responding to them. Plus, I answer two questions: how to be a slut, and how to embrace weight gain. Keep writing me and asking q's! Enjoy this ep and be back soon.

Hello! I'm back with a long episode that's really like two eps in one, but I guess that's good since I don't really put these out weekly. The first half is a mix of life updates and expressing my sheer confusion about what the hell is going on with my dating life. Then I go into the rest of the conversation I started a few episodes back about casual sex and what that might truly look like for women if we decenter men from it. Listen and enjoy! I hope.

I'm back! Some of you requested I talk about my vacation. Specifically, did I meet anyone?! What are the Norway singles like?? Well, I got some insight. This episode is dedicated to discussing the trip, the effect it has had on me since coming home, and how I'm going to navigate dating moving forward. I think. Have a listen and hope you enjoy!

Hello hello! Back with a new ep and this time it's a mix of a few things. I answer a question from a listener about an ex watching his Instagram story. Then, I begin a conversation about the heavy and loaded topic of casual sex and what does that look like when we decenter men from the equation?

Most of this episode is dedicated to talking about decentering men: a practice (and/or lifestyle) that calls for women (not exclusively women though) to center themselves and their needs and deprioritize catering to patriarchal demands. Listen now!

I'm back!! March was a wild month, but very excited to get things going again. I talk about whether or not I might be emotionally unavailable after all (and what my therapist had to say about that) plus I answer a listener question about whether or not they should move to a new city for a better chance at finding love. Listen now and enjoy!

This episode is a dive into ~manifestation~ and how it can relate to the previous episodes about "quitting" dating. Reframing the narrative! Plus, a few quick updates and more.

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Here's the rest of the conversation! Diving into the topic of "quitting" dating -- what that means, and why it's not as bleak as it sounds. Maybe. Listen to part one if you haven't yet, then immediately get into this!

I gabbed too much on this one. It's a loaded topic!! So I've made it into two parts. Referencing an August 2024 article from Atlantic "The People Who Quit Dating" I dive into what this means and my personal relation to it. Next part will be posted in a couple of days.