We’re unpacking the six pillars of our motto: Don’t stand on issues, walk with people.

This episode focuses on the first pillar: We seek understanding not victory. 

We prioritize listening and learning over winning arguments. We believe both are possible. We hold our beliefs fiercely, but we hold them with open hands, not clenched fists.

In the age of TikTok, X, and a 24-hour news cycle, it’s easy to feel like an expert on topics we actually don’t know much about. And when we feel like an expert on something, seeking understanding can feel pointless, because we already know everything, right? 

We’ve got to get to the place where we know that we don’t know everything. And that’s okay.

So how do we seek understanding? Here are a few ideas:

• Be an active listener. (Hint: it’s impossible to be an active listener on social media, so maybe have those conversations offline.)
• Limit distractions. Leave your phone in another room.
• Remember that just because someone stops talking, doesn’t mean you need to start.
• Flip the funnel: ask open-ended questions to gain a fuller picture of what the other person believes
• Remember that the other person and their beliefs are not a problem to solve. And a single conversation isn’t going to change that.

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Listen to last week’s episode for an overview of the six pillars here: https://pod.link/1249486443/episode/17ea0d74dace025534324e77893ca97d 

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We’re diving into the madness. The madness that America is living in (yes, we’re talking about Trump). The madness that is social media. And the rage that’s seemingly all around us right now.

We’re talking about hard things with the hopes of pointing us toward some semblance of a plan and some pillars. 

We’re digging in deep to what it really means to not stand on issues but walk with people and to get in their chariot. 

This episode will equip you with six principles to pursue unity and reject rage. Let's do it together. It's time.

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THE ONE, THE ONLY Annie F. Downs is on the podcast this episode!! 

This is historical, people. Somehow, in all our years of friendship, Annie hasn’t been on my podcast before! 

Grab a pen and paper because you’re not going to want to miss what Annie has to say about leadership, humility, dreaming, leaving, and when to stick around a little longer. 

This conversation is for anyone who is a leader in ANY capacity, whether that be a company, a small group, or even your family.

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We’re having breakfast in the middle of nowhere. In the SERENGETI. With one of my new favorite people. If you’ve ever been on the fence about going on a safari experience, Hassan will convince you.

Hassan shares with us about his life, what it takes to become a safari guide, and how he deals with difficult tourists. LOL.

If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to face a hippo and live to tell the tale, this episode is for you.

PLUS we’re visited by a surprise guest!

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My friend Jordan Montgomery is joining us to teach us about the art and science of ENCOURAGEMENT. 

Encouragement is a universal language that the whole world will understand in your personal life or your professional life. 

Jordan gives us great examples on how to encourage others including 

• Putting others first
• Taking responsibility outside of your lane
• Noticing others AND letting them know they matter

If it isn’t obvious, you’ll leave these conversation feeling ENCOURAGED and empowered to encourage others.

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It’s almost Father’s Day, so who better to have on my show than MY OWN DAD, Dr. Fermin Whittaker?!

Many of you have been on the journey with me as I walk with my parents through my dad’s dementia. And they currently live across the street from me!! 

You’ve fallen in love with the sweet, sweet old man he’s become. And you’ve fallen in love with my mom, who is his caretaker and is LITERALLY living out her vows every. single. day.

Many of you love this version of my dad, and I realized it’s the only version of my dad that you know. 

But for the majority of my life, the version of my father that I had, you don’t know. And I actually have kind of forgotten about that version myself. 

So today I’m introducing you to the father I knew growing up. 

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Listen to Episode 44: Dementia Won't Steal My Father's Story... With Fermin Whittaker HERE: https://pod.link/1249486443/episode/1c0b212b17244f84f84eb416333ee401

Listen to Episode 101: Interviewing My Mom And Dad As They Battle Dad's Dementia. And 7 Ways To Care For A Caregiver HERE: https://pod.link/1249486443/episode/ff455208a5724cdb704f8e647fd82af9

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This book means a lot to me. I put my life on hold for it. I put a lot into it.

I didn’t look at a screen for 7 weeks. I lived with monks at a monastery. And I lived with an Amish family on their farm. And then I lived with my family at home.

I didn’t disconnect. I reconnected. 

I’m not unpacking everything in the book today. But I am answering some of your questions! 

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Join me, Heather, Seanna, and Sohaila (and our friend Jacinda!) as we work through some BIG feelings about the wedding in 4 days.

What’s it like to be the father of the bride, the mother of the bride, the sister of the bride, and the bride herself? Listen and find out.

This is raw and authentic. With lots of tears. And there are nuggets that come out of this that I think are applicable to every season of life. 

This might be the most memorable conversation I have with my daughter Sohaila. (And the other girls in my life!!)

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Wow! Talk about wedding brain… At the time of recording this, we’re about to head to Jackson, WY for my first-born daughter’s WEDDING.

I feel different about my daughter getting married HOURLY, so I’m talking through that with you.

I’ve been putting together a video for her that has just been reminding me of how far we've come and what an honor it has been to raise her. 

And there’s a little update about my parents in here too…

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Welcome to the first FATHER OF THE BRIDE episode! We are less than 20 DAYS away from marrying off my FIRST-BORN daughter. Y’all…

We talk about our feelings as the day approaches, the father-daughter dance, the ceremony, the details, and MORE.

If you have young daughters, I hope this gives you a helpful perspective as they grow up. 

Plus, I give you a few tips on how to build a close relationship with your daughter(s) and STAY CLOSE as they get older. 

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This is a very special episode for me. I go WAY BACK in my feels as I talk with some old friends.

Kristian Stanfill and Brett Younker from Passion Music join me on this episode to talk through the history, power, and trajectory of Passion. 

Passion Music deeply shaped my life as a worship leader (back when I was young and hip).

We’re digging into the vaults today and get into our feels reflecting on some of the most FORMATIVE songs of my faith. 

The wisdom and reverence these guys bring to the conversation is something you don’t want to miss!

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